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FREDERIC ALLING Obituary

ALLING--Rev. Dr. Frederic

Augustus, 88, of Marblehead MA and formerly Tenafly NJ, passed away on October 22, 2018. Frederic was born in Newark, NJ on May 8, 1930. Fred graduated with honors from Princeton University with majors in Philosophy and Religion in 1952. He completed studies at The General Theological Seminary and was ordained an Episcopal priest in 1955. He then entered Columbia University receiving his Physicians and Surgeons, MD and MS degree in Social Psychiatry (1961-69). He was an Attending Psychiatrist at Harlem Hospital (1969-72), Medical Director of the Institutes of Religion and Health (1972-77) and a Senior Attending Psychiatrist at St. Luke's Hospital, NYC and became Director of Substance Abuse in-patient services from (1977-95), as well as maintaining a private practice of psychiatry for many years. He published many journal articles and wrote the book "Brief Flights: Transcendent Experiences". His ministry in life was to treat patients with substance abuse, volunteer with the homeless and provide service to patients in his private practice. He always enjoyed sailing from his youth into his eighties. He preceded in death by his sister Susan and brother Wilson. He is survived by his wife, Martha, sister, Stearly, three daughters, eight grandchildren, two nieces and three nephews. Fred was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. He will always be remembered and profoundly missed.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 4, 2018.

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Christine Dobrydnio aka Sr Mary Christine

March 2, 2019

I have so much to be thankful for this beautiful soul. I was in therapy with Dr Alling for a number of years and I know he helped me discover my life and free me to live it. Not a day goes by when I do not remember him or give thanks for his wonderful life and being. Earth life is a bit dimmer for his passing, but Heaven's, oh, so bright. Love to his family with sincere Thanksgiving.

Sheri Shattuck

November 30, 2018

A kinder, gentler man, I have never known... ❤

November 9, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear of your loved and deepest condolences are extended to you. Something that's helped me through the death of loved ones is to reflect on 1 Corinthians 15:26.

November 6, 2018

"And God will dry the tears from all faces and death and pain will be no more, the former things have passed away " What a wonderful future to look forward to.

JB

November 4, 2018

Sincere condolences are extended to the bereaved family of Frederic Alling as they mourn the death of their love one Frederic. May God's loyal love gives you comfort and peace in this time of deep sorrow and grief. Psalms 119:76

October 28, 2018

I am very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find comfort in Phillipians 4:6,7.

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