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Robert Eugene Dighera

1949 - 2017

Robert Eugene Dighera obituary, 1949-2017, Chula Vista, CA

BORN

1949

DIED

2017

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Robert Dighera Obituary

Robert Eugene Bob' Dighera May 21, 1949 - August 28, 2017 Chula Vista Robert "Bob" Eugene Dighera was born on May 21, 1949 in Richmond, California to Phyllis Arlene Prigge and Vernice Eugene Dighera. After a courageous battle with cancer, Bob passed at his home in Chula Vista, California on the morning of August 28, 2017.After his parents divorced in 1952, his mother married Eugene Muratore and the family moved to Fresno, California. As Bob grew so did his family and he became the big brother to James "Jim", Frank, Kim and Michelle. He graduated high school in the summer of 1967 and continued his education at Fresno City College where he would go on to earn an AA degree. As was the case with many at that time, Bob enlisted in the Army and served in the Vietnam War from 1968 - 1971. Bob also married during this time and in 1971, he was blessed with the birth of his daughter, Tami and then in 1976 the joyous birth of his son, Nathan. His growing family and his service to his country had a significant impact on his life and upon leaving the Army he sought other opportunities to continue his service on the home front. The same year he separated from the Army, Bob joined the U.S. Marshals Service. He would serve with the U.S. Marshals Service from 1971-2005 and would leave a lasting legacy within the service. He began his career as Deputy U.S. Marshal in the Eastern District of California. In 1979, Bob was promoted to Enforcement Specialist for the Southern District of California and in 1983 he was promoted to a Senior Inspector with the Enforcement Operations Division. After serving as a Senior Inspector for one year, Bob was promoted to the Chief Deputy U.S. Marshal in the Southern District of California and served in this position for over 16 years. His contributions to the Marshals Service were monumental. Bob was part of the team that located and arrested escaped federal prisoner and Russian spy Christopher Boyce, recognized through the book and movie, "The Falcon and the Snowman" and "The Flight of the Falcon". In 1983, Bob was also part of the team that hunted down the violent fugitives responsible for murdering North Dakota's U.S. Marshal Ken Muir and DUSM Robert Cheshire. He served as the Commander of the Fugitive Investigative Strike Team (FIST VI) Operation for the State of California in 1984. During the three month operation over 2,100 felons were arrested. At the time, this was considered the biggest manhunt in U.S. history. Perhaps Bob's greatest professional achievement was his development of one of the first permanent fugitive task forces in the country. The San Diego Fugitive Task Force is credited with almost 47,000 fugitive arrests to date. The Task Force has had a nationwide impact and changed the way agencies work together for the common goal of ensuring the safety of the community. During Bob's career, he mentored many young deputies, teaching them not only about how to hunt a fugitive or protect a judicial figure, but about life in general. Many of those deputies are now leaders throughout the Marshals Service and will continue Bob's legacy by mentoring others and fostering the spirit, tenacity, and creativity of Chief Dighera.Although Bob's professional impact is immeasurable, it was the relationships in his life that meant the most to him. For years, his life revolved around his family and children, Tami and Nathan. He was the dad that was either coaching or yelling from the stands during their many softball/baseball games. Whether he was sharing the results of the game or sharing their latest family rafting trip along the Colorado River, there was always joy in his voice when he spoke of them. In the year 2000, he met his wife, Edna, and they began dating in 2001. They adopted their fur child, Diego, in September 2007. Bob proposed to Edna on New Year's Eve 2012 and they married on April 26, 2013. They had a beautiful wedding and the love they shared was evident. Their first trip as a married couple was to Rome for their honeymoon and that was just the beginning of the many trips they would take together, as husband and wife, and the first of many travel memories they would make. Bob was passionate about traveling and particularly loved road trips. He and Edna would rent a car and just drive visiting places like Yellowstone and South Carolina where they weathered Hurricane Irene together. They also made several trips to Mexico and most recently traveled to Guatemala in December of 2016. He enjoyed the trip thoroughly and was ready to go back. Another of Bob's passions was the Star Pal program. He believed in the mission of the program to empower underserved youth and to build a relationship between law enforcement and the public. He was an avid supporter. He also enjoyed organizing events while serving with the Marshals Service. He loved tailgating (even if his beloved Yankees weren't playing) and agency picnics. You could always count on him to be behind the grill. Bob was larger than life. His passion, dedication to service, creativity and zest for life has left an impression on all the lives he touched.Bob is survived by his wife, Edna Dighera, his daughter Tami Dighera and his son, Nathan Dighera. In addition to his wife and children, he is survived by his stepfather, Eugene Muratore, his two brothers, James and Frank Muratore, and his two sisters, Kim and Michelle Muratore. Visitation will be held Thursday, September 14, 2017 at Cypress View Mausoleum Mortuary and Crematory located at 3953 Imperial Avenue, San Diego, CA 92113 from 5:00pm to 9:00pm.Funeral Services will be held Friday, September 15, 2017 at Ft. Rosecrans National Cemetery located at 1800 Cabrillo Memorial Drive, San Diego, CA 92106. Guests are asked to arrive at 1:30 and position themselves at the cemetery office for the procession.In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations to the Star Pal organization in Bob's memory. For more information about the organization please visit starpal.org

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Sep. 10, 2017.

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John Clark

September 14, 2017

Edna, Nate, Tami and Betty,

Thank you so much for sharing Bob with me and the rest of the world for all of these years, years which now seem so short and fleeting. He was an incredible man, an absolute force of nature. A stubborn, immovable rock and a kind-hearted softie all at the same time. It was such an honor and a pleasure to work with Bob in San Diego. He was my boss for 8 years and my friend and mentor for eternity. For all of my post-San Diego career Bob was there looking over my shoulder, pushing me in the right direction, sometimes literally and sometimes figuratively. And, I was not alone, I dont think that its an overstatement that Bob shaped the careers and futures of more leaders in the USMS than anyone else. He was an iconic figure in the agency and through his leadership, he helped to push the agency forward even more, even following years of retirement. Bob never settled for second best or anything less than 110%.

Bob was so much more than a boss and mentor, he was a friend and a role model. He believed in doing the right thing, he took care of people, and his generosity was boundless. He loved his family and his friends, he loved to have a good time and he just loved life.

Despite the fact that time, distance, and the different directions that life pulls you in, there was never a day I didnt think of Bob or rely on lessons learned from him to help guide my own decisions. I have few regrets in this journey, but one that I do have is that I lost touch with Bob in recent years, but I was so glad to have visited with him last month, despite his illness, it was a 20 year step back, busting our chops, sharing some laughs and even a Corona. He was so strong, so brave and so caring of what was going on with others and minimized his own problems, hard to describe, heartwarming and humbling at the same time.

I loved Bob, I will miss him, but I know that he is in a better place than he has been in recent times. His soul and spirit lives on through his children and through all of his surrogate children whom he mentored through the years. RIP Chief Dighera, you are one of a kind, see you down the road at the ball park, well drink beer until the sprinklers chase us off.

John Clark

Ruben Aguilera

September 14, 2017

Mr. D as a kid I've always looked up to you as a second father. I've learned many life lessons that have molded me to who I am today. You have inspired me to enter the Criminal Justice field. You always led by example and encourage us to do the same. For 17 years on the department, I've preached your name proudly. You were my driving force and continue to be. You will be dearly missed, but will always live in my Heart. I love you pops. Ruben Aguilera

Irene

September 12, 2017

To an extraordinary person. Bob was one of the most caring warm hearted person I've ever met in my life. He always wanted to help everyone in need. In their personal life or work life. I loved the fact he always spoke his mind. He was a great father to his children. He also made Edna very happy.

Bob, you will always be in my heart. You are already missed but I know you're with God.

Ana & Carlos Chung

September 11, 2017

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Robert Flores

September 9, 2017

To an amazing human being and kind soul who always had a humbleness about him. I always looked forward to seeing you just to say hello. Thank you for making me feel appreciated. RIP Bob.

Magaña Family

September 8, 2017

In loving memory of a kind and well respected man. Bob or "Mr.Bob" as we called him at home will be very missed around the neighborhood. We will miss seeing him on his walks with Diego. We will always remember Mr. Bob as a kind hearted person. We recall the time when we got home from my son's baseball game (he was 5 then, 9 now). He was in full Yankees gear and Mr. Bob came by and chatted with us. Mr. Bob asked what year our son was born and we said 2008. Moments later he came out with a binder full of baseball cards for the year 2008. My son was ecstatic and to this day talks about it. Rest in Peace Mr. Bob!

Magaña Family

September 8, 2017

In loving memory of a kind and well respected man. Bob or "Mr. Bob" as we called him in our home will be greatly missed in our neighborhood! Our kids loved to see him walking Diego down the street. I recall a time when we had gotten home from my son's baseball game (he was 5 at the time, 9 now) he was in full Yankee uniform. Mr. Bob came by and chatted with us and then asked what year Sebastian was born. We said 2008 and shortly after Mr. Bob brought a collection of baseball cards for the year 2008. Our son was ecstatic and we will always remember him for that. Rest in Peace Mr. Bob.

Betty, Tami, Nathan Dighera

September 6, 2017

In loving memory of a wonderful person, beloved husband and father.

Betty,Tami, Nate Dighera

September 6, 2017

To Our Beloved Father and Husband, Robert Eugene Dighera. You have always been a hero and mentor to us, as well as to others.You will be greatly missed, but never forgotten in our hearts and souls.Dad you will always be our hero.Your proudest day and Moms was the day I was born 7/29/71 and you were sworn in as a Deputy United States Marshal.The second proudest moment was the day our son and my brother Nathan was born 9/13/76 (who you wanted to be named John Wayne).You as a father have made our children who they are and always will be.Thank you for being you and for our children, friends and memories of you. Rest in peace with your mom and the angels in heaven, as you are one of them now.
Love, Betty, Tami, Nate Dighera and Family.

Nathan Dighera

September 6, 2017

Dad you were more than just my father you were my best friend and my rock to lean on. I can only wish more people had you as that. You were a once in a lifetime kind of father. You were my sun and stars and now every time I see them I'll think of you. I'll live my life like you always wanted me to keeping you with me along the way. Grandma can take care of you now and I'll take care of the family like you would want me to. I'll honor you everyday and as long as I breathe you will live on. I love you and miss you more than anyone will know.

Pam Muratore

September 5, 2017

Will always have fond memories of Bob (Gene) along with Nathan and Tami going on the Grand Canyon River rafting trips years back for an awesome family trip experience. Bob was the life of the party from sunrise to sunset - always friendly and fun-loving. Rest in peace Bob.

Lucy I

August 31, 2017

Bob was larger than life. He was a rock and a mentor to many. He had a strong personality and a heart of gold. He will be missed. RIP Bob.

May you find everlasting life and warmth in the loving arms of the Lord. And, may your loved ones find comfort in the belief they will, one day, be reunited with you, in Heaven. God Bless.

Brian Parrish

August 31, 2017

Bob was one of a kind! He was assigned to the Western District of Kentucky as the acting Marshal in 1998 when I was a new deputy. His leadership style was direct and you always knew where you stood with Chief Dighera. After leaving the district and returning to Southern California, we had a new phrase in the office WWBD or What would Bob do?. Our condolences to his family and he will be missed.
Brian A. Parrish
Chief Deputy U.S. Marshal
Western District of Kentucky

Jimmy Tabb

August 30, 2017

Bob was such a kind and generous man. He brought a smile to my face every time I saw him. I will miss him deeply, as will all of his family at STAR/PAL. Rest in peace, Bob, knowing that you made a wonderful difference in the world.

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