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Linda Faye Byrum Rapier

1945 - 2019

Linda Faye Byrum Rapier obituary, 1945-2019, Chesapeake, VA

BORN

1945

DIED

2019

Linda Rapier Obituary

74, departed her earthly life on October 22, 2019 in the arms of her loving husband, to live forever in heaven with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. She was born June 14, 1945 to the late James Leon Byrum, Sr. and Mary Byrum in Old Norfolk County, Virginia. She was the 4th of 5 wonderful children. She was a 1963 graduate of Great Bridge High School where she excelled in many sports including track, field hockey, and was kicked out of Powder Puff Football for playing too aggressively and tackling too hard. She went on to graduate from Hick's Beauty School in 1965 and had a successful career as a hairdresser and beautician owning her own shop and teaching the art of cosmetology at Hick's as well. She left the hair salon world to go into the restaurant industry when she married the love of her life Tommy Rapier on Valentine's Day 1975. They went on to run a few successful restaurants for over 30 years working hand in hand and side by side, every day. Linda had many talents and roles during her time here on earth. In addition to being a remarkable beautician she excelled at home renovations, sewing, landscaping, and serving others and the community. She and her husband built many wheelchair ramps across Tidewater for others, including those who could not afford ramps and those who were physically unable to build them. She was a proud member of Deep Creek Baptist Church. She was also the charter president for the Southeastern Lioness Club. She was a world-class mom to many, a therapist, an amazing friend to anyone who needed one, and the best Gran to her grandchildren the world has ever seen.

She is preceded in death by her parents, sister Dolores Anne Powell, brothers James Leon Byrum Jr, and Melvin Ray Byrum. Left to carry on her legacy is her husband of 44 years Tommy Rapier, her son Thomas Rapier(Angie) of Northville, Michigan and their sons Talon, Ty, Trey, Tony, and Trevor. Loved bonus children: Cindy Casteen(Mike), Gary Rapier(Cindy), Deanna Stanton(Jim). Her loving brother Bobby Byrum(Pat) of Chesapeake, VA. Loving In-laws: Joe Rapier(Joyce), Louise Grace(dec.), William Rapier(Joan), James Rapier(Benetta), Libby Mank(David, dec.), and Millie Anderson(Bob). A special niece, Melinda Healy(Mike) and their children. Grandchildren: Scott Taylor(Ashley), Megan Beech(Darren), Amanda Rapier, Andrew Rapier, Jimmie Stanton(Amy), Joey Stanton(Lindsey), and Jenna Stanton. Along with amazing nieces, nephews, and great grandchildren.

A celebration of life will be held November 16, 2019 at 4pm at Deep Creek Baptist Church in Chesapeake. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Deep Creek Baptist Church Building Fund or the American Cancer Society in her honor.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Oct. 25 to Nov. 15, 2019.

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Lynn Goodbody Jones Davidson

October 30, 2019

I taught Lindas son, Thomas, when he was in 6th grade. Linda was my room mother, and my class had parties like no other: fried chicken, mashed potatoes, and all the fixings from Tommys restaurant. I havent seen her in years, but she was a gracious and lovely woman who loved with all her heart. Thomas, Im so sorry for your loss.

Elsie Sexton Richardson

October 29, 2019

To Linda's Family, I am so sorry to hear that Linda is no longer with us. I grew up with Linda and her brothers and we had the best childhood ever. I live in Florida now but every time I visited Chesapeake I would visit Linda and Tommy when I could. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. Elsie Sexton Richardson

Shirrell Sutton

October 28, 2019

To Megan Beech and Family of the Late Linda Faye Byrum Rapier:

Megan, you were my cheer buddy and one of my favorite classmates. I deemed it necessary to convey my sympathy to you as you mourn the passing of your beloved grandmother. It is my prayer that as you go through this hour, you will permit the POWER, PRESENCE and PEACE of GOD to strengthen, surround and comfort you in the days that lie ahead. Look unto the hills from whence cometh your help. . . .it comes from the Lord! Be Encouraged!

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October 27, 2019

Please accept our sincere condolences and may she rest in Peace.

Love & Prayers,
Steve and Jeanne McSweeney

Linda and friends at Beverly's 60th bday...2006

Kimberly Edwards

October 26, 2019

Linda and friends at Beverly's 60th bday...2006

Kimberly Edwards

October 26, 2019

Jimmy Dillon

October 26, 2019

Can't say enough about Linda that everybody else didn't already know. She may have been a Wildcat but she was loved by a very large swarm of Hornets! Rest in peace Linda, we love you!

Larry

October 26, 2019

Tommy, so very sorry to learn of your loss. My condolences.

Gabbo Galbreath

October 26, 2019

I offer my condolences to Tommy, Millie, and the extended Rapier Family at this time of loss. May Peace be with you. I have fond memories of Linda from my lunch visits to The Brentwood Restaurant. She was a lovely lady. May she rest-in-Peace.

Johnnie & Cindy Wood

October 26, 2019

So sorry to hear about Ms.Linda! We spent many nights at Brentwood enjoying the music and family atmosphere! Tommy and Linda made you feel like family! She will truly be missed by many! Our thoughts and prayers are with Tommy and the family!

Gary Tester

October 25, 2019

Linda was the sweetest person I know of. Her beautiful smile will always be remembered by all. Linda, your bravery will always be remember. Thank you for everything you have done for me and my sister. Love you.

Sheila Cuffee

October 25, 2019

Condolences to the family and many friends. Although I did not know Mrs Rapier personally, I heard many wonderful things about her. May God bring her family and friends comfort especially during this difficult time. God bless!

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