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OAKES AMES obituary, l931-2019, Boston, MA

OAKES AMES Obituary

AMES--Oakes. Oakes Ames, Age 87, died of Parkinson's Disease on February 12, 2019 at his home in Stowe, Vermont, where he received exceptional, loving care from his son Stephen and wife Heidi, and their children. Oakes was born in Boston, MA, attended Milton Academy, Harvard University, class of 1953, and received his Ph.D. in experimental nuclear physics from John Hopkins University in 1957. He began his teaching career as an Assistant Professor of Physics at Princeton University, before moving to Stony Brook University, New York, where he ultimately became Chairman of the Physics Department. From 1974 until 1988, Oakes served as President of Connecticut College. He led the College through the challenging economic climate of the 1970's, and returned to New York in 1990, where he dedicated himself to environmental work and research in energy conservation. He became a supporter and board member of Environmental Advocates of New York for more than 20 years. Oakes was one of the founding members of Audubon New York's State Board and served there until 2012. Always gentle, thoughtful, and kind, and often with a twinkle in his eye, Oakes had many interests beyond his professional career. A lover of music, he was an accomplished pianist throughout his life, taking lessons into his 86th year. He is survived by his beloved wife Louise Kimball Ames, four adult children: Geoffrey (Connie) of Lafayette, CO; Michael (Enid) of Lyndeborough, NH; Stephen (Heidi) of Morrisville, VT; and Zoe Jax Kimball of Portland, OR; three siblings Edward of Riverdale, NY, Olivia Ames Hoblitzelle of Cambridge, MA and Joanie of West Tisbury, MA. and six grandchildren. A memorial service will be announced at a later date. Gifts in Oakes' memory can be sent to Connecticut College, Environmental Advocates, or Audubon New York.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 17, 2019.

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Sandy Napel

October 2, 2020

I was telling my family about my physics 101 teacher at Stony Brook in 1969, and how he inspired a lecture hall filled with (hundreds of) students by taking a wrecking ball, suspended by a cable from the center of the ceiling, walking it over to the far wall and, after pressing his back and head into the wall, touched it to his nose and let it go. It took many seconds to swing to the far side of the hall and come back as he stood bravely, confident that he would not be injured, awaiting the ball to come back to gently touch his nose ! So inspirational! I will never forget him! Sandy Napel, BS, SUNY SB 1974, PhD Stanford 1981.

Ellen Webster

February 21, 2019

Felt so sad when reading today about President Ames death. I remember him and Louise so well from 1976-77, the year I returned to CC to complete my degree. He was always so kind to me whenever I saw him on campus. He will be mourned in the hearts of many who knew and loved him. My deepest sympathy to you Louise and the rest of his family. May good memories and much love sustain you during this time.

February 20, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. May you receive strength and comfort from God. "He will make you firm, he will make you strong, he will firmly ground you." - 1Peter 5:10

Janet Johnson

February 19, 2019

A lovely, lovely man. Made my time at Connecticut College very special. Sending light and love.

Janet Schoenfeld Johnson

Claire Matthews

February 19, 2019

Oakes hired me as Dean of Admissions at Connecticut College in 1986. He was the embodiment of a thoughtful, gracious leader. Sincerest condolences to Louise and the children. He served science and society with judicious purpose. He is honored and missed.

February 19, 2019

My sincere condolences. May the God of all comfort strengthen you all during this difficult time. Rom 15:4

JD

February 19, 2019

My heartfelt sympathys go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope the words in 1 Thessalonians 4 : 14 can bring you some comfort. Knowing that there is a future for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

February 18, 2019

To the family of Oakes Ames. My sincere condolences to all of you during this difficult time. May you have underserved kindness and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ 1 Corinthians 1:3; JF

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