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Lorie Rumsey Obituary

Rumsey, Lorie J. 80, passed away January 22, 2016. Lorie was the daughter of Nathaniel Macon Dudley Jr., and Dorothea (Smith) Dudley. Lorie was born June 22, 1935, at Newman Regional Community Hospital in Emporia, Kansas. She graduated from St. Joseph Central High School in St. Joseph, Missouri in 1953 after she completed her freshman, sophomore, and junior years at Wichita East High School. She graduated from Kansas University with a Bachelor of Science in Education in 1957. She is preceded in death by her husband of 57 years, the love of her life, Richard H. Rumsey; her older sister, Dorothy Reed; her niece Debbie; and nephew, David. She is survived by her two wonderful children, Robb W. Rumsey, a Sedgwick County District Court Judge, and Bruce D. Rumsey, a Graduate Professor and Doctor of Counseling in Littleton, Colorado. Robb is married to Barbara (Hathaway) Rumsey, and they have 5 children between them, David (Eve) of Kansas City, Matthew of Littleton, Colorado, Drew (Stacie) of Wichita, Melissa of Wichita, and Kaley of Wichita. Bruce is married to Tracey (Lawrence) Rumsey, and they have 5 children, all of Littleton, Colorado, Reece, Brielle, Keland, Jayce, and Shay. Lorie is also survived by her younger brother, Nathaniel Macon (Susan) Dudley, III, of St. Joseph, Missouri; numerous nieces and nephews; and the rest of her family and friends. After she graduated from Kansas University Lorie continued her education at the Graduate School at Wichita State. She taught Kindergarten, Fourth, Fifth, and Sixth grade English for a time, however she sacrificed her opportunity for further professional accomplishments to accept her true calling and vocation as a mother, grandmother, wife and tireless volunteer in her community. Lorie was a Master Pianist who believed that she had been blessed abundantly and had a responsibility to help others less fortunate. She, along with her longtime dear friend Elaine Nigh, volunteered throughout the Wichita area for over half a century. She played the piano at Christ Villa adult day care, Wichita Presbyterian Manor, and Lake Point Nursing Center (formerly Terrace Gardens). She had a special place in her heart for the disabled and disadvantaged and for many years volunteered to play the piano for the Can-Do Class at Central Community Church. She served on the board of The Phyllis Wheatley Children's Home and The Wichita Art Museum. She volunteered at the Union Rescue Mission and with the American Cancer Society. Lorie was a member of the Wichita Bar Auxiliary and the Wichita Junior League. She also maintained active participation in her Kappa, Kappa Gamma Sorority through the holiday house tours for many years. She was a faithful member of Central Community Church, was a host home for her "TLC" group and regularly participated in bible studies. Her deep faith in God and his Son, Jesus Christ, sustained her and compelled her to provide boundless faith, hope and love to Wichita's homeless, orphans, and developmentally challenged. She never tired of loving, hugging, and playing her piano for the people who needed it most. In spite of her many activities she always put her family first. Her Family was blessed to have such a caring, nurturing, loving mother, grandmother, sister, sister in law, aunt and friend. She continues to provide her family with an example of how they are to live their life. Lorie, our mom, grandma, sister, and dearest friend will be deeply missed by family, friends, and this grateful community. While we mourn our loss, we are comforted in the knowledge that today God has welcomed her home. Visitation with family is 4-6 p.m. Friday, February 5, 2016, at Resthaven Mortuary. Funeral service is 10 a.m Saturday, February 6, 2016, at Central Community Church. Memorial contributions can be made to Youth Horizons, The Donna Sweet Emergency fund, The Union Rescue Mission, and Central Community Church.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Jan. 31 to Feb. 3, 2016.

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September 8, 2016

Lorie was a dear friend of my mother's, Mildred Elliott, and my brother James Earl Elliott, who married Judy Elliott, a Kappa Kappa Gama and a sorority sister of Lories'. She was a wonderful lady and served on the Board of the Children's Home with Mildred Elliott who also volunteered at the Wichita Art Museum. My condolences to Robb and Bruce Rumsey and the entire family. A memorial donation in honor of Lorie is being sent to Central Community Church, Wichita, KS.

Robert L. Elliott Esq.

David Rumsey

February 8, 2016

Lorie Rumsey was a mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend to anyone she came in contact with. She was truly the most compassionate loving person without a doubt of anyone I have ever known. She was my grandmother, friend, confidante and a person who gave me and all her grandkids unconditional love throughout her life. I have so many great memories of her that will last my lifetime and the memories I have with her will never ever be forgotten and will be someday shared with children I have. Grandma I miss you so so much and my life will never be the same without you but I know you would want me to be happy that you are with your father in heaven and your wanderful great man of husband Richard Rumsey. I will always love you with all my heart and soul and will miss you until my days on this earth are no more. You were and always will be my hero and protector. Thanks you for being not only my grandma but a best friend. Your grandson with all his love is his heart love eternally. David Rumsey

February 5, 2016

Dear Robb and family:\
I was so sorry to hear of Lorie's passing. My friend Charlotte Gribble asked me to also convey her regards to you. Charlotte and I worked for Dick for quite a while, and he and Lorie were wonderful friends to us. We shall miss them both. Lorie went with me to select my first (and only) piano, and you should have seen the people from the piano store's back offices come out when Lorie began to play. She was truly a piano virtuoso, as well as a lovely person and a very gracious lady.
Molly Wilson

Nola Foulston

February 4, 2016

Dear Robb and Family. My sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. Both of your parents were great people to know.. and as time passes on I still can remember the contributions that both made to our legal profession and to our community.
Steve and I wish you comfort at this time, with our knowledge that your mom is bound for a wonderful place with God. Nola Foulston

February 3, 2016

Jayde and Billie Sprecker

a very nice lady.

Carol Hassell

February 2, 2016

I feel so privileged to have known and spent time with Lorie. She was such a beauty. My fondest memories were having fun at Disney world with the Rumsey's and spending Christmas at the Rumsey house with Lorie playing piano for our Christmas carols. So thankful for this time with her and Dick. Carol Hassell

February 1, 2016

To Lorie's Family. Was so sorry to see this in the paper. Went to East with Lorie, what a super gal. Always willing to help and happy. At our last reunion talked to her an as always we said we have to get together soon.. Which would have been easy since we didn't live that far apart. Heaven gained a wonderful lady when Lorie entered those gates! Jo Ann Baird Baugh

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