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Sharlene Bannan
February 18, 2025
I´m the Mom of one of Alex´s friends from SCU. I will never forget the day Chad called to tell me about the accident. I think of Alex not just today but throughout the year. I pray the happy memories of Alex help you through the pain of such a loss.
Fondly, The Bannan Family
Garrett Wynne
October 12, 2016
I did not know your son but can only imagine the pain you have felt. I intend to hug my boys this evening when I get home and hold them until they squirm away. Best wishes to your family.
Sen Padmanaban
June 24, 2015
I had pleasure of working with Alex when he in Chicago. It was a brief period but he was a good friend. I am really sorry about the accident. My prayers for his family and his girlfriend Jackie (He used to talk great things about Jackie)
Sen
March 15, 2015
Steve and the entire Rayburn family,
The Sisler family was saddened to hear of Alex's passing. Even though we did not know him personally, we did know the Rayburns as a loving family, and we know that gracious, helpful, loving style would have been passed on to Alex.
Diane Sisler Belli
Jozette Justice
March 7, 2015
My family will keep you lifted in prayer. Alex was a wonderful always one of my favorite I know he must have grown into a gracious young man.
Jozette, Leohn, and Danielle
Jozette Justice
March 7, 2015
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
March 3, 2015
The ymca staff is very saddend to hear about Alex 's passing. He was such a polite handsome young man.
Our deepest condoliances to the Rayburn family.
Janet Loduca
March 3, 2015
Steve and Mindee -I am so terribly sorry to hear about Alex. He sounds like a wonderful man and I can't imagine how painful it must be. Please know that I am thinking of you.
Maggie Harvey
February 27, 2015
Steve, Mindee and Family
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
February 27, 2015
We're very sorry for your loss Alex. We met a few months ago during your holidays with Jackie in Poland. Our family was fascinated in your personality - so kind and friendly guy. It's a big loss for my cousin Jackie, but thank you for all the moments that you spent together. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ania and Dorian
kristin roybal
February 27, 2015
Im so sorry for all the family and friends who have lost this young man. My heart goes out to you all.
February 27, 2015
We are so very sorry for your loss, our hearts are saddened and go out to you and your Family.
The Sabia's'. Pat, Lisa, Morgan, and Dillon.
Katrina Whitton (Bernardoni)
February 27, 2015
I've known Alex since he was a baby...he was the sweetest little red headed kid you would ever want to know. My heart breaks for your loss Mindee, Steve, Amanda, Stephanie, and Jackie. You've always been a part of my family and we are all praying for you in this sad time. Alex's light will live on through all of us that loved him so dearly.
Marty and Bert Rateau
February 27, 2015
So sorry for your precious loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Marty and Bert Rateau
G. Michael Sylvia
February 27, 2015
We are all going to miss Alex. He truly was one of the good guys and a paradigm of intelligence, diligence, and kindness. He set the standard of what Marin kids should strive to become. His memory will stay with us always.
Brenda and Scott Lewis
February 27, 2015
Steve and Mindee, we are deeply saddened by the news of this tragic accident. Jordan sends his condolences from abroad, and will always savor the great memories of Alex. Our hearts go out to your family at this difficult time.
Dan Trimble
February 26, 2015
Steff and Keith;
So, so sorry for your tragic loss!... The service Thursday night was the most heart-felt tribute I have ever been part of... A tragic loss of such an incredible soul!... I wish I would have had the opportunity to know him!
Also, congratulations to Keith for following his dream... You will do well in SR...
Gloria Herrera
February 26, 2015
Steve, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope all the memories of your time together, give strength to you in the days ahead. Deepest sympathy for your loss.
February 26, 2015
Steve and Mindee, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
-- Stephen Crane
Chanel
February 26, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Alex a few years ago when I was visiting my friend at Santa Clara University. I remember how friendly he was to me :) My prayers are with your family.
thomas thompson
February 26, 2015
We have been devastated by this sad, deeply sad news. I taught Alex while he was in high school and always enjoyed his company, his positive spirit. How heartbreaking for his parents, loved ones and parents. You are in my prayers and thoughts. May God grant you strength and grace in dealing with his loss and may you realize that he will always remain in your hearts.
Tom Thompson
Christy Harrison
February 26, 2015
Steve, Mindee, Amanda, Stephanie, and Jackie, I'm so sorry for your loss. Alex was such a good person--I always admired his kindness, and the goodness and generosity of your whole family. My deepest sympathies, Christy
Brett Knight
February 26, 2015
Steve and Mindee,
We're so deeply saddened to hear about Alex. I know that he was such a joy in your lives and in the lives of everyone he touched. Our prayers go out to you and your entire family - may God wrap his arms around you all.
Brett and Kris Knight
PG&E San Rafael Elect.
February 26, 2015
We, as a group would like to say how deeply sorry we are to hear of your sons passing. We've heard what a fine young man he was and know how much he'll be missed by all who knew him.
James Logan
February 26, 2015
My heartfelt condolences just read in local news,as a parent i can only imagine the loss and am also at loss for words
Durla Kelleher
February 26, 2015
Dear Steve and Mindee,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember meeting Alex and thinking what a wonderful family you have. You are in my thoughts.
Laurie Geoffrion-Shea
February 26, 2015
I am very saddened by your lose. I know what it's like to lose a child and my heart goes out to you and your family.
My He rest in peace.
Laurie Geoffrion Shea
Gina Hoffmire
February 26, 2015
There really aren't words for this sudden, tragic loss. Alex was one of the kindest, most genuine people I've ever known. His humility and selflessness was exhibited in everything he did in life: school, work, relationships, community service. I never expected to say goodbye to such a dear friend so soon, and I can only imagine how excruciatingly difficult this is for Steve, Mindee, and Jackie. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to you all during this trying time. Alex will live on in our hearts for the rest of time and will continue to watch over us as the Angel he always was on earth. <3
February 26, 2015
I am so very very sorry. I pulled out photo albums from various children's parties and there was Alex with his bright red hair, and big grin! What a smile. I know he was so very special and touched so many people from a very early age. Thinking about you and your family.
Lisa Bates
Mike and Sally Ryan
February 26, 2015
We are so very saddened to learn of this tragic loss that has befallen your lovely family. Words cannot express how sorry we are. Please know that Alex and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dominic Rubini
February 26, 2015
My condolence to Alex's family. He was a very good man with a kind heart and a blessing to those near him. May you find peace until you meet again.
February 26, 2015
Mr. and Mrs. Rayburn:
Even though I had never met Alex I knew he had to be special when Bishop Daly brought him along with a few other Marin Catholic students to serve at my father's funeral Mass in May of 2007 at St. Hilary in Tiburon. I particularly recognized and remembered Alex because of his athletic ability and camaradie amongst teamates during the couple of MC basketball teamates I attended in 2007. As a 1972 MC and 1976 Santa Clara graduate along with a member of the Marin Catholic Board of Regents for the last 20 years I am extremely proud of Alex's life of love for his MC and the Santa Clara family. He by his example is one who many in the present and future can try to emulate at MC and Santa Clara. I know my parents especially my father also a Santa Clara graduate and generous benefactor to both schools must be very happy other young men and women also MC and Santa Clara graduates like Alex are true disciples of Christ. Rather than working in the "money management business" which Alex aspired to do like my father for over 50 years, through God's graces they are now both managing friends and families through the Holy Spirit toward eternal salvation. Lets us not forget as parents like Mary and Joseph that only through your love for Jesus does such a son like Alex exist. Thank you. You are in our prayers during this time of immense suffering.
Sincerely, Robert McCullough Jr.
John and Jean Brennan
February 25, 2015
Dear Steve, Mindee, Amanda, Stephanie and Jackie,
We are so sorry for your loss. It seems like just a moment ago that Alex and Patrick were playing together on the 4th or at a Rayburn celebration of some kind. Those memories and the truth of his legacy are immortal--as evidenced by the pages of tributes expressed here. We offer our thoughts, prayers and support. All our love,
John, Jean, Patrick and Kathleen Brennan
February 25, 2015
My condolences to you and your family, we are truly sorry for your lost.
February 25, 2015
There are no words to express our heartfelt sadness in your loss of Alex. Please know that you are in our prayers and we are thinking of your and your family.
Maureen Tierney and Sean Fricke
February 25, 2015
Steve and Mindee,
We are so truly sorry for your lose. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Grace Canton and David Kavrell
February 25, 2015
RIP lil homie
Laily Majlessi
February 25, 2015
Alex was the kind of person who made you feel accepted and respected. He is unforgettable. I am grateful to have known him as a fellow MC student. What a beautiful soul. Praying for all of his loved ones at this time.
February 25, 2015
For the all of the Rayburn Family and Jackie, We are so sorry for the tragic loss of Alex. May you all be comforted by Gods peace and love. You are in our thoughts and prayers, The Bannan Family
eric wertheimer
February 25, 2015
Dear Rayburn Family,
May Alex's memories always shine light on you. Our prayers and deepest sympathies go out to you.
May G-d Bless you.
Debbie and Eric Wertheimer
Ken Yang
February 25, 2015
Dear Steve (and Mindee), I recall so vividly the countless occasions when you proudly shared with me Alex's accomplishments as a young scholar-athlete. No one can take away the many precious moments the two of you enjoyed as his most supportive parents. My heartfelt thoughts are with you and your loved ones . . .
Beanie (Lavin) Forster
February 25, 2015
Mindee and family. I am so truly sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all. May God guide you through this tragedy . Love and prayers
Father William Brown
February 25, 2015
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Rayburn: we here at St. Hilary School were so shocked and saddened to learn of your son's sudden death. His dear friend Alex O'Neill works here at our school, and our hearts go out to all of you during this time of mourning. Our next school Mass (March 19) will be offered for the repose of the soul of your dear son. May your friends, family and faith bring you some comfort during this terrible loss.
February 25, 2015
I cannot make the service unfortunately, but I would still like to extend my most heartfelt condolences. The idea that we can be robbed so quickly of our loved ones is terrible, tragic and unfair. I spent some time with Alex in Europe, and his personality and demeanor will have an effect on me for quite some time. I sincerely hope that you will find peace.
Keith Moorman
February 25, 2015
Dear Steve, Mindee, Amanda, Stephanie, Jackie
Alex was truly a light in my life at Santa Clara University. He was a joy to play basketball with, converse in and out of class with, but most importantly just in general. It warms my heart that so many others had similar experiences with him. To say sorry would be an injustice to what you guys have experienced. So I will say Thank You for giving us 26 years of Alex Rayburn. He was and will always be loved. Best wishes and God Bless!
Rhoda Berbey
February 25, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Rayburn Family. When tragedy strikes and it becomes hard to find meaning to what happened, let's trust that God's work is upstream. May you be comforted by wonderful memories of your beautiful son, Alex. Sincerely, The Berbey Family (parishioners of Saint Raphael's)
Alicia Malet Klein
February 25, 2015
Steve-
I am so sorry for your traumatic and sudden loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Life is sometimes so inexplicable and so seemingly without a plan. All we can do is attempt to be our best selves and see the best in others, each and every day, which your son certainly seems to have done beautifully.
Jim Kamphoefner
February 25, 2015
Dear Rayburn family: Our prayers and deepest sympathies go out to you at this terrible time. We knew primarily the basketball side of Alex, both as a teammate and a rival, but also know that he brought something special and amazing to everyone and everything he touched. Peace, Jim, Bev, Seth
February 25, 2015
Hugs and prayers to everyone in Alex Rayburn's life.
We are all so saddened by this big loss.
February 25, 2015
Dear Steve, Mindee, Amanda and Steph,
Alex was a wonderful young man in every way. He was highly regarded and loved by Kevin as a close friend and admired by Richard and Michelle for his generous personality and human touch. At this time of indescribable grief and loss we offer you our prayers and condolences. May God's peace and the comfort of your friends and families aid your through this time of suffering.
Peace and love, Duane and Terri Geck
Billie Brinkley
February 25, 2015
Steve and Mindee, there are no words to describe the heartfelt sorrow for the loss of your son, Alex. Remember that earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. God will mend your broken hearts. My prayers are with you and your family. God bless you!
February 25, 2015
It is true no words can express the deep sense of loss. You are in our thoughts and in our prayers today and always.
Susie, Tristan and Tori Leder
Ann Sabwa
February 24, 2015
Dear Steve and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Alex is an angel now and I know he is looking down on you. I know in my heart that he had awesome values instilled in him through you. It will never make sense, but I know God is standing by you every step of the way. And so are many others. Please keep the faith and stay strong.
February 24, 2015
Steve and Mindee
Neither of us know what to say. We sit in silence and prayer and only hope that somehow you can get through the pain of this awful tragedy. Our hearts and love are with you.
Dan and Gail
February 24, 2015
Sending warm thoughts and love to all of Alex's family and community. He was a special, unique and bright soul.
February 24, 2015
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kathy and Dean Taylor
Milena
February 24, 2015
It breaks my hear to hear the news. Alex, Jackie, and Alex's friends and family are in my thoughts.
Patty Snell
February 24, 2015
Mindee and Steve-Mom and Kay informed me of Alex passing. I remember meeting him when you came here for your mothers funeral. He was such a lovely young man-so in awe of the snow. I send you all of our prayers and know that you are in our hearts as you are with our entire family.
Patty and John Snell
Terry & Mindy Ahern
February 24, 2015
Words seem inadequate to express the sorrow that we feel. Someone as special as Alex will never be forgotten. He will remain in our hearts forever. May the comfort of God help you through this difficult time.
Steve and Janal Lorence
February 24, 2015
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers.
Mark and Julie Johnson
February 24, 2015
Steve and Mindee, It seems so cliche to say "words cannot express" but it is truethere are no words that can adequately describe the sadness we feel on your behalf. Alex was just simply a wonderful human being. We always say in our family that Eric won the roommate lottery freshman year when he got Alex as his roommate. We are so grateful that he had the incredible luck of having such an amazing friend who brought so much joy, fun, laughter and love into his life in college and beyond. He will carry a part of Alex with him wherever he goes as will so many others who love him. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers and in our hearts.
Mark and Julie Johnson
February 24, 2015
There are no words to express our heartfelt sadness in your loss of Alex. Please know that you are in our prayers and we are thinking of your family.
Carolyn Nickell
February 24, 2015
I am out of town for the funeral and want to express my extreme condolences. Although I didn't know Alex very deeply, his presence made a positive, inspiring impact on my life. Those eyes and smile and attitude made our world a better place. -Carolyn Nickell
Nick Finger
February 24, 2015
I am a Colleauge of Dan Ahern, and i had the pleasure of hanging with Alex on a few occasions, he was so welcoming and kind hearted and we became friends instantly. I can say i feel truly blessed to have met Alex and got to know him for that breif amount of time. My deepsest condolences to the family, and the whole community. Sending all the prayers and love your way during this tough time.
Bob and Janie Choate
February 24, 2015
Steve and Mindee-we are so sorry to hear about Alex. Our prayers are always with you.
Mike Ryan
February 24, 2015
It was an honor and a privilege to be someone who was able to call Alex Rayburn a classmate, a teammate and a friend. From the blood, sweat and tears we shared on the basketball court at Marin Catholic to the laughs, tears and cheers we had as friends; he is someone who will be dearly missed by all. He was someone who was a beacon of light in anyone's life who had the opportunity to meet him. He was a great man - Steve and Mindee you both should be very proud of the man that he became. My heart and prayers go out to the Rayburn family, Jackie and all of those who cared for him.
Mike Ryan
February 24, 2015
It was an honor and a privilege to be someone who was able to call Alex Rayburn a classmate, a teammate and a friend. From the blood, sweat and tears we shared on the basketball court at Marin Catholic to the laughs, tears and cheers we had as friends; he is someone who will be dearly missed by all. He was someone who was a beacon of light in anyone's life who had the opportunity to meet him. He was a great man - Steve and Mindee you both should be very proud of the man that he became. My heart and prayers go out to the Rayburn family, Jackie and all of those who cared for him.
Glenda Scarbrough
February 24, 2015
Steve & Mindee - I am so sorry for your loss. Our family is holding yours in prayer.
Jon Hahn
February 24, 2015
Forever love you, brother. Until we get to dap each other up again, I reflect on all our memories. You're finally able to fly my dude -- Via con Dios
February 24, 2015
My condolences to the Rayburn family and Young Alex's friends and acquaintance's. Hugs n love. Ron Jodsaas
Rima Malouf
February 24, 2015
Prayers and hugs to the Rayburn Family.
So sorry for this big loss.
Austin Lea
February 24, 2015
Dear Steve, I can not tell you how sorry I am for the loss of Alex. I did not know him but I am sure he did not fall far from the apple tree and was such a kind, understanding, and very caring young man; with a love for life and people. I pray peace and understanding from our God over your life and family at this time
With love and admiration,
Austin Lea
Jim Lynde
February 24, 2015
May you find comfort in the countless treasured memories you have of Alex and in the knowledge that his spirit positively touched the lives of so many others.
Jeff and Kathy Price
February 24, 2015
We know how much you all loved Alex and what a wonderful, loving son he was. Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. We are continuing to keep you in our prayers.
Paul Manley
February 24, 2015
I lost my mom about a year ago . Losing someone you respect and love is very hard to do . I know how very close your famly is , always doing things together .Enjoying each others company . My condolences to you Mindee and your family .
Neil Caynan
February 24, 2015
I had the pleasure, joy and honor to teach and coach Alex while he was a student at MC. His love for others and compassion always shined bright, just like its shining now. I can remember his quick wit in class and his amazing athletic abilities on the court, he was always something to remember. To his friends and family, our hearts go out to you! Alex and his friends were very memorable in my teaching and coaching experience at MC during that era. He will always remain forever young.
Bob and Robbi Suehiro
February 24, 2015
Steve and Mindee, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt sorrow and deepest condolences to you and your beloved family.
Lisa Cahill
February 24, 2015
Thank you for being you-- a friend to me in high school, a brother to many classmates, and a kind and generous soul. Sending infinite love to all who knew you, miss you, and love you. You living on through us will keep our hearts full.
Neil Caynan
February 24, 2015
It was a joy, pleasure and an honor to teach and coach Alex through his years at MC. He is a light shining bright now, the same way he was back then. From his discussions in class, to basketball practices, he always gave his all. His love for himself and others will never be forgotten. My heart and prayers go out to the Rayburn family and his many friends that cared for him deeply.
-Neil Caynan
Gayle and Jeff Hamilton
February 24, 2015
Know that Alex's bright star is still glowing brightly in all those he touched and interacted with. We are so sorry for your loss.
February 24, 2015
Dear Rayburn family, Our son Logan Hedrich went to Marin Catholic with Alex. He has many fond memories of Alex,including catching a ride with him and his family to away basketball games. Logan stated how kind Alex was to him. We are so sorry for your loss. Jack and Jean Hedrich
February 24, 2015
We have truly cherished Alex "Ray" for the last 15 years and simply cannot imagine life without him. There are no adequate words to say, but please know that you all, Mindee, Steve, Amanda, and Steph, are in our prayers. We will forever be grateful for having had Alex in our lives and will do our best to live the message he always shared. Love the O'Neills
Soo Ling Youngblood
February 24, 2015
There is no way to express the sadness I feel for Alex' family and friends. You are all in my thoughts, ever day.
Sasha Amiri
February 24, 2015
I am sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Arlene Edwards
February 24, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.
Rod Williams
February 24, 2015
I had the pleasure of watching Alex grow up as a student athlete in Marin County. What a joy it was to watch Alex play basketball. Alex was an excellent player but even a better person. He did things the right way. This world is better place as a result of Alex's many contributions. RIP my friend. Rod Williams
Nancy and Don La Bash
February 24, 2015
Words cannot express our sorrow about Alex's passing. We hope you find comfort in the beautiful moments his life brought to this earth and peace in the knowledge that Heaven has been blessed with a new angel.
February 24, 2015
Our heartfelt condolences to the entire Rayburn family and Jackie. You are all in our thoughts and prayers!
- Santa Clara University Alumni Assn.
Tim and Nancy Skophammer
February 24, 2015
Mindee and Steve;
Words are so inadequate at a time like this. We are so sorry for your loss and have you in our hearts at this very horrible time. He was such a sweet young man.
Tim and Nancy Skophammer
Julianne Beach
February 24, 2015
I still picture Alex as an exuberant 10 year old in my 5th grade classroom. It is hard to think of him as not sharing out world any more
Please accept my most sincere sympathy for the loss of your much loved son. My prayers are with all of you.
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