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ALDERMAN, Pamela Sue Age 60, of Kettering, passed away Monday, October 5, 2015 at Hospice of Dayton. Pam was born on August 11, 1955 in Dayton to the late Bernard (Whitey) and Virginia Kirkland Wiggins. She was also preceded in death by her grandparents Harold and Norma Kirkland, grandparents, George and Jane Wiggins. and Uncle Robert Kirkland. She is survived by her husband Gary Alderman; daughter, Sarah Alderman; son, Heath (Angie) Alderman, grandsons Nathan (13), Brendan (9); daughter, Tricia (Chris) Hilliard; sister, Cindy (Dave) Hayes; family friends, Vicki and Frank Johnson, The McKelvey Family, as well as many other close family and friends. Pam was a 1973 graduate of Fairmont East High School, a retired preschool teacher with A Great Start Preschool, and a member of Central Christian Church. The family will receive friends from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. Thursday, October 8, 2015 at the TOBIAS FUNERAL HOME - FAR HILLS CHAPEL, 5471 Far Hills Ave., Dayton, Ohio 45429. Funeral service 10:00 a.m. Friday, October 9, 2015 at the funeral home. Rev. Damon Reid officiating. Memorial contributions may be made to Susan G. Komen or Hospice of Dayton. Condolences may be sent to www.tobiasfuneralhome.com
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Lawanda Suiter
October 9, 2015
So very sorry for your loss. My parayers are with all of you. Lawanda Suiter, classmate.
Shelly Spicer
October 8, 2015
So very sorry to hear of Pam's passing. My sincerest sympathy to Gary, Sarah and the rest of the family. Pam was always so sweet to the younger cousin wanting to follow after her. She always had a smile.
Terry Driscoll-Reeves
October 8, 2015
Pam, although we lost touch over the years I will never forget you. You were the first person I met when I moved to Kettering. I keep all the memories with you, me, Bonnie and Connie forever in my heart. We were always inseparable. God has gained another beautiful angel. May you rest in peace friend. Love and prayers for your family. I'll miss you and will always think of you
Heidi Gasper
October 8, 2015
I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing. We were middle school and high school classmates. Our condolences to Pam's family and friends. May she rest in eternal peace.
Laura & Rob
October 8, 2015
Our dear sweet spirited Pam will be missed beyond measure! We have so many great memories that we will cherish for years to come until we can dance with her in heaven! Prayers to Gary & Sarah and the rest of her family! May God comfort and bless you all! She touched so many of us with her kind heart and gentle caring spirit. She was truly a servant of God.
Dee England
October 7, 2015
Pam will be sorely missed by many friends, who's lives she touched. She pursued life
with a courageous and generous spirit.
One of God's angels will surely be dancing in heaven.
Sincere thoughts are with the family.
Dee England
Carol Mosher
October 7, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you. Carol & Ed Mosher. ( Cindy Hayes's sister & brother- in- law)
October 7, 2015
There are no words to describe the pain, emptiness and loss of my friend. You will forever be in my heart Pam. And I rest in the knowledge that you are resting in the arms of Jesus. Thank you for being my friend. I love you.
Dejah Pennington-Fagan
October 6, 2015
Ms. Pam was both of my daughter's first teacher. We were just speaking of her this past Sunday. Even though it has been 2 years since they have seen her they still remember her. They loved her very much. I know she touched the hearts of many as she did our family. My heart goes out to her friends and loved ones during this difficult time.
Moniqua Suits
October 6, 2015
Pam always made me feel so welcome at Central Christian. Her beautiful smile, and joyful nature are gifts I will treasure. Please know she will always be remembered with care.
Maria Basto
October 6, 2015
Ms. Pam was my son's first teacher, 6 years ago at A Great Start. She was always sweet and had a smile for my son every single morning. Thank you! You will be missed. My prayers for your familiy and friends.
October 6, 2015
Pam was one of my favorite people and a very dear friend. She loved to laugh and to dance. We did a lot of that together. Whether it was ballroom dancing the Cha-Cha or Rumba or free style dancing to the sounds of the 60s and 70s, Pam loved to move on the dance floor. And she always moved with passion, energy and enthusiasm. She was truly a kind and wonderful human being who will greatly missed by family and friends.
May God himself smile upon your beautiful face as He welcomes you to your new Heavenly Home. Good-bye my dear girl. I am deeply saddened to know you are gone from us but am equally gladdened to know that you are in a Better and Happier Home Above. You are, and always will be, loved. Glenn L. (Springfield)
John, Lindsey, and Megan McIntire
October 6, 2015
Ms. Pam was our daughter's first teacher last year. She was so sweet and kind. My daughter loved going to Ms. Pam's class and still talks about her all the time. She will be greatly missed. We appreciate all she did and taught our daughter. Our sincerest condolences to your family.
Ryan and Sarah Buckingham
October 6, 2015
Pam taught preschool to our son last year. So many of his first school memories include Ms. Pam and her kind, patient spirit. We appreciate everything she did for our son and feel blessed to have known her. Thoughts and prayers for your family.
October 6, 2015
What a beautiful person may God give you comfort
Jen White &family
October 6, 2015
Pam taught preschool to both of my daughters. She was so sweet and loving. We feel very blessed that our family had the chance to know her. Yesterday I asked my little 3 year old daughter if she remembered Ms Pam.... Her little face lit up and she said "I love Ms Pam she's my best friend". She will be greatly missed
Sheryl Fortman
October 6, 2015
Mrs. Pam,
You will be greatly missed. You taught my daughter at age 2 which was 6 years ago. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Terri Bent
October 5, 2015
Pam was one of the kindest people I have ever had the pleasure to know. Prayers that her family and all of us who loved her find peace in their lives with the memories they will hold of her.
Cynthia Hayes
October 5, 2015
I couldn't have asked for a sweeter sister. You have always been there for Gary, your mom, our dad, your grandmother and everyone else needing help. God has a special place for you in His house. It's your turn to be taken care of. I will be seeing you in the future. Love you always
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