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Robert D. Merken

1958 - 2018

Robert D. Merken obituary, 1958-2018, Salem, MA

BORN

1958

DIED

2018

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Stanetsky-Hymanson Memorial Chapel

10 Vinnin Street

Salem, Massachusetts

Robert Merken Obituary

Robert D. Merken of Beverly, Massachusetts, died at home on Monday, April 2, 2018 of complications from Alzheimers disease and pneumonia. He was 59. Born with Down syndrome in Lynn on December 20, 1958, he was the son of Elaine D. Merken of Peabody and the late Henry Merken. From a young age he lived at the Walter E. Fernald State School in Waltham, followed by two group resid- ences in Lynn and his late residence in Beverly. All were run by Bridgewell. Memorable caregivers and day-program staff include John Taylor, Justin Devoe, Donna Lucier, Justine Rudgis, Elis Rosario, and Christine Sepulveda. Robert worked at Morgan Memorial in Beverly from 1979 to 1986, and then at the Lynn Work Activity Center Day Program on Woodman Street, eventually working at Bridgewells Boston Street Day Program, from which he retired earlier this year. Known as a man of strong will who knew what he wanted, Robert enjoyed musicals, including Grease and High School Musical. He also lov- ed animals. Those who worked with him appreciated and remarked upon his big personality and spirited nature. In addition to his mother, Robert is survived by three brothers and sisters-in-lawHoward and Casandra Merken of Elyria, Ohio (Benjamin, Chayim, and Tuvia); Gary Merken and Laurie Rogers of Rosemont, Pennsylvania (Christopher and Katie); and Andrew and Gail Merken of Needham (Sara, Nicole, and Danielle)and numerous cousins, aunts, and uncles. In addition to his father, he was predeceased by his grandparents, Harry and Annie Merken of Peabody, and Ruth and Maurice Dinerman of Marblehead. A funeral service was held at Congregation Shirat Hayam on Sunday, April 8, 2018, with burial at Maple Hill Cemetery in Peabody. Donations in Roberts memory may be made to Bridgewell, which provides services to individuals with developmental, psychiatric, and physical disabilities, including day habilitation, clinical care, employment training, residential services, and educational programs. Mailing address: Bridgewell, Development & Advancement Office, ATTN: Robert Merken Music Therapy Fund, 10 Dearborn Road, Peabody, MA 01960 or via www.bridgewell.org, designating Robert Merken Music Therapy in the Other line. For more information or to register in the online guestbook, please visit www.stanetskyhymansonsalem.com.

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Published by The Marblehead Reporter from Apr. 6 to Apr. 19, 2018.

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I'm so sorry for your loss of Robert. All who have lost loved ones can find comfort in the hope found at John 3:16. My sincerest condolences.

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At his mother's residence

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10 Vinnin Street, Salem, MA 01970

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