Search by Name

Search by Name

Gilbert "Gil" Wilmer

1926 - 2022

Gilbert "Gil" Wilmer obituary, 1926-2022, Fair Oaks, CA

BORN

1926

DIED

2022

FUNERAL HOME

Mount Vernon Memorial Park & Mortuary

8201 Greenback Ln

Fair Oaks, California

Gilbert Wilmer Obituary

Gilbert "Gil" Wilmer
April 24, 1926 - June 14, 2022
Fair Oaks, California - On the morning of June 14, 2022, Gil Wilmer passed away at the age of 96. He was preceded in death by his loving wife of 67 years, Lillian, his siblings Virginia (Dee) Borchert, Frank (Bud) Wilmer and Anna (Annie) Padgett and his parents Frank and Anna Wilmer. He was born in April of 1926 in San Pedro, California, close to where he spent his young years enjoying camping and fishing around their Long Beach home. The family then moved to Fresno, California after the 1933 earthquake. Gil graduated from Fresno High School and Fresno State University (Go Bulldogs!). He also attended USC for graduate work and spent many years as a clinical social worker. He retired from the State of California, Department Of Health where he worked on the licensing and certification of community care facilities.
In 1954 he joined the United States Army and served as a First Lieutenant as a psychiatric social work officer. He was honorably discharged in October 1956. That part of his life was very important to him and made a lasting impression. Gil had many hobbies but his favorite was wood working and making furniture. He was a do-it-yourselfer and he had everything anyone would need for his hobby in his garage shop that he was very proud of and even had an article run in Wood magazine in the mid 80's. He built his own house in Fresno in the early 60's that took 5 years to complete since he only had weekends and evenings to work on his dream home. He also enjoyed stamp collecting, photography and writing short stories when he had the time.
Gil was close to his many wonderful neighbors who helped Lillian and him throughout their lives. He was also thankful for the staff at Eskaton Fair Oaks who helped take care of him in the last years of his life.
Gil is survived by his nephews Bill Wilmer, Jay Wilmer and Dexter Padgett and niece Nancy Tannahill.
Internment will be at Mt. Vernon Memorial Park & Mortuary, 8201 Greenback Lane in Fair Oaks on July 2nd at 10:30am sharp. A Celebration of Life will be held immediately following at Cindy & Marc's home in Fair Oaks.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jun. 26 to Jul. 1, 2022.

Memories and Condolences
for Gilbert Wilmer

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Gilbert Wilmer's name

Memorial Events
for Gilbert Wilmer

Jul

2

Interment

10:30 a.m.

Mount Vernon Memorial Park & Mortuary

8201 Greenback Ln, Fair Oaks, CA 95628

Funeral services provided by:

Mount Vernon Memorial Park & Mortuary

8201 Greenback Ln, Fair Oaks, CA 95628

How to support Gilbert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Gilbert Wilmer's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more