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Vikram Raghavan
February 1, 2010
I am a friend of Brian's, and I only learnt yesterday of his sad passing exactly a year ago. Last night, I went to Brian's Facebook page because I wanted to let him know I would be in Addis next month. To my shock, I discovered, he is no longer with us. My sincere, and very belated, condolences to the family.
I met Brian when was he training for his posting in DC in 2007. We stayed in touch while he was away. He was always unfailingly courteous and polite. He had such a zeal for international diplomacy, for learning new languages and cultures, above all, for being an ambassador for the United States. I think he was a model diplomat and a really great human being.
I will miss him terribly, but I will take comfort from the fact that he will continue to inspire generations of those who want to make this world a better place.
September 21, 2009
My prayers to the Adkins family. I knew Mike & Todd in school. Family loss of a loved one is difficult. My mother's friend bought me a plaque I would like to share with you.
" When Someone You Love Becomes A Memory, The Memory Becomes A TREASURE!!"
God Be With Him
All My Love To His Family,
Camey Castle & Boys (Cody & Kyle)
September 10, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Kim Wright-King and Alton King
Washington DC, NYC, Hendersonville, NC and Addis Ababa
David and Rachel Milner Gillers
May 5, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
We had the honor of living with Brian in Tunis when he and Rachel served as interns at the US Embassy. Words cannot capture our thoughts about Brian—-he was a man of infinite talent—-but we want to share some memories of our summer together.
Brian was soulful and silly. We would easily move from intense discussions about religion in the modern world to theatrical performances by the master thespian from Columbus. He was a true virtuoso, equally comfortable giving perfect renditions of Phantom of the Opera and Chris Farley's Matt Foley. He was unforgettable and beloved by everyone. David and I were the last interns to leave Tunis, and when we bid farewell to the kiosk owner around the corner from our house, he asked, “where is Brian?” He, like all of his other fans in Tunis, was devastated to hear that Brian had left the country.
You have a lot to be proud of. Brian's memory will forever be a blessing for all of the people he touched, and he will live on in all of the stories we tell.
Karen Heim
May 4, 2009
Hello- I had the pleasure of meeting Brian as a high school student @ WYHS while working there as a substitute teacher over the years. He was a great guy & I am so proud of what he was able to accomplish in such a short time. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Stephanie Grabey
April 16, 2009
Dan, Chrissy, Tiffany and Mike-
I was so stunned to hear about Brian. I am blessed to have known him as is the rest of the world. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kent and Donna Macklin
February 21, 2009
Dear Mr and Mrs Adkins, Tiffany and Mike,
My wife and I want to offer our sincere condolences on the loss of your son and brother. Our son too is a Foreign Service Officer and a Pickering Fellow. We we know first hand what a wonderful group of young people like your son are serving our country overseas. We can only share your loss from afar, but know that you are in our prayers.
May the Peace of Christ be with you all.
Linda Cordero
February 21, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
I very much regret the loss of your son and my friend, Brian and I met about 18 months ago; he made a long-lasting impression on me. I enjoyed the diversity of his talents - student, diplomat, confidante, Knight. Brian touched me with his wisdom, maturity and kindness. I am pleased to have known him and proud to have been his colleague and friend.
Norma Gongwer
February 20, 2009
Mr. & Mrs. Adkins and family, I am so saddened and stunned to hear about Brian. He was one of my 5th graders at Beechwood in 1993-94--an outstanding student and goal-driven even in 5th grade. His potential was obvious then. One day in discussing our future dreams, Brian announced he wanted to be a cardiologist--not just a doctor as most would have said, but he was very specific. There are some students that a teacher never forgets and he was one of those students. His accomplishments were outstanding and what a loss to humanity. He was one of Beechwood's and WYHS shining stars and a student I will never forget. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Jayne Grafentine
February 18, 2009
Dear Dan, Chris, Tiffany and Mike,
I had never had the opportunity to meet all of your wonderful family until the showing at the funeral home. Even in the face of your untold grief, I was so impressed with your dignity and grace with which you carried yourselves. I worked with your Mom/Grandmother , Sharron Adkins for years at Grant Medical Center. Knowing Sharron, I'm not surprised to find that you all are one of the closest, nicest families that I know. She has been one of my closest friends for years. I have heard about all of you. Sharron always kept me updated on each milestone and accomplishment on each family member. I felt like I knew each and every one of you . I regret that I never met Brian, I so wish that I had known him. He made the World a brighter , happier place wherever he was. The memories will live on in each and every one of us.
Tina Keener (Stiles)
February 14, 2009
The Adkins Family
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I didnt ever meet Brian but have heard great things about him. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and in the days to come
Connie Walker
February 14, 2009
Dear Chris, Danny and family,
As parents we don't expect to lose our children first. I hope you can find solace in knowing that Brian was doing what he loved and using his God given talents for good.
Brian was a bright and shining star and will forever remain in the hearts of those privileged to know him. I always felt an affinity with Brian since we shared a sense of adventure and the desire to visit and study other cultures.
He accomplished so much in his young life and his future held nothing but promise. I have no doubt God will continue to use him for good.
Heartfelt condolances,
Connie Walker
Amy Heath
February 14, 2009
To the Adkins family,
I wanted to add my voice to the chorus of condolences for the tragic loss of Brian.
I had the great pleasure of living and working with Brian in Tunis. At the intern house, Brian was our cook, our interpreter, our dear friend and our source of constant laughter, whether he was impersonating Chris Farley or cursing the gangs of stray Tunisian cats that roamed our streets.
At the Embassy he assumed responsibilities far above those of an intern. We joked at times he was running the entire place—and I believe, on one day at least, he actually was. What's more, Brian had the remarkable ability to befriend anyone and everyone, from the cooks in the cafeteria to the Embassy's drivers, from the locally hired employees to the most senior Foreign Service Officers.
Brian was truly a model diplomat, in all senses of the word, and I count myself lucky to have been his friend.
Karen Huff
February 13, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
I am so glad I attended "Reflections of Brian's Life" tonight at the funeral home. Brian is a reflection of the family he belonged to!
How proud you must be!
I didn't know him personally but have known many members of your family for many, many years.
My heartfelt condolences to all and may God wrap his loving arms around all of you for comfort.
Love, Karen Huff
Jill Baldwin
February 13, 2009
A wonderful man
A beautiful human being
Someone who knew what he wanted
Had so many dreams and lived out so many of them, with all that he had
A giver, a loving person, an extroidinary being
* Know in your heart
That he is safe now, always & forever
For God will keep him close by & they will both smile brightly
For they know that someday, you will be welcomed & you too will be smiling again
With Love & Adoration, Jill
Todd Porter
February 13, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
Brian meant so much to be as a person, classmate, and friend. When I heard of his tragic passing, I was instantly sent into a state of denial. I thought nothing could happen like this to a person I cared for so much. But through the tears and sorrow, I realized several things.
Brian was doing what he loved and what he was put on Earth to do. I remember in school how all the students would try to figure out what they wanted to do with their lives. Brian had always wanted to be a Cardiologist it seemed, but this wasn't truly what his essence yearned for. It took him a while to figure out, but once he did, it was amazing how fast he locked onto his future in international affairs. It went from applying to several colleges and contemplating many different majors, to, "Todd, I am going to go to George Washington to study International Affairs." While it seemed to come out of nowhere, I and everyone else knew that is what Brian was born to do. It is such a great thing that he found himself so quickly, as many people never even figure out what they really want to do, let alone live a dream so fully in such a short amount of time. It helps ease my pain knowing he was living his dream.
I also realized that Brian and I lived our friendship to the fullest. Every time we were back in town at the same time, we would always hang out for late night tv, movies, or discussions. I loved it so much. We also went to Europe together, I visited him while he was at GW, and I was at his Flag Day when he found out he was going to Ethiopia. We experienced so many things together and I will never forget them. Brian and I were like two sides of the same coin: kids growing up in Whitehall with big dreams of making a difference in the world. A week before his passing, Brian and I were talking on the phone and we were talking about how great it was that against the odds, we were making it big, Brian with the Foreign service and my career with Microsoft. Brian was also "my guy" when it came to so many things. Politics, foreign affairs, economics, family - these are all topics that I felt that Brian was the guy I should talk to about. It almost felt weird discussing them with anybody else. The special thing about Brian was that he was "the guy" for so many people, for so many things. There was also something particularly Ohio about him and I loved it. I remember being in DC and driving 30 minutes outside the city just so we could eat at the only Taco Bell anywhere near DC. I realize that only people from Ohio could possibly justify driving so far for Taco Bell of all foods, and I loved doing it.
I loved so many things about Brian, more than can be put into words. I know Brian is gone, but I really feel that it is in body only, I know he will be with us spiritually. When I am in a tough situation, I will always ask myself to consider what Brian might've said and help it guide me, like he always used to do. I can't express in words how much I miss Brian, my oldest and dearest friend, and how deeply sorry me and my family are.
Heartfelt condolences from the Porter family,
Todd, Patricia, Mark, John, and Mark
Anna Farrow
February 13, 2009
To all who knew Brian,
We were deeply saddened by the news of Brian's passing. Always remember your hearts are filled with his love for you, his family and friends, and your mind with the memories of him. God Bless.
The Farrow Family, Anna, Kristi & Kennedy, Tim, Margie, Alex & AnnaLyn and David
Rhonda DeVault
February 13, 2009
Chris and Danny,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Rhonda DeVault
julie montgomery
February 13, 2009
I do not know your family but couldn't pass the chance to tell you how wonderful this young was. I am so impressed about all the life he lived in such a short time. I've lost a son also and the pain is hard but someday we'll all be together-- God Bless your family,
Amanda (Fields)Walker
February 13, 2009
Adkins Family,
I am very sorry to hear Brian has passed. I attended junior high with him and was in several of his classes. Brian was a very kind and generous person. May God bless you with strength and the wisdom of his word in this time of healing.
Mary Altman
February 12, 2009
I just wanted to share this with the family & friends of Brian's.We are thinking of you all & sending prayers & condolences.Mary Altman & Amanda Eismon(Altman)
Ryan Mendoza
February 12, 2009
I was very saddened and shocked to hear what happened to Brian, and my heart goes out to his family. We were in a number of classes together at Beechwood Elementary, Rosemore, and WYHS. I will always remember him as being "the smartest kid in class".
The things Brian accomplished during his life show how intelligent, dedicated, and kind he was. Although it has been a few years since we last talked I have always considered him a friend.
He will truly be missed.
Kristin (Gibson) Hughey
February 12, 2009
Brian and I were in school together from the days of Beechwood to graduation. He had a very sincere and giving heart. I will treasure the memories I had with him. It was a blessing to have known him. Words can not express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Vicki (Morrison) Smith
February 12, 2009
Dan, Chris, Tiffany and Mike,
I was in shock when I read about Brian's death. Even though Devon and I left Whitehall in 1998 I have always had a place in my heart for all of you. Please know that Devon and I are very sorry for you loss and will keep you all in our prayers.
Vicki and Devon
Pamela Reveal (York)
February 12, 2009
Danny and Family
I am sorry to hear of your son's death. May your days ahead be filled with wonderful memories of your son and the fact that he touched so many. May this bring comfort to you. I wish I could of been one of the one's who life he touch My thoughts and prayers are with your family
Sunny (Hartman) Groves
February 12, 2009
Danny and Family,
What a terrible shock to hear of the passing of your son, Brian. I saw you at our class reunion this past summer but didn't get to talk to you about your family. I have learned from reading all the condolences what a loving intelligent young man he was. It is quite evident he was greatly loved and respected by not only his family but the entire world. My heart goes out to you.
Bassel & Joyce Bailey
February 12, 2009
Dan & Family
I didn't know Brian but I know what a proud father you are, as
you told of his accomplishments as we worked, I know you an a lot of your family,you are good people an I know he was a wonderful man.
Our heart felt condolence to your family. our prayers be with you all.
Mary Altman
February 12, 2009
My daughter was a friend of Brian's in High School.They went to the 1997 Fall Homecoming dance together.I met him several times at football games,school functions,etc & each time he was a very sweet,well mannered person.The picture I have of their dance will be forever treasured.Thank you for sharing your wonderful son with the world.God bless you all,Mary Altman
Elsie Perry
February 12, 2009
Mr and Mrs Adkins,
I want to express my sympathy to you and your family. Brian was always a treasure to be around. Watching him grow up and to see his smile when he would come to our house with Rob. He was a fine and outstanding young man. I will miss him, but he will be forever remembered and loved. You will be in our thoughts and prayers
Dennis Petersen
February 12, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Adkins, Tiffany, and Mike,
Please accept my most sincere condolences on the loss of your son, Brian. Your poise and strength throughout these terrible days and weeks are truly an inspiration.
Although I cannot begin to understand why God took him from us at such a young age, I know that I am a better person today for having had the pleasure of knowing him. Brian was truly a big brother to me, and so I will always consider you my extended family.
Although it is difficult to feel anything but sadness now, I know that as time passes, the emotion that I will associate with Brian will be pride. Your son was a pure soul, a brilliant scholar, a patriot, a hero, and my mentor. It was a privilege to have known him.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Dennis
Patressa Reynolds
February 11, 2009
Dan,Chris and Family,
I didn't know Brian personally. I didn't get a chance to meet him. My mom and Don divorced. I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words to express the sorrow you feel. After reading some of the guest book. I have learned much about Brian and wish I had the chance to have known him personally. I am thinking of you and your family. With love,
Patressa Reynolds (Jarvis, George) and family
David Shinn
February 11, 2009
To the family of Brian Adkins,
I am an adjunct professor in the Elliott School of International Affairs at George Washington University. Although I did not know Brian well, I had every reason to believe that he would have an outstanding career in the U.S. Foreign Service. Having spent thirty-seven years of my life in the Foreign Service, I know the pleasures and frustrations that the career can bring. I was deeply sadened that Brian paid the ultimate price to serve the United States. In addition to the agony being experienced by Brian's family, I know that Ambassador Yamamoto and the entire embassy family in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, also feel the pain of Brian's death.
David Shinn
US Ambassador to Ethiopia (1996-99)
Jack,Sandy,Christina,&Nick Brown
February 11, 2009
Dan, Chris, Tiffany & Mike
The news of Brian's death was a shock to our family. This country has lost a great man. Brian and Nick were best friends in elementary school. He kept Nick on the straight and narrow. We will never forget the good times our family had with Brian. Our hearts go out to all of you during this very difficult time.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Teresa Holtzman
February 11, 2009
The news of a fallen colleague, especially one from my own hometown of Columbus, comes rushing in. When you learn about an individual, although its someone that you do not personally know, you realize the dedication required to learn languages, teach as an accomplished violinist, and especially touch others lives in such a beautiful way. More precious still is learning of Brian's personal faith and his reliance in Hope on Love's unfailing ability. With heartfelt sympathy,
Mary Walters
February 11, 2009
Dearest Sharron, John and family;
What a terrible, tragic loss for you and the world. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Walters
Grant Medical Center
STEVE & DIANA SHELL
February 11, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Melody Myers
February 11, 2009
Dan, Chirs, Tiffany, and Mike:
I have been thinking for a while what to say and words just can not express how my heart aches for all of you. I truely loved big Bri and I am going to miss him so much. I wish now I would have kept in touch more with him, but I believe he knew how I felt about him!! He was so sweet and caring, as everyone knows, but he was also sooo funny!! Over the past week when thinking of him I find myself laughing out loud. He was so fun to be around. I love you guys and will keep everyone in my prayers!!!
Love Melody
Sharron Adkins
February 11, 2009
To our beloved Brian, You are gone from us today,only in body. Now you will always be that bright and shining star in the sky as you were our bright and shining star on earth.Gone too,are the hours of sitting in the living room sharing conversations about history,politics,(your favorite),current events and just life in general.Gone also are you Zac and I on Christmas eve working our crossword with an egg timer,taking turns and you slipping off into the computer room and looking for the answer on the computer,when we just couldn't figure it out. You know Bri it took me a long time before I figured that one out. I will always remember the family taking you to D.C. to get you settled into college. You were so anxious to get on with your life. You were always a step ahead of the rest of us,getting your ducks in a row. I would constantly worry,and you were always so confident,saying to me with a laugh,Oh Grandma don't worry about me,you worry to much, I'll be fine. Well Bri I won't worry about you any more because you are in the arms of God now and will be forever safe. We are all so very, very proud, you set your goals,you ran the course, and you let no one stop you from achieving your dream. Love always and forever Grandma and Grandpa Adkins
Amy Folden
February 11, 2009
Tiffany, Larry & John:
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I hope your memories bring you comfort during this time. I did not know Brian but my heart goes out to you and your entire family for your loss!
Clint Hikes
February 11, 2009
To the family,
It's hard to express words in a time of loss. Loss is never easy in today's time. I knew Brian from high school and graduated with him. Brian was an outstanding student and a good friend. But rest assured we know that Brian is in a better place with his Lord and we will see him again one day. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and everyone that Brian knew and impacted.
Clint, Tracy, Hunter & Leanna Hikes
Brandy Carter(McKinney)
February 11, 2009
I was shocked to hear of Brian's sudden death. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this suddden passing of Brian.We attended high school together. I remember Brian being very smart. He was popular in high schoool but not like everyone else. He was nice and willing to help anyone. Sincerely, Brandy Carter(McKinney), and Family
Are thoughts and prayers go out to you in your time of need.
Lawrence Sosnowich
February 11, 2009
Brian was an outstanding Knight of Columbus and he will be sorely missed by all of those who knew him. Brian epitomized a Knight of Columbus and I can not help but believe that our founder The Venerable Michael J. McGivney has placed Brian among the other deceased Brother Knights who are guiding and watching over us. Brian served as the Chancellor of George Washington U. Council and because of his demonstrated ability to take on more responsibility, he was approached and accepted the position of District Warden. He was responsible to work with all the college councils and was instrumental in helping to setup American University Council. If this were not enough, Brian became the 2nd Degree Team Captain and the Ceremonial Director for the DC State Council. May he Rest in Peace!
Krista Moore
February 10, 2009
To the family:
I am very sorry to hear about Brian. I met him in high school and was lucky enough to have him come with me to my junior prom in high school. He was very sweet and kind and very very smart. He will greatly be missed by all who knew him. He has left many footprints behind and lead such a wonderful life in his almost 26 years. Even though he was taken so young he has accomplished more and followed his heart more than most do in a life time. May god be with you in this difficult time. God Bless!
Sally Edge
February 10, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. To read all the condolences sent to you from all over the world goes to show what a good family Brian comes from. Chris and Danny, please stay strong and know that your son made a difference in this world.
Sally (Tysen) Edge
Bob, Naja, Aubrey, Adam Bailey
February 10, 2009
Chris, Dan, Mike and Tiffany:
We are so extremely saddened to hear about Brian. What an amazing man he turned out to be, and what a beautiful gift God allowed you to share with us all. Please know your family is in our prayers.
Randy, Andrea, Cody & Morgan Koons
February 10, 2009
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Just take comfort that Brian is in a better place and will be greatly missed. You should be a very proud family for all he has done and stood for. Your family will remain in our hearts and prayers.
Joshua John
February 10, 2009
To: Brian's Family
I'm saddened to hear about Brian's tragic death overseas. We went to High School together and even though I only spoke to Brian every now and again, I feel compelled to convey to you my deepest sympathies. I know this is difficult time for you, but as a veteran of the Iraq war, I ask that you please try and find at some comfort that Brian was serving our country and attempting to make a difference in this world. That is something that very few people are willing to do. You should be proud of your son / brother.
Richard Branson
February 10, 2009
Though the absence of Brian can never be replaced, his memory will guide and encourage us long into the future.
Karen Mims
February 10, 2009
I didn't know Brian, but colleagues of mine who did know him have told me what a wonderful person and Foreign Service Officer he was. I am so sorry for your loss.
Ken Beatty
February 10, 2009
To Dan, Chris, Tiffany, and Mike,
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sadness and sorrow. There are no words that can comfort you enough. Just the thought that Brian lived a life of Honor and Patriotism must comforting to you. May God bless.
Ken, Polly, and Lauren Beatty (Whitehall Ohio)
Cecilia, Marco, Fragnito
February 10, 2009
Dear Adkins family, our hearts & prayers are with you. We have been devestated by this terrible loss. We met Brian through our son in DC & we immediately loved him as one of our own, he was kind, funny respectful & a great friend to Robert, the world has lost a truly wonderful human being, we will always remember Brian, our family mourns with you, May God bless all of you & may he comfort you in this very difficult time & may The Holy Spirit give you peace in knowing that he is in Heaven with Our Lord & Savior.Our deepest Sympathy, the Fragnito family
Darren Bologna
February 10, 2009
My condoleneces to the Adkins Family. Brian was a classmate of mine in the Foreign Service. No one would argue with the fact that Brian was dedicated, jovial, and doing what he loved.
Nnenna Ofobike
February 10, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
Brian and I crossed paths while I was working at the U.S. Embassy in Addis this past summer. An Ohio State Buckeye myself, I remember meeting your son and brother and immediately feeling that much closer to Columbus (a nice feeling when you're all the way out in Ethiopia!). My most vivid memory of Brian is from a bonfire on a scenic lake outside of Addis this past October. Sitting around the campfire, Brian regaled our group of about 10 people with tales of 80s dance nights in Adams Morgan (a neighborhood in Washington), French pastry chef roommates with unbelievable accents, and living in a haunted house (that one was the best)—all while periodically interrupting himself to bust out random lyrics from 90s era hip-hop songs. It was an unforgettable and hilarious night. Brian could really tell a tale, and it made him a riot to be around. I am truly sorry for your loss. Please know that his absence is felt, quite literally, around the world and we are all praying with and praying for you and for Brian.
God bless and sincere condolences,
John Burley
February 10, 2009
To Brian's Family and Friends,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. As a former Foreign Service Officer, I can understand Brian's sense of duty and adventure that led him to Addis Ababa. For many of us, there is no greater pride than in representing the ideals and people of our country overseas. Words are inadequate to describe your sorrow, and likewise to provide a balm against it. I am sure you are proud of Brian, and that he will live on in your lives and in the lives of those he met.
Dawnyel, Phillip, Sabrina, & Phil Jr. Wagner
February 10, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
Our deepest sympathy and prayers for your loss. We love you and our thoughts are with you all in this time of sorrow. God Bless
Victor Marsh
February 10, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
Brian has brightened so many days and has lit up so many smiles that the world will miss him deeply. My condolences to your family in this difficult time.
Stephanie Chak
February 10, 2009
To the family of Brian Adkins,
I had the pleasure and honor of getting to know Brian during his time in DC while he was preparing for his assignment in Ethiopia. I have some incredibly fun memories of hanging out with him, but I'm afraid I will not have the chance to get to know him more, personally. There aren't enough words to possibly express my sorrow for your family's loss. I hope that you all will be comforted by the knowledge that Brian is in a better place and his physical presence may have passed, but his spirit is very much alive in our memories and our hearts.
Best,
D
February 9, 2009
Family of Brian Adkins:
I am very sorry for the loss of your son and brother. Foreign Service Officers are brave and open-minded people who serve their country selflessly and in difficult circumstances, and I'm sure Brian was no exception. I can't imagine the loss you are facing right now, but I do know that his passing is a big loss for our country. As an American citizen, I want you to know that I am proud of him and grateful to him. God Bless you and keep you strong in the difficult days ahead.
Mary Hruby
February 9, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Adkins and family,
We send you our heartfelt condolences. Our daughter is also in the Foreign Service, where the loss of one is felt deeply by all.
Zac Lemaster
February 9, 2009
A cousin that will be truly missed. Anytime I needed advice he was there for me. I still remember Christmas and Thanksgiving when G-Ma, Brian and I would all take turns trying to finsh the crossword puzzle in the dispatch. I remember this past Christams I was so stressed out and depressed from college and he reassured me that everything would be fine and eventually get better. I loved being around him when he was speaking. He had such an amazing vocabulary and it was just amzing to me to soak that all in. He was truly one of the greatest minds i have and will ever know.
Sandy (Popper) Campbell
February 9, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
My sincere condolences at the loss of Brian, he certainly touched a lot of lives, as expressed in this guest book. I grew up with Danny on Fullerton Drive and always knew he would be a good father and raise good children. I pray that our Lord brings you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayer are with you.
Love,
Sandy
Jason Pharo
February 9, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
I graduated with Tiffany, and was Brian’s classmate in French. He was an extremely intelligent and kind person. I will forever be honored that he took the time to help me in my studies. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jessica Afaghi
February 9, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
I didn't know Brian very well, he helped out in my French class during my Freshmen year. But I remember him being very kind and patient with us. He had no problem helping us with our assignments or reviewing for tests. He even taught us some French curse words! My thoughts & prayers are with your family. The world has truly lost someone special.
God Bless.
Frank Resch and Family
February 9, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Adkins and family,
We wish to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. We came to know Brian well when he worked at Resch's Bakery during his years at Whitehall-Yearling High School. He was an absolutely wonderful person in every way. Hard working, responsible and dedicated to any task that he choose to accomplish. He was such a kind person, friendly to all, liked by all. We deeply appreciated his occasional visits to us at the bakery during his years at college and after he graduated. It was a privilege to know Brian...... We all will miss Brian very much. Again, our entire family wishes to express our sorrow for your loss.
Nick Noyes
February 9, 2009
Dear Adkins Family:
I was Brian's instructor in a course he took at the Foreign Service Institute prior to going on assignment in Ethiopia. I remember Brian was friendly, optimistic and always helpful to others. His class contributions and effort were always welcome. My fellow instructors and class staff were saddened to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and with Brian.
Sara Devlin
February 9, 2009
Brian's loss reminds me that we should never be too busy to listen, to express ourselves, and to make new friends. This summer when Brian and I took classes together, he was constantly giving me contact information for people I should consult with. He was thoughtful and kind, and I was SO BUSY. I regret now that I didn't sit down with Brian, ask him to come along with me while I consulted with his friends and ex-colleagues. I regret that we didn't have more coffee together, or just chat about our plans. I thought that I would see him in 2010 when we were in between tours.
I hate that I was wrong.
Brian's final presentation to our class was about the history of Christianity in Ethiopia and how it is just possible that the Ark of the Covenant might be there (or was it the Holy Grail). I thought he was crazy, but I loved his presentation and his passion for this career.
I miss the Brian that I had hoped to get to know better.
Amy Lafrance
February 8, 2009
To the Adkins family: I was deeply saddened to hear of Brian's passing. Although I never met Brian, he made a huge difference in my life and my husband's life. You see, I called and spoke with him about a proposed trip to rural Ethiopia. Brian was very knowledgeable about the conditions we would face and how best to plan for our journey. His expert advice, and a detailed follow-up e-mail he sent, helped us to determine that we should make the trip. It changed our lives in great ways.
This is just a small example, but i wanted to add my voice to the many who have already written to say that I'm terribly sorry for your loss. He made a difference even for people like me, who never had the benefit of meeting him.
Kevin, Kathy, Jordy, Josh & Kristin Wycuff
February 8, 2009
Dan, Chris, Mike & Tiffany,
We are so very sorry about the loss of your son and brother. The things that he accomplished in such a short time is nothing short of amazing. Dan and Chris - how extremely proud you must be of the wonderful young man that you raised. In his short time here on Earth, it is apparent that Brian truly lived his life to the fullest. May God's love and your beautiful memories help bring peace and healing to your Family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Zaya Fusco
February 8, 2009
Dear Brian's family,
I met Brian in Paris when we were studying with IES. He was, as others have said, brilliant and constantly joking. A favorite story of him was when he chased down a pickpocketer the very first day he arrived in Paris and demanded his wallet back. He also had a pet rock with which he took pictures. We traveled to Normandy, Fontainbleu and Versailles together. He was kind and sensitive and though I only knew him for a short time, I shall remember him always.
Frank Aguilo
February 7, 2009
Dear Adkins Family:
I only had the chance to meet Brian once while we were both in Washington DC but that one time was enough for me to wish that I had known Brian longer. You are all extraordinarily fortunate to have had such a kind person as Brian in your lives. Brian's life of service and of leadership is one for which you should all be extremely proud. Although we have all lost a great deal with Brian's passing, please remember that Brian is in a better place, looking down upon us all until we are reunited with him again. I have and will continue to pray for each one of you during this difficult time.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Jermaine Lewis
February 7, 2009
To the Adkins family,
I'm truly saddened by your loss. Brian was a special person and everyone who came across him realized this instantly. Upon his arrival to Ethiopia, I can recall seeing him at one of the Embassy social gatherings and just being AMAZED at hearing him speak fluent Amharic. From that day on I admired the guy. Although we didn't work in the same section, we played softball together on Sunday afternoons. Brian would be in his rugged lefty batting stance and I'd yell "Let's go B.A." and he'd love swinging at the high pitches! No matter the time of day, he was one of the most positive people I've ever met. There was never a day when he a had a frown on his face. His memory will never be forgotten...
Ashley Setser-Marsh
February 7, 2009
Dan, Chris, Tiff and Mike,
I have been been left speechless since I heard this terrible news. Brian touched many lives in so many ways. I am so proud to have grown up with him and your family. I always knew that Brian would do wonderful things in life and by reading all of the great things that so many people have had to say about him, I know he truly did. I will cherish all of the memories and will never forget how wonderful he was. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.--Ash
Fred & Bonnie Frank
February 7, 2009
Chris, Danny, Tiffany, & Mike
We are so sorry for the loss of Brian. He was such an intelligent kind young man with a heart of gold. We will surely miss him. His memories will last forever. We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Janelle Lassiter (McCarthy)
February 7, 2009
Tiffany and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how terrible I feel for you. Sometimes the world just doesn't make sense. Brian was a great person (understatement) and accomplished so much in his short time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mike Dugan
February 7, 2009
Dear Adkins Family,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless,
Frank Ward III
February 6, 2009
Dan, Chris and family,
Please know that the world is certainly less of a place with the loss of Brian but that also the world is a better place because of Brian. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. The same integrity and core family values that you instilled in Brian, he in turn passed around the world. In all of the years I spent around the Adkins family growing up, I will always treasure the guidance, love and support that was freely given to me, which resonates within me still today. Please remember, "When you feel you're down to nothing...God's up to something". Love and Prayers...
Bob, Connie, Bart, & Sarah Sherer
February 6, 2009
Chris, Dan, Tiffany and Mikie,
The news of Brain’s death was a shock to our family. He was taken much to soon, fate has delivered a cruel blow to your family. Brain was a vibrant young man at school, at sports, at home, and in the community. He brought out the best in people by setting high standards for himself. It is hard to believe he is gone. Know that you all are in our prayers.
Missy Brady
February 6, 2009
Tiff and family,
I have been sitting here for days trying to come up with the words to describe my sadness for you all and I can't. All I know is that it just isn't fair he was taken way too soon. Brain was such a joy to be around. I remember dancing with him to eighties songs at Tiffs wedding, laughing and having so much fun together.
My heart goes out to all of you during this very difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Missy, Brady, Alex, Caleb and Kaylee
Gayle Waite
February 6, 2009
Brian, along with Peggy Geyer (a Whitehall French teacher) and 5 of her students, traveled to France with my students and me during his senior year. I am a French teacher from Newark. We all had a great trip with Brian. He was a wonderful young man and was serious about his interest in the French culture and language. We all enjoyed his company and are tremendously shocked and saddened by his passing. Brian made a positive impact on my students with his humor and kindness. He obviously went on to make a positive impact in the international arena.
Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debra Blake
February 6, 2009
Brian was a student under my supervision at the Foreign Service Institute in Washington, DC. He was an outstanding student in all regards, not only talented linguistically but professionally gifted as well. There is no question that he made his instructor feel as valuable and welcomed as the instructor made Brian feel. He excelled in his studies, and was remarkably perceptive about his studies, his personal learning needs, and the work ahead of him. I had been looking forwad to hearing more from him, not only from Ethiopia but from wherever his future career brought him. He was a valuable member of our State Department community and we will miss him. We are very sorry for his family's loss and our loss.
Brenda Biersner
February 6, 2009
Dear Adkins family,
I have been trying to find the words to express how deeply sorry I am about Brian but none can be found. He was a man who touched all who knew him and left some wonderful memories behind. When Mitch would call home and one of us was having a bad day, I would ask for a Brian story and soon we would be chuckling about one of his adventures I think of a poem by Linda Ellis called “The Dash” (http://www.thedashmovie.com) which expresses how we should all live our lives-- Brian lived his dash to the fullest. He accomplished more during his time with us than others only dream of doing and left a lasting impression on all who knew him. I’m thankful to have known him and will treasure his laughter, wisdom, and gift of friendship he shared with so many.
May God’s loving arms hold you close now and forever.
Jared Brewster
February 6, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I didn't know Brian very well, but I can tell he will be greatly missed worldwide. My thoughts are with the Adkins family during this time of great loss.
Lisa Burchett
February 6, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. We did not know Brian but my son served 2 tours in that same area of Ethiopia with his Army Reserve unit out of Whitehall. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. May God Bless You.
Janet Hannum
February 6, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Melody thought the world of Brian and he will be missed by many. God bless u all at this time
David Caudill
February 6, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Adkins and family,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Brian's death. We were in training together last summer in DC, and I enjoyed having a fellow Buckeye in the class. You and your family have commented on Brian's brilliance, and I can confirm that tenfold. This is a mind-numbing loss to you, of course. It is also a great loss to his colleagues and the country. May God lift you all up in this hour.
mark and patty woodward
February 5, 2009
to the adkins family
our hearts go out to the family
on such a tragedy we will keep you in our prayers god bless your family
Shawna Ray-Steiniger
February 5, 2009
I went to school with brian from rosemore and up..He was the sweetest,and smartest guy I had ever known..He was my very first boyfriend and took me on my very first date to see the movie "To wong foo"Where he spilled his popcorn all over me....He was so embarressed but I had never forgot the fun times we had together...I was completely in shock when I saw that he had passed on the news...I really wish we would have stayed in contact.I will never forget him and I will forever miss him...Much love bri
Nicole Wodzisz (Gillespie)
February 5, 2009
Dan, Chris, Tiffany, and Mike,
I am truely sorry for your loss. I have known your family since I was in third grade. Brian had a kind and gentle heart. He did not deserve this. He will always be remembered by many people all over the world. My prayers are with you.Love you all.
Benjamin Kloda
February 5, 2009
Brian studied the Amharic language with us at the Foreign Service Institute, Department of State, in preparation for his posting to Ethiopia. I would like to share some thoughts from his Amharic instructor:
"Brian was brilliant, hard working and always optimistic. I realized how hard working he was when he first to class with a commanding knowledge of the Amharic alphabet, the first to do so. The other thing I observed in him was his love of family; he always talked about his mother, father, sister and brother. I felt he was proud of his family as his family was proud of him, and rightly so."
The African Language sections at FSI are deeply saddened by this tragic loss. Our deepest sympathies to his family and loved ones.
Bill & Wilma Vos
February 5, 2009
Dan,Chris and Family
We are saddened to learn of the passing of your son and brother. Please accept our sincere sympathy.
We got to know Brian when we visited our grandson, Mitch Biersner in D.C. and usually took them out to dinner. It was always a great time visiting, laughing and learning. Our country has also lost a great young man and future leader. We are not to wonder why, God called him home, his work here was done. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Grandparents of Mitch Biersner
Mitch & Brian
Mitch Biersner
February 5, 2009
It’s hard to find the words; it just doesn’t feel real. Here was a man who served as a shining example for others of what a good human being is, with an abundance of humanity in his heart. To be taken in such a way is just unconscionable. It’s certainly not how his story was to have ended. Having lived with him as his roommate undergrad and being fortunate enough to have lived as his neighbor during grad school, I certainly will miss his stories, his advice and guidance, and his infectious zest for life. I’m thankful to have had such a remarkable friend. I will forever mourn his loss, but will be comforted and spirited by his memory.
Acquania Gibbs Escarne
February 5, 2009
It hurts my heart to admit that a good friend and Fellow has passed away. Brian and I not only attended GW together but he was also the officer to welcome me to the ranks of the foreign service. On my first day he was the first friendly face willing to guide me along the foreign halls of FSI or answer any of my questions. I was grateful to see him because my nervous jitters just melted away. Brian will be missed from the Foreign Service Family. To the Adkins family I send my condolences from Port Au Prince, Haiti. May the presence of family and friends comfort you during this difficult time.
Stephanie Hickey (Lynch)
February 5, 2009
I was a classmate of Brian's from Beechwood days all the way up to WYHS. I was in total shock when I found out on Thursday, and can not even imagine the torture your family has been made to face!
Brian was on of the most focused, hard working, and big hearted people I had the pleasure of being able to spend my childhood with. W/o him the world is now a darker place indeed, not just for the loss of his humanitarian efforts, but more so for his loved ones and those he held dear!
I will truely miss Brian and regret time lost in the midst of "cliques" different opinions, but know that I will have you and yours in my thoughts and prayers! I am truely sorry for your loss!
Valarie Hannahs
February 5, 2009
To the Adkins family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers for your loss. I worked with Brian at the Bakery in highschool and will always remember what a fun time we all had working together, Brian was so fun to work with and be around. A wonderful person and great guy!
kim & tony gillespie
February 5, 2009
dan & chris i cant even imagine your pain right now but my heart is saddened by what you are going through you are wonderful people that me & my family had the pleasure of being friends with our love & prayers are with you in your time of sorrow
Brandon Mansur
February 5, 2009
To the Adkins Family,
I cannot begin to express the sorrow I am feeling for not only your loss, but the loss of my dear friend Brian. Brian exemplified the values and convictions that everyone should strive for in their lives. He was compassionate yet motivated to always do what is right. Just to enumerate one example of how kind Brian was. Even though Brian was extremely busy with his intensive language program before he departed for Ethiopia, he still took the time to look over my essay that I used in my application to intern with the State Department. Brian was one of the key figures that inspired me to apply for such an internship, and when I was accepted, Brian was one of the first people I told. I will truly miss him. May He live on in eternal happiness, and may the Lord continue to watch over his blessed family.
Alana Guiney
February 5, 2009
I am heartbroken by the loss of Brian. He was a great friend to me at GW. He took me to church every Sunday, sometimes against my will. His positive attitude, and his love for the 1980's, were infectious. He was as kind as he was brilliant. He will be truly missed by everyone who knew him.
Leota Clawson
February 5, 2009
Dear Dan, Chris and family,
I offer my deepest sympthy to you all for the loss of Brian. It is such a tragedy, you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Leota Clawson
Rich and Missy Robinette
February 5, 2009
Dan, Chris and family - Know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many people who know you and your family. Our heart goes out to you for your lose. The lose of someone so special is felt by all. We love you.
Norma Quail
February 5, 2009
Dan, Chris, Tiffany and Mike
It was such unbelieavible news to hear of Brian's death, my heart was broken. You all are in my heart and
my prayers. Know that I love you all very much.
Love Aunt Norma
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