Paul L. Mariani, 80, passed away on July 2, 2009, surrounded by his loving family. Paul was born in Stockton, California on May 25, 1929 to Josephine and Giosue Mariani. Paul graduated from Edison High School and served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. After earning a business degree, he joined his father in the family business, Mariani's Men's and Boy's Clothing, established in 1917. Paul worked 6 days a week to build an enduring Stockton landmark.

In 1958, Paul married Rita Picetti and celebrated 40 years of marriage, before Rita passed away in 1998. Paul is survived by 5 children, Julie Dougherty (Kevin), Lisa Dixon (Dan), Deanne Garibaldi (Mark), David Mariani (Claire) and Gina Guzman (Don) and his 13 grandchildren. Paul was preceded in death by his sister, Angie (Joe) Ratto.

Paul, the devoted family man, enjoyed fine food and wine, cigars and quality time spent vacationing in Lake Tahoe with his family and friends. Paul was committed to promoting Italian culture in California as a founding member of the Pacific Italian Alliance, the Italian School of Language, the local chapter of Liguri nel Mondo and the Mangia Mangia Club of Stockton. "Pablo" was also a key promoter and developer in downtown Stockton's redevelopment and long time friend to the Mexican American community. He was an avid San Francisco 49ers and Pacific Basketball fan. Paul's presence will be missed and his memory cherished by all who knew him.

Friends and family are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial which will be celebrated on Tuesday, July 7, 2009 at 1:30 p.m. at the Cathedral of the Annunciation, 400 W. Rose Street, Stockton, CA. Visitation will be Monday from 10:00 a.m. until 7:00 p.m. at DeYoung Memorial Chapel, 601 N,. California Street, Stockton, CA. Committal will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Paul's honor to the American Heart Association, 1212 W. Robinhood Drive, Suite 5-D, Stockton, CA 95207; St. Mary's High School, P.O. Box 7247, Stockton, CA 95267-0247; Annunciation School, 1110 N. Lincoln, Stockton , CA 95203 or the charity of your choice. Online guest book at deyoungmemorialchapel.com

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Published by The Record from Jul. 3 to Jul. 7, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Paul Mariani

44 Entries

Tom Catanio

July 14, 2009

My sympathies to the Mariani family... Mr. Mariani sold me my first classic Navy Blue Blazer and a pair of matching pimp socks (ca. 1969)... They made me look older than I was so I wore them to Carol Doda's on Broadway in San Francisco and they let me and my friends in... My prayers are with you all.

The Fred Picchi Family

July 11, 2009

Paul was a great family man who cherished life. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of your families at this time of sorrow and grief. May your memories bring you comfort and joy

John Pacelli

July 10, 2009

Julie,

My deepest sympathies to you and the rest of your family on the loss of your father. I met him for the first time a year or so ago and took an instant liking to him! I'm very sorry for your loss.

Mark Antonini

July 8, 2009

Julie, Lisa, Deanne, David & Gina,

I was saddened to hear about the loss of your father. My deepest sympathy to you and your extended families. Prayers and thoughts are with you.

Luis Bautista

July 7, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

July 7, 2009

My deepest sympathies to the Mariani family and the entire community as we lose yet another beautiful soul of the generation that had the vision and courage to act - Those that had the work ethic to build and inspire - caring for the community as well as anticipating the needs of others as tho they were family.
Among them - Gene Calcagno and
Fred Malpasso - May God Bless those left who include Remo Canepa and Ray Baglietto to name two. God Bless you all and give your comfort.

Darlene Freitas (formerly of CMH)

David Mangili

July 7, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

July 7, 2009

Our hearts go out to all of you at this difficult time. May your memories comfort you.

Rich Howarth and Chere Newell

Robert Benedetti

July 7, 2009

My memories of Paul are rich with energy and wit. We shared time together on the Pacific Italian Alliance board and at Gian's for lunch. He was the "go to" guy for our wine and always helped put the food on the table at events.

It was always possible to have a good argument with Paul. He did not easily change his mind, but he listened and responded with good humor. I was particularly attentive when he talked about business; he had a great reserve of practical knowledge. I also appreciated his love of his wife and family. He had his priorities straight!

Paul cultivated friendships and his friends will miss him; but he will also be remembered. I will not go up to the wine bar at an Italian event or eat my lunch at Gian's without expecting him to walk up and grab me with his strong hands. I hope such memories and more sustain his family in these difficult days. He was indeed a great fellow! Bob Benedetti

Lori Ramirez

July 7, 2009

I want to send my condolences to the Mariani Family. My mother Juanita worked for many years with Pablo. She has very fond memories of great man. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. God Bless, The Ramirez Family.

July 7, 2009

My Uncle and Godfather, I will always remember as a little boy to now all of the birthdays, graduations, holidays and times in Lake Tahoe that we spent together with the family. When Uncle Paul spoke, I listened. Thank you for your advice in life, business and family. I was truely blessed to have you play an important role in my life, you will be greatly missed.
Love, Kevin Hernandez

Carlos Meza

July 7, 2009

So long, Pablo. I enjoyed meeting you and spending time with your wonderful family.
God bless you and rest in peace.

Donnie Hernandez

July 7, 2009

Such a big part of our family history. Uncle Paul, you will be missed.

Michael Wulfman

July 7, 2009

From our family to your family: Our condolences to Paul Mariani's Family on the passing of this special, important and dearly loved man who's long-time contributions to our community leave an enduring legacy that ensure his name and deeds will not be forgotten, even by those among us who will never enjoy the privledge of knowing him personally.

July 7, 2009

Paul will live forever in the hearts and memories of all who knew him. God bless the family for your loss.

Arthur Moreno

Lynette Simi-manieri

July 6, 2009

Condolences from the Simi Family. Stockton seems to be losing all of its family icons lately. He was one of Stockton's best.

Matt & Jamie Errecart

July 6, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families. Paul was an amazing man, who will be deeply missed.

Mark G

July 6, 2009

Pablo, I'm gonna miss you a lot. I always looked forward to our Wed night dinners with a nice glass of wine.
I couldn't ask for a better father-in- law. See ya later salami.
I love you

Claire and Jillian Dougherty

July 6, 2009

Our Nonno was an unforgetable man who has left us with great memories and lessons that we will carry with us throughout the rest of our lives. We miss him so much but we know that he has lived a great life and is in a better place now. We are grateful for your thoughts and prayers.

John Lucaccini & Family

July 6, 2009

Our deepest sympathy.

Romano and Christine Roccucci

July 6, 2009

To all the family,

My prayers and thoughts are with all of you, during this hard time. Paul always made me laugh on the few, and not enough times, I would run into him. He would tell me stories of my late father, and give me some good business tips as well. He was a great man and friend! May all of you find comfort in all the great memories you have.

Joe & Alice Solari

July 6, 2009

Our sincere sympathy,

Ernie & Dorothy Podesta

July 6, 2009

Paul was a very good friend.
We will miss him.
Our deepest sympathy for your family,

Rod & Penny Lawley

July 6, 2009

Deanne and Lisa, so very sorry to hear about your dad. He was such a wonderful man and always made me smile when he would come into the bank. Our prayers are with you,

Suzette Calderone

July 6, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about your father's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

July 6, 2009

Paul was a kind and friendly man. He will be missed. Jack and I send our sympathy to the children and grandchildren.

Virginia Gall

Gabriela Sandoval

July 6, 2009

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Mr. Mariani was a great man who will be deeply missed by our family.

July 6, 2009

I remember Paul from when I used to work at a bank. He was always so good to everyone and he will be missed. With heartfelt thoughts to the family.

Karina Dempewolf Beck

Natalie and Julia Guzman

July 6, 2009

My Nonno Paul was a very great man I know he was respected by so many in Stockton. He was a very generous man. I would like to thank everyone who took the time to write something to all of our families. I hope to see all of you at my grandfather"s funeral I know he would really appreciate it.thank you

Jack Devincenzi

July 6, 2009

Paul was a good friend, a very good man and he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Christy Locke, Pharm.D.

July 6, 2009

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Paul will be deeply missed by all of us at the SJMC Coumadin Clinic.

Dave Derksen

July 6, 2009

Paul and I went through High School and then Korea together. He was a great guy. The family is included in my prayers.

Laura Meza

July 5, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Paul will be missed dearly. he was a great friend to my Grandfather Pedro Garibay. They are together now watching over our families.
Lupe Meza Garibay and Laura Meza

Marci Trucco

July 4, 2009

My heart goes out to you all and I wish you comfort in the good memories of your Dad...

July 4, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Don and Jean Schrader
Stockton, California

Tim, Shelley, Jack & Rhian Dougherty

July 4, 2009

Julie, Lisa, Deanne, David and Gina,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you and your family. Paul was a wonderful family man and friend. There wasn't a time that when we where visiting my parents and we came to dinner at Julie's that Paul didn't make Shelley and I smile and laugh at anything he said. He will be missed, but I am sure he is at peace now that he is with Rita.

David and Grace Atwater

July 4, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Your Dad's smile will be missed and Stockton has lost a true friend...

John and Lisa Mariani

July 4, 2009

We just heard the news and we are deeply sadden. We will remember the good times and his wonderful laugh that we shared with him in Stockton and Rimini. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families.

dba

July 4, 2009

Paul Mariani: Stocktonian...Businessman. Comitted to downtown decades before "redevelopment" was a popular buzzword.

Horoable in life and buisness...First, formost and always committed to family and friends. Those who knew him felt fortunate to be counted among his friends.

dba

John Jacobs

July 3, 2009

As my boss for over 25 years, and my father's even before that, I had the priviledge of knowing Paul for more than two-third of my life. I and my family are very sorry for his passing,and feel a great loss. It just won't be the same at the store without him, but I think he would want us to be strong and carry on. Always with quality work and high standards that he represented. Our prayers are with you family during this sad time.

Ernest Giannecchini

July 3, 2009

I'm so saddened by the loss of your father. Paul was a great person and respected by so many in Stockton. We have lost a great leader and friend of our community. My prayers and thoughts are with all you and your families.

Alan Tekerlek

July 3, 2009

Paul was a kind and thoughtful man and will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers reach out to the extended Mariani family.

My deepest regrets.

Luigi Gherardi

July 3, 2009

Paul was a great guy and role model who gave me many opportunities to succeed many years ago. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Art Sanguino

July 3, 2009

A Very hard working individual and very
kind person,My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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