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Kathi Arrieta
February 24, 2021
Kathy has always held such a special place in my heart! I couldn't have asked for a more loving , kind and beautiful cousin. I miss her so much and think about her all the time. I know she is watching over her lovely kids, grandkids and family. We were truly blessed to have had her in our life :)
Philomena Farrell
February 19, 2021
I will never forget introducing her to Tom Vassi at a gathering at my home. they since
married and had five beautiful children....She was responsible for my ear piercing also!! Such a beauty.
Marjorie Hanna
February 19, 2021
Whenever I see a person who is passionate about what they do I think of Kathy. Her heart was as big as her smile and she was "all in". I hope we all are inspired to honor her spirit and do the same. God Bless.
PHILOMENA Farrell
February 19, 2020
She was by far the most vivacious beautiful person always with a smile.
A great loss for all who knew her, and loved her.
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Nicki Leet
February 19, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. The world lost a fun, giving and caring person.
March 4, 2015
Tom,So sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. Love Dan & Sue Bushey
March 3, 2015
Tom and Family,So sorry for your loss. We just heard.Our thoughts and prayers are with You and your Family. Love Dan & Sue Bushey
Dave Trzaskos
March 2, 2015
To the Vassi Family, Shocked to hear of your loss. May she be in peace. Such a great person. She is for sure in charge of the angel department up in heaven.
Thinking of all of you in this time of need.
Prayers and warm wishes from Dave Trzaskos and family.
Ron Dombrowski
March 2, 2015
Tom and all your family; I was deeply saddened when I heard of your loss. We have only met a few times but I quickly gathered that the bond you all have is special. Please know that you all are in a special place within my thoughts and prayers...a fellow Kateri discerner.

Wendy Howard
March 1, 2015
Chick, Tom and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Kathy was such a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
March 1, 2015
Dear Deb and Family,
I'am so sorry about your loss of your sister Kathryn, and I want to let you know what you did for her was a beautiful thing she was also fortunate to have a sister like you. I want to let you know I lite a candle for your sister today at church and said a prayer for your entire Family. Take time to heal your heart and be with your Family.
Love, Denise Brooks
Patty Prusak
February 27, 2015
You showed grace, love, faith and strength throughout your life. So many of us will miss you. Your beautiful family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Sr. Elizabeth Costanzo
February 27, 2015
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Kathy and her smile very well. She was also very supportive to me during my days at SMI. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Patricia Hroncich
February 27, 2015
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Kathy at SMH OR. She was such a role model for me when I joined the staff and such a great teacher. Very special woman.
Judy Chupka
February 27, 2015
Dear Husband Tom & Children; Vassi Family so sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife, soul mate, Mother and dear friend. I can't even imagine the grief you are feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. God Bless all of you with patience and love to pull you through this difficult time in your lives.
Joan Grasso
February 27, 2015
Tom and children...I knew Kathy through her cousin Joanne and remember our adoption discussions from many years ago. When your first baby came home, it was such hope for me. She called me when our son came home to us and we rejoiced. We have three children through the blessing of adoption, one of whom is a lymphoma survivor. While it has been many years since I have seen your family, I will never forget her encouragement. My heartfelt and deepest sympathies to all of you. Know that her love and spirit will carry on in all of your hearts always...
Nicki Leet
February 27, 2015
Such a sad thing for such a wonderful person. My heartfelt condolences go out to her family & friends. Kathy, you will be missed by many...
Beth Menzie
February 27, 2015
Dear Tessa, I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Terri Lennon
February 27, 2015
Kathy was always such a bright spot in the Vassi get togethers. Her spirit and energy were contagious. She was such a blessing for me and my family while our Mom spent time at St. Peters towards the end of her life. So sorry to here if her passing. The world has lost a wonderful and kind soul.
Vaughan Stearns
February 26, 2015
Sean,
Sorry to hear about your mom. I know what you are going through. If you need anyone to talk to, I am here.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Your friend,
Vaughan
mike lizzi
February 26, 2015
To the Vassi family I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Carol Shaheen
February 26, 2015
Chickie,Tom and my beautiful cousins my heart breaks for you.I will never forget her beautiful smile.Hold on to the memories at this most difficult time.prayers to all of you.with much saddnes.Love Carol. From Boston
Laurie Murray
February 26, 2015
Tom and Kids- I was so saddened to hear this news. My love and prayers go out to you all. I have thought of you all fondly over the years and thinking of her now- I can still see that amazing smile and the light in Kathy's eyes. I will think of you all and send prayers often in the days to come. Hugs and love.
Megan Smith
February 26, 2015
What a legacy to have left behind her. My prayers are with you all, as they have been the last several months. This is a strong close-knit family, and I'm so glad that you have each other to lean on.
Megan (Ciani) Smith
Friend of Heather Leet Forgione
From Burnt Hills and Union College
John and Kim Samples
February 26, 2015
Tom,
Our prayers are with you and your family as you walk through this time. May God's great love sustain you through your grief. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Denise Waters
February 26, 2015
Sending love and prayers at this very difficult time.
Laura, John & kids Lisicki
February 26, 2015
Dear Tom and family, God gives us the beautiful gift of life, the free will to live and enjoy. He gives us a chance to fall in love and the opportunity to start a family. But then there comes a time when death plays the role in taking all this away from us. So God gives us the chance to smile on the memories we have. He also gives us the chance to meet our dear ones in heaven some day again. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your beautiful wife, Kathy. She is an angel now in heaven, just as she was to all those lives she touched here on earth. May God bless you in your sorrow.
Victoria Styles
February 26, 2015
Tom, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
sonia wilson
February 26, 2015
Bother Tom and kids my thoughts and prayers are for you all im sadden by your loss Kathy was a beautiful lady inside and out and she will never be forgotten she is in the arms of our Lord and just being filled with more and more of His love we will be reunited again with her and the rest of our loved ones and this is the hope we have to be together again in paradise if I can help in any way im here love yous God Bless
February 26, 2015
Tom and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Kathryn was a wonderful, kind, person. David Hassfurter & Diane Naughton
Donna Nelson
February 26, 2015
Tom and family. May God give you strength and peace during this time.
Donna Nelson
February 26, 2015
Tom and Family , May God give you peace and strength during this time.
Jan & Hugo Morga
February 26, 2015
Tom and family ~ Our hearts are breaking for you all upon hearing that Kathy went to be with Jesus. I pray that God comforts you with the assurance that you will one day see her again in heaven. We thought the world of Kathy and remember fondly her beautiful smile, her vibrant attitude, and her delicious sauce! (I hope that brought a smile to your face in the midst of your grief.) We send our love to you and the family, Tom. God bless you all!
Tina Colamaria
February 26, 2015
thoughts and prayers with family
February 26, 2015
To my darling sister, a void is left in my life that will never be replaced...please give me the courage to soldier on.....I will miss you forever....
Denise Leone
February 26, 2015
Your beauty inside and out will be so missed. My prayers are that you have found peace and that you are reunited with people that have passed that love you so much. I have faith that you are always with us. Love you, your cousin Denise
Art & Margo Mormile
February 26, 2015
Dear Tom and family, we were so heartbroken to hear this news. Kathy had been in our thoughts and prayers. She truly was beautiful inside & out. She & her infectious smile will be greatly missed by all. May God comfort you as only He can.
Art & Margo Mormile
February 26, 2015
Tom & family, you have our deepest sympathy. We were so heartbroken to hear this news, Kathy had been in our thoughts and prayers. She truly was a beautiful person inside and out. She & her infectious smile will be greatly missed. Asking God to comfort you as only He can.
February 26, 2015
Beloved Kathryn, you will live forever in our hearts and souls. Your inspiration, enlightenment encouragement, empathy, and love was felt by all that were fortunate to be honored and privileged to be in you presence. We will always hold dear to our hearts, your smile, laughter and the brilliant sparkle in your eyes. We were blessed to know you and your family. Frank and Sherry Lee Ripepi, Cherie-Ann Marie, Richie, Santino Ripepi Smullen
Kathy Brockenborough
February 26, 2015
Dear Kathy,
You will always be a light shining brightly in my heart....thank you dear friend.
Christine Tyler
February 26, 2015
We will surely miss Kathy. She was a great woman of God, an inspiration in every area of her life. A great wife and mother. May God shine down her smile on those of us mourning her departure. Until we meet again. RIP. The Tyler Family.
Sarah (Fields) D'Orazio
February 26, 2015
I am sorry to hear about Kathy. I remember her as such joyful person, full of life. I know that you will have many happy memories of her to cherish. My heartfelt condolences to Tom and the entire Vassi family.
The Brockenborough Family
February 26, 2015
Our hearts are broken.A light has gone out of our lives.But we know heaven is brighter because our dear Kathy has arrived.Our deepest sympathy to Tom and the children.We love you.
Jason,Teresa and kids Mormile
February 26, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the Vassi family. Kathy will be missed by all that had the good fortune to have known her. By faith we believe that she is in a better place now!
Mikalina Tambasco-Marrone
February 26, 2015
Our most sincere condolences go out to Kathy's family. Kathy was always so full of life and had an infectious smile that she shared with anyone she met. I met her when my daughter was in pre-k at SMI with Sean. She loved her children more than anything and was an iconic nurse filled with genuine compassion. She will be missed dearly. Sending love and prayers to all of her friends and family.
Judith Coffey
February 25, 2015
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of Kathy. What an amazing woman. The love she had for her husband, children and family was unstoppable. Such a great loss for everyone who was lucky enough to know her.
Sola
February 25, 2015
Wow!Iremember Kathy as a vibrant,loving mother, wife and friend. Always willing to help. May the Lord comfort Tom & the children. Remember, you have a God who cares. You are in our prayers. (Amsterdam Calvary AOG)
Mary Leet
February 25, 2015
Kathy was a amazing person,,,full of life ,,love.. laughter .and a beautiful person inside and out..with a heart of gold¢¾
Christine Tambasco
February 25, 2015
I remember working with Kathy at St. Mary's hospital. She was the sweetest nurse I ever had the pleasure to know. Prayers to all the family, heaven needed an angel.
April Baird
February 25, 2015
May God comfort you and give you strength in the days ahead. Please know that Gabby, Alex, and I are lifting your family up in prayer. I always enjoyed speaking with your mom and found her friendly and gracious. May it console you to know that one day you will be reunited. Love to each of you.
Kelly DiNatale
February 25, 2015
My most sincere condolences to all of you. Kathy was a ray of sunshine to all who knew her. Take comfort in the fact that you have a very special angel watching over all of you to bless all of your days. So very sorry for your loss.
Margie Hanna
February 25, 2015
My deepest condolences to Kathy's family. May the memory of her love for all of you and her strength to take on anything in her path give you strength and peace in the days ahead.
Mickey Walker
February 25, 2015
Wishing you strength.
With caring thoughts of sympathy.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Richard and Mickey Walker
Barbara Hidde
February 25, 2015
Tom, children and family... I am so deeply saddened by the loss of your precious, sweet Kathy. I am praying for the peace of Christ to comfort you. Kathy was a very special, beautiful lady inside and out and she was a blessing to all who knew her. I know she is up in heaven dancing with Jesus! I love you guys.
Jeff and Vicky Hayden
February 25, 2015
Tom and family. We offer our heartfelt condolences on your loss. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you.
Michele Knapik
February 25, 2015
Heaven has a new angel and she will watch over you all ferociously without a doubt. My thoughts and prayers are with you all to help you heal from this devastating loss. She was such a great woman with a heart as big as the universe. So saddened by this, yet comforted by knowing she is with the Lord now. Peace for herat last.
Molly Petrin (St Mary's Institute)
February 25, 2015
Dear Vassi Family, Each time I spoke with Kathy (she was always a cheerful presence at St Mary's Institute while supporting her kids), I could very easily see that her family was the light in her life. I am deeply sorry for your loss, but take comfort in knowing how happy you all made her. She was always smiling and that's how I'll remember her.
tessa lynn
February 25, 2015
I am honored to have known such a wonderful woman. Strong and caring with a fierce love for her beautiful children and family. I will forever admire, love and miss you Kathy. Until we meet again may the Lord continue to shine his light on your beautiful soul.
My most heartfelt condolences to the entire Vassi family.
Laura Morehouse
February 25, 2015
I am so sad that this wonderful lady, so full of love and life has been taken so soon. God needed this angel back. Until I see her beautiful face again, thank you Kathy. Love, Polla Loca
Jessica & Tim Adams
February 25, 2015
Vassi Family we are so saddened by the loss of Kathy she truly was a amazing person inside and out! My girls have fond memories of her and she will be greatly missed but believe she is in gods arms looking down on us all! Love Jess, Tim , Angelina & Alaina
Sandy Agresta
February 25, 2015
Tom and family. I am so sorry to har about Kathy's passing. I worked with her for many years at Amsterdam Memorial hospital. She was such a wonderful person and a terrific nurse. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
February 25, 2015
To Tom, Chick and kids, Thank you for sharing your mom with our family. Words cannot express our sadness in your loss. But heaven is a better place now because of your beautiful mom being there. We love and Miss you all. Bill, Cindy & Kids
Lucinda Mingey
February 25, 2015
To my beautiful friend. You touched my life in ways that only true friends could. Thanks for the memories. My condolences to Tom, Chick and the kids. We will miss you forever. Heaven got a wonderful gift.
Eileen Roberts
February 25, 2015
Debbie and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Eileen
Phil Farrell
February 25, 2015
I will never forget the day we where all vising at my home ( Chick and family )and I decided I wanted to have my ears pierced so Kathy got a needle and cork sat me in a chair and stabbed both ears. to this day I think of her. she was an amazing very beautiful young lady. her absence will be felt by many. MAY SHE
"REST IN PEACE"..
Kristy Sobkowicz
February 25, 2015
My heart is so saddened. Beautiful, kindhearted and an amazing woman who will be deeply missed. My deepest condolences to Tom, her beautiful children, Mother and her siblings who are suffering with this great loss. May you all find peace during this most difficult time. With love and sadness. Krissy Farrell Sobkowicz.
randy leet
February 25, 2015
after 40 years as my sister-in-law, i could not have asked for a better one.
we will be with the children, Tom and chick, during this time.
M M
February 25, 2015
What a nice lady. I bought her and Tom's house on CH 126 back in 2000. They couldn't have been nicer.
Lorraine Riggi
February 25, 2015
A very special person, whom I have always had a place in my heart for. God Bless her.
Diane Vassi
February 25, 2015
My beautiful sister-in-law. She was not just a sister-in-law, she was a great friend!
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