Michael Eliot Sturges

Michael Eliot Sturges obituary, Barboursville, VA

Michael Eliot Sturges

Michael Sturges Obituary

Published by Daily Progress from Aug. 11 to Aug. 12, 2012.
Michael Eliot Sturges

Michael Eliot Sturges of Barboursville, Virginia, died at home on Wednesday, August 8, 2012, surrounded by his loving family. Facing colon cancer with dignity and faith, Michael remained active and fully engaged in his church, profession and family life until recent weeks.

Born on January 22, 1958 in Los Angeles, California to the late John and Dorothy Sturges, Michael was raised in the film industry. He earned a Bachelor's degree in History from the University of California, Berkeley, in 1981. Michael's professional career included working as an assistant director, a stockbroker and a writer. Employed at the University of Virginia in various capacities since 1996, he worked the last five years in the position of Technology Planning Coordinator and earning the respect and admiration of many of his colleagues.

Above all else, Michael's biggest passion was his family. His free time was spent with them in various ways: tossing balls around, coaching teams, cheering at soccer games and swim meets, attending Father/Daughter dances, bringing his children to church each Sunday. Michael thoroughly enjoyed spending time with youth and served as a youth leader at Church of Our Saviour Episcopal Church. His legacy is one of faith, hope and love in good times and in bad.

Michael is survived by his wife, Kathleen; his children, Matthew, David and Anna; a daughter by a previous marriage, Kelly Sturges; his sister, Deborah Wyle; his mother-in-law, Kathryn McAuliffe; and his brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Bill and Donna McAuliffe. A funeral service will be held at Church of Our Saviour 2 p.m. Wednesday, August 15, 2012. The committal will follow in the church cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Church of Our Saviour, 1165 East Rio Road, Charlottesville, VA 22901 or to Hospice of the Piedmont, 675 Peter Jefferson Parkway, Suite 300, Charlottesville, VA 22902.


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December 22, 2017

I knew Michael briefly when we were tour guides at Universal Studios. He was a friendly, decent, ingenuous person. I have never forgotten the impression he made on me.

August 6, 2013

Michael, I think of you often and cherish your letters and emails -- you couldn't have been more supportive when I was working on your father John's biography. You'll always be a class act in my mind -- smart, compassionate, brave ... a great family man.

Candles ascending to the heavens...

Gregg Moscoe

December 30, 2012

Michael and I were great friends years ago, when he still lived in Los Angeles. I connected with him a few times since, and was pleased to know that he found happiness in his marriage and family.

My heartfelt condolences to his family.

Lori Holloway

October 9, 2012

The light burns in the darkness, and the darkness had not overcome it.

Glenn Lovell

September 1, 2012

I was so saddened to hear of Michael's passing. I had occasion to talk to Michael several times when I was writing a biography of his father, director John Sturges. Michael couldn't have been more encouraging, supplying priceless anecdotes on growing up with one of Hollywood's great action directors. He also got me in touch with James Garner, who knew I was "on the level" because Michael vouched for me. I will always cherish my time spent with Michael, a gentle souls.

Gladys Brown

August 25, 2012

Hello My name is Gladys Brown, I am very sadden by this news,i used to work with,Michael's father John back between 1963-1964 has a house keeper, while working for the sturges Michael was a very sweet and smart child from what i can remember. Im not sure if the sturges family remebers me, but i remember them especially the two children, Michael and Debra. There came from a very sweet and respectful Family and well raise by there parents. Everyday i think about the days i worked there and seeing Michael has a young child...He will be truly missed and my respects go out to his Sturges family.The sturges family will always be part of my life and my remebrance.

Caleb and Daniel Sims

August 19, 2012

Our prayers go out to you and your family

Michael and Jill Clarke

August 14, 2012

Mike was not only a friend, but an inspiration for those who seek the example of warmth, kindness and integrity. I, too, have always admired Mike's compassion. We will miss him dearly.

August 12, 2012

I had the pleasure of working with Michael at UVA. I knew he was someone special from the first time I met him. He was always so kind and thoughtful and I just knew he was a believer in Christ. He was highly respected and loved by all.

Phyllis Eanes

Amy and Matt Barnes

August 12, 2012

We are so sorry for the loss of Michael. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you.

The Hyde Family

August 12, 2012

My heart goes out to you and your family during this time of sorrow. I greatly admire the way Michael, and your whole family, faced his illness with faith, calm, and dignity. You have been there for our family through some of the toughest times in our lives. Please know that we are here for you and your family now.

Greg, Audrey and Hunter Morris

August 11, 2012

So sorry to hear about your loss. Although we were just casual acquaintances he made a lasting impression on our family. He was my son's first soccer coach and our most memroable.

Greg, Audrey and Hunter Morris

August 11, 2012

So sorry to hear of your loss. Although we were just casual acquaintances, Mike made a lasting impression on our family. He was my son's first soccer coach and our most memorable.

Charlie Martin

August 11, 2012

My condolences to Mikes family. Although I only met him a few times at UVA I am sure he will missed by all.

Sean McCord

August 11, 2012

Everywhere that Michael went, he left a trail of friends who respected and admired him. Though we are all poorer for having lost him, we are richer still for having known him.

June Tate

August 11, 2012

Michael was a patient, positive, & loving man. His calm attitude helped create the impression of other-worldliness about him. He was known & loved by many. He will be sorely missed.

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