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Thomas Lloyd Obituary
Thomas Harold Lloyd, Jr., computer scientist and longtime Red Bank resident, died unexpectedly on July 13, 2021 at the age of 69 while traveling in Florida.
Thomas is survived by his wife, Kathleen Lloyd (née Flaherty); his children Thomas Lloyd, Shannon Eagan, and Kelly Lloyd; his granddaughter Olive Maria; and his siblings Vincent Lloyd, Sr. Mary Elizabeth Lloyd, and Dr. William Lloyd.
Thomas was born on October 9, 1951 in Long Branch, NJ to Thomas Lloyd, Sr. and Mary Catherine Concannon. He was raised in Little Silver, NJ and attended St. James Elementary and Red Bank Catholic High School. At the age of 13 he became the youngest person in NJ to achieve the rank of Eagle Scout and was presented a letter of recognition by President Johnson. He received a B.S. in Biology from Seton Hall University and an M.S.C.S. from Stevens Institute of Technology. He soon became an integral part in the early development of computer networking at Bell Labs and eventually started his own successful computer consulting company, Lloyd Consultants, Inc. Thomas and Kathleen met while studying at Seton Hall University and married on June 27, 1976. They recently celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary.
Thomas was a parishioner and former Extraordinary Minister of St. James Catholic Church and member of the fraternal service organizations, Knights of Columbus and Odd Fellows. He was a regular participant in the Polar Bear Plunge, helped organize annual Matt Talbot retreats, and was an active member in a twelve-step program.
Thomas was a loving father and grandfather, devoted husband, and loyal friend. He had a generous spirit and was an inspired artist, carpenter, and craftsman. He will be missed dearly.
A memorial mass will be held on Saturday, August 7, 2021 at 11:00 am at St. James Catholic Church in Red Bank, NJ. For those who cannot attend in person, please join us virtually -
a livestream will be available at the time of service: www.sjredbank.org.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the missions of the Religious Teachers Filippini overseen by, Sr. Mary Elizabeth Lloyd at
www.aidsorphansrising.org.
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Laura Byrne
August 7, 2021
My deep condolences to the family.
Joe & Steph Bigley
August 5, 2021
Tom was one of the best people and friends I´ve ever met. We met as Bio majors at Seton Hall & developed a deep & lasting friendship. He was very funny, talented, enthusiastic about life and would never, ever let you down. The world is a lonelier place without him. God bless, Kathy & family.
Elsie BaptisteKaiser and Family
August 5, 2021
Thomas Lloyd has displayed himself as a Respected, Loving and Caring Gentleman.
Tom will be Greatly missed by everyone who had known him. Our Condolences goes out to his Beloved wife Kathy and Family, together with God's continued Blessings
Kathy always remember if you need me for anything I will do my very best to make myself available
Much. Much. LOVE as always
Alan Held
July 31, 2021
Kathy and Family,
Tom was a terrific friend who went out of his way to come N.C. to make sure I was ok after my wife died. It seems unfair that while on that trip he didn't make it home.
How little we know about the purpose God has in mind for us. Tom has been there for so many people.
God bless you Tom and family.
Love Alan Held
Mike Sagurton
July 31, 2021
I'm shocked and saddened at the loss of my old High School friend. He was always there to lend a hand or offer advice and I will miss him dearly as I know all of his family and friends will. Rest in Peace, Tom.
Philip Harrison
July 21, 2021
No words to express the shock loss ! I wish the family love .
This is the loss of a spiritual being that is so deeply loved by so many !
Stella Knight
July 21, 2021
Tom will be missed by so many people he had showed he helping caregiving ways in all he done . Kathy he hand will always Touch you when you need that hand you´ll touch your heart and you´ll know his presence and your every day. I wish I could be there with all of you Love Stella
Joe Freeman
July 20, 2021
If walls could talk....they would all agree that you were fun, intelligent, had a great sense of humor and purpose. I can only smile at some of our antics when we were young - the world needs more Tom Lloyds. Rest In Peace good sir!
Jim Hill
July 20, 2021
You will be remembered as well as missed my friend..
Patti McGrath Homefield
July 20, 2021
RIP Fellow Casey!!
Ben Opatowski
July 18, 2021
What impressed me the most about Tom was his heart, noble and kind to a fault.
Never to see him again will remain a regret.
George Chehanske
July 16, 2021
I am so saddened to hear of Tommy´s passing. My heart, prayer, and sympathy go out to everyone in his family and all who knew and loved him.
Rest in peace my friend.
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