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Robert C. Nusbaum

1924 - 2018

Robert C. Nusbaum obituary, 1924-2018, Norfolk, VA

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Robert Nusbaum Obituary

Robert Collier Nusbaum was born on February 23, 1924, in Norfolk, Virginia, the oldest son of Justine L. and Virginius H. Nusbaum, and he died peacefully at home in Norfolk on October 31, 2018. He was predeceased by his parents and his two brothers, Sidney L. Nusbaum II, and Virginius H. “Pooch� Nusbaum, Jr., as well as his nephew, Alan B. Nusbaum. He is survived by his wife of thirty-one years, Linda S. Laibstain; sons, Robert C. Nusbaum, Jr. (Sue), and William L. Nusbaum (Sharon); daughter-in-law, Marlene A. Nusbaum; granddaughters, Jessica L. Nusbaum (Chris Jannusch), and Leigh M. Nusbaum; great grandchildren, Eva and Karsten Jannusch; nieces, Ann G. Nusbaum, and Cynthia N. Katz (Stuart); brother-in-law, Richard H. Laibstain (Teresa Allen), and sister-in-law, Betty L. Lappin (Larry); nieces and nephews, Caroline Laibstain, and David, Jeffrey, and Emma Lappin; and an extended family of cousins and dear friends. In 1941, Bob graduated from Maury High School in Norfolk and entered Harvard College in Cambridge, Massachusetts. His undergraduate education was interrupted by World War II, when he was called to service first in the United States Army, and then in the Office of Strategic Services (OSS), serving in the European Theater until the conclusion of the war. Bob’s war service left him with a lifelong appreciation and love of France. Throughout his lifetime he returned numerous times to France, enjoying the opportunity to speak French and enjoy the country’s culture. After a post-war term at Harvard, Bob enrolled at the University of Virginia Law School in June 1946, graduating two years later in June 1948. He began his practice of law in Norfolk with Alan J. Hofheimer, a relationship that endured for over 40 years. Their firm grew to over 30 attorneys, and in 2004, Hofheimer Nusbaum merged with the law firm of Williams Mullen. In Bob’s 65 years plus of the practice of law, he was regularly named a “Super Lawyer� by Virginia Super Lawyers magazine and a member of the “Legal Elite� by Virginia Business magazine. He was one of a select few to be listed in seven categories in The Best Lawyers in America. Bob was a permanent member of the Judicial Conference of the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit. He was a fellow of the American Bar Association, the Virginia Law Foundation, the American College of Trust & Estate Counsel, and the American College of Real Estate Lawyers. He served as President of the Norfolk & Portsmouth Bar Association, and chaired the Virginia State Bar Committee on Women and Minorities in the Law, among numerous other leadership positions in the bar. In 2011, Bob received the Eggleston-I’Anson Professionalism Award, the highest honor given by the Norfolk & Portsmouth Bar Association to a practicing attorney. Bob’s civic and philanthropic activities include years of service on the Board of Directors and Executive Committee of Norfolk International Terminals, various boards of Sentara Health Systems and its predecessors, and the Board of Directors and as Chairman of the Library of Virginia. He served as an officer and director of the Tidewater Chapter of the American Red Cross, the Norfolk Forum, the Virginia Symphony, the Maury Foundation, and the Diabetes Institutes Foundation. Bob was particularly proud of his role in establishing the Foundation for the Howard and Georgeanna Jones Institute for Reproductive Medicine at the Eastern Virginia Medical School, including several years as Chairman of the Board. Always committed to building a forward-thinking community, in the late 1950s, Bob publicly fought against Virginia’s “Massive Resistance� to the integration of Norfolk public schools. In the 1960s, he organized The Aid Fund, to provide scholarships to talented African-American students who were integrating Virginia’s public colleges and graduate schools. In the 1970s and 1980s, he founded and led Virginians Organized for Informed Community Expression (VOICE) to support the then-controversial creation of the Jones Institute for Reproductive Medicine. In the 1990s and 2000s, he conceived and facilitated the founding of the Center for the Study of Religious Freedom at Virginia Wesleyan University. In recognition of his contributions to the establishment of the Center for Religious Freedom, Virginia Wesleyan University awarded Bob an honorary Doctor of Laws degree in 2002. Bob was named First Citizen of Norfolk by the Cosmopolitan Club in 1996, an honor also bestowed upon his mother, Justine, in 1979. Bob received the second Barron F. Black Community Builder Award from the Norfolk Foundation in 2008, and in 2009, he was named the Colgate W. Darden, Jr. Scouter Citizen of the Year by the Tidewater Council of the Boy Scouts of America. In 2013, Bob received the Humanitarian Award from the Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities, and in 2014, he was honored to receive the L.D. Britt, M.D., Community Service Award. In 2014, Bob and Linda received the Chancellor’s Award for Leadership and Philanthropy from Tidewater Community College (TCC) for their years of support of TCC and higher education at the community college level. It is impossible to summarize over 94 years of life and achievement on paper and to capture the person. Simply put, Bob’s greatest achievements were his family, his professionalism, and his unwavering commitment to the rights and liberties which he believed to be among the most important of our society, namely the freedom of religion and education for all citizens, regardless of race or religion. In 2017, in recognition of his contributions to furthering higher education in the African-American community, and his having been the chief patron of Norfolk State University’s Honors College since its inception in 1993, the University named it “The Robert C. Nusbaum Honors College," which will remain one of his enduring legacies. Bob and Linda not only enjoyed a long and happy marriage, but they enjoyed each other and traveling together for three decades. Burial will be at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk at noon on Monday, November 5, 2018, with services to follow at 1:00 p.m. at Ohef Sholom Temple, where Bob was a lifetime member, trusted advisor, and past President. A reception will follow the service at the Temple. The family will receive visitors at home on Saturday, November 3, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m, on Sunday, November 4, from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m., and on Tuesday, November 6, from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Contributions may be made in Bob’s memory to a charity of choice.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Nov. 2 to Nov. 4, 2018.

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Carol White Lentz

October 27, 2022

He is still missed! A rare, true, compassionate gentleman. My condolences.

Vera Kidd

March 22, 2019

Just found out about Bob. So sorry for your loss Linda. Vera Kidd

November 6, 2018

Linda and family of Bob:

Please accept our most sincere condolences on the loss of such a wonderful human being. We all were so fortunate to have known Bob for so many wonderful years. We will miss his smiling face, gentlemanly charm and goodness. Our hearts go out to the entire family.

Bob Carter

Sandy Wingfield-Evans

November 5, 2018

Linda,

I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was an asset to our community in all the good he did while in our community. He will be missed. Bless.

November 5, 2018

Linda, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know he will be greatly missed. May the love of family and friends be with you during this time.

Ellyn J. Kettner

Christina Jones

November 5, 2018

Mr. Nusbaum was such a special, genuine and truly compassionate man. I am so thankful to have had the honor of working with him for the past three years and to have had to privilege of hearing first hand about all his adventures in life (he was a wonderful story teller) and passions. He lived a marvelous life and his generosity and caring for others was one of his greatest attributes. I will truly miss him, and will hold a special place in my heart always for this dear man. My thoughts and prayers are with Linda and the entire family during this time.

Karen Gray

November 5, 2018

One of the kindest men I know is now a true angel watching over his family.

Ms. Linda, may your memories of good times bring you peace when you think of Mr. Bob.

He always had a hug, a smile and a kind word or two. He will definitely be missed.

November 5, 2018

Sharon, Leigh and Bill,

Please accept my most sincere sympathies.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bob was absolutely wonderful and will be remembered!

With love,

Marie Torrans

Tracy Hand

November 5, 2018

Linda and the entire family, my sincerest condolences for the loss of Bob. Bob was a great man, not only for all the amazing and big things he did, but also for his interest in all people.
As a young court reporter, I was lucky enough to spend a week with Bob and Linda taking depositions in New York City. With so little experience at that time, I felt so intimidated and felt as though I didn't belong. However, the second I was with Bob (and Linda), I knew I mattered to them, not only on the job, but they took great pleasure in taking me to wonderful restaurants and making sure I had some time to see some sights, and, mostly importantly, how at dinner they would ask me questions about my life, and it was obvious they really cared about every word I said and about me. I'm sure I had absolutely nothing interesting to say compared to what they were used to hearing, but they made me feel like the most important person in the world when they were talking to me. In fact, for all the years after, when I would see them on the job, they would always chat with me about our time in New York. What class acts!
This world is a better place because Bob spent 94 years enriching the lives of so many. I hope all the amazing memories that you all have of Bob will comfort you during this difficult time.
Tracy Hand

Colleen Will

November 5, 2018

I met Mr. Nusbaum last year at the Hermitage Oyster Roast.. He was such a nice man. We were honored that he shared a couple WWII memories with us. It was a privilege to have met him. Even in our brief exchange, his greatness was apparent. Colleen Will

Joanna

November 4, 2018

Very saddened to hear about Mr. Nusbaum's passing. I briefly met Mr. Nusbaum standing in line at an event in Norfolk. His energy and eagerness to share his Army stories; especially, watching Germany's surrender, was extremely humbling. Thoughts and prayers go out to his friends and family.

Ann Bond Davis

November 4, 2018

It is with deep sadness that I hear of Mr. Nusbaum's death. He was a great influence on my life. As a recent college graduate, he offered me my first job as a paralegal working for him. Mr. Nusbaum had great patience for a young woman who had much to learn. I worked with him for five years and gained a great deal professionally, but more importantly I also grew on a personal level. He took an interest in me and included me in many activities outside of the law firm. I have a great respect for him and send my condolences to his family.

Carol Lentz

November 4, 2018

My condolences to the family of this great man. He was a true gentleman. I worked with him as a legal secretary many years ago and was impressed with his mannerisms and the fact he always had a smile in his face and treated the staff with such courtesy. He will be missed.

M L Baldwin

November 3, 2018

Rest in peace.

Delceno Miles

November 3, 2018

So very sorry for your loss. May God comfort and strengthen you.

Chris Kraus

November 3, 2018

Bill and Sharon and Leigh,
Sending thoughts and prayers of admiration for a life lived so fully.

Mark Magyar

November 3, 2018

Dear Linda, Robert was a wonderful man. He was so kind. It was a true pleasure to do maintenance things for him at Dominion Tower! He always had great stories to tell! I will miss him ! I know he is sharing his stories in heaven! All my love Mark J. Magyar .

Mr. Nusbaum and I during a Strategic team meeting.

Nicole Bragg

November 2, 2018

It is with a heavy heart that I extend my condolences to the Nusbaum family. Mr. Robert Nusbaum was a wonderful person that I truly enjoyed knowing. I had the honor of working with him on a sub committee for the DAYMAC Strategic Team at Berkley/Campostella ECC. I quickly became one of his biggest fans. The wealth of knowledge I received, the stories about his life that he shared with me and the bond of friendship the we developed will always bring a smile to my face every time I think of him. I will truly miss my friend.

Mr. Nusbaum vists Teddy Bear Cove

Doreatha White

November 2, 2018

I am sadden to hear about the passing of Mr. Nusbaum. Mr. Nusbaum was a member of the Berkley Campostella Early Childhood Center's DAYMAC Strategic Team and a Partner in Education. Mr. Nusbaum served as the Principal for a Day for many years. His love and passion for public education will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with Linda and the Nusbaum family. I will miss my dear friend and mentor.

Maria Buchanan

November 2, 2018

We will miss you a lot Mr. Nusbaum. Rest in peace.

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