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Andrew Fischer
July 17, 2023
I remember Fred from his freshman year at Central High; he sat behind me in Mr. Lucash's biology class. He seemed like the nicest kid anyone could ever meet. We weren't really friends, but friendly, and I felt sorry he'd left Central after that first year. I was intrigued by a charismatic, older lookalike on TV c.2000, thought it might be him, and soon it was confirmed. What a great career; he sure came a long way from that kid in freshman biology. I'm very sorry he's gone.
cass smith
August 7, 2013
GOD bless your soul. You were one man who did the work of several. You kept the company intact. I miss your smile and jokes. What an awesome man you were. The company will never be the same.
August 5, 2013
To Freddys family,
I am one of Freddys cousins, long out of touch, living out of state. I just googled him because I was just thinking about him for some reason. I did not get to see him except for funerals as an adult, but I always remember the fun we had as children, when his parents had parties, and all of us cousins would go to the basement and have fun. Freddy was the most funny, always telling jokes and being silly. He was the least serious of his brother and sisters, and I am proud to see what accomplishments he made as an adult.
I'm so sorry for your loss, he was taken so young.
Stephanie D'Amico Chiavaroli
December 16, 2012
Rest in Peace Fred
Howard Sobel
December 14, 2012
In honor of a very special person.
December 13, 2012
Fred was a very special person to me he allways had a smile on his face and a kind word to share. He has been gone for quite some time now but that goes to show when you leave such an impact on someones heart you are never forgotten. It is December 2012 and it feels like just yesterday he departed from us. Fred was such a loving and compassionate person his spirit will be a part of IBC forever!
Dana Hampton
North Carolina
George & Marianne Lobley
January 13, 2006
Silvia, Christine, Brian, Freddie, & Kim,
A year has past since Fred has left us. As we all continue to go forward, know that Fred is watching from a place he so deserving of and that we all hope to be. So proud of what you have done to honor his name and memory.
We hope you find comfort in knowing that all those who knew Fred were touched for life by his caring and compassion and are a much better person then those who never did.
Love,
Sheila Hess
January 11, 2006
It's truly unbelivable to know that a year has gone by since Fred's passing. We miss your Dad more and more.
We want to let you all know that we are thinking of your family today and admire the amazing strength you have shown during this challenging year.
Fred will be (and is) so proud to know all that you are doing for the community to continue his passion and caring for helping others, through your creation of Fred's Footsteps.
Thank you for allowing me to be part of such an incredible organization.
We love you Fred and are thinking of you today when you left us on Jan. 11, 2005!
May God continue to bless you and give you everlasting strength and happiness together to help keep Fred's spirit alive.
With many prayers,
Sheila & Michael Hess
Belinda Young
January 10, 2006
G.Fred was a wonderful person to work for and with. I had the pleasure of meeting him when I did the diabetes walk-a-thon in 2002.
MARY ANN HILDENBERGER
April 26, 2005
IBC IS NOT THE SAME SINCE HE HAS GONE, YET WHEN YOU WALK INTO 1901 HE IS EVERYWHERE, WATCHING OVER ALL OF US.
Chuck Ferro
March 8, 2005
I was deeply saddened to hear of Fred's passing while I was out on leave. Fred was a great man and I admired and respected him tremendously. He will be missed. I will especially miss his leadership and friendly encouraging spirit. My prayers and condolences are with his family.
Sheila Hess
February 20, 2005
Happy Birthday Fred!
We just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you today, and am praying for your family.
May God Bless the DiBona family ALWAYS!
We miss you so much Fred!
We love you.
Sheila & Michael Hess
Thomas McClure
February 3, 2005
I was so very distressed to hear that Fred had passed away. The news reached me about two weeks ago as I was leaving on a trip ... and it honestly stopped me in my tracks. How terrible, how unfair I thought. He was so young and so full of life ... and Philadelphia needed him so. I only knew him in business: Independence Blue Cross was a client of The McClure Group for over 10 years and Fred (God bless him) was one of my sponsors when I first joined the Union League. I will truly miss his smiling face and the opportunity to say hello. It must be true our maker takes the good ones first. In Fred's case, he took one of the very best.
God be with you all.
Tom McClure
Jason Born
January 21, 2005
Dear Christine and the DiBona Family,
I recently received an email from Sarah telling me about your loss. I only met your father once(engagement party) but you would have thought we were friends from childhood. Your dad made me feel so welcomed and comfortable that I truly did not want to leave your house that night. Never in my life have I met a person only once and had them have such a positive influence on my life. Your father was an amazing man and I only wish I could have spent more time with him. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
John McDowell
January 21, 2005
To Sylvia, Fred Jr., and Christine
I would like to extend my deepest sympathies on behalf of the partners and staff of Weaver C. Barksdale & Associates. It has been a joy and privelage to work for Independence Blue Cross, and have the opportunity to know Fred over the past six years.
A business relationship grew into a meaningful friendship. Fred's genuine concern for others is reflected by the outporing of love and symphathy during this time of grief and sadness. In the words of James Allen, a 19th century Englishman,"As a man thinketh in his heart so is he". Fred's heart embodied goodness and for that he will be remembered. I was proud to call Fred DiBona my friend.
With deepest sympathy,
John McDowell
Meg Kane
January 19, 2005
To Christine and the DiBona Family,
I am deeply saddened by your immense loss. For you personally, I cannot and would not presume to know how you feel but I know that your father he will be remembered as a wonderful example of both personal kindness and social commitment. He will be truly missed.
Christine, I wanted you to know that one of the great honors of my young life was to be introduced to speak by your father at the Union League in 2002. I was nervous to speak and as I approached the podium he shook my hand, wished me luck, and told me I would be great - and at that moment reassurance was exactly what I needed. I believe your father had an uncanny ability to know exactly how to put people at ease. After my speech, we chatted about you and well you were doing at college. He was immensely proud of you and that shone through, especially in our conversation.
I wish you all the best as you continue to heal from this loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you throughout this very difficult time.
Jacqui Felici
January 18, 2005
To Christine and the DiBona Family,
Although I never met your father, I can tell that he was loved by all and through his pictures I could see that he always brightened up a room with his smile. He will be missed and never forgotten. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Zimm
January 18, 2005
To the DiBona Family:
Although I didn't know Fred personally, everyone at IBC "knew" Fred. He was famous for his ready smile, comical wit, compassion and caring. But he was also highly respected for his leadership, guidance and unfailing faith in all of us. You didn't have to be personally acquainted with Fred to have been touched by his goodness. On those rare occasions in the hall or elevator when one did get to chat with him, he was always interested and attentive, as if you were the only person that mattered. He had a special way about him, and that specialness found its way into the hearts and minds of the IBC family. Fred will be greatly missed on many levels by many people. I consider myself fortunate to have been a part of his world, and he a part of mine.
May the love you shared remain with you, and may the care of family and friends bring you gently to a place of hope and comfort.
God bless you all.
Carol Chamberlain
January 18, 2005
As an employee of IBC for nearly ten years it was and Honor and Priviledge to have worked for Mr. DiBona.
"Fred" as we affectionately called him was a Gentleman and a Scholar who will be sorely missed.
Fred's shoes will be hard to fill.
May God bless the Family, and the IBC family
Jennifer Gibson
January 18, 2005
Dear Christine and DiBona Family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I only had the chance to meet your father once and what I remember the most, was his smile. May you smile at the lives your father touched both directly and indirectly. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Jen Gibson
Cat Lambert
January 18, 2005
Dear Christine and Family - I cannot begin to imagine your family's grief. Carrie and I attended your father's funeral on Friday; your eulogy contained so much love and adoration – I will forever admire your strength. I know we have not kept in contact, but you are ever present in my thoughts and heart. I will end this short note with a thought and poem from Mr. Small’s English class. Your father lived a life that wouldn’t stop for death – death had to stop for him. His amazing spirit and energy for life will always remain in you and your family.
Love always,
Cat
Emily Dickinson (1830–86) - Part Four: Time and Eternity - XXVII
Because I could not stop for Death, He kindly stopped for me; The carriage held but just ourselves
And Immortality.
We slowly drove, he knew no haste,
And I had put away - My labor, and my leisure too, For his civility.
We passed the school where children played - At wrestling in a ring; We passed the fields of gazing grain, We passed the setting sun.
We paused before a house that seemed - A swelling of the ground;
The roof was scarcely visible, The cornice but a mound.
Since then ’t is centuries; but each - Feels shorter than the day - I first surmised the horses’ heads Were toward eternity.
Carrie Denny
January 18, 2005
To the DiBona family,
Christine, when I think of your father, I think of you and I, standing without a date in Notre Dame's gym during the Father Daughter dances, and knowing immediately that we would find our fathers together, in the corner of the cafeteria, chatting and having a fabulous time without us! Every year, the same thing.
I have been thinking of you and praying for your family since I heard the news, and was impressed and touched in the back of the church when you spoke at his funeral. I'm not sure how I could have gotten through that.
My prayers and thoughts will continue, and I wish you luck in your impending marriage, knowing that you will take your father's love with you on that day, and as you become a family.
All the best,
Carrie
Alex Bogle
January 18, 2005
Dear Christine and the DiBona family, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Joe Kennedy
January 18, 2005
To the family of G. Fred DiBona,
I remember Fred on the elevators at the IBC building and at various meetings. What I remember is his smile and his sense of humor. He was genuinely funny! I often thought he could be a stand-up comedian and do better than most of them! His humor combined with his intelligence, creativity and vision made him a truly human leader. I am sorry for his passing, we are all poorer for his loss and yet richer for having known him. My condolences and prayers.
Joe Kennedy, IBC associate
Cynthia Swinton
January 17, 2005
Dear DiBona Family,
Please know that literally thousands are praying for your comfort at this difficult time. I can only speak for myself, (and maybe a few of my friends at work) when I say that we "loved" G Fred DiBona. Not only because he signed the paychecks , but because he was a very lovable person. Not to mention a leader personified and the best CEO that I have ever had the pleasure of working for. I am glad to know that he is no longer in pain and is resting with the Lord. But I will (as will so many others) miss him sorely. I pray that the legacy of greatness that he left behind comforts all of you now and for the times to come. May God bless and keep you all.
Sheila (Squillante) Hess
January 17, 2005
Sylvia, Freddie & Kim, and Christine & Brian,
What can I say, I am at a loss for words (and that is a first ;-) on how to describe what your husband and Dad has meant to me.
Fred holds such a special place in my heart from the first time I met him 13 years ago when I started working at IBC. I have so many beautiful memories and there just aren't enough adjectives to begin to describe how genuine of a person he was. He was absolutely committed to every project he set out to accomplish and came out in the end a success. We all learned so many lessons from Fred as a person and as a business executive. I was so blessed to not only get to know Fred during my career at IBC, and through external events in the community, but I was also honored to have the opportunity to meet his beautiful family whom Fred adored. I always admired and respected how Fred put his family first no matter what he was involved in. To me, that says everything about what kind of person Fred was.
I'll never forget the beautiful event when Fred was honored with the William Penn award, and Freddie and Christine surprised their Dad with a special presentation skit. He was just so proud of you, and it gave us a chance to get to know your Dad better. You definitely follow in your Dad's footsteps with your excellent presentation skills and public speaking ability. You even have his wit.
The DiBona family was always the definition of a picture perfect family that consisted of so much love, and respect for one another. I grew so fond of all of you and was so proud to say that I could call you my friends. I love all of you and think of you constantly.
The amount of love and support that was shown to you during the viewing and funeral mass for Fred was absolutely overwhelming! But if this outpouring support helps to heal your loss and pain any quicker, then you will be cured with strength to focus on the many happy times you have to come in your family.
Fred made me feel so incredibly special everytime he saw me, and it is a feeling that I will treasure always. He always believed in me, and I hope I can begin to lead in his footsteps even a little bit.
The most recent memory my husband, Michael Hess, and I have is of Fred and Sylvia attending our wedding on Oct. 2, 2004. This is a memory that we will cherish forever!
I feel so honored to have Fred enter my life, and I thank God for that blessing. He was truly my role model, mentor and an inspiration to us all. I know he will always be my guardian angel.
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time in your life.
I love you, and remember we are always here for you, and that IBC will forever be your home!
May God bless you and Fred,
Shaunessy Reidy
January 17, 2005
To Christine and the DiBona Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Michael Hess
January 17, 2005
Sylvia, Freddie and Christine,
I wish I could say I knew Fred better than I did. Other than the few hello's at some events and in the lobby at IBC. I only knew Fred as an incredible leader at IBC who was overwhelmingly respected in the community, but more importantly, as someone who had a special friendship with my wife Sheila (Squillante) Hess.
I was lucky enough to witness first hand what that friendship meant to him when Fred and Sylvia attended our wedding just 3 short months ago. For someone who was in as much pain as he was that day, to sit through a long afternoon mass and then an evening at our reception just to show how much he thought of my wife spoke volumes to me of what kind of man Fred was. We will always feel honored that he did that for us and was there to share in our special day. Fred will always be remembered by us!
With my deepest sympathy,
Michael Hess
Eddie Lubicky
January 17, 2005
Christine, Brian, and the DiBona family, my deepest sympathies for your loss. I'm sorry I never had the chance to meet your Dad but I can tell how many lives he impacted in a positive way just by reading the notes left here. God bless.
Kevin & Tricia O'Gorman
January 17, 2005
To the DiBona Family,
We met in Hawaii on the Perillo Tour. My husband, Kevin, was the "mayor" who always wore the Yankee cap. Even in the short time we got to know your lovely husband and father, we could sense what a truly warm and caring person he was. We were truly saddened at hearing of his loss. We hope that this and other notes will bring some comfort to you in this difficult time.
Meg Russell
January 17, 2005
I work at IBC in the IT department. My thoughts and prayers are with you. You should be so proud of your loved one. He touched so many lives in so many different ways. Thank you for allowing us to pay our respect, and let us partake in such a private time . The line at the viewing seemed to go on for miles. Although I did not have direct contact with Fred, It was important for me to go and pay respect to the man that has built a company that has given me so much.
I hope that you find comfort in God and know that he will only give you what you can handle
Justine and Joe Medeiros
January 16, 2005
Sylvia and Children,
We are so deeply saddened to hear of Fred's passing away. Although the years have separated us, the memories we have of our high school and college days together do not pass with time or distance. Perhaps we are among the few who remember your first meetings with Fred, his zeal for the protection of the South African diamond mine workers, and his generosity of spirit for all of us. (Sylvia, my parents send their deepest sympathy as well - my mother remembers Fred seated in our living room laughing and talking with my father and is heartbroken to learn this news.) It is too soon in our lives to share this experience with you - it is a piece of our own selves passing with Fred from our lives. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and we wish you peace of heart, mind and spirit. We trust Fred will be with all of you as he was in life to fill you with his strength, courage and love.
Our love to you and your family,
Justine and Joe Medeiros
Vince Carbone
January 15, 2005
To the DiBona Family,
I was very sorry to hear about the passing of your husband and father. As a member of the Blue Cross/Blue Shield family in PA, I have followed Mr. DiBona's remarkable career over the years and was saddened by the news of his death.
You are all in my prayers.
Cassandra Smith
January 15, 2005
I began working for IBC in June 1990 and I remain there as an associate today. It was heart breaking to hear of Mr. DiBona's passing.
I have seen all of the changes and growth IBC experienced under his leadership and I must say it has all been positive and inspiring.
Not many employees of large organizations experience and benefit from the vision of their CEO. The IBC family of Companies is strong with loyal associates.
I have seen Mr. DiBona on the elevators and at business briefings. I am glad to have had the opportunity to hear his voice and his jokes. He was a leader and one to receive a high amount of respect.
I will pray for his wife, family, children, and friends who continue to mourn the loss of such as great human being.
Lou Gana
January 15, 2005
Fred and the DiBona Family,
My deepest condolinces to you and your family. Your father and your family will be in my prayers.
Sincerely
Lou Gana
MP'98
Colleen Plattowski
January 15, 2005
To the DiBona Family,
While I have been with IBC for the last 3 years I never was fortunate enough to have met Fred personally. My memories are of elevator rides, passings in the hallway and the annual meetings. One thing that you could always count on, was Fred's smiling face and his easy manner with everyone. When I was waiting in line outside the Cathedral on Thursday night for my chance to pay my respects, I kept thinking how lucky we all were to have had him in our lives. He was the exception to what has become the rule today. Too often we hear news of top executives who are guilty of wrong doing, but with Fred there were never enough nice and kind words that could be said about him. He truly was the President and CEO that everyone would have loved to work for and I thank God that I was fortunate enough to work for such a man.
May God bless all of you in this time of sorrow and know that Fred is up there smiling down on all of us.
Kimberly Umberger
January 15, 2005
Christine & Brian,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. We will pray that you continue to have strengh through this difficult time.
Love, Kimberly & Logan
calvin gillespie
January 15, 2005
mrs. dibona, freddy, chris, kim and brian,
saddened and honored. couple of words i have felt this week. saddened that such a great and caring man to so many has been taken from all of us too soon. honored to have known him personally. when you think about your husband and dad think of the thousands from all walks of life that were there to celebrate his passing. not a dry eye in the house. he was and is a true inspiration on how to lead your life. the 'g' in g. fred stands for the 'greatest'. that is what he is. we are here for you always. we love you guys...
'calvin'
ps-where is my stinkin pineapple juice!!!
pps-g. fred, take the birds and the points this week...they owe us...
James Falco
January 14, 2005
Dear Mrs. DiBona and Family:
As a 22 year employee of IBC, I feel I am a fortunate person to have known G. Fred DiBona, not only as the CEO and leader of our company, but even as far back as a student in South Philadelphia.
To all of the employees of the IBC Family of Companies, G. Fred DiBona was a rare combination of a great leader and a great human being. He was a person who you knew in your heart was concerned about the welfare of people and their families, as he repeatedly proved to us through his actions and not just words.
Put simply, G. Fred DiBona was truly a great man, and he will be missed by all.
Betsy Wenzel Marple
January 14, 2005
To the Di Bona Family-
My deepest sympathy to the entire family over your loss.
Fred was kind ,and had a great sense of humor; his brilliance and his vision, tremendous! He built IBC, which afforded many of us an opportunity to share in his dreams.
I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to be part of his Blue Cross "Family" of Companies.
Carolyn Johnson
January 14, 2005
Dear Mrs. DiBona and Family,
Please accept my condolences on the lost of your husband and father. I will truly miss his smiling face at IBC, especially at the Holiday Parties. I think Fred got a kick out of taking pictures with all the associates. He always had a conversation for you on the elevators. I was blessed and proud to work for a company that Fred spearheaded. Not only was he a wonderful CEO, he was a wonderful human being. The attendance at his Viewing and Funeral Mass was truly a testimonial to what kind of person he was. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers.
God Bless, and Thank Your for sharing Fred with his IBC Family.
Sincerely,
Carolyn Johnson
Natalie Ryan
January 14, 2005
Christine, Sylvia, and Fred:
In the brief moments I shared with Fred, I came to know how great a man he truly was. Not only was he a loving husband and father, he was a kind soul who touched so many lives in the community. On the night of Fred's passing, I spoke with a friend in the medical field who shared that he had only met Fred on one occasion, but it was a moment he will always remember as Fred's presence was so captivating. Fred brought so much light into the lives surrounding him. May that light shine on in your memories.
Nancy Shoudy
January 14, 2005
Over the years, I had the opportunity to meet Fred through various business, social and charity functions. He will be remembered as a legendary success in the healthcare delivery industry. However, his caring for others, as well as the tremendous respect that he earned from the masses, will be the most memorable of his many achievements to me.
Nancy A. Shoudy
Bari Simpkins
January 14, 2005
I extend my deepest sympathy to the DiBona family. Though his voice may be silenced the echo still remains. I pray that God’s love will bless and keep you during this difficult time.
Naketa Mullins
January 14, 2005
Fred DiBona was a wonderful man.
He made Independence Blue Cross a wonderful place to work for more reasons than one.
There aren't many people who know what their CEO looks like. I was blessed enough to be able to share a moments laughter with mine. Fred had a way of always making you feel important.
Although he is gone. He surely will not be forgotten.
Camille Whitley
January 14, 2005
I started off working for Ibc as a temp in Executive Inquiries. I worked as a clerk and made several trips to the 45th floor everyday. On rare occassions I would see Mr.DiBona, and he would always greet me with a kind word. He mentioned to me that it was always good to see such a pleasant face. One day he visited Executive Inquiries when I was about to go out on short term disability. He wished me a 'healthy' recovery. When I returned to work, he seemed glad to have me back.I was really impressed that he took the time to remember me. The most amazing thing in all my conversations with him, was that he noticed my absence from 1901 after I had been in VF for so many years. In a company so grand, he made me feel special. I will always miss him, and continue to keep his family in my prayers.
Betty Y. Washington-Simms
January 14, 2005
The DiBona Family
As I reflected today on the many wonderful and positive things about Mr. DiBona, I immediately recalled when he first started at IBC in 1990. Mr. Dibona went to each and every floor in the company and shook each and every associate's hand. I knew right then and there , we had a winner!
We are all so grateful to have known him. His spirit will live on at IBC for a very long time. I pray the Lord grant you all strength and peace.
Wendy Pringle
January 14, 2005
To the DiBona family
May god be with you at this time. Please remember and never forget what a great and special man G. Fred was to alot of people. Although I did not know him personally but when you saw him on the elevator he always had a smile and a kind word to say.
Alishia Curran
January 14, 2005
Christine and DiBona Family,
My deepest condolences during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Father Michael Olivere
January 14, 2005
I did not have the pleasure of knowing Fred personally, but his generosity to our entire Catholic school system here in Philadelphia through BLOCS and to Sylvia's alma mater, Saint Maria Goretti High School, in particular, is legendary. I was honored to be present for his Funeral Mass today in the Cathedral. What a wonderful tribute to a life so beautifully lived!
Sylvia, you and Christine and Fred are very much in the thoughts and prayers of every student and faculty member here at Saints John Neumann and Maria Goretti High School. May God bless you and keep you and may you experience the consolation which only He can give.
Millie Simpson
January 14, 2005
To the DiBona Family:
I have worked for IBC for almost seven years and from my first introduction to G. Fred DiBona, I was impressed and in awe. It was clear that he held great respect for those he met and a desire to help those less fortunate.
I pray for Fred to be at peace and for your family to experience God’s loving embrace in your time of sorrow. I pray also for all of us to be able to continue G. Fred DiBona’s mission to continue to respect each other and assist those in need.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Zenovia Martin
January 14, 2005
My Prayers and Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the entire DiBona Family. From Your Friend at IBC.
Karin McGarry-Rosen
January 14, 2005
To the DiBona Family;
My thoughts are with you today. Although I have not met Fred in the 3 ½ years that I have been employed at IBC, he is a legend here. From the stories that I have heard, I can tell that he was a remarkable man. May you take comfort in knowing that he is at peace.
Monterry Luckey
January 14, 2005
To The DiBona Family,
May GOD Bless you in your time of sorrow. May you take comfort in knowing that Fred was a Blessing to anyone and everyone he came in contact with.
I had the opportunity to have many small conversations with Fred and even take some pictureswith him (as have many other associates). We all felt special. His presence was electrifying, yet his spirit was so very humble.
I count it a privilege and an honor to have known him. Thank you for sharing him with us!
May you find comfort in the following scripture 2Thes 2:16 & 17.
GOD Bless you all.
Rita McKay-Hutchinson, IBC - Human Resources
January 14, 2005
Life brings tears, smiles, and memories: the tears dry, the smile fades, but the memories live on forever. I'm sure you know as we all do that Fred's memory will live on forever.
My deepest sympathies go out to Sylvia, Christine and Freddy. Always remember, whether it is today or six years from now he will always be with you.
Don McDonough
January 14, 2005
Dear Sylvia and the DiBona Family;
Very little can be added to all of the wonderful tributes and expressions of love and affection we all had for Freddie
I had the distinct pleasure of knowing both Father ("Daddy!") and Son very closely as a buddy and also as a reporter for The Philadelphia Inquirer.
I had many occasions to cover Judge DiBona's Courtroom and later spent pleasant times at the beach with Freddie and friends long after The Inquirer when Fred was Director of the Philadelphia Port Corporation.
Fred always befriended me and treated me--as he did everyone else--with dignity and as an equal.
Personally, I'll miss him and regret that I didn't have a chance to say goodbye before his untimely passing.
With love and respect,
Don McDonough
Shane Masserd
January 14, 2005
To the Dibona Family,
My many prayers are with you during your time of sorrow. I've had the pleasure of working for IBC for 5 years and have met and talked with Fred on few memorable occasions. He had the distinct ability to captivate his audience with his charm and charisma. There will never be another quite like G.Fred DiBona. He was a one-of-a-kind individual with unique qualities.
Dannielle Frierson
January 14, 2005
Trust in God to strengthen you
as only He can do~
To give you peace
and happiness,
and many blessings, too.
For He’s very caring Lord
on whom you may depend-
Whose goodness, love,
and mighty power
truly have no end.
My prayers to the DiBona Family.
Love and Peace always
Robin Pinkney
January 14, 2005
As I think of the great CEO Mr. DiBona was my mind reflects back to a company x-mas party. Fred would make time to take individual pictures with all of the IBC employees. When my turn came there was a problem with the camera, Fred continue to take several pictures with me until one developed correctly. I still have that picture and will always treasure it. My prayers are that God will give the family not only strength but will also fill your thoughts with many wonderful memories of Fred today & and the tomorrows to come.
Stephanie Ray
January 14, 2005
To the DiBona Family
Let not your hearts be troubled.
Take comfort in knowing that Mr. DiBona is resting peacefully in the mansion that God prepared for him.
Joe "Archie" Devine
January 14, 2005
The DiBona Family;
My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I know many people will remember Fred for his leadership at IBC, his community leasdership in the region and all his great accomplishments. I will remember him for loving the rough ocean surf, playing football in the ocean with his son and his friends and just sitting on the beach talking sports along with the Janetti clan. It was always a fun sight to see Fred body-surfing as he call it. He loved it and was always up to someone elses challenge.
I appreciated the small contact we had during those years down on the beach. He showed us all that no matter how big you are in life in status, it is always great to maintain the spirit and energy of youthfulness.
I hope that every time you go to the ocean and see the waves breaking you can think of him and smile.He will be there in some very special way.
I was blessed with the chance to know such a nice man. Only God knows why he took him at this time.
May God Bless You All!
Jill Ventura
January 14, 2005
I am truly thankful for having had opportunity to work under the leadership of Fred. As many have said Independence Blue Cross IS Fred. Though my interaction with Fred had consisted of marketing off site presentations, annual employee presentations and elevator rides, I felt his presence in every pay check, every annual statement and every use of our health benefits.
I will surely miss seeing him on the elevator. My prayers to family.
Ann P. Vassallo
January 14, 2005
TO THE FAMILY OF FRED DI BONA:
My sympathy to all. You are not alone for the thoughts and memories of your loved one are in the hearts of many others. My memories of Fred go back to childhood. I had the pleasure of knowing FRED as a child. We both attended Edgar Allen Poe School and we often walked to and from school together. Although we had not seen see each other after grade school for several years he was a very down to earth person who never forgot his roots. I often bumped into Fred when I worked as City Manager for Budget Rent A Car and also when I worked at The Sheet Metal Workers Union. Fred would take the time and stop by my desk to chat and ask how me and my family were doing. I was proud to say I knew Fred and grew up with Fred.
Sincerely, Ann P. Vassallo
Nicole Lee
January 14, 2005
To The DiBona Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. It has been a pleasure to work for Mr. DiBona for the past 7 years. Mr. DiBona will surely be missed; he was a great person and truly the driving force of IBC. His legacy will be continued by all who shared his visions for IBC.
Mrs. DiBona and Family, as you go through this time of bereavement, remember to hold on to GOD's unchanging hand.
Susan DeSimone
January 14, 2005
To Sylvia, Fred and Christine
I am so sorry for your loss. Along with so many other people, I also had the privilege of working with Fred for the past 16 years. I’ve never met anyone like Fred and probably never will again. He was someone who always had a story or joke and would take the time to tell it no matter how busy he was. I have so many special memories of being on 45. I bet Carol and Pat will be surprised to see Fred. He was a special person and will be greatly missed.
John Janney
January 14, 2005
I suppose one of the greatest measurements of a man's life is how many people he has touched and how much he is missed when he is gone.
It is difficult to imagine IBC or the city of Philadelphia without Fred. His influence on all of us was immeasurable. I will personally miss his strong leadership, his wit and the sense that he gave all of us that no matter what challenges we faced at IBC it would be all right.
It is my prayer that his family will feel some comfort in knowing how much he was admired and will be missed.
Lorraine McClary
January 13, 2005
To Mrs. DiBona, Fred, Christine, and the DiBona Family:
My prayers are with you all and your family that the God of peace (Jehovah Shalom) will sustain you during this time. I am an associate with Independence Blue Cross, approaching my 5 year anniversary. The one thing that I was looking forward to was going to my anniversary luncheon, because I knew I would get a chance to finally meet Mr. DiBona. Even prior to his passing, everyone that has had anything to say about him has expressed nothing but good statements. My only regret is that I never got a chance to meet him personally.
Philippians 1:21 tells us that to live is Christ, and to die is gain. Mr. DiBona is not here with us in body, because he has graduated from IBC to a place with GOD. As his family, both personal and professional, we are now left with the challenge of carrying on. He has received his promotion, and I believe that God has told him "Well done, my good and faithful servant." His natural journey is done...mission accomplished. His spiritual journey has just begun!!!May God bless all of you as you continue your journey of life.
Stephen J. Fodor
January 13, 2005
Freddie and the DiBona Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. My deepest sympathies for your loss. May God bless you all.
Denise Dooley
January 13, 2005
Those we love are never really lost to us -- we feel them is so many special ways -- through friends they always cared about and dreams they left behind, in beauty that they added to our days -- in words of wisdom we still carry with us and memories that never will be gone. Those we love are never really lost to us -- for everywhere their special love lives on.
~Amanda Bradley~
To Sylvia, Christine & Fred:
Your loss is shared by many friends and family who care and that you’re in our thoughts and hearts and in our every prayer. Having just celebrated my 28 yr anniversary, I've met many outstanding people who have inspired me along the way at IBC. Fred was a true leader and a wonderful man. He will be dearly missed by his friends and employees at IBC.
Domenick Bucci
January 13, 2005
I wish to express my deepest sympathies to the DiBona family. Although I never met this great individual, I believe in his visions for Philadelphia and the surrounding counties. I will endeavor to continue on with his visions in healthcare. This is the highest tribute I can pay to this man who devoted his life to improving the lives of others. He exemplified vision, integrity and leadership.
These attributes are found in a chosen few.
God Bless his soul.
Kim Mather
January 13, 2005
To the DiBona Family,
May God stand with you in your untimely loss of a great man and know that Mr. DiBona will never be far from our hearts. His shoes are going to be hard to fill at the IBCFOC. He will be missed by everyone.
Vilmarie Diaz Gilliam
January 13, 2005
To The Family:
You could always count on Fred to have a smile on his face to greet you no matter the type of day he was having or how he felt. He had a deep joy that he was willing to share with others. I am blessed to work for IBC and that Fred made it possible! I will always be thankful for the opportunity and that I was able to prove myself by working hard everyday. He set a great example for all associates by his own hard work and committment. I will continue to work hard and give IBC my all. I want to thank him not only for myself but for my husband, Bert, who was able to work for IBC for a few years.
We do not know why certain events are allowed to happen in our lives, but I do know that Jesus gives us the strength to handle all the situations we do face. I will be praying for you as you go through this time of loss, hoping to help hold your arms up as Aaron and Miriam did for Moses.
God bless you and keep you close,
Vilmarie
Doris Clemons
January 13, 2005
Dear DiBona Family.
Please accept my family's deepest sympathy. Fred's death is a great loss to the IBC family, the Community and the Insurance Industry. It was my pleasure to know him before my retirement from IBC. May all the wonderful memories you have of Fred, be a comfort to you during this difficult time. His legacy will live on for many years. God's blessings to you all.
Eli Santiago
January 13, 2005
Mrs. DiBona and Family:
While I was unfortunate in not having been blessed with the opportunity to know Fred personally, he touched my life more than he could ever know. His leadership was inspiring and his compassion for people unparalled.
IBC and G. Fred DiBona were synonymous. This is the house that Fred built. The halls of our company are hallowed by his indefatigable spirit and his passion dwells within the hearts of the people who would follow him anywhere. Fred is not gone, for his memory will live in the hearts and souls of the thousands of Associates and millions of individuals whose lives he touched.
God Bless you all.
Judie Rodriguez-Negron
January 13, 2005
What do you say about a man who no matter how busy he was always had time to tease me first, then say hello, give me a hug, ask about my family and share a joke. There was never a time in the 15 years that I worked with Fred that he didn't have time to talk to me for a few minutes. He was truly a special man and I consider myself fortunate to have known him. I will always have many warm memories that will bring a smile to my face when I think of Fred. My heart grows heavy when I think that he won't be around when I celebrate my 25 years with the company that he made what it is today!
To Sylvia, Fred and Christine: May God bring comfort to all of you at this difficult time knowing how loved, cherished and well respected he was at Blue Cross and the community at large.
Kim Santee
January 13, 2005
"No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable, more worthy to be called the children of God...and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we came here to acquire and which will make us more like our Father and Mother in heaven."
I have been so proud to work at IBC for the past 16 years and work under the direction of such a great man! He will be missed. Heart felt sympathy to Slyvia and Christine and Freddy.
Janelle Bowmer
January 13, 2005
To The DiBona Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you during the loss of a man who touched so many lives. I pray that the legacy Fred has left will be forever remembered and carried on for many years to come. He will be greatly missed by all.
May God continue to bless and keep you in his loving arms.
Stephanie Bishaw
January 13, 2005
Dear Family,
I am deeply saddened by the passing of G. Fred DiBona. I received the call early in the morning, and my heart just dropped. I truly felt like I lost a family member. He will truly be missed. I pray that GOD will sustain you in this time of loss. Take comfort in knowing that he is no longer in pain. Take comfort in knowing he fought a good fight. His kindness, dedication, love, respect and loyalty to others will live in our hearts always. I was blessed to be under such great leadership. Be encouraged.
Richard Volinsky Jr.
January 13, 2005
Fred, Christine, and Mrs. DiBona,
I am so sorry. He was such a kind and generous person that Philadelphia and anyone who met Mr. DiBona has suffered a great loss.
Charleen Hinton
January 13, 2005
My condolences to the family and friends of G. Fred DiBona Jr. He was a great person and the legend will never measure up to the reality of this man. He will be sorely missed in the halls, on the elevators, in the cafeteria and at the annual meetings by all of the employees of IBC. He always offered a smile, when you spoke to him, he made you feel that he was interested in what you were saying, and he left you feeling like you mattered. He was a great leader and his shoes will be a challenge to fill. God Bless you and I will keep you in my prayers.
Leona Hammell
January 13, 2005
To the DiBona Family:
Like so many others at IBC who were drawn to Fred by his charm, humour, warmth and courage, I am deeply saddened by his death. I never knew anyone who had as many friends as Fred or deserved them more. I hope that your memories of him will be of some comfort to you.
Denise Kinsey
January 13, 2005
To the Di Bona family words are not enough to express my deepest sympathy. I am very greatful to have been afforded the opportunity to have worked at IBC for the past 7 years under his leadership. He was a great man , who cared about his associates as well as the community.He will be greatly missed. May God Bless you all at this difficult time.
Shannon Ryan
January 13, 2005
My deepest condolences to the DiBona family. We truly have lost a great leader. May god give you comfort in your time of sorrow. He will be deeply missed not only in IBC but in the community.
Linda Shields
January 13, 2005
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband and father. There was a wind beneath his wings and he flew away to better place. Take courage and know that there is no more pain nor sorrow. I will miss his leadership, smile, bright hello's on the elevator and quick wit.
It is a blessing in knowing that he left a strong legacy behind in pioneering the health care industry in this area.
My prayers are with you.
Linda Shields
Julia King
January 13, 2005
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, friends, and collegues of Fred's. He was a very special person and will be very missed by all.
Stacey Rentz
January 13, 2005
Sylvia,Freddie,Christine,
I am Frank Dibona's stepdaughter, Stacey. It has been so long since I have seen you guys but have been kept well informed by my mother,Debbie and Frank. We are so sorry for your loss.My sister Kelley and I lost our Father 5 yrs ago in a sudden accident and understand your pain.Even though he is gone, the memories will never leave.The day shall come that we will all be togather again with our loved ones and our heavenly father. Our prayers go out to you and the whole family. What an incredible man he was.
Sincerely,
Stacey and Family
Monica Walsh
January 13, 2005
Mrs. DiBona and Family,
I would like to extend my deepest sympthy to you and your family. As a former employee of IBC I was able to experience what a great man you've lost. He was very personable and really understood the people he led. He really made IBC the company it is today! May God Bless you and Keep you always.
Yvetta Barner
January 13, 2005
Mr. DiBona was an inspiration and has made my past 10 years at IBC a wonderful experience.
To the DiBona family, I pray the Lord gives you comfort and strength during this time.
Aneesha Williams
January 13, 2005
To the DiBona Family,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. G. Fred was a great man and will be missed. You are in my prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy
Mary Hyland
January 13, 2005
Dear Mrs. DiBona and Family,
I offer my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved husband and dad. He will be so terribly missed. As a 19-year IBC employee, I always admired Fred's abilities as a businessman, but more as a man. He had a kind heart that extended to everyone who knew him and to those who did not. Just before the holidays I received a phone call from him, in response to a card I had written to him late one evening when I knew I wanted to say something to let this man know what I thought about him. The very next morning as I was at my desk, my phone rang and it was Fred! He was calling to thank me for the words I wrote, saying he just had to let me know that out of the hundreds of cards and letters he had been receiving, my words had meant the most to him. He spoke of being in the hospital that morning and the extreme difficulties he was experiencing. I told him he was not alone and that we all loved him. Then I did a dumb thing and started to cry a little. He very sweetly told me not to be sad, to have a wonderful Christmas, as he intended to do. He was comforting me because that's the kind of guy he was. He will remain in our hearts always.
Respectfully,
susan gerhardt
January 13, 2005
I would like to express my condolences to the family of Fred DiBona. I have worked for IBC for 5 1/2 years and in all that time, I truly have never heard his name mentioned with less than the utmost respect. I was frequently on the elevator when he would get on in the morning, he always spoke to everyone whether he knew you or not. I was disappointed that he was not able to be at my 5 yr anniversary luncheon, because I had hoped to meet him personally and had heard so much about how personable he was. I saw him in the elevator a few weeks later and spoke to him and he was very gracious. He will be missed. May all your good memories keep him alive in your hearts. He was truly a very special person. Your are in my prayers.
Sylvia Merante
January 13, 2005
To the DiBona Family:
As an employee of Indedependence Blue Cross for the past 24 years I will truly miss this wonderful man. He was a true leader. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May God's love shine down on you.
Sandi Tillman
January 13, 2005
The DiBona Family,
As a former IBC employee, I had the extreme pleasure of working with Fred on the 45th floor for many years. Being a part of his team was the most positive experience in my career, and one that I will always treasure. He offered such unselfish support to all of us and taught us so much. He truly was one of a kind! My heartfelt sympathy is extended to your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Robert & Toni Carlino
January 13, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
David C. Magagna
January 13, 2005
The entire Magagna family would like to express our deepest sympathies to the Dibona family for the loss of Fred. I have always considered him a great person, as well as a fantastic business leader in the community. He will always be remembered for his charisma, humor, business sense, speaking, and most importantly his caring. Our prayers our with your family at this time.
Nancy Guerro
January 13, 2005
To the family and friends of G. Fred DiBona,
It was with deep sadness that we learned of the passing of our president and leader. One cannot help reflecting on
G. Fred DiBona; you think of a man with a passion for our business, a man extremely successful in our business and community, a man with great compassion for the less fortunate, a man of intelligence and wisdom, a man with integrity, and a man of great vision.
I came to work for Independence Blue Cross just over 3 years ago and as a relatively new associate, I feel honored to have worked in a company with such strong values.
Fred has passed on those values to the leadership and associates of our company, which is a wonderful tribute to him.
Sadly, Fred prepared and took care of us for any eventuality; by doing so, the associates and members of the Independence Blue Cross Family of Companies, are thankful for having been one of his own.
With the deepest sympathy and respect,
Nancy C. Guerro
Sr. Director
Operations Knowledge Management
Frances Plunk-O'Conner
January 13, 2005
Sylvia, Fred and Christine,
Freddie was not only a wonderful, loving, caring and great guy, he was also my cousin. Growing up there were 9 of us cousins. We grew up in a very close family. We were always together, especially on holidays. Those were some of the best of times in our family. Vince, Yvonne and Butchie were the older ones; they got to eat at the adult table. Emily and I were in the middle. Too young for the adult table. Lynn, Jay-Jay, Freddie and Patty were the young ones. We all ate at the ‘kids’ table. As I look back – we had the better table. There was always togetherness, discussions and much laughter. If you put Vince, Jay-Jay and Freddie together, they would keep us all in stitches, especially me (as my mom would always tell me), for hours. There are many stories of the fun we had. We were all together last November for a few hours – just to see each other. Everyone came early and stayed as long as possible. Again we eat well, and laugh much.
For my special story about Freddie. When he found out I had breast cancer last September, he called and we talk to a long time. We kept in touch through emails and phone calls. I never ever thought we would have cancer in common. We talk about our chemo and how we felt. As Freddie is Freddie and to lighter up, we discuss our bald heads. We even talk about when our hair would start growing, how we would spike our hair and be ‘cool’. There were days when I could hardly get up, but I knew that Freddie was at work, so I had to pull though. The day before I went into the hospital, he called me to wish me well. He was one of my heroes, a big part of my support group. He helped me and I love him not only as my cousin but as very special friend.
You know just how wonderful he was and you know how much love he had. As a DiBona, I have the gift of gab. But I wanted to share what he was to me. I don’t know why he is no longer with us, only that God has something very special for him. He is with all our parents, probably making them laugh, keeping them in stitches now, I’m sure.
I love all my family and cousins. We have great memories. I will miss him, tremendously. He was family and he was a big part of my life, especially these last couple of months.
Love,
Cousin Franny
karen myers
January 13, 2005
Cristine and family,
We are sorry to hear about your loss.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Chuck and Karen Myers
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