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Frank W Burr

1937 - 2020

Frank W Burr obituary, 1937-2020, Ho-Ho-Kus, NJ

Frank Burr Obituary

1937 - 2020
Frank W. Burr, a long-time resident of Ho-Ho-Kus, NJ and Fishers Island, NY died on April 20 after a decade-long battle with Alzheimer's. He was 83. Frank served his country as a Marine, his community as a leader and philanthropist, his family as its foundation, and God as His faithful servant.

Burr was born in Hackensack, NJ in 1937 to Frank W. and Marie (Barnitt) Burr. He graduated from Teaneck High School and received a BA in Economics from Bethany College in Bethany, WV. He also completed the Management Development Program at Harvard Business School. Frank was raised in a musical family and sang in a Barber Shop quartet known as the Last Gasp. His strong voice will be missed at the Sunday morning services of the Union Chapel on Fishers Island, NY and on the Village Green on July 4th.

While undeniably successful in his career on Wall Street as an Executive Vice President for Alliance Capital Management, Burr is best remembered for his community service and his steadfast and generous commitment to improving the communities in which he lived. He was Chairman of the Board of the Valley Hospital (Ridgewood, NJ) and served as a Trustee of the Valley Health System. He was President of the Ho-Ho-Kus school board and he served on the Board of Trustees of St. Lawrence University in Canton, NY. He spent countless hours dedicated to improving the quality of life for residents of Fishers Island as a board member and Chairman of the Fishers Island Development Corporation where he was a visionary proponent for - and instrumental in - the construction of the bicycle/pedestrian path. Perhaps his greatest achievement, and the one of which he was most proud, was helping to establish the Walsh Park Benevolent Corporation which provides affordable housing to year-round residents on Fishers Island.

Frank is survived by his loving wife Grace (Edwards) to whom he had been a dedicated husband for 57 years. His sister Carol and brothers Peter and Brad. His four children – Frank Burr Jr (Molly) of Hingham, MA, Allison Goss (Chauncey) of Sanibel, FL, Andrew Burr (Ashley) of New Canaan, CT, and Matthew Burr of Old San Juan Puerto Rico. Frank is adored and will be missed by his eleven grandchildren: Emma, Olivia, Elliot, and Lucy Burr; Porter II, Oliver, and Alexander Goss; and Miller, Andrew Jr, Hudson, and Hannah Burr.

Family always came first for Frank and his children recall him as an involved father who would slip away from his other obligations to suddenly appear on the sidelines, in the stands, or in the front row in enthusiastic support of their endeavors. Although ravaged by Alzheimer's, Frank was always able to maintain a twinkle in his eye and an authentic smile for his family.

A celebration of life will be held on Fishers Island, NY at a time yet to be determined. Memorial donations may be made in Frank's remembrance to the Walsh Park Benevolent Corporation or the Cure Alzheimer's Fund.

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Published by New York Times from Apr. 22 to Apr. 23, 2020.

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Dick Fiducia

October 24, 2020

A wonderful gentleman, a friend more than a client. Always willing to help those who sought his advice. Profundity to have known him.

Dick Fiducia, St Augustine, Fl

Phillip Sorace

October 8, 2020

We just learned to day about Frank's passing. Since moving from New Jersey to Colorado our contacts with former neighbors unfortunately have become few and far between. Frank was one of the kindest and most honorable of men I have known. Intelligent, witty and ever ready to stand up for family, friends, and community. His life's testament is written in his acts and deeds and in the hearts of the many lives he touched. I am proud to call him friend. Frank's brave struggled with a debilitating illness is matched only by the loving care of his wife, Grace and his children. May God's grace keep and sustain them.

Jack Chiodi

May 6, 2020

My deepest condolences to the Burr family. Frank was a great friend and influence on my life.
I served on the Hohokus school board with Frank and we coached our children together in various
HHK youth sports. He was my sponsor for memorship at the Ridgewood CC. My son was able to start
his career thanks to Frank's introduction to Alliance Capital. He truly was an exceptional person and
his legacy lives on. Rest in peace my friend and I know that God has welcomed you "a life well lived"

Bob Cote

April 28, 2020

Dear Frank and family, my family and our extended family here at SubItUp are saddened to hear about your loss. I never had the pleasure to meet Frank, but I've heard a lot about him from Chip. Without his kindness, trust and steadfastness I don't believe I would be living my dream today. Thank you Frank for everything you have done for all of us. Please say "hello" to George for us - I'm sure you two will have a couple laughs. From one Marine to another, Semper Fi and may you rest in peace.

Frank Sr.,
May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sunshine warm upon your face. May the rains fall upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand

April 27, 2020

We are so heartbroken to hear about Frank.. He will always be the very vibrant and gracious person I remember back in the days- taking us to soccer camp or gathering for a block party or just hanging around your home. Our prayers and condolences to you all..may he be at peace. XOXO Dee(weiss)& Jeff Bulick and John Weiss

April 22, 2020

Dear Grace and family, we are so saddened to hear of Franks passing. He was such a wonderful and devoted family man and friend. He leaves a void in our world which can never be filled. We feel so fortunate to have met him, and he will remain in our memory forever, May God be with you all during this difficult time.

John and Donna Corcoran

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