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HARRIETTE DORSEN Obituary

DORSEN--Harriette K., was born on August 26, 1942 in Newark, NJ, and died on June 5, 2011 in Salisbury, CT., peaceably and with her family at her side. She was the daughter of the late Sondra and Joseph Koffler. She married Norman Dorsen on November 25, 1965. In addition to her devoted husband, she is survived by three daughters, Jennifer, Caroline and Annie, and three grandchildren, Claudia, Tanya and Mateo, all of whom cherished and will never forget their "Mimi." She also leaves her brother-in-law, David Dorsen, his wife Kenna, and countless friends in New York, Cornwall, CT, Sanibel, FL, and elsewhere. She was a graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and New York University School of Law. After taking time to raise her children, she joined the law firm of Lankenau, Kovner and Bickford, where she rose to be managing partner. She left LKB to become general counsel of Bantam Doubleday Dell publishers and, after a merger, general counsel of Random House, where she was one of the country's most forward-looking and influential publishing lawyers. She then became an executive at Plaza Construction Company. After retiring, she concentrated on her many interests, including photography, crossword puzzles, NIA dancing, bird-watching, Yoga, and above all her children and grandchildren. Throughout her life she was an accomplished and eclectic cook. She was at various times a member of the boards of Planned Parenthood New York, the Cornwall Association and the Cornwall Consolidated School Fund for Excellence. Active in politics; she was elected chair of the Cornwall Democratic Town Committee and chair of the Northwest Connecticut Democratic Coalition. There are no words adequate to describe the lovely person Harriette was, the good that she did, the support she provided, or the depth of feeling with which she will be missed. Contributions in her name may be made to the Women's Cancer Center at NYU Cancer Institute, 160 East 34th Street, New York, NY 10016. Burial will be private. The date of a memorial in Cornwall will be announced.

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Published by New York Times on Jun. 7, 2011.

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Caroline Kohles

July 12, 2011

I just received word today of Harriette's passing from one of her fellow Nia dance students. I am so sorry to get this sad news. Harriette was a delight to have as a student. She was smart, funny and a no nonsense kind of gal. I loved her very much and will miss her. My condolences to her family and friends. Please know I will create a special Nia class and we will dance in her memory. Caroline Kohles Nia Black Belt, and Education Trainer

Patsy Ostroy

June 18, 2011

Harriette and I were friends from college and stayed in touch these many years. She was an inspiration for her quick intelligence and wit and her devotion to her family and the causes she cared about. My sincere condolences to her family.

Amanda mecke

June 9, 2011

Harriette was a mentor, colleague and friend the years I worked in Rights at Bantam and Random House. I will miss sharing a love of Litchfield County with her, and I extend my deepest sympathy to her family and friends.

Kim, Tina and Hannah

June 8, 2011

Jennifer and Tanya...we are very saddened to hear of the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. Lifting both of you and your family up in prayers. Love to you both. Your friends in North Carolina

Paula Breen

June 7, 2011

Harriette was my boss for 13 years and my friend for many more than that. After we both left Random House in 2002 we spoke on the phone every few months to share what was happening in our lives. I could always depend on Harriette for her sage wisdom and advice about everything from starting my own business to yoga classes I should take! I will miss her presence in my life but count myself blessed that she was my friend. My deepest sympathies to her Girls and Norman, of course, and to her treasured grandchildren.

Sarah Zarbock

June 7, 2011

What a remarkable woman and so modest about her accomplishments! She will be sorely missed by the Democrats in Connecticut's Northwest corner. I consider it an honor to have Harriette know me by name. I hope that the accolades for her and sympathy from so many will provide some comfort to the family during these very difficult days.

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