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DICKERMAN, Stuart Carlton II
Stuart Carlton Dickerman II, age 60, of Lyme, passed away suddenly at his home on Thursday, (April 26, 2012). Beloved husband of Frances (Miller) Dickerman. He was born in Yonkers NY, on January 19, 1952, and grew up in Chappaqua, NY, son of the late Stuart Carlton and Anne Louise (Fletcher) Dickerman. He graduated from SUNY University in Albany, NY. Stuart was a man of compassion, yet had a real zest for life. His generosity of spirit was well known throughout the community, where he had the rare gift of bringing success to everyone he met. A Renaissance Man in every sense of the word, he was an innovative musician at the keyboard, a fine furniture craftsman, and an enthusiastic aviator, who logged hundreds of hours in single engine planes. He was a brilliant (techie) before the word was coined, who also filled the role of outdoorsman, tending his lakeview property with loving care. Stuart had a deep appreciation for the mystical realm yet, he was grounded in the reality of long term membership in Alcoholics Anonymous- as friends of Bill W. He was a man of simple truths, always open to different ways of thinking. Stuart leaves behind his best friend and beloved wife of sixteen years, Frances Joanne Dickerman. He lived life to the fullest and died by her side.
Calling hours for Stuart will be scheduled at a later date. Swan Funeral Home, 1124 Boston Post Rd. Old Saybrook has charge of the arrangements. Please visit www.swanfuneralhomeoldsaybrook.com to leave an online tribute or condolence.
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for Stuart DICKERMAN
Carola Elliott
April 23, 2023
I can hardly believe " fresh boy" that you have been gone 11yrs! Miss the silly chats you , Fran & I had!
Carola Elliott
April 23, 2022
Still miss our silly chats..Fresh Boy..you are a shining star up in heaven.
Carola Elliott
April 24, 2019
You are missed Fresh Boy
Robert Whitney
April 23, 2019
I remember being in Coffee Works and these words shouted across the room reminded me of "it's a wonderlife"
It was Stuart,
" hey you...Your money's no good in this town " and he bought me a coffee. That was the kind of man he was. A giver. A caring man. A kind man. Always seemed so upbeat. So many conversations at the mailbox. So much wisdom.
I was his mailman and friend.
I promise to keep an eye on Fran. She is the best.
Till we meet again.
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Beverly and Tim Allen
November 11, 2012
Dear Fran,
Tim and I were overwhelmed with sadness of your beloved Stuart's passing when we found out earlier this year. We recalled all of the good times we had over the years. The laughs and funny talk that we used to do together. We are so thankful that my father introduced all of us! It was NOURISHMENT for the souls. Please be blessed at this time and at all times.
May 15, 2012
Dear Fran,
My Heart goes out to you....... God Bless....
Amy
Bunny (and Jim) Kyle
May 6, 2012
Dear Fran - Jim and I are saddened by the loss of Stuart. Please know that we have been thinking of you and that we are here for you. Love to you Fran.
Ed Korzon
May 3, 2012
Dear Fran,
Ed and I were both saddened to hear the news about Stuart. He will definitely be missed. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Ed & Nancy Korzon
May 2, 2012
Fran,
We are shocked and saddened by Stu's passing. We remember so many conversations when we would see you both out and about.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Russell, Anu, Jonah and Harry Godfrey-Fogg
Old Lyme
George Egan
May 2, 2012
Just one week since my dear friend Stuart's passing. My heart still breaks over the loss of this compassionate, kind-spirited man. His spirit remains in each of us.
Sara Hood
May 2, 2012
Fran, so sorry to hear of your loss. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Robert Whitney
May 2, 2012
Dear Fran, it broke my heart to talk with you today. I am so sorry for your loss. Stuart was a great guy and I loved talking with him at the end of the driveway,at the house or just around town. Please take comfort in knowing you are not alone. You have friends and family who care deeply about you. Stuart had a lot of wisdom and he shared freely with me. He was an easy man to talk to, and gave solid advice to me when I needed it the most. I'm sure he is with God and watching over you. Take care, Rob Whitney (postman)
peg patierno
May 2, 2012
Dear Fran. My heart goes out to you.
Peg Patierno
Keith G
May 1, 2012
Franny- please let me know if there is anything I can do. I will always remember the joy he brought on Sunday mornings and all that he did for us there.
Jean Mathon
May 1, 2012
From: Jean Mathon his legacy will always be remember. I did not know Mr Stuart Carlton. I want to express my sympathy and condolence to the entire family. I am a resident of Deep River, I moved here in 2008 from Fairfield county also lived in New York City prior. I am currently a student taking classes at Middlesex Community College . I want to pursuit a career as a Register dietitian. I love to cater and help people. "Stop on by @ Adams IGA produce Dept.!!
Pam Patterson
May 1, 2012
Dear Fran, You don't know me,but I just lost my husband in Feb. He was my best friend also.Annette told me about your loss,. I've seen Stuart at a couple of meetings, but I didn't know him. If you ever need someone to shed a tear with, I do know how you must be feeling. You probably will feel the pain more after the shock wears off. I know I am. You can get my number from Annette or Dave or Karen Willis if you want.My prayers are with you.
Pam Patterson
Peg Baltz
May 1, 2012
Fran,
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." ~From a headstone in Ireland
Stuart's absence will be felt by many, including myself. Too many youthful memories have been flooding back for me in the last few days. He lived a life and experienced so much. Have joy in the memories that you two shared. I am thinking of you in your time of sorrow.
Love,
Peg
Ralph Tashea
April 30, 2012
Going to miss he always had his hand out to me
Your both in my prayers God Bless
Jimmy DeLano
April 30, 2012
Dear Frannie - I will always remember Stuart's laugh and the joy he spread. You have both helped me over the years. My deepest sympathies. You'll both be in my prayers. God Bless
Carola elliott
April 30, 2012
Oh Frannie...You know my heart is breaking for you and the loss of your Stuart...affectionately known as FB...Love ya...
Carola
Dave Willis
April 30, 2012
Dear Fran,
Karen and I were so shocked and saddened to hear of Stuart's unexpected passing. Please know that you are not alone at this most difficult time. He shall He missed by a great many people. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave Willis
April 30, 2012
Dear Fran, Karen and I are shocked and saddened by Stuart's loss. He was a wonderful, caring guy and will be missed by many people. You are in our thoughts and prayers during [what we know has to be] a very painful time in your life. I hope you can find comfort in the fact that you are not alone.
April 30, 2012
So Sorry to read of your loss. I was the police and boat watcher and knew of your interest in the lake safety.
With sincere sympathy, Tom and Diane Hooper.
April 30, 2012
Fran
My thoughts and prayers are with you - We will always remember Stuart's kind ways and of course his laugh. Know that you are not alone.
Love
Helene Cardilicchia
Tom
April 30, 2012
Dear Fran, I am saddened to hear the news. His laugh brightened my day at SHF. I will miss him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
jill swimmer
April 30, 2012
Dear Fran, I am so sorry to hear about Stuart. I will miss him on Sundays @ 10:30 in Madison and his wonderful wisdom. I hope to see your smile soon. Sending you prayers and hugs...........
Jill Swimmer(Madison, CT)
April 30, 2012
Dear Fran,
Kim and I are stunned. I always loved it when Stu would call with a story idea or a suggestion. Our deepest condolences.
Kevin & Kim Hogan, Lyme, CT
Bernie Sievert
April 29, 2012
Dear Franny, I was shocked & saddened when Ronny called me this AM & told me. I have been trying to contact you all day to see if there is anything I can do. I have been working nights & attending different meetings......I'm going to miss my pal. 860-669-1444 lv a message if I dont pick up. I left my cell on your home machine a little earlier. Do not hesitate, I'm here for you. Bernie
Sheryl Nichols
April 29, 2012
Fran, I cannot adequately expresss how devastated we all are to hear of your loss. May your angel be your guide always; love, and light, and prayers are being sent on your behalf by all who hold you dear. Stuart will be greatly missed. Your friend, Sheryl.
April 29, 2012
So sorry for your loss Frannie. Shared lunch with Stuart last Friday at Brown Baggers, I will treasure our "mystical" conversation. Holding you in prayer.
Janet Soares
April 29, 2012
Dear Fran, Arch and I are shocked and saddened over a great friend's passing. Stuart was so much a part of our life on Blood Street over the years. Love to you, The Soares
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