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Robert Erbes Obituary

Robert L. Erbes

East Lansing - Robert L. Erbes—beloved father, grandfather, and Luella's devoted husband of sixty-six years—passed away peacefully on January 28, 2021 at age 86. A lifelong musician and educator, Bob leaves an enduring legacy as a professor emeritus of music and music education at Michigan State University where he taught several generations of band directors from 1971 to 1997. He also served as director of MSU's Music for Children and Summer Youth Music programs. As a volunteer, he contributed his artistic talents as a conductor, arranger, and performer to many organizations including Okemos Community Church and the Meridian community band and chamber ensemble. He was most recently a member of People's Church in East Lansing.

Bob and Lu were high school sweethearts who shared the same passion and talent for music. In their newlywed years, Bob served with the Army in Germany where he performed in the U.S. Army band. Later in life, their love of Europe took them back for many visits to Germany, Austria, and Switzerland. They particularly enjoyed hiking among the wildflowers in the Austrian Alps and visiting Salzburg.

Along with his wife Lu and his brother Fred, Bob is survived by his children LuAnn (Tom), Mark (Annette), and Scott (Stephanie), to whom he served as a model of kindness and generosity towards others. He is also survived by his grandchildren Lauren (Matt), Megan (Sue), Matthew (Nikki), Nina, and Sam.

A memorial service will be held at a later date. The family gratefully requests that memorials please be directed to Michigan State University's Community Music School in East Lansing via Michigan State University, College of Music Advancement, attention Rebecca Surian, 333 W. Circle Drive #102, East Lansing, MI 48824. Please note that donations are in memory of Robert Erbes for the Community Music School, East Lansing.

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Feb. 2 to Feb. 7, 2021.

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Milo Winter

January 29, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Milo Winter

February 12, 2021

Sorry to learn of the passing of a very good man and friend. I served with Bob in
the Third Division Army Band in the 50's and remember him as an exemplary
soldier, fine musician, and a man of integrity earning the respect of all who knew
him. It was an honor to have him as a friend and my condolences to Lou and the
Erbes family. - Milo Winter, Rapid City, SD

David and Rose Fox

February 8, 2021

We just learned about Bob's passing and sorry not to have known sooner.
We were friends for many years. Bob was a gentle kind man, a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, teacher and friend. We were privileged to have had a friendship for many years. He and Lu were so devoted to each other and to their children. All were lucky to have known him.

Kathy Mace

February 7, 2021

I’m so sorry to hear this. Mr. Erbes was my private clarinet teacher when I was a junior and senior in high school at Okemos. I was just thinking about him the other day as I was practicing! Thoughts and prayers to the family!

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