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WATSON, MURIEL Muriel Watson was born in Newton, Mass, October 23, 1930, the only child of William and Cynthia Bianchi. She grew up as a teenager with her mother in San Diego, attended San Diego High School and later earned her teaching degree at San Diego State College. A great dancer and actress, she had a flair for the theatrical, and performed to audiences many times including the esteemed stage at the Old Globe here in San Diego. She would later pass this passion along to others by teaching speech and drama, winning many awards with her students. She met and married the love of her life, George Watson in San Diego in 1953. It was then that her interest and work with the US Border Patrol began. As an agent, George's job found them moving all over the country; he would fly patrol on both the northern and southern borders (Vermont, Texas and California). They even spent time in Washington, DC, where George was pilot for the Attorney General. Muriel's first living child, Suzan, was born in San Diego in 1959; Julie was born in Vermont in 1963 and Heidi in Washington, DC in 1966. Muriel's involvement with the Border Patrol Union as Public Information Officer (PIO) included her testifying in front of Congress regarding issues and concerns and began a life time commitment of bringing issues to light: the driving force of her public life. Muriel lost her beloved George in 1981, but not her concern for the Border Patrol or other public issues. During the Iranian Hostage crisis, Muriel began the campaign "Remember the Hostages". As the crisis drew longer, the public lost focus. Muriel created and printed bumper stickers that simply stated "Remember the Hostages". With her contacts at Southland Corporations, she had them available for free to the public at 7-11 convenience stores. Tens of thousands would be distributed. Additionally, she began a bill board campaign across the United States carrying the same message. In doing so, Muriel forged a lasting friendship with Dorthea Morefield, wife of Richard, who was a hostage in Iran from San Diego. Muriel was honored to be the first to greet Dorthea and Richard on the tarmac of San Diego Airport upon Richard's safe return. Next in the list of Muriel's activism was her movement "Light Up the Border" founded in response to the violence that was occurring in the San Diego sector of the border. Still very connected with the Border Patrol Union, she found the many reports of night-time violence being perpetrated on the illegal crossers by border bandits intolerable. With a handful of brave friends, Muriel started sunset demonstrations down at Dairy Mart Rd. There the protesters would turn on their car headlights into the fields of darkness to Light Up the Border. Soon local radio host Roger Hedgecock caught wind of Muriel and her growing movement. With a few conversations on the Air to explain her concerns and announce coming demonstrations, "Light Up the Border" would peak at over 2000 cars shining their lights on the border. Her friendship and work with Congressman Duncan Hunter would result in the great accomplishment of building a fence and getting permanent lights installed. Muriel's determination to secure the border didn't slow down after this and included the very daring feat of playing cards in the medium of the 805 freeway. At that time illegal aliens crossing the border could run directly up the freeways, resulting in constant tragic deaths. The response, before Muriel's bold statement, was simply to close down lanes temporarily, then let the danger continue. However, once a citizen attempted and successfully made the mad dash across the freeway lanes only to sit in the middle un-phased by the speeding cars around her, enough attention was acquired to force change. Much to the relief of her children, the one-time demonstration resulted in the placement of fencing between the freeways, preventing hundreds of daily crossers from using the dangerous route. During this time it was not uncommon for Muriel's children to come home from school, with any number of news outlets interviewing Muriel about Light Up the Border. Though it was made controversial by the media, it was conceived with the singular goal to increase the safety for all in the border region and there is no doubt that her movement saved hundreds of lives. Muriel's citizen activism continued all her life in this manner. It included a run for State Senate seat 40th district. Though she could not spend more than a couple thousand dollars on her campaign it tickled her to no end that her opponent spent hundreds of thousands to only barely beat her for the seat. Additionally, Muriel continued many trips to Wash DC lobbying Congress for reform and daily support of the Border Patrol Union. Later as a Grandma, her final contribution to the citizens of San Diego included helping to defeat "Toilet to Tap". Teaming up with Mary Quartino, the "Revolting Grandmas" educated and lobbied the State of California on the right and wrong ways of recycling our sewage and how to safely use the resulting water. Muriel advocated the usage of such water to other areas however opposed its use in our drinking supply. It was being a Grandmother that Muriel enjoyed most. Muriel is survived by her three daughters, six grandchildren and her sister. Muriel passed after a lengthy battle with cancer on May 1, 2012, with her family around her. Services will be held at Guardian Angels Catholic Church in Santee, CA, at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, May 5th. The family would like to thank UCSD and the wonderful caregivers at Moores Cancer Center for the wonderful three years that they kept care of Muriel. In lew of flowers, donations can be made to Muriel's memory to "UCSD Foundation", attention Pamela Werner, 9500 Gilman Dr #0853, La Jolla CA 92093. Please note made in memory of Muriel Watson.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on May 4, 2012.

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August 9, 2015

Dear cousin.. So sorry to hear :(

May 26, 2012

To Muriel's family, we knew your mom and dad during our years with the Border Patrol. We personally worked with your dad, who was one of the nicest man we ever had the pleasure of knowing. Your mom was fun to talk to, and a great asset to the BP.

Jim and Pat Emery, Brewer, Maine

Teresa Ransom

May 22, 2012

Watson girls, I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She was a fun loving,caring wonderful women. I loved reading about all her activities and her passion for what she believed in. I remember visiting her with the Oderkirk family and lots of visits from her as well. She and your Dad played an important part in the lives of the Oderkirks and those of us associated with them. I am proud to be a part of all of it! God's blessings and peace to all of you. Teresa Popeney Ransom

Ted Bader

May 21, 2012

Although I retired from the Patrol in 1992 and haven't seen your mom since your dad's funeral, we kept in touch off and on and I kept abreast of her great work for the line officers in the USBP. She was always a great supporter and a wonderful lady. Your dad was also a great man and well respected by those of us who served with him. May they both rest in peace in a better world, reunited at last.

Margaret Williamson

May 20, 2012

First time I met your mom was at a Border Patrol Wives luncheon sometime in the early 70's. She invited me to follow her home, where we sat and talked about the patrol and discussed how we could actively support the demoralizing job our husbands had to do.
I remember you coming in after school with your school stuff - telling your mom about your day. I think you were in kindergarten at that time, Heidi. I was pregnant at the time with my daughter and my husband was new to the patrol and we were new to the area.

When I had my daughter, your mom and dad came to the hospital to see her and to congratulate us. That meant a great deal to us, as we had no close family with us at the time.

Our friendship grew through the years. I remember when you got your first horse - Iddy Bitty (not sure how you spelled her name) - a cute little bay filly from New York - and of course Sir Gallahad. You girls excelled in the horse world and have passed your skills on to your lovely children.

Through the years, your mother and I worked together on a lot of projects -including handing the Wes Marden campaign (candidate for Congress) his major campaign issue - control of the border - and this was in 1974! We had a lot of foresight back then and saw the way the out of control situation was headed and worked to call attention to it, even though it was deemed trivial by government and elected officials.

We stayed in close contact through the years and I felt priviledged to participate in such functions as Light Up The Border and the airport watch.

I stopped by to see with your mom two weeks before her passing. We had a wonderful visit. Such an amazing lady and loved by so many. She will most definitely be missed.

Lynette Williams

May 8, 2012

Dear Suzan, Heidi and Julie,
I first met your mom in the early 90's and was there when she started Light Up the Border. She has left a legacy that few can live up to. She's a modern day heroine. May the Lord grant you peace as you cope with your great loss. You have cherished memories to recount as you help each other in the healing process.

Barbara Quartiano-Wendt

May 7, 2012

My condolensces to your family. I spoke will Muriel about 3 months ago - that is when my mother, Mary Quartiano, passed away. My mom had such great stories of she and Muriel at the town council meetings - giving all those politians grief. I never had a chance to meet Muriel but it sounds like she was an incredible person - one to be admired. Blessings to all the family.

Bethany

May 7, 2012

Ah, Muriel, I suffer in comparison to your community activism. You have been a beacon of positive activism (no pun intended) in our community, and you will be missed. Godspeed, Muriel. I may not be in California anymore, but your spirit will remain.

Jan Erie

May 5, 2012

Always think of Muriel whenever passing by the Sunnyside Saddle Club arena. What a pleasure to have known such an accomplished lady. Hers was a life well lived. My condolences to Muriel's family.

Cynthia Tait

May 5, 2012

What a great lady! We first got to know Muriel through horses. She was such a big part of Sunnyside Saddle Club, and she was always so supportive and encouraging to our daughter who was new in showing at the time. I also admired her feisty activism -- she was a true patriot. She will be missed...
May God's love and comfort be with you during this sad time.

Shana Deitchman-Stivers

May 4, 2012

Suzan, Julie & Heidi-
Oh goodness, SO many fond memories of my childhood include time with you 3 & Mrs. Watson on Anderson St. What would I have done without the 3 of you & all those animals? Thank you :) It's been too long... Sending love & condolences.

Laura Caira

May 4, 2012

Dear Girls,
I have fond memories of your mom when she lived on Dalby Street in Newton where I babysat for her. We walked to dance class together, worked in Tiny's Dairy Bar on Adams Street in Newton and learned how to drive together. What fun we had! I'm so glad my daughter Michele (Micki) and I had the opportunity to visit with her a few years ago in San Diego. We talked often on the phone. I will miss those conversations. With love and deepest condolences.
Aunty Laura

Kenn Splitt

May 4, 2012

I read the obituary for Muriel while I am visiting family in San Diego. Her activities, accomplishments, her commitments and contributions to this area were exceptional and I wish I would have known her. Although you are very sad during this time, you were blessed and must be proud to have had Muriel as a family member. I will personally enroll Muriel into religious societies where her soul will be remembered at daily Mass.

Byron SWlater

May 4, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

May 4, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Monica Hagen

May 4, 2012

Heidi, Julie, and Suzan, I loved your mother's spirit so much, the energy behind her voice and her enthusiasm for everything, especially her family. I want to attend the service but am teaching a workshop that day, I will send all of you love and hugs. What a special lady she was, she affected so many people in such a posivite way. Thank you for sharing her with so many kids in Bonita, and so many people in the community at large. She is one of my heroes!

Verna Berarducci

May 4, 2012

Heidi & Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Hugging you in my heart. May you find comfort through the pain knowing others care are are thinking about you. I would love to have met your Mom. A true legacy!! God Bless.

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