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Lucinda Caros

1949 - 2016

BORN

1949

DIED

2016

Lucinda Caros Obituary



Lucinda "Cindy" Shipps Caros, 67, of Stoneham, Maine, passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 11th at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House in Scarborough, Maine following a seventeen-month journey with liver cancer. She was predeceased in 2012 by her husband of 31 years, Nicolas George Caros. Cindy is survived by three daughters; Allison Caros Long and her husband Jason, of Buckfield, Maine; Ashley Caros Kuntz and her husband Eric, of Hollis, Maine; and Amanda Caros Coombs and her husband Timothy, of Stoneham, Maine; and seven grandchildren, Emma Paige Coombs, 5, Annie Marie Coombs, 4, Timothy Coombs Jr., 21 months, Norah Kathryn Kuntz, 3, Molly George Kuntz, 2, William Nicolas Long, 4 months, and William's two-year-old foster sister. Cindy's eighth grandchild, Lucian Howard Kuntz, is due to be born in mid-September of this year. Cindy is also remembered by her brother, Stephen W. Shipps and his wife Debora Schnappauf of West Newbury, MA, as well as her nephew, William Harry Schnappauf Shipps, and her best friend of 57 years, Cynthia Albert of Berlin. Cindy was born May 10, 1949 in Hartford, daughter of William Helveston Shipps and Audrey Howard Shipps of Newington. She graduated from Newington High School in 1967 and from Elmira College in 1971. Cindy continued from Elmira to the Cornell University New York School of Nursing where she earned a Bachelor of Science in Nursing in 1973. Following Cornell, Cindy worked for four years as a surgical nurse at the UConn John Dempsey Hospital, after which she became a floor supervisor and then the supervisor of the emergency room. As ER supervisor, Cindy introduced triage nursing and placed a charge nurse on all shifts, both of which were relatively new practices in nursing care at the time. Her proudest accomplishment (other than pulling elaborate pranks on ER resident doctors) was the ride-along program she piloted to improve the working relationship between the ER nurses and paramedics. Cindy required that nurses join paramedics for a shift on the ambulance and have paramedics spend more time in the ER. It was through this collaboration that Cindy met Nick. After more than two decades in the UConn emergency department, Cindy became a nationally certified poison control specialist at the Connecticut Poison Control Center. Throughout her life, Cindy fondly remembered and spoke of the wonderful people she met when caring for them as patients. Cindy and Nick retired to Deer Isle, Maine where Cindy worked briefly at the Inn on the Harbor and cared full-time for her mother and mother-in-law until their deaths in 2007. Despite her numerous professional accomplishments, Cindy's proudest lifetime achievement was her family. Nick and Cindy instilled in their daughters a strong work ethic, a curiosity about the world and a commitment to the common good. The family always made time to travel together, especially enjoying Disney World and Acadia National Park. Cindy donated her body to the University of New England College of Osteopathic Medicine and will be cremated and returned to her family at a later date. A memorial service and reception will be held on August 26th. Please contact Allison Long at [email protected] for service information. In lieu of condolences, donations can be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or the Susan Curtis Foundation.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Aug. 20, 2016.

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Janice Pleat Kanteres

August 14, 2020

I remember your parents’ beautiful wedding & outdoor reception! Your mom was a gracious hostess when I would visit in Conn with my baby boys when we lived close in western MA. Another loved one who was gone too soon.. May her memory be eternal .

Gail Pizzoferrato

August 27, 2016

I worked with CINDY and nick in the emergency Dept for years
She was great to work with, generous and kind.
We really had a blast in those early UCONN days
I am truly sorry for your loss. God bless you all

Janice Kanteres

August 23, 2016

I am Nick's 1st cousin, Janice(Pleat) Kanteres who grew up in NH with Nick....shared great memories with the Caros clan (my mom is Nia Pleat). My husband Greg & I attended Nick & Cindy's wedding, & when we were having our children living in Springfield,MA, Cindy & I visited each other with our children several times. I saw the girls growing up with each Caros event in Nashua, NH & Rockville,CT. We are saddened for your loss, but hope dear memories of your parents will keep you in comfort..May her memory be eternal.

Beautiful memories.

Freddi Smith

August 20, 2016

I was a new grad when I started working at UCONN!! I remember Nick and Cindy so well -- they were so welcoming and re-assuring, eager to share their knowledge and enthusiasm for Emergency Medicine. I learned so much from them both.
We ultimately became friends outside of the hospital and celebrated marriages, the births of our children, out door cook-outs, and friendship that will always hold a treasured place in my heart.
But most what I remember, was the sense of humor from both... it was hard to believe the extremes of humor and tragedy that we faced, and how skilled the team was at both. I am sorry for Cindy's loss, but I celebrate her life, and have great comfort knowing that she is now with her beloved Nick.
Love to the Caros' and warm embraces to all.

August 20, 2016

I knew Cindy in high school...ultimately motivated! I am glad she did all those good things because she was very capable. My very best condolences to Steve and all her family. (Jean Hom Kong died of the same thing August 4 of this year. She had more time, 5 years.) Barbara Tryon & Terry Williamson

Dennis Long

August 20, 2016

To the Caros family.
Wow... Your mom made a huge difference in the lives of many and contributed in areas that made everyone around her thankful for her and I'm sure very proud to know her. Thank God for people like your mom because without them in our world we would all be less cared for. Allison, I remember the first time I met your mom, dad, your sisters and family during the Christmas holidays in Portland when you and Jason were dating . You were all having a blast...laughing & smiling and a bunch of dogs running around while playing some game. I knew immediately that my son Jason was in very good hands and I was so happy that all of you made him a part of your family.
My prayers are with all of you and please know that your mom and dad's spirit live within all of you including your children and may you all find peace in knowing that.
God bless all of you and also know that l am here whenever you need me.
Best,
Grandpa Dennis

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