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NORTHUP, Heather Heather Northup, 35, of Herman Rd., Winsted, died Saturday, (July 7, 2007) at Campbell Falls State Park in Massachusetts. She was the wife of Charles Northup. Born in Manchester, May 12, 1972, daughter of Clark and Virginia Salling Schoonmaker of Barhamsted, she was a graduate of NW Regional 7 in 1990. She was employed by Peoples United Bank in Winsted, and had previously waitressed at several restaurants and had worked for CSI group homes in Torrington. She was an avid hiker and loved nature and animals. In addition to her husband and parents, she leaves her children, Skyler (8), Tristan (6), and Nathaniel (4) Northup; and brothers, Brian Schoonmaker and his wife Elizabeth of New Hartford and Scott Schoonmaker of Barkhamsted; grandparents, Clark and Marie Schoonmaker of Torrington; several aunts, uncles, cousins, and many caring friends. She was predeceased by grandparents John and Jean Salling. A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, July 21st, at 10 a.m. at The First Congregational Church, 837 Riverside Ave., Torrington. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to The Skyler, Tristan, Nathaniel Northup Memorial Fund, c/o People's United Bank, 200 New Hartford Rd., Winsted, CT 06098, or to The First Congregational Church at the above address.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Jul. 13 to Jul. 15, 2007.

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Ginny Schoonmaker (Mom)

May 15, 2022

Hi Heather,
I Miss You, Skyler, and Mom so much!!!
Mother´s Day this year was nice. I did not make it up to the cemetery this year for Mother´s Day (8th) or your Birthday (12th) but Nate was planning on visiting you. I hope to get up there tomorrow (Mom´s birthday - 16th) to visit you all (Mom, Dad and You). I´m working on something for a memorial for Skyler. I hope to plant flowers.

I wish you were here to see how well Tristan (He visited you last year before moving to NH) and Nate are doing but I´m sure you are keeping tabs on them just as you watch over Skyler where you are.

You would have been 50 this year; Skyler would be 23 going on 24. Tristan turned 21 and Nate is 19. Time certainly has marched on from ages 35, 8, 6, and 4. I´m trying really hard to be here and be a good "Mimi" for all my grandchildren, a good Mom to your brothers, wife/partner to your Dad and loving/caring person for all family, friends, and people in need. But, I am a work in progress. Any help from my 3 Amigas will always be appreciated.
Love, Mom

Ginny Schoonmaker

July 7, 2021

Hi Heather,
As always, July 7th is a tough day for me. I miss you so much. I miss Skyler too. Knowing that you two are together, gives me peace.

Charlie, is still in a nursing home trying to recover from a terrible automobile accident; he has a long road ahead of him. Tristan (20) and Nate (18) are coping pretty well but I wish they did not have to struggle so hard. Tristan has been trying to keep the finances together; some tough choices have had to be made; we are proud of him.

Nate's high school graduation was held on the Winsted Green next to NCCC. It was kind of fitting for this graduation, held outside due to Covid 19 constraints, to be held in the shadows of where the Gilbert School used to be located. The history, the speeches, the songs, the venue, the format (very different from the traditional graduation) were all very nicely done. Nate is a very good student, just like his Mom. He plans to go to college. We are all so proud of him.

I know both you and Skyler are proud of both boys. I wish you were here; I miss you both so much. Love, Mom

Virginia Schoonmaker

July 10, 2020

Hi Heather,
I have tried to post before with this picture when Skyler was a baby...I stopped at the cemetery on July 7th on my way home from my visit with Scott and Emaline (6) in NH. Scott and girlfriend Mel (Melodie) bought a house together. Mel has 2 teen daughters and treats Emaline as one of her own. Emaline loves her Mel Mel; I think you would have liked Mel. Emaline is coping with going between her 2 homes , OK.

Brian, Liz, Carter (11), Sophia (10), Kennedy (6) and Bentley (a very lovable dog) are doing well being home bound with COVID 19 pandemic - completing the school year at home, working from home (Brian) and going to work (Liz - essential healthcare worker).

Charlie and your boys Tristan (19) and Nathaniel (17) are doing well also. Both boys are working at McD; Tristan is a shift manager; Nathaniel juggled on-line schooling (Junior year) and work very well. I hope his dreams of getting his driver's licence and going to college come through.

It's hard to believe you have been gone 13 years and Skyler's passing is going on 4 years. Skyler would have been 22 this year. I think about you two very often, hoping you are together; I miss you so much. When a hawk flies above, I remember Skyler saying, "The hawk is Mommy; she is keeping watch over us." It was a wren that consoled me after Skyler's passing. It kept flitting around the back porch, chirping and singing; finally it hung onto the screen and peered inside as if to say, "Are you OK?" To me, Skyler was that wren, a cute, little brown bird with a beautiful song. This year, we had a nest of wren nesting in the ceiling of the back porch. They were wonderful to watch and listen to. Love, Mom

July 7, 2020

Its been 13 years today the kids and I lost you. We all miss you. And now, Skyler is up there with you. Please look down on us and help protect the boys. Miss you.

Brian

June 9, 2020

Thinking about and missing you always. My Sophia shares your spirit as I see you in much of what she does. This gives me much joy in this crazy world. All though I wish you were here, you are fortunate in some ways that you are not here to witness whats going on these days. Love you sis.

Jim T.

April 14, 2020

My deepest condolences to Heather's entire family. My name is Jim. I knew Heather from PHP in Torrington and the Log House in the early to mid 90's. I remember Heather having a a nice personality and smile. I am so sorry to hear of her passing, this many years later. I believe Heather had relatives that operated that wonderful sugar house on Saw Mill Hill Rd. I now live out of state and came across the obituary looking for a deceased friend in the Winsted / Barkhamsted area. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.

Ginny Schoonmaker

July 7, 2019

Hi Heather and Skyler,
I miss you both so much but I am comforted because I believe you two are together and that you are also with your grand/great grandparents too.

Tristan graduated; you would be so proud of him. Nathaniel is playing basketball in Summer League and is doing very well.

I wish you were here; I love you so. Mom (Mimi)

June 18, 2018

Hi Heather and Skyler,

I recently sent a message (6/24/28) but it apparently did not take.

I took Tristan, Nathaniel and Charlie out to breakfast for Tristan's belated birthday celebration yesterday (6/17/18). We had a good time. I brought an Italian Fruitcake Cake. which was really delicious. We sang Happy Birthday to Tristan with Candle, etc. Then, because Nathaniel couldn't make his birthday celebration because of basketball (I sent home a dinner and a desert with Tristan when he dined with us.), we put a candle in Nathaniel's piece of cake and sang Happy Birthday. Then, we sang Happy Father's Day to Charlie with candle etc. Kind of silly but fun..

Miss you both so much. Love, Mom and Mimi

November 22, 2017

Hi Heather and Skyler,
I have been told that I should move on and be there for the living. I miss you both very much. You are in my thoughts and prayers always.
Love Mom (Mimi)

September 29, 2017

Hi Heather and Skyler,
Well it has finally happened. I am retired. It would be far more happy if you both were here to share the moment. We were supposed to be the three Amigas, planning time and trips together. I hope I can do something beneficial with my life, I have plans, I hope I can get something done.

I really miss you two more than you can possibly know. I hope you are taking care of each other.

Love Mom/Mimi

June 24, 2017

Hi Heather and Skyler,
I just went to Nathaniel's 8th Grade Promotion Ceremony this past Wednesday; it was very nice. I took a picture of the Basket Ball Team (Nathaniel is #43) off the slide show presented before the ceremony began; it came out pretty good since the slides were moving pretty quickly. Took videos of the processional walk to the stage, classmate who sang John Lennon's "Imagine", one of my favorite songs, and Nathaniel receiving his certificate.

I snagged him as he walked off the stage to snap the attached picture. He looks proud and happy.

I am very proud of him. n; I know you are proud of him too!

I miss you both so much; there are days where it hurts so much that I can't talk to and see you in person.
Love Mom/Mimi

May 14, 2017

Hi Heather and Skyler,
I love you both very much and I miss you. My heart aches all the time; I'm really struggling trying to keep my life moving forward.

I had such high hopes of spending more time with you two in my retirement years; all retirement really means to me, at the moment, is just getting out of a very stressful work environment. I just can't seem to drum up the enthusiasm for all the new technology and cultures; I guess my mindset is just getting too old to cope.

We celebrated Tristan's "Stud 16" party at the Log House; I felt I should do something to celebrate his birthday like I did for yours and Skyler's "Sweet 16's". Kind of wish I had thought of something like this for your brothers but life was pretty churned up at that point.

Anyway, we had a few scheduling snafus but we finally pulled off his party. Auntie Paula and Uncle Rich, Auntie Elaine, Uncle Ed and Jim came. Auntie Edie had another birthday party to go to. It was very short notice by the time I called with the final plans. It was good to have people from my/our side of the family there. Met Tristan's girlfriend, Ella; she is nice. Tristan seemed to appreciate the dinner. He smiled in every picture I took; he looked happy.

I am thinking of you 2 so much today. Heather when you were born you made me a mother for Mother's Day 1972; you made my Mom a grandmother in time for Mother's Day too. Such a beautiful baby; our hearts were full to almost bursting with our love for you!

Skyler, you are and always will be my first granddaughter and very special to me. We spent A LOT of one on one time together when you were little (3 years) and before the other grandchildren came along. I wish I could have done so much better keeping our lives together when your Mom left us. Maybe things would have turned out differently. I love you and your Mom so much. It is so hard being left behind; it wasn't supposed to be this way.

Well, move on I must. I have other loved ones I need to be here for. I just hope that I can step up to the plate and do a better job going forward.

I love you both forever and always.
Mom-Mimi

March 21, 2017

Had a funny-random memory of us working at the LHR today...you always knew how to deliver a funny comment at the perfect time. Your memory lives on in my mind and heart...
Love,
Nicole

Your Wings Were Ready; My Heart Was Not

March 11, 2017

Hi Heather,

I'm pretty certain I wrote to you some time last year but it appears that it was not saved?

I went to Skyler's graduation on June 10th, 2016, the 15th anniversary of your Grandmother's death. Skyler seemed so happy and full of promise; I felt like both you and Mom were smiling down on her. Her graduation cap "Every Step is a New Adventure" was featured in the paper. I really was so happy for her and looking forward to sharing many other milestone adventures in the future.

Had a birthday luncheon for Skyler's 18th birthday at Twin Colony. I tried to contact her so many times afterward but she never responded to my texts or phone calls. It wasn't until later I found out why. I had no idea the trials she was going through but I should have know something was up. I was feeling sorry for myself and felt she just didn't have time for staying in touch with me.

To go from her graduation to 6 months later when she was suddenly gone has been totally devastating to me. I miss her so much just as I miss you, Mom and Dad so much.

I love all my grandchildren very much but Skyler was my first and very special to me. I spent so much time with her when she was little; we had a special bond. You were my first born; I had a special bond with you too. I had hoped the 3 of us would be able to do things together especially when I retired. Now I am the only one left in that dream plan.

Life is so crazy nowadays; it is not ideal for raising a child. I really wish I could have been there more for both you and Skyler. Trying to be there for others but it's really hard. There are times when I feel so empty and worthless; I'm just taking up space.

I worry about Tristan but oddly he is the one most likely to respond when I send a text to each of the boys to find out how they are doing. I attended a couple of Nathaniel's basketball games this year; it was fun.

I really hope you and Skyler are together; that is the only vision that comforts me at all.

I love you both so much.
Mom-Mimi

Brian Schoonmaker

April 28, 2015

Hey Heather, it's been a while but just know that your always in my thoughts. I miss you badly. It seems that I'll never be able to fully recover from losing you. Where as I used to be a very social, outgoing, positive person, now I'm withdrawn, keep to myself pessimist. I like to refer to it as reality. You were a great sister, friend, confidant and role model. I don't get to see the kids that often but it's nice when I do. They remind me of you and make you feel close. My kids absolutely love seeing them and I wish it was more often. Anyway, thinking if you and missing you. Love ya big sis!!

November 23, 2014

Hi Heather,
A lot has happened this year. You are in my thoughts always. I know you are around us always BUT we miss you very much!!!!
Love, Mom

February 7, 2014

Hi Heather,

Sorry it has been so long since I last wrote. Things have been hectic but that is still no excuse.

Around Christmas time, a friend of mine, Pat Delgiudice, and her sister went to talk to a medium; I was supposed to go too but could not make it.

The medium asked Pat and her sister if either of them knew a Heather. Pat said she has a friend whose Daughter's name is Heather but she died several years ago.

The medium said Heather is a beautiful, polite girl, who is patiently waiting to get a message to her mother; she has been trying for a long time; she hopes someone will deliver the message to her mother.

The message she wants to tell her Mom is that there was nothing her Mom could have done to change things.

Pat called me right away. It was a nice gift. It was good to hear that you seemed to be at peace.

I love you honey but there is nothing that would have kept me from trying. I love you so much; I love your kids; I wish there is more that I can do now.

I have shared this message only with the friends who I know believe. I would like to share with family but I'm not sure they would understand.

Thank you honey for trying to contact me; it has been almost 7 years. I'm so sorry that my heart, mind and faith was not open enough to hear. I have been in so much pain and guilt "What if..." still plagues me today.

I will try to do better but there are no guarantees.

I love you, Mom.

May 25, 2013

Hi Heather,

I miss you so much; I miss your kids too. Lives get busy; it's hard to stay connected. How does a Mimi fit in these days? I'm here if they need me; I guess that will have to be enough.

We did celebrate Tristan's birthday; he picked Scarpelli's for his birthday breakfast. Brian, Carter and Sofia joined us; the kids enjoyed seeing their cousins. I know Tristan and Nathaniel enjoyed the breakfast and spending time with us. I love all my grandkids so much; I just want them to be happy.

I cut several of your favorite flowers in the yard and brought them up to the cemetery on Mother's Day, your birthday. There was one lone tulip in bud stage; it was so pretty; was it your doing? I dug a hole close to it to hold the cup of flowers and tried to arrange the flowers around your tulip. I hope you know how much I love you; Mom and Dad too.

Love you, Mom

Charles Northup

May 12, 2013

Happy birthday Heather! And a very happy mothers day! I miss you so much and the kids do too! Things are going okay, at times. The kids are getting big as I'm sure you're watching. Skyler looks so much like you and she's such a beautiful young woman. She's having a hard day, but she had some girlfriends over for the weekend to help her stay happy. Tristan is turning 12 tomorrow... and he misses you alot. He's gotten rather blunt... reminds me of you too! Ha ha! And then Nathaniel... he's doing much better these days with school, and he's such a sweet soul. Very kind and loving.

Anyway my dear... I love you and miss you so much!

May 10, 2013

Hi Hon,

I can't believe it has been so long since I have written. Mother's Day is coming up and it falls on your birthday this year.

I usually write when I have done something significant with Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel.

Took Nathaniel out to breakfast at the Winsted Diner for his birthday; food is not that great. The kids and Charlie would have preferred Cackleberry but it was closed and they didn't want to go to McGrane's. I think the food is better there. I knitted "Nate" a hat and scarf; he was a trooper and put them on and wore them for quite a while.

I haven't planned anything for Tristan's birthday yet; I've got to get going on that.

Took Skyler to see "Sister Act" at the Bushnell; we really enjoyed it.

Brian and Liz are expecting again (in October); Carter and Sofia are 5 (in September) and 3 respectively. I took them to Build a Bear and they made their own stuffed animals. They came out cute.

Your Cousin Eddie and Amanda are having a baby girl in August; I will be a Great Aunt for the first time.

Life goes on...I really miss you; wish you were here.

Love, Mom

July 30, 2012

Hi Sweetie,

Miss you lots.

We went to the circus on your birthday; I thought it would be a great way to celebrate Tristan's birthday also. Hope you enjoyed your birthday dinner afterward at Portabello's. It was not the 40th Birthday party I would have planned for you if you were still here but everyone enjoyed it. We all miss you so much.

Been doing pretty well in keeping up with the kids' birthdays and events.

Your father and I attended Skyler's graduation from 8th grade at Gilbert. She is excited about going to Oliver Wolcott; I'm excited for her. At her ceremony, she and 2 other girls sang the "Stars Spangled Banner".

Your father and I attended Tristan's graduation from the DARE program and Class Awards ceremony. Tristan received the third place award for Science; very good since the award covered all five 5th grade classes totalling about 220 students.

We did our annual vacation at Aunt Edie's and Uncle John's cottage. In addition to swimming and a run to Kellerhaus, we took the steam train up to the top of Mt. Washington. Boy was it windy, so much so that we couldn't take advantage of all the sights at the top. The View was very foggy. When I took the Diesal train with Scott and Amoreena last May, it was the first time I had a clear view. It was spectacular.

Activities were cut short this year in NH. Lake was being treated for Millfoil which curtailed swimming. I also had to leave early because I was going to be taking Aunt Edie to the hospital that Friday for her screenings and lumpectomy. The kids visted with Scott and Amoreena and Charlie picked them up on Thursday. Hope they had a good time.

Cousin Eddie and Amanda are getting married in September. Something to look forward to.

Well, that's it for now. Love you so much. Mom

Ginny Schoonmaker

March 29, 2012

Dear Heather,

I miss you pumpkin. I'm trying to keep up with your kids.

Took the kids out to breakfast to celebrate Nathaniel's birthday and went shopping for his present afterward. We also picked out their Valentine's Day present which I delivered on Valentine's Day.

Went to several of Tristan's basketball games; I really enjoyed watching the games and seeing Tristan improve as time went on. I'm very proud of him.

Took Skyler to see the "Adam's Family", we had fun. I was supposed to go to a concert at Gilbert this past Tuesday but had to cancel because of a work deadline. Work is really hectic right now but I really regret missing Skyler's concert. It is the first one I've missed.

Scott and Amoreena have moved to New Hampshire; I'm going to try to call once a week. I'm happy for them.

Brian, Liz and the kids made me a birthday dinner. The "family" picture, which includes me, Carter drew for me is fantastic; Sophia added a couple of touches too. The flowers they gave me are still beautiful 2 weeks later; I wonder if you have something to do with that.

I really miss you; it still hurts that you are not here.

I love you so much. Mom

Charles Northup

December 18, 2011

Hey Heather! I miss you honey! Christmas is right around the corner and as usual, I'm not completely ready! Surprised? I'm not!

Gonna miss Christmas without you again... another year. But you are always with me heart and soul! Love you alot and miss you more!

Love,
Charlie

Mom

May 21, 2011

Hi Sweetie,

I miss you so much; you are my little girl. Images of you as a little girl, my first baby, my one and only daughter, mother of three precious grandchildren who you allowed me to witnes the birth of each one...all keep flashing through my head pulling at my heart. Some days it hurts so much.

Then I look at the picture of you, me and Skyler (She is around 3 years old in the black and white fuzzy dalmation spotted jacket.) in the sleigh at Christmas Village and peace washes over me. We were all smiling brightly and naturally; it was a much happier time. It makes me believe that somewhere along the way there were happy, peaceful times; life does have its successful moments.

Charlie and the kids stopped by on Mothers' Day; it was a very pleasant surprise. They had stopped on their way back from the cemetery after visiting you. They told me they had left flowers for you.

I stopped at the cemetery last night and saw the Mothers' Day card they left you. Even after five days of rain, the colors were so bright, the message still visible and beautiful and Charlie's message on the back of the card is very special thanking you for the 3 precious gifts you gave him.

It will soon be 4 years since you left us and you are still so very much in our thoughts.

I love and miss you so much. Mom

Alexandria

May 12, 2011

Good Morning Beautiful, Here I find myself again , lost in thoughts of you .... I miss you so, Mother's Day was oh so empty , and today , well today is equally as barren. I have yet to find words to describe this feeling..... there isn't a single quirky little thing that I don't miss about you! I love you so.... be at peace beautiful one! All my love , to infinity and beyond! Amb

Charlie

April 5, 2011

To my dearest...

Its been a long time... never thought to write you here! I miss your smile, your laughter, yur love and compassion! You are in my thoughts daily anson my mind constantly. The kids and I miss you terribly and wish you were with us still. I know you're here... I feel you often, whispering in my ear, your warmth and love consume me. I miss and love you Heather...

Ginny Schoonmaker

February 16, 2011

Hi Honey,

It's been almost a year since I have written. Year 2010 was kind of a hard year.

We lost Aunt Georgie and my firend Donna Cerreta is now gone. The years keep rolling along; I sometimes wonder why I am still here.

I love my grandchildren and want to be around for them but I am tired, less mobile and, I think, less creative than I used to be. I took up knitting again and made blankets for all the grandkids for Christmas. I'm not sure they all liked them but my heart went into all of them. It's the best I can do at this time.

Saw Amby around Christmas time; we went to Church and then to breakfast. She wanted to see the kids, but I just couldn't get a hold of Charlie in time...Maybe next time.

Took Charlie, Brian, Liz and all the kids to the Boarshead Festival (2011) and to a Chinese buffet afterwards; had a good time.

Helped out Janet, a friend of mine, who was in a very bad way. I gave her the pound puppy that I had given Nana when she was diagnosed with uterine cancer, and the shawl blanket that I had originally knitted for the aunts (I was going to give it to Aunt Georgie before she passed.)and a couple of other things. The pound puppy has been with her ever since I gave it to her; Janet says it has helped her out more than I know. Janet had lost the last of her dogs around Christmas time and she hasn't been quite right since. Janet is home from the hospital now but she still needs to build her strength. I wasn't ready to lose another friend yet...too soon after Donna.

Took Tristan to see the Wizard of Oz; I think he liked it. I'm supposed to take Nathaniel to see Shrek the Musical this Saturday. Skyler will be going to see West Side Story with me in May. I hope she will enjoy the music, singing and dancing.

Well, that's it for catch up for now. I love and miss you so much. Mom

February 20, 2010

Hi Sweetie,

Christmas came and went. Skyler reminded me so much of you. She put on her flap earred cap I gave her and wore Christmas bows. I thank you every day for her because she brings me so much closer to you. The boys are great; their antics keep me going.

We celebrated Nathaniel's birthday by having breakfast at Cackleberry's in Winsted. Mary Beth owns the place; she was thrilled to meet your children. She met Charlie too.

You have a new niece. Sofia Marie Schoonmaker was born on Groundhog's Day, 2/2/2010; 8.1 lbs, 18 inches. She is really cute. She reminds me of you when you were a baby with all her stretching and squealing. She's a regular Sarah Bernhart.

Carter is doing OK with sharing the limelight with his sister and Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel were fascinated to see Sofia at Super Buffet where we took Charlie to celebrate his birthday.

Well that's it for now. I love and miss you so much. Mom

Alexandria

December 28, 2009

Hey you, another Christmas come and gone and emptier than the last...Hunter and I had a very difficult time this year . The holidays just don't seem to mean anything without You and Storm . I threw myself deeper into work this year as did he, haven't even seen Mom. I've tried to keep my mind in a good place but just can't seem to get beyond the abyss of empty.God how I miss you both!!!!! all my love allways & forever Amb

November 23, 2009

Hi Heather,

Thanksgiving is coming; it is still my favorite holiday but no holiday is really special without you. I miss you so much.

I've been awfully tired lately and my spirits have been low; you probably know that; I can't seem to help it no matter how hard I try. I sure could use your help. A lot of things happen that remind me of you, things we've shared...Most memories bring smiles followed by sometimes uncontrolable tears...I miss you so much.

But, I am making new memories with all my grandchildren; memories I wish we could share like we use to...this will have to do.

Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel seem to be doing fine; they seem to be happy enough. I wish we could spend more time together; I love them so; but I have been so down lately and not feeling really great that I don't contact them unless I am somewhat at the top of my game.

Carter is so cute; he has quite the personality;I love him so. I knit Carter a blanket for his birthday; one that I hope he will drag around with him if it comforts him. I'm looking forward to the birth of his sister; her baby blanket is already finished.
I hope to make afghans for Skyler, Tristan and Nathanial eventually.

The knitting seems to help; keeps me from falling asleep in front of the TV so that I go to bed tired.

I really miss you. sweetie; I hope you are at peace. Love, Mom

alexandria carroll

October 31, 2009

It's a crappy, rainy saturday , the first one I've had off in months. I wnet on my first baby shopping adventure for Hunter and Jenna this morning. I couldn't seem to get You and Storm out of my thoughts. I am hoping this new little life wil help to fill the void in my old empty one. I miss u both so much. I threw myself into work more than ever this year , not feeling well at all but life continues to go on. It will never be the same. What I wouldn't give to hear your voices other than in my memory and dreams!!! I love You! Allways and forever... AMB

Brian

August 18, 2009

Heather,

Had the chance to spend some time with the kids the other weekend. Mom, Liz and I took them to the drive-in for a double feature. It was a beautiful night, clear & cool with a bright moon. Couldn't help but to think you were there with us! It was the first time the kids slept over since Carter was born. It was nice but rushed. We will have to do it again soon when I have more time. Time continues to pass and you come in and out of my thoughts on a regular basis. If only I could turn back time and spend even one day with you. I love you sis and miss you every day! I was thinking about how you, Bill and I used to go to Athena's in New Hartford for beer and pizza, that was our spot. It was so long ago, yet I can remember it like it was yesterday. I'm getting older and feeling even older everyday. Loosing you two has changed my life forever. I love you guy's!

alexandria carroll

July 8, 2009

Dear Heather, yesterday was the two year mark, still doesn't seem real, I miss u so.... I've been keeping extremely busy trying to fill th3e hugew voids left by you and Storm,but nothing seems to work. I wen to Skyler's recital, she is becoming a beautiful young lady, spitting image of you. Mom and I went to breakfast I wasn't myself that day , really worried about Hunter. Mom and I always have a good time. We went to church for Mothrs Day I alwaysd look forward to that. Thank you for the beauiful full moon and the daily memories. love & miss u AMB

July 8, 2009

Hi Heather,

Scott, Charlie, the kids and I just got back from New Hampshire. We had a good time inspite of the mostly rainy weather. Skyler had me tuck her into bed every night; it was a special time for us. I love her so; she reminds me so much of you.

The kids were great at playing Skipboo and Yahtze; I haven't had any game partners since Mom passed in 2001; we had a lot of fun.

Yesterday, your 2 year anniversary, was really hard for me. Scott, Brian, Liz, Carter and I went to breakfast in your honor; we all miss you so much. I was kind of listless and weepy most of the day. I played Pat Benetar's 2001 Live Concert CD during the raging thunderstorm; I knew I wasn't going to get the boom box working at the cemetery where I had planned to play it when I visited you; plus the weather wasn't cooperating.

I brought the "Walk in Peace" stepping stone back to the cemetery now that the flowers we planted had passed along with a bright bouquet of flowers; I remember how much you love flowers. I placed three little American flags (for Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel) between the stepping stone and your stone.

Your father, Brian, Liz, Carter and I went out to dinner in your honor. I was supposed to cook dinner, had everything planned, but my heart just wasn't in it. I was cold and not feeling great. I had a Kahlua coffee and managed to eat the salad and a small roll, but I had no appetite for the main meal.

I really miss you sweetie; hope you are at peace. Love, Mom

Brian

July 7, 2009

Dear Heather,

Tomorrow will mark two years since your passing and time seems to be ticking away. Carter is already 9 months old and growing every day, he is a great addition to the family! I love him so much and I make sure to tell him all about my big Sis and what she meant to me. Your children are so good with him and just adore there newest cousin. I think of you often and even more on the eve of your departure. Today was beautiful, warm all day with a cool, clear evening sky, much like the day you left. The weather has been especially nice these past few days, a much needed brake from all the rain. We will be gathering to celebrate and honor your memory tomorrow and spend time as a family. Wish you were here but know you are in spirit. Rest in Peace Heather, the family is doing well and your children are happy! They just came back from NH and looked relaxed and refreshed. Remember those days; going to NH was the greatest place in the world to be a kid. Going for early morning walks with grandma and George, or playing board games on the screened porch, there is always something to do!! Fireworks, swimming, boating, go-carts, spaghetti night and of course ICE CREAM, what a childhood! I have many great memories of you and the family in NH. I love that your kids are now enjoying what we once did and I look forward to bringing Carter there next year. I love you so much Heather and I pray that you hear me when I speak to you. Take care, I miss you!

June 16, 2009

Dear Heather,

Skyler performed beautifully at her recital this year but I'm sure you know that. She looks so much like you especially on stage. I see so much of you in her poise, mannerisms and style; she is truly beautiful and she seems happy.

Thank you for the rose (the only one blooming so far from your rose bushes you planted at our house) that I picked for Skyler; she really appreciated her gift from her Mommy.

She enjoyed the barbeque at Auntie Elaine's house for Uncle Eddie's birthday celebration (and her recital, as Skyler pointed out). Skyler raved about the food and performed acrobatics for us on the back lawn. She really has come a long way. We are all so proud of her.

I miss you so much. Love you Bunches of Love You Lots, Mom.

May 31, 2009

Hi Honey,

I know it has been a long time since I have written. Brian's last entry summed up our celebration of Charlie's birthday perfectly; it was a good day.

I felt your absence even more this year at birthdays, holidays, etc.. Carter was baptised on 3/8/09; he was so cute in his white satin suit and behaved so well. He stayed awake the whole day as if he knew it was his day of honor.

My birthday celebration was great at Brian's house then Charlie and the kids took your father and me out to dinner that night at the Super Buffet.

Amby, Gary and their friend Tracy took me out for my birthday the following weekend at Dakota's. Skyler and Tristan joined us; Nathaniel went to a birthday party. I had the kids that weekend while Charlie worked.

I think every single flower/bulb we planted at the cemetery came up; looks a little crowded but it looks nice just the same. It looks like an animal of some kind laid amongst the tulips by your stone munching on the boiled eggs Charlie and the kids left for you on Easter. You must have enjoyed that; you love animals so much.

Your birthday was hard for me this year. I miss you so much; I didn't get a card out to Mrs. M. but I will try to send her a note later. The kids seem to be doing well; she really helped them last year; I will always be grateful.

Scott took me out to breakfast the Saturday before Mothers' Day and your father took me out Saturday night.

Amby and I went to church on Mothers' Day and we received our carnations from Bonnie Houdak's daughters. It is a nice tradition that you, Amby and I started in May 2007. Who knew you would be gone so soon BUT we are keeping it alive. The service was especially nice this year because of the Children's Bell Choir and a baptism that took place on our special day.

I went to Mothers' Day Brunch at Liz's sister's house. Brian and Liz gave me a bouquet of flower's, I still have a few left today. Brian also made me a special Mother's Day Mug that I baked when I got home.

I was up at the cemetery on Mothers' Day afternoon, weeding and watering the flowers. I laid my church flower on your stone and a dark pink carnation from my Mother's Day bouquet on Mom's stone. As I was about to leave, Charlie and the kids arrived with their poster of pictures to honor their Mother. You must have been so pleased; I know I was. We anchored it in the flattened area of the tulips. It was still there on your birthday and Memorial Day Weekend. What was really nice about that day, was Skyler's picking a small bouquet of violet's for Dad's stone. She never met her Great Grandfather, but I think she sensed how important he was to you and me or maybe she just wanted to even things out. It was windy that day, and Skyler's flowers blew away. She was not deterred; she picked another handful of violets and anchored them down with a small stone. She asked me if that was OK; I told her it was fine. The dried remnants of her flowers anchored by the stone were still there on Memorial Day weekend.

I made an ice cream birthday cake for Tristan's birthday celebration, which he loved. Skyler has requested the same ice cream cake for her birthday.

I have been enjoying your kids this weekend; Charlie is working another furnace job. He seems to be doing OK.

I really miss you; I wish you were here. Love you Bunches of Love you Lots! Mom

Brian

February 8, 2009

Heather,
I thought about you a lot today as I got to spend time with Skyler and the boys while we celebrated Charlie’s Birthday. Mom and Skyler made him an ice cream cake and we all enjoyed a nice dinner. Earlier in the day Charlie and the boy’s went to the monster truck show while Skyler and mom babysat Carter. Liz and I went to see “Jersey Boy’s” complements of mom’s anniversary gift to us. What a great show, you would have loved it. The time is flying by as Carter is already 4+ months and counting. He is such a handsome little man with a great smile. Skyler is wonderful with him and I just wish you were here to share in it. I miss you so much and think about you always! Your kids are doing well and Skyler is a spitting image of you! Her looks, mannerisms, even the way she dresses reminds me of you, it’s comforting having her around! I hope you are at peace and able to see and be with us. Life will never be the same no matter how hard we try to move on with it. Your passing has left a giant hole in my life and in my heart that will never be filled! What I would do for one more day with you, to talk with you, hold you, let you know what a great influence you were in my life. Come see me sometime and let me know that you are well. I love you so much sis, rest in peace!

Alexandria

January 30, 2009

Well kid u got me again! Seems there were some grave results from my testing in Boston thet u never told me I'm guessing from the documentetion I saw last thursday from my Dr. that it was agreement not to divilge the info at the time. I agree, however not finding out until now put me in one heck of a I don't know what. I'm obivously off to Boston at some point, amd I wouldn't mind if u hung around a bit . I love ya! Thank you! I think!! xoxox Amb

Suzanne McDermott

January 12, 2009

Hi Ginny...
Just checking in on you and letting you know I am thinking of you.
I hope your holidays were okay..
Talk to you soon....Remembering your Heather!
Suzanne

January 7, 2009

Hi Heather,

The holidays were rough this year but I continued to try to do things with the kids which helped, especially when we were busy. We made Christmas cookies so that the kids could give group Christmas presents to all their relatives. We used one of the Christmas cookie making pictures I took as their Merry Christmas tags. The cookies were appreciated.

Charlie, the kids and I went to see the Riverton Theater Group's performance of "A Christmas Carol" this year and went to dinner afterward. We didn't make it to Santa's Village this year because of weather and running out of time. Our Christmas breakfast was held at Brian and Liz's house this year. Your father did his usual great job with the food. Charlie and the kids were there too so we opened Christmas gifts. The kids, especially, Skyler, enjoyed Carter; he is getting big and is really quite a character. He is 3 months old now; boy does time fly!!

The next day, we went to Eddie and Amanda's house in Rhode Island to celebrate what I call the "Salling" side of Christmas. They have a nice house and it was an adventure celebrating Christmas out of state. Charlie and the kids shared that Christmas too. I think we are all doing OK.

I don't see Amby often but we finally got together for Church last Sunday. We went to breakfast afterward to celebrate her birthday, Christmas and the New Year. She looks good and is looking forward to going back to work after having a week off. We exchanged gifts and I brought her gifts for Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel over to the house right away so that they could enjoy them before going back to school.

Charlie seems to be doing OK. I try to check in with him and the kids as often as I can to make sure things are going well. I don't want to be intrusive but I want them to know that I care.

I really miss you, Sweetie; I wish you were here. Love, Mom

alexandria

November 22, 2008

Hey you, the begining of the holiday season has arrived, thank god for the chaos of 2 jobs to deter the emotions. Hunter and I are collaborating our culinary skills again this year ( not safe for other humans in the kitchen as usual) We're trying to hang in I think we've even managed to talk Rob into coming out of his cave for the day ( no promises there) Life is so very different now so many empty spots ,pauses in conversation, wonderful ,teary eyed memories, and lots more hugs and appreciation for life. We love you and miss you so much...... aola&f AMB

November 8, 2008

Hi Punkin,

You've been in my thoughts a lot lately, more so than usual. Amby and I planted bulbs at the cemetery a couple of weekends ago. Hope they come up in their full glory when the time comes.

Went up to the cemetery this morning; I was feeling so down. Still haven't sprung back yet; one of those days I guess.

Miss you sweetie. Love, Mom

November 3, 2008

Hey lady, you;ve been restless for weeks now, what am I missing? You are showing up in dreams of people that barely know you and your bringing friends and family w/ ya.... I feel you everywhere, all the time ... what are you trying to tell me???? This time I really don't know , or do I? what am I missing? I Love you A

October 11, 2008

Hi Heather,

We had breakfast at Brian and Liz's house today. Charlie and the kids came over to meet Carter for the first time. The kids were absolutely taken with him. Charlie held Carter; you could tell he was remembering all his own babies as well as his nieces and nephews. Skyler got to hold Carter two times for a very long time. I think she would have held him forever if she could; she enjoyed him so.

I took several pictures of everyone. I even took picutres of the yard with all the fall leaves; it is such a beautiful, sunny day.

I could feel your presence; I hope you are at peace; I'm muddling through somehow. Love you, Mom

Brian

October 8, 2008

I love you Heather and I think about you always!

September 30, 2008

Dear Heather,
Carter John was born today; 10.1 pounds, 22 inches long. He is beautiful; Auntie Heather would have adored him! You should have seen him talking to his Daddy.

Seeing Carter brought back so many pleasant memories of when my babies and your babies were born. Skyler, especially, and Tristan and Nathaniel can't wait to see their new cousin!

Wish you were here.
Love you sweetie, Mom

September 28, 2008

Heather,
I miss you so much and sad memories, as well as good ones, creep in daily; mostly when I am driving to and from work, watching a show or a movie that hits home all too well.

The kids are doing OK and I love seeing them. I see you in Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel as the days go on; they are great kids.

Soon we will have another addition to the family; I know you would have loved to have met him and he will have wanted to meet you, his Auntie Heather, too. That is one thing we always had in common; we love babies.

Love you, Sweetie. Mom

September 21, 2008

Hey baby,work has been crazy but then you know that! took this second job to occupy my mind , it was a nobel thought, this time of year you just love to linger. I miss you so much, you're just everywhere. tha n you for continuously making your presence know in my world,my dreams , and my heart!!!! LOL A

August 19, 2008

Dear Heather, Things have been so crazy, you have been on my mind constantly, I miss you so! I saw Skyler last week at Hinsdale, I was talking w/ Linda Smith about Storm . She is so beautiful and a clone of her beautiful mother, she has so much of you in her. It's so hard to believe that you and Storm have left us in the physical sense, I try to find some justification , most times to no avail . There must have been a shortage of Angels in Heaven ..... I miss you both so much. LOL A

August 8, 2008

Hey you! it's been awhile , lots has happened , I just came back from aq Chevy Chase vacation from H---, as you well know , thank you for making yourself present bin so many ways , from the ominous Red tail down to the school of Dolphins in Daytona I hope you like the place I picked for you , I miss you but I have some peace now ... Thankyou!!!! xoxoxox AMB

July 27, 2008

Hi Heather,
I think about and miss you daily, especially this month.

I see you as a baby, a toddler, a child, a young adult. I see you at the Pat Benetar concert and your "sweet 16" birthday party. I see you going off to college; your 21st birthday; I see you during your turbulent times and the times you found some peace with yourself; I see you giving birth to each of your 3 beautiful children. Thank you so much for sharing those moments with your Dad and me!! I see you in emotional pain for the last couple years of your life and through it all, still giving of yourself to help others in need. I see you at the Pat Benetar concert (2007) you took me to for my birthday because you thought it would be fun to go to 20 years after the first one we went to together. I wish I could have helped you more.

I see you in each one of your beautiful children, my beautiful grandchildren - your legacy to all who love you.

I feel you watching over your children; they feel it too. We miss you so much; I miss you more than ever. Love, Mom

July 17, 2008

Thank You!!!! as always your presence has been duely noted, give my little crooked halo a squeeze!!! xoxoxoxo Amb

July 17, 2008

Hey you,Just having one of those days when I wish you were here brandishing your patience and nurturing way. I so miss you! stay close today, and work your magic, we need the team of Angels!!! xoxox AMB

July 8, 2008

Dear Heather,

I didn't have the heart to write yesterday but you were (are) in my heart and thoughts always. Spent the day with your brothers and your father; we all miss you so.
Love, Mom

suzanne mcdermott

July 7, 2008

Ginny and Family-
Thinking of you today an always....
But especially today....
Heather will be in my thoughts...
Suzanne

July 7, 2008

Heather, I recieved this from a dear friend yesterday and am passing it on to the very best friend ever known: She Who Has a Great Attitude- The way she sees it, If you want rainbows, You gotta have rain. So she pulls up her bootstraps in the storm And goes looking For puddles to play in. She brightens up every dark place... Selflessly lifting, soothing, and serving. She finds joy in the journey In both the hills and valleys...And just about everything makes her laugh! For her, laughter in the face of adversity Is the finest sound there is! She has a great attitude!!! I love you!!!!!!xoxox Me

July 6, 2008

Hey Lady, there is so much I want to say, I simply don't know where to begin. I suppose I should start with I miss you and I love you and the rest will naturally follow. I thought that the passing of time would lessen the sense of loss and emptiness, however as everything that concerns you it has only magnified.There are simply no words to describe the extent in which you impacted each and every life of which you came in contact with. The flood of memories is oh so overwhelming, all of them beautiful, as you.Mom and I went to church this morning, neither of us in wonderful shape emotionally, however hanging in there as best we can and both of us missing you so much it physically hurts. I think we've mastered that stiff upper lip facade at least for the benefit of everyone else. It seems that we both tried to find productive ways to vent our emotional frustrations throughout this weekend. Ultimately resulting A rainy Saturday spent naping. The sermon today ironically" Give "It" Up" refering to the ultimate sacrifices that God asked of his followers as a test of faith. It always seems that whatever service we choose to attend the sermon is fitting. As it always seems to leave us both with some strange sense of Peace. I look so forward to the mornings that Mom and I get together to do this , it's quite similar to so much of the time that we would spend exchanging conversation or not , just knowing that the other was there and feeling the same , welcoming words or silence whatever made the moments more comfortable. Everyone misses you so ,and I'm not sure how we've all made it to this point however I am sure that it has something to directly do with you. I can't imagine why you would stop taking care of everyone just because fo the lack of physical presence.Thank you ! for everything you continue to teach me,and continue to give,I can surely say that without your preserverance I would not be where I am today. All my love all-ways, always and forever....xoxoxox Me

Gary Scoville

July 6, 2008

Dear Heather,
I can't believe a year has gone by already. It has a empty place without you. I seem to have this hole were this wonderful person used to be. I miss your smile and your concern you had for others and most of all presence. The world is not as nice as it was when you were here. Trust me when I say, I miss you. I know we will see you again and until then, I will smile at the thought of you. Be at peace and I will see you again. I am a better man having known you, and your kids and Mom.
"Never alone, Never again"

Love,

July 5, 2008

Heather,
Your Dad and I went to the fireworks in Torrington last night. They were beautiful!! Where we sat it felt like they were raining down on us. I remember how much you loved the fireworks. Wish you were here. Love you. Mom

Brian Schoonmaker

July 5, 2008

Heather,

Thinking about you always!! Not a day goes bye that I don't think about you and how you aren't here to share in my life. I only hope that you hear me when I speak to you and know that I love you very much!! You left a big hole in our hearts with your passing. Although a year has passed it feels as if it were only yesterday that you were here. I don't think it will ever get easier only that we will get numb to the fact that you aren’t with us. I pray that you are with god and are looking over us. Skyler is like a reflection of you and it brings me much peace when I spend time with her. She shares your mannerisms and talks like you! All of your children are beautiful, loving and caring, and you would be proud to see how strong they are. You were an excellent mother and you will be forever missed. I love you!

July 4, 2008

Hi Heather,
I have tried to control my emotional breakdowns as best I can but as July 7th approaches, it has become harder to do.

Miss Lisa and company danced a dedication to you and two other parents who had passed over the year. Skyler and another student walked onto the stage and took their positions. I know it was hard for the them and I am so very proud of your little girl!!!

Skyler danced her 3 routines beautifully in both recital programs. She looked beautiful in all her costumes.

We took the kids to a family picnic at your dad's cousin's farm last Sunday. They had fun playing with the other kids, swimming and flying kites. The hayride and the golf cart rides were fun too.

Skyler and Tristan go off to camp next week. I'm hoping to do something with all 3 kids before camp and then I'm hoping to have Nathaniel for an overnight while they are at camp. We'll see how things work out.

Brian and I are planning to spend the day together on July 7th. Not sure what we will do other than help each other to get through the day. We miss you so much.

Love, Mom

July 2, 2008

Dearest Heather, Thankyou !!!! such a simple term to show appreciation for the infinite expressions of heart , mind , body , and soul. I wish you were here,I miss you so.....

A Carroll

June 29, 2008

My dearest Heather,It has been almost a year now , a very long year.I miss you so.... I see you in everything. The kids are growing so rapidly, and are so beautiful. Skyler is turning into quite the little lady she was wonderful in the recital this year,and the boys are getting so big.Tristan has filled right out and Nathanial is quite the character. Charlie is doing a great job with them. Life is not the same without you,just kind of like going through the motions.I see Mom as often as our schedules permit and I try to e-mail her daily, she's an amazing woman and a wonderful friend. She has helped me to keep what little sanity I have left and has been there in every way. God how I miss you.I only hope that you've finally found the peace you so desperately sought.all my love always and forever........

Suzanne McDermott

May 13, 2008

Hi Ginny,
I decided to check Heather's guest book and leave a message on our mutual birthdays. As you know, my mom also got a special Mother's Day gift on the Friday before Mothers Day in 1972!
I thought alot about you today...thought about how you and my mom were doing the same thing at the same time 36 years ago and how hard this day must be for you. I said a little prayer this morning for Heather before I even got your lovely e-mail.
Thank you for thinking of me on a day that I am sure brought you sadness. I know it must have been hard.
Happy Birthday Heather and also, Happy Birthday on the 13th to your sweet grandson.
With love,
Suzanne

May 12, 2008

Heather,
Today is your birthday!! Scott and I went to the cemetery to plant flowers. I saw the collage of pictures that Charlie and the kids left; I was so happy.

I planted Heather, pink, not the purple you were named for. It was the story of Heather that was attached to the plants that captured me:

The Story of Heather…

When the world was created, the hillsides were bare and it was decided that a plant was needed to beautify the slopes.

The giant Oak, strongest of all trees, was asked but he declined saying that the soil was too shallow for him to take root and flourish.

Then the yellow-flowered Honeysuckle was asked if she would spread her beauty and fragrance throughout the hills. She too, refused because there was nothing in the inhospitable terrain against which she could grow.

The Rose, sweetest of all the flowers, was the next choice. However she explained that she would not be able to survive the hillside’s bitter winds and driving rain.

Then a small low lying green shrub with tiny petals, some purple, some white, was chanced upon.

It was Heather!

The Heather was asked, “Will you grow upon the hillsides to make them more beautiful?”

The Heather reflected on the poor soil and harsh climate and was not sure whether she could do the job; but, to the delight of all, she replied that if they wanted her to try, she would do her very best.

They were all so please with Heather that they decided to bestow three gifts upon her.

* The strength of the Oak – the bark of the Heather is stronger than that of any other tree or shrub.

* The fragrance of the Honeysuckle – the Heather’s gentle fragrance is used to perfume soaps, potpourris and cosmetics.

* The sweetness of the Rose – the sweetness of the Heather makes her one of the bee’s favorite flowers.

And to this day Heather is renowned for these three gifts as she fulfills her task.

Isn’t this story so beautiful? It reminded me so much of you, honey.

Love, Mom

May 12, 2008

Dear Heather,
Yesterday was Mothers' Day; I missed you so much. I miss your cards filled with Skyler's, Tristan's and Nathaniel's pictures that you gave me at Christmas, on my Birthday, but most of all, on Mothers' Day. We always cheered each other on Mothers' Day.

We had a nice time at the Mothers' Day brunch at Liz's sister's house.

Charlie, the kids, Brian, Liz and I went to the Circus on Saturday. We had a good time. Amby, Hunter and their friend, Tracy, was there also. Amby said that Hunter had a really great time.

Love you and miss you. Mom

Ginny

May 4, 2008

Dear Heather,

It has been a while and a lot has happened. Amby, Gary, Skyler, Nathaniel and I met for my birthday breakfast on 3/15/08. We were so happy to see each other. The kids were great. Tristan was at a Cub Scout function so he was unable to join us. Amby is doing great; but you probably already know that and are so very proud of her.

I took Skyler and Nathaniel Easter shopping; Skyler asked if I would; I was glad that she wanted to keep the tradition alive. We met up with Tristan and Charlie at Wal-Mart so that I could shop for Tristan as well. They all had their pictures taken with the Easter Bunny; we went for a light lunch at Applebee's afterward.

Brian arranged a birthday celebration for me at Monaco's; Auntie Cheryl, Uncle Don, and Charlie and the kids were there too. I really had a great birthday BUT I wished you were there. Easter was OK; wished you were there.

Your memorial stone is in finally; it has been a long winter.

Now, Mothers' Day and your birthday are coming up. You were my first born and you came just in time to make me a mother for Mothers' Day 1972...my beautiful little girl with auburn hair and and violet blue eyes.

I hope I can be strong enough for the kids and so many others who mean so much to me; BUT I miss you so much it hurts.

Love you, Mom

February 24, 2008

Hi Heather,
Just checking in...We celebrated Charlie's birthday, Valentine's Day,had the kid's overnight (2/17/08). Amby, Hunter and I went to brunch (2/10/08) and caught up a bit. It was great to see them. We're managing but we all miss you so much. Love, Mom

February 23, 2008

Hi Heather,
I miss you so much. I try to do what I think you would want me to do for the kids and people we care about.
Your father and I took Charlie and the kids out for Charlie's birthday. The kids were so cute.
I took Charlie and the kids out for dinner on Valentine's Day after parent/teacher conferences. The kids love the stuffed monkeys I gave them along with the candy hearts and special chocolate.
I met Amby and Hunter for breakfast brunch the following Sunday to catch up. It was great to see them.
I had the kids overnight the next Sunday (2/17/08). Skyler and I made pancakes the next morning and the kids and I played the Driedle Game a friend from work gave me. We did a little sliding. We had a lot of fun but we miss you. Love, Mom

February 23, 2008

Hi Heather,
I miss you terribly but I keep trying to do what I think you would want me to. Your father and I took Charlie and the kids out for Charlie's birthday. The kids were cute; we had a good time. I took Charlie and the kids out to dinner for Valentine's Day after their parent teacher conferences. The kids love the stuffed monkeys I gave them along with their candy hearts and special chocolate.
I met Amby and Hunter for breakfast brunch the following Sunday to catch up. It was good to see them.
I had the kids overnight the next Sunday(2/17/08). Skyler and I made pancakes the next morning and the kids and I played the Driedle Game a friend of mine from work had given me. We did a little sliding. We had fun but we miss you. Love, Mom

February 2, 2008

Hi Heather,
Last Saturday, the Derby Car race was held. Tristan's car did fine; it didn't place but it did fine. Took the kids to lunch at Applebee's; they enjoyed it. They stayed overnight at Uncle Brian and Auntie Liz's house and had a good time. You probably know all this because you are still watching over them. I just need to write it down to let us all know we are doing OK. Love and miss you so much. Love, Mom.

January 19, 2008

Heather,
We made it through Christmas. Held our traditional Christmas breakfast at your house so that the kids didn't have to go out and could be themselves. They are doing OK; we are doing OK but we miss you so much. Took the kids to a Mass. farm for some sliding. They got to ride snow mobiles too; they had a great time. We are planning to celebrate Nathaniel's birthday tomorrow afternoon. I wish you were here. Love, Mom

December 14, 2007

Dear Heather,
I miss you so much. Thanksgiving was tough and Christmas will be even tougher. We lost Grandpa and Grandma Schoonmaker too but you probably already know that. The kids are doing as well as can be expected. Tristan's teacher is helping all of them a lot. You gained a very good friend in her. She has even checked in on your father and me. I wish you were here. Love, Mom

August 29, 2007

Skyler, Tristan and Nathaniel...

I am so sorry Mommy has gone to heaven at such a young age; she loved you very much and is still watching over you. Please talk freely about your Mommy and what you are feeling. You have so many people who love and want to be there for you.

I love you,

Mimi

Cheryl Heins

July 24, 2007

Heather was a classmate of mine at Regional #7. I'm saddened to hear of her accident. I also remember her working at the Log House and just recently was happy to see her at Peoples Bank. I hope you will contact me if you need anything in Heathers honor.She was a very hard worker and a wonderful person.

anonymous

July 14, 2007

heather was our neighbor and our children's babysitter.
she was a bright kid with a sunny disposition.
prayers for the dearly departed and the loved ones left behind.

Barbara Salling

July 14, 2007

Dear Ginny,
My heart goes out to you and to Heather's family. I will keep you all in my heart and prayers. Sending much love.

Suzanne McDermott

July 13, 2007

Ginny and Family-
I just heard the terrible news about Heather tonight. I am so sorry for your incredible loss. I remember speaking to you when I was at LFG about your grandchildren and was so saddened to hear the news about their mom. Coincidentally, I share the same exact birthdate as Heather, so I feel especially moved by her all too soon passing. I will keep your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. Bless you all.

anonymous

July 13, 2007

We miss Heather and remember her from her days as a waitress at The Log House Restaurant in Barkhamsted. We will miss her warm and friendly personality that touched everyone she met.

Dorothy Fernsten

July 13, 2007

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.I babysat HEATHER while Grandma Jean was the life guard at our local pond. She was much LOVED and will be missed by many. Dorothy Fernsten formaly of Hartland

Janet (Big Mouth Dog) Box

July 13, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family at this time.

God bless you!!!

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