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JAMES BRINDISI Jr.

1947 - 2016

JAMES BRINDISI Jr. obituary, 1947-2016, West Haven, CT

BORN

1947

DIED

2016

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Iovanne Funeral Home, Inc.

11 Wooster Place

New Haven, Connecticut

JAMES BRINDISI Obituary

BRINDISI, JAMES (VINNY) JR. James (Vinny) Brindisi, Jr., of West Haven, passed into eternal rest on July 2, 2016 at Connecticut Hospice. He leaves his husband of 45 years , Anthony J. DeFrancesco, Jr. Vinny is the son of the late James and Adene Bailey Brindisi, Sr. Brother of Christina Trasacco and the late Michael (Big Mike) Brindisi. Vinny is the proud father of James (Charlene) Brindisi 3rd and Damien (Lynette) Brindisi and grandfather of Teja, Emma, Sofia, Dradon, Marcus, Nadia, Livia and great-grandfather to Leila. Vinny was a hair stylist for over fifty-five years, beginning his career at the age of 12 on his parents’ front porch. What made Vinny happiest was talking to people, anyone, anywhere, any country. He loved cats and his sweets. Vinny and Tony shared a passion for travel and adventure. Together they visited 24 countries. Their favorite place being Block Island. They also loved driving aimlessly in the car. Vinny was overwhelmed and grateful for the support given him over the last 8 months. He would have especially liked to thank Val, Jerri, Michael, David Candido and the staff of the David Julien Salon, Charlene D’Addio, Adeline, Diane, Connecticut Hospice, Linda and for all the prayers sent his way from the Abbey of Regina Laudis in Bethlehem, CT. Visiting hours will be Wednesday from 3-7pm at the IOVANNE FUNERAL HOME, INC. 11 Wooster Pl. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Thursday morning at 10am in St. Francis Church, Ferry St. New Haven. Burial will follow in All Saints Cemetery. Sign Vinny’s guest book online at www.iovanne.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Jul. 4 to Jul. 5, 2016.

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January 18, 2020

I only knew Vinny as a kid. I lived next door and played with Chrissy and Mike and Vinny. He was very mischievous, but so were we! We had so much fun with the tire swing and of course the white dog that looked like the Spanky our gang dog. He had black around one eye. HIs name was Lucky! Sorry life takes us away from our childhood friends. I remember his smile, his curls and his brave acceptance of the things we did to him as the youngest in the crew. Carole Vitale

Veronica Brindis

July 7, 2016

My dear uncle vinny i wish i was a little girl again to take back all my lost yrs with you my youngest son has the most beautiful hair you always loved me and made me feel special i love n will miss you

Donna Perry

July 6, 2016

Dear Tony,
I will remember Vinny as one of the most life loving, fun loving guys I have ever met. He always made me laugh and always made me feel good. He is with Dee and laughing together like they did back in the day.
Fondly,
Dondi (Croc)

July 6, 2016

Tony, I am so sorry to hear about Vinny. You took such good care of him for the past year and you know he was grateful. Take good care of yourself, and I mean it. I will contact you later. Much love and warm sympathy to you. Fondly Marie Smith
PS Can you see Vinny and Ruth hamming it up!

Lisa Hazelton

July 6, 2016

Hi Ant, so sad to learn of Tony's passing. Thinking of you and your family.

July 5, 2016

TONY, YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL. KNOWING YOU GUYS FOR MANY YEARS. LOVE MARYANN

Merle Stevens

July 5, 2016

An incredibly caring, loving, and funny man. Vinny will be missed by many.
Merle

Kathy Lamb

July 5, 2016

Dearest Tony ,please except my deepest sympathy Vinny has always been one of my favorite people in the world and I loved him dearly , since high school every time we saw each other it would be as if we had just seen each other. Love, Kathy Lamb.

Patty Antonopoulos

July 5, 2016

Vinny,
May you rest peacefully with all the angels in Paradise.
My condolences to Tony and Family

July 5, 2016

Dear Tony,Soo sorry for your loss,he was a great guy and will be missed by soo many.May your memories of Vinny grow brighter as the pain of your grieving subsides.You are all in my thoughts and prayers.Jackie Cerillo

Joanne Czaplicki

July 5, 2016

Dear Tony,
I am so sorry for you loss. My deepest condolenses and thoughts and prayers are always there with you.

Joanne Czaplicki

DS

July 5, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

gail buchanan

July 4, 2016

so sorry prayers and thoughts with you

Karen Hofferman

July 4, 2016

My deepest sympathies, Tony...I am very sorry. My prayers go out to you and Vinny's entire family.

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Iovanne Funeral Home, Inc.

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Mass of Christian Burial

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St. Francis Church

Ferry St, New Haven, CT

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