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Richard D. McRae

1921 - 2016

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Richard McRae Obituary

Richard D. McRae

Jackson

Richard Duncan McRae, 95, died peacefully at home on September 2, 2016, surrounded by family and friends. He will be remembered as a retail giant but, more importantly, for his kindness, generosity, and character.

Richard McRae was born in his family home in Jackson, Mississippi, on Valentine's Day 1921 to Rowena Green McRae and Samuel Proctor McRae. The McRaes, Greens, and Proctors were pioneer Mississippi families that emigrated from the Carolinas during the mid-19th century. His father, reared on a farm in rural Rankin County, established the S.P. McRae Company on Capitol Street in 1902.

Richard McRae's early life was not easy. He lost his mother to tuberculosis when he was eight years old. He also suffered from osteomyelitis, a painful bone disease necessitating many childhood surgeries and wheelchair confinement. After being educated in the Jackson public school system, Richard graduated from the University of Mississippi, where he pledged Sigma Alpha Epsilon and became a devoted Ole Miss football fan. Though his childhood illness disqualified him for military service, Richard volunteered for The American Red Cross, serving as a field officer in the European Theater in World War II.

After returning from war service, Richard met a beautiful young lady who wished him "Happy Birthday" at a Valentine's Day party. Just four months later, on June 25, 1946, he married the former Selby Watkins at Galloway Memorial Methodist Church, where they were both devoted lifelong members.

Richard and his brother, Samuel P. McRae, Jr., took over the reins of their father's business after the war. The brothers recognized early the coming postwar growth of Jackson and expanded their business, first in the downtown location and later in Jackson's suburban shopping centers of Meadowbrook Mart and Westland Plaza. Time has proven the wisdom of this move; however, it was not clear in the mid-1950s that suburban shopping would catch on. The brothers expanded their business over the objections of their father. The McRae brothers were also one of the earliest retailers of televisions in Jackson. In the early 1960s, Sam decided to pursue other endeavors and Richard McRae purchased his interest in the business.

During the ensuing decades of the 1960's until the 1990's, Richard McRae oversaw the expansion of McRae's throughout Mississippi. He also opened stores in Florida, Alabama, and Louisiana and purchased the Pizitz department store chain in Alabama in 1988, an acquisition that dramatically expanded the business. Working closely over three decades with his sons Richard Jr. and Vaughan, Richard McRae was an innovator and managed his company as though it were a larger business. Some of the innovations in retailing that Richard McRae championed were the early use of credit cards, computerized cash registers, liberal return policies, toll-free ordering, in-house video training facilities, and free gift wrap. He also built a state-of-the art distribution facility in Jackson.

Richard McRae never lost sight of his commitment to run his business like he lived his life -- by the Golden Rule. Richard was beloved by his associates and customers alike. He never failed to give credit for the success of McRae's to the many talented and loyal associates of the company. He made ownership of the company available to key executives and created a profit-sharing plan for all eligible associates. At the time the company was sold in 1996, McRae's Department Stores had become one of the largest independent department store chains in America.

Richard McRae was very involved in the business, cultural, and social life of Jackson. Over his lifetime, he served as a member of the Board of Directors of Deposit Guaranty Corp., Deposit Guaranty National Bank, Mississippi Power and Light Company, and The Standard Life Insurance Company. He served as a director and President of the Jackson Chamber of Commerce and was a former director of The National Retail Merchants Association and the Mississippi Retail Merchants Association which named him its first Retailer of the Year in 1966. Due to his contributions to the commercial life of Mississippi, he was inducted into the Mississippi Business Hall of Fame in 1992.

Richard McRae took seriously his responsibility to his community. At Galloway Church, he was a member of the Administrative Board and Board of Trustees. He and Selby, who enjoyed its traditions of beautiful music and inspiring preaching, gave the church the organ for the sanctuary. Richard and Selby were active in the Ben Fatheree Sunday School Class.

Richard was a longtime trustee of Millsaps College and was honored by the College with an honorary degree in 1991. At Millsaps, he established the ongoing Selby and Richard McRae Scholarship program and endowed a professorship in management in the school of business. He was a former President of the Mississippi Symphony Orchestra Association. Among the many other boards on which he served were the Mississippi Methodist Children's Home, Mississippi Children's Home Society and the Metropolitan Jackson Boys and Girls Clubs. He was a former member of the Exchange Club.

In 1965, Richard McRae established what is now known as the Selby and Richard McRae Foundation. Through their generosity and stewardship, this foundation has supported over the ensuing years scores of arts, educational, and social service organizations of central Mississippi. When he heard about people in need, Richard often gave personally, and many were beneficiaries of his quiet generosity.

Richard McRae had a lifelong love of the outdoors and lived for over 35 years on the farm where his mother was reared in rural Hinds County. He was a horseman, tree farmer, and cattleman. He was an avid participant in the sport of four-in-hand carriage driving and served as President of the Carriage Association of America. His other interests included Rolls Royce and Bentley automobiles. He was a lover of big band, country, and gospel music. He also enjoyed traveling and spending the summers at the home he and Selby shared in the mountains of North Carolina.

Richard McRae was a great family man and set a loving example for his children and their families. Supreme sadness struck Richard McRae's life in July 2007 with the sudden and unexpected loss of Selby Watkins McRae, his wife of 61 years. Theirs was the closest of marriages and her loss was devastating to him. He was also predeceased by an infant son, his brother Sam McRae, and his sister Rowena McRae McClinton.

Richard McRae was beloved by his family for whom he set an example of sterling character, wisdom, fortitude, and accomplishment. He is survived by his three children and their spouses: Richard Duncan McRae, Jr. and Carolyn McRae of Jackson; Susan Selby McRae Shanor and her husband Charles Shanor of Atlanta and Asheville, North Carolina; and Vaughan Watkins McRae and Nora Frances McRae of Jackson.

He is also survived by nine grandchildren who affectionately called him PawPaw: Richard Duncan McRae III and his wife Adrianne of Nashville; David McInnis McRae and his wife Katherine of Jackson; Amanda Ward Shanor and her wife Emily Chapuis of Washington, D.C.; Richard McRae Shanor of Pittsburgh; Leigh Watkins Shanor of Boston; Douglas Vaughan McRae and his wife Sarah of Washington, D.C.; Selby Ruth McRae Graepel and her husband Kevin of Nashville; Alexander Watkins McRae and his wife Christina of Jackson; and Cameron Stone McRae of St. Louis.

Richard's great grandchildren are: Kaylee Irene McRae, Richard Duncan McRae IV, Adrien Gabriel Shanor, Madeleine Grace McRae, Henry David McRae, and William McInnis McRae.

The family wishes to express their deep gratitude to Richard McRae's longtime executive assistant Renee Holm and those who cared for him in his last years including Linda Adams, Lorene Johnson, and Debria Smith.

Funeral services will be 11:00am Tuesday September 6, 2016 at Galloway Memorial United Methodist Church, preceded by visitation from 9-11 am. Burial will be in Lakewood Memorial Park.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorials be sent to Galloway Memorial United Methodist Church, PO Box 1092, Jackson, Mississippi 39215 or Millsaps College, 1701 North State Street, Jackson, Mississippi 39202, or to the donor's favorite charity.

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Published by Clarion Ledger from Sep. 4 to Sep. 6, 2016.

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Roger Gray

September 13, 2017

I worked for Mcrae's in the mid eighties in the maintenance garage. So, I got to meet many of his family members and company staff.
"May God's beacon of light continue to shine on his family"

Juanita Clark-Magness

July 9, 2017

I was just sitting here and thinking about the spirit of a wonderful man that I'm grateful to have met. I was a caregiver of Mr. MCRAE. He would always tell me that I was invited to his funeral. That meant so much to me. That has rubbed off on me. When wonderful people cross my path; I give them an invite to my funeral. My God continue to be with his family and keep them in the Spirit of this wonderful person. The Spirit of "LOVE"..God bless.

Frances Johnson

September 8, 2016

Richard was a dear friend and outstanding man. We are so sorry we could not attend the services. Our deepest sympathy to all the family with prayers for your comfort.
Bill and Frances Anne Johnson

Erma Driver

September 7, 2016

So grateful to Mr. McRae and the entire family. May God bless you for your example of an extraordinary life of loving and sharing. Our agency will always remember your generosity. May the peace of God and the comfort of good memories strengthen all of you during this season.

Susan McMillan

September 6, 2016

We all will miss Richard. Just like you said Vaughn, he was an exceptional man of wonderful character and a large heart for all. I was privileged to know him through my mother, Jean Brewer and how lucky I was.

John Vaughey

September 6, 2016

What a nifty man with a nifty wife, Selby, and nifty children, including their spouses. We celebrate and honor them all, starting with their values.
John and Marcia Vaughey, Denver

September 6, 2016

May you find comfort from God

J W Neal

September 6, 2016

Prayers & Sympathy to the entire family. It is a honor to have been associated with such a great man & family for over thirty years. Thank you and may God Bless the family in the days to come.

The Staff of Parkway Funeral Home

September 5, 2016

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Larry & Clara Stephens

September 5, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family.

Michaek Malta

September 4, 2016

Dear McRae family,
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult times.
Mr. McRae was a wonderful friend to me, his unselfish expressions of kindness were greatly appreciated when I was employed at the Barrington. He will greatly be missed

Michael Malta

September 4, 2016

Dear Mcrae family,
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Mr. Mcrae was a wonderful man and genuine friend. His kind expressions of unselfishness were greatly appreciated during my employment at the Barrington. He will greatly be missed.

Sincerely,
Michael Malta
Nashville, TN

Linnea Smith

September 4, 2016

Deepest sympathies to the McRae family.
It was a pleasure to be part of the McRae organization and know the honorable and caring Mr. Richard. He always had a smile and a cheery "hello" for you. He will be greatly missed.

Roger McGehee Jr

September 4, 2016

Richard and Vaughn,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. It was a pleasure and an honor to know and do business with Richard beginning in the 1960's. I was very fortunate to have been born and raised in the Jackson area and know all of the great business and political leaders such as Richard McRae, Sr. Your dad and many his age were about the same age as my dad and at that time it seemed that everyone was acquainted. One day we were attending a meeting and the subject of travel agency came up and he said that he may want to sell McRae Travel at some time. I told him to let me know and we would get together. A couple years later, Richard called and his first words were, "Roger, I'm ready". That's how McGehee and McRae Travel came together.
I will really miss seeing Richard around town.
The best to y'all and your family.

Dorris Rodgers

September 4, 2016

Worked in the Executive Department of MP&L and it was always a pleasure to see and know Mr. McRae. He was an asset to our Board and supporter of our company and it's customer. So sorry to learn of his passing. Prayers for the family.

Debbie Page

September 4, 2016

Worked for McRaes for several years & it was a great working experience. Such a fine family oriented place & caring about you as individuals. There will never be another like them. Thoughts & prayers go out to the family.

Jim Glasscock

September 4, 2016

As a member of McRae's management team for a number of years, I had the opportunity to see Mr. McRae frequently. He was a pleasure to be around. He was a wonderful leader. I will never forget my years there.
My wife Barbara and I want to extend our deepest sympathy to his family at this time of great loss.

Duncan and Doris Ann McRae

September 4, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you the family as you grieve the loss of your father and grandfather. Age and distance does not allow us to be there. There are many warm memories that have come to mind from over the years. Richard was not just a cousin to us, he was a friend as well. Sounds as though he was blessed in his latter years with lots of family. And, that is what life is truly about. Love to you all.

Kay Whittle

September 4, 2016

In actual time spent together, our acquaintance with Richard McRae was brief - a lovely meal, an engagement party, and a shared wedding weekend with he and his family. Yet, getting to know that family has endeared him to us. A kind and loving family man, father, grandfather, friend and a successful businessman, Richard McRae was beloved by those who knew him; there is no higher praise.
We hope that his family and friends may have comfort in his legacy, which persists in his loving, talented, and generous family and his lifetime of service to his community - which will continue to bear good fruit in the years to come.
In sincere sympathy,
Kay Whittle and Jay Graepel

Liz Hutchison

September 4, 2016

Thinking about the McRae family and remembering what a good man Mr. McRae, Sr. was to all of us who worked for him. He was a rare and thoughtful man who will be missed by many.

Jina Smith

September 4, 2016

Mr. McRae was such a great leader and caring man. It was an honor to have worked as part of the McRae's organization and to know Mr. McRae. My prayers go out to his loved ones.

Jay Wiener

September 4, 2016

I feel for your loss.

Mary Ruth (Burke) Marks

September 4, 2016

Richard McRae drove a 4-in-hand along with other driving friends Brother Cook and J.W. Fielder and Robert Stockett Sr. On one of their many drives, I was accompanying Richard along with my sister Barbara Stockett. As I also drove a 4-in-hand, Mr. McRae asked if I wanted to drive his "4". I said of course. So he gave me the reins. One of the wheelers (horses closest to the carriage) had stopped with his butt out to the side, so I touched his butt with the whip and asked him to "move your butt over". Upon which Mr. McRae sputtered and said, "oh, I'm sorry I'm crowding you" and moved over. My sister Barbara Stockett cracked up laughing so hard and Mr. McRae was apologizing right and left for "crowding" me, and I was sputtering and apologizing saying that I was talking to the horse to move his butt over, not to Mr. McRae. He laughed and said, it's ok and from now on, enough of this Mr. McRae, . . . it's Richard to you, Mary Ruth. A fun moment with a dear man that has stayed with me for years. Every time I have a horse that stops with his butt out to the side, I think of Richard McRae and the wonderful day we had driving. They welcomed me at their breakfast meetings at the Ramada and let me come and have a meal with them as the only woman. A treat for me. Richard lives on in my memory via my horses and his love for the sport of driving. RIP Richard, and "move your butt over" just one last time. Love you, Mary Ruth (Burke) Marks in Verona, WI but my heart is always in Mississippi.

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