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Alec Hilman Obituary

Alec Christopher Hilman, 15, passed away unexpectedly on May 29, 2014 in Houston, TX. Alec was born in Houston on August 19, 1998. Alec was a freshman at Strake Jesuit College Preparatory School. He previously graduated with honors from Holy Spirit Episcopal School in Houston and was President of the National Jr. Honor Society. He previously attended Holland Hall in Tulsa, OK. Alec was a member of Chapelwood United Methodist Church and was devoted to youth and mission activities. He was a running enthusiast who loved to travel. Alec was a kind and loving young man who had a heart for service to others.
He is survived by his parents Glenn Hilman and Laura Boyd of Houston. He is also survived by his grandparents Mel and Joan Hilman, aunt & uncle Mark and Shawna Hilman, cousins Paige & Chayse Hilman, all of Tucson, AZ. Grandparents Ruben and Brenda Boyd of Kingwood, TX, uncle Michael Boyd, cousin Hudson Boyd of The Woodlands, and many other cousins.
The Hilman family will be present to receive friends Monday, June 2, 2014 from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM at Chapelwood United Methodist Church, 11140 Greenbay St., Houston, TX 77024. A memorial service will be held Tuesday, June 3, 2014 at 3:00 PM at Chapelwood United Methodist Church. Private burial services will be held at Memorial Oaks Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to honor Alec may be made to Chapelwood United Methodist Church Youth Ministries. 11140 Greenbay St, Houston, TX 77024. Visit www.DettlingFuneral.com to leave online tributes.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Jun. 1 to Jun. 2, 2014.

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Lisa Vise

June 9, 2014

Alec had a smile that would light up a room and he will truly be missed. My prayers are with his family.

Yolanda Hankins

June 5, 2014

My condolences to Alec's family. I will always remember Alec's positive attitude and love for learning.

Cindy Rogers

June 4, 2014

I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. Alec had the best parents in the world whose love and caring nature taught him how to be so wonderful to others. My thoughts and prayers are continually with you. I will never be the same for knowing Alec. He had the most beautiful soul and a heart of gold! Gabriel & I miss him so much! Love and comforting thoughts to Alec's adoring parents, Grandparents, cousin's, and friends. May God's heavenly Angels guide Alec home and hold you all in their comforting arms forever. Amen. Much love, (Nurse) Cindy & Gabriel XOXOXOX

Patty & Michelle Mustacchia

June 4, 2014

You and your family are in our prayers. May God comfort you in this time of sorrow.

Kristen MacDonald (Coach Mac)

June 3, 2014

When I think of Alec, I remember his infectious smile, his kind soul and his gentle spirit. I am honored to have known your son. He will be missed, but never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

June 3, 2014

Your family is in our hearts and prayers. I fondly remember Alec's time with us in Holland Hall's Primary School.

Jo-An Vargo

Hans & Kelley Boas & Family

June 3, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Betty Rains

June 3, 2014

I have so many wonderful memories of Alec's time at Holland Hall. His handsome smile brightened so many days! Please accept my deepest thoughts and prayers.

June 3, 2014

Alec was a delightful 2nd grader. My thoughts and prayers are with his parents.
Sarah Cox
Holland Hall
Tulsa, Ok

Melanie Gilbronson

June 3, 2014

I had the pleasure of working with Alec for several months in the musical production, "Once On This Island, Jr." He was so excited about the free dance he was planning to do with the other cast members at the end of the song "Ti Moune's Dance". He told me, "I want to do this dance for my Mom!" You should have seen him dance! His enthusiastic "island moves" across the floor in front of the stage were a heartfelt gift to his Mom, Laura, and and a joy for the audience to watch. I know he will keep dancing in heaven, but we will miss his joyful spirit on this Earth!

Sarah Kightlinger

June 3, 2014

We were deeply saddened to hear of Alec's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Celebrate the memories of love shared.

Lela Hoffmann

June 3, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Melissa & J Lightner

June 3, 2014

Thinking of all the Hilman family during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.

David White

June 2, 2014

Sending prayers to the family. May God comfort you.

Carol DELillo

June 2, 2014

Our family is so sorry for the Hilman family's loss. Our deepest sympathy

sherrill young

June 2, 2014

i am so sorry four you lose.

Christy Lock

June 2, 2014

Alec was a great kid with a heart of gold. Always kind to everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you family during this difficult time.

Marielos Fernández

June 2, 2014

All Saint Michael´s hearts are with you!
We will always remember the great times we had together!

Susie Stagner

June 2, 2014

May Alec walk with the Angels and light the way for those who will follow....

Liz Livingston and Connor Smith

June 1, 2014

Alec was such a great kid-a true friend, with an amazing heart. We will miss him terribly, and our thoughts are with all of you. We are profoundly sorry for your loss.

Diego sordelli

June 1, 2014

Our hearts are with you in this time of sorrow.
The Sordelli family

June 1, 2014

Alec was a delight to teach, and his infectious smile never failed to brighten our classroom. May we all find comfort in remembering his loving spirit and dedicated faith.
- Laurie Gearhart (Thompson's Station,TN)

Sue Jolly

June 1, 2014

Alec was a kind and gentle soul-he will be missed!! Sending prayers of comfort.

Brooke Dawson

May 31, 2014

I will always remember the wonderful smile Alec had when he walked into my Spanish classroom. He will be truly missed by all.

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