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Robert Slaydon Obituary

The wonderful adventure of Robert (Bob) Slaydon, Jr. concluded on Wednesday, April 8, 2015. Bob was born May 15, 1937 in Childress, Texas, the only son of Robert Earl Slaydon, Sr. and Mary Louise Wier. Bob found his calling and the gateway to the world in the Earth Science departments of Lamar State College of Technology in Beaumont and Texas Christian University in Fort Worth. He credits Dr. Frank Beck, mineralogy professor at Lamar and Dr. Arthur Ehlmann, professor of mineralogy at TCU for opening his eyes to the natural wonders of geology. This would carry him to the next adventure. He married his wife, partner, and best friend in life, Jody Cooper, June 15, 1962 at Wesley Methodist Church in Orange, Texas. He was employed as a gemologist with Humble Oil, later becoming Exxon. In 1968, Bob and his family were transferred to Sydney, NSW Australia to work for Esso Australia. His first day at Esso, he met the Librarian, Patricia Lapworth from England, a true geologist. She introduced him to The Gemological Association of Australia. He received his diploma March 1, 1972. Metal smith, Walraven Van Hackeren, taught Bob how to "make the metal do what you wanted it to do." Australian Jeweler, Mark Young, taught him stone setting techniques and engraving. Bob attended faceting classes and studied the art of diamond cutting, wax model making and casting. He received his diploma from Gemological Institute of America on August 4, 1975. What started as a hobby in Sydney, quickly turned into a full fledge business after their transfer to Midland, Texas. In 1970, Gems'n Jewelcraft was officially born. The opportunity to provide a living for his family while doing what he was truly born to do was one of Bob's greatest blessings in life. Bob was a true raconteur. With a gleam of awe in his eye, he could illustrate for you the geological and geographic adventure that brought a stone from its prehistoric beginning, into your possession. Bob enjoyed long term relationships with many of the world's foremost diamond experts, naming among his close friends the most talented cutters from Israel, miners from Africa and brokers the world over. Bob was himself widely renowned for his expansive knowledge of rare stones. He retired in late 2013. Bob's family would like to express their deepest gratitude and heartfelt thanks to special people that gave Bob such excellent care over the years. We are forever grateful to Rhonda Jones, the staff at the Vogel Center and the staff at Legacy Ranch Alzheimer's Care Center. Bob was "Daddy" to two daughters, Susan Page and husband, Bob, of Canyon, Texas and Cynthia (Cyd) Bradford and husband, Tony, of Boulder, Colorado. He was "PawPaw" to his grandchildren, William Higgins, III and wife, Evyn, of San Angelo, Texas, Seth Higgins of Galveston, Texas, Lucy Higgins (the Angel who welcomed him to Heaven with two fishing poles in her hand), Tristan Bradford of Boulder, Madison Bradford of Boulder, and Cash Page of Canyon. Bob did not author this epilogue, but he did insist on providing a quote for it, saying, "I want everyone to knowthat my life was truly a testament to my wife, Jody. I owe her everything. She has been the light behind every smile. I love her so." The family will receive guests from 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., Sunday, April 12, 2015 at Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home. Memorial services will be held at 2:00 p.m., Monday, April 13, 2015 at First Baptist Church. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Permian Basin Area Foundation-Christmas for Our Troops Fund, 200 N Loraine St, Midland TX 79701 or to The Alzheimer's Association, 440 N. Big Spring St, Midland, TX 79705. Arrangements are under the direction of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home & Crematory of Midland. Online condolences can be made to www.npwelch.com.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram from Apr. 11 to Apr. 12, 2015.

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Jody & Bob dating years in Galveston, TX - 1960

July 8, 2015

Carleton Parker

April 15, 2015

Dear Jody and family,
What a joy you and Bob have brought to us over many years. We always enjoyed our visits and remember the special attention you devoted to our transactions. Thank you for your friendship and guidance. May you have peace and happiness in the knowledge that each of you made such a positive difference in the lives you have touched.

Phillip Holt

April 13, 2015

So sorry to hear that we have loss a kind man, and who was a great teacher. I hope that the Slaydon family find comfort knowing that Bob touched many lives and always dealt with his clients in the highest level of professionalism.

Ana Henderson

April 13, 2015

Jody and Susan,

I am so saddened by your loss and pray that you all find peace knowing that he is in heaven. We have all lost a beautiful person but he will live on in our memories and hearts.

Val Sparks

April 12, 2015

Jody and girls
We are so sorry for your loss but know that Bob is no longer suffering and meeting many past clients in his heavenly home. Jeff and I have many fond memories and beautiful gems to remember him. Love to All.

Kandis & Brent Sanders

April 12, 2015

Jody, may you be surrounded by family, sweet memories and God's comforting arms. I enjoyed visiting with you and Bob, not only in the store, but later at the Vogel Center. Your love for each other was so evident and our hearts break for your loss!

Mar Kimball

April 12, 2015

Bob was my Jeweler and friend for decades; from our first meeting I knew we would be friends for life, sadly, that was too short a time. With full confidence in his word, we did business and often shared our hearts, minds and laughter as we solved the problems of the world in long and wonderful conversations. His handshake, mischievous smile and his counsel will be sorely

Valerie Lester

April 11, 2015

When my then fiance and I went to Bob to select and engagement ring, he first required us to spend over an hour under his tutalege, learning to understand and appreciate a diamond. That respect of the stone, it's history and the artistry required to show it's beauty was almost a form of marriage counseling in and of itself. This was no small thing to commit to...as was a relationship with him and Jody. I will always think of him behind his desk, eyes alight with the joy he found in sharing beauty.

Fred Smith, Jr. Ed.D

April 11, 2015

God's gift,in His Plan for me, I know, includes many special people He purposely sent my way! Thank you Heavenly Father for sending Bob my way!

Lisa Higgins

April 11, 2015

I am so truly thankful for the time I knew this wonderful man. He was a great inspiration to me and I will cherish his memory. Thanks to the family for allowing me to be a part of his Life Story.

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