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Elvin Wheaton Obituary

ELVIN JEROME WHEATON, SR. "Wheaton" Gary, Indiana Elvin Jerome Wheaton, Sr. "Wheaton", born on January 19, 1950 to Elvin and Irene Wheaton. Elvin passed away at home surrounded by his loved ones after a courageous battle with cancer on April 10, 2008. He graduated from Tolleston School in Gary in 1968. He was a veteran in the United States Air Force from 1968 - 1972. Elvin married his high school sweetheart Lynne D. Adamson on May 19, 1970. To this union three children were born. He joined First A.M.E. Church in 1991. Elvin retired from U.S. Steel after 36 years of service. Elvin loved being outdoors and hunting. He is preceded in death by his parents, Elvin and Irene Wheaton and younger brother, William. He leaves to cherish his precious memories, the love of his life, Lynne and loving children, Talonda (Jimmie) Hollies of Portage, and Tamille (Jermiane) Jackson of Gary; his namesake, Elvin Jerome Jr. of Gary and three grandchildren who were the light of his life, Jermaine and Caleb Jackson and Jaelon Hollies; one surviving sibling, sister and brothers-in-law, Gloria (Sam) Wash, Shirley (Willie) West, Verna (Sammie) Carter and Marlene Browder of Indianapolis; and a host of nieces, nephews and special friends. Vsitation at the Ridgelawn Funeral Home, 4201 West Ridge Road, Gary, Indiana, on Tuesday, April 15, 2008 from 4-7 p.m. Family hour 6-7 p.m. Memorial service will be held on Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at the funeral home from 11-1 p.m. He will be deeply missed by his loving family and friends. May God Grant Him Eternal Rest.

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Published by Post-Tribune from Apr. 13 to Apr. 15, 2008.

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Tasha Jones-Wilson

April 29, 2008

To Talonda and the entire Wheaton family:

We send our deepest condolences to you and your family. May God grant you the needed peace during this time. We will continue to lift the entire family in prayer.
Tasha (Jimmy) Jones-Wilson

TIFFANY BRYANT

April 17, 2008

TO TAMILLE, JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU I'M TRULEY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOUR FAMILY IS IN MY PRAYERS.

Sharon Gilyard

April 17, 2008

To the Wheaton Family,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your love one. My thoughts and prayers are with in this time of need. My God continue to bless you.

Kristen Broadnax

April 16, 2008

Talonda and family,
May God bless and keep you in this time and always.

William Marshall

April 16, 2008

MY condolences to the Wheaton family may god keep and comfort you as only he can.

Ken Williams

April 15, 2008

My thoughts & prayers go out to the Wheaton family!! Elvin was one of my best friends at Tolleston!! I will miss him!! God Bless! Ken Williams, Class of "68"!!

brenda mccoy and family

April 15, 2008

GOD bless the family on the loss of your husband, father, my friend and brother.

Alice Washington (Foston)

April 15, 2008

To Talonda and the entire Wheaton Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort you during this time. My prayers are with you.
Peace and Blessings

Shirlene Newbern Cory Sweet

April 15, 2008

To Brenda, and family and Jerome (son), my heart breaks for your loss and my heart breaks because i lost a good friend. If you guys need me, I am here. God bless
Shirlene and Cory

Deborah, Ashley, Justin Jr. & Family

April 15, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

ELIZABETH WRIGHT

April 15, 2008

Mrs. Lynn:

The James Wright's Family want to express our condolences to you and your family.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you doing this time of need.

God Bless You All

Mrs. Libby, Raymond, Shawn and Kenya

Skip McCoy

April 15, 2008

Family,

Im so sorry to hear of Uncle Nookie passing. Na Na, my heart goes out to your Mom, Tamille, and EJ Jr. Your Daddy was a great man, and a good Uncle..I wish we could have been closer. My prayers are with you all.
Mommy (Brenda McCoy) im so sorry that you have lost another brother.. Im sorry that you are the last surviving sibling but you are not alone... we (all our family and all your great friends) are here for you...im here for you. I know you loved your brother deeply... Just know that he is with Ma, Papa, and Billy... they are all in a better place. I love you... Skip

Andrea Weaver

April 15, 2008

I just want to offer my condolences on the loss of Mr. Wheaton. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

CHARETTA WHEATON

April 14, 2008

HE WILL BE TRUELY MISSSED, MY COUSIN, MAY THE FAMILY PULL TOGETHER IN THIS TIME OF NEED.

dorothy williams

April 14, 2008

I'am sorry to hear about your love one. may GOD be will you.

JEANNETTE TOLLIVER

April 14, 2008

MRS LYNN WHEATON AND FAMILY MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Tommy Evans

April 14, 2008

Dear Wheaton family,
E.J. will be deeply missed. He was a true friend. He had a real gift of working with people. His love for family, friends, and outdoors will be remembered.
My sympathy,

Dolores Bodie

April 14, 2008

Dear Lynn,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the children. May you find comfort through the Love of God,your family and friends.

Gayle Anderson

April 14, 2008

Brenda & Family

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Your cruising and picture taking buddy!

Jackie Collins

April 14, 2008

To The Wheaton Family:
Although death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. It is the will of God that these mortal bodies be laid aside, so that the soul may enter into real "life". May God bless you in your time of mourning.

Michelle IsBell

April 14, 2008

My Prayers go out to Ms. Brenda McCoy & family. I'm sorry for the lost of your brother, may God Bless & keep you.

Tawana Johnson

April 14, 2008

Elvin Jr., I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family our in my prayers. Take care and God Bless.

Norma C. Rodriguez

April 14, 2008

The Rodriguez Family sends our heart felt Condolences to the Wheaton family especialy Ms. Brenda (Wheaton)McCoy and her children and grandchildren. Only sister of Mr. Elvin Jerome Wheaton Sr.

Kimberly Adamson-Jenkins

April 13, 2008

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart grieves for you in this time of sorrow. May God bless you all.

James Rayford, Jr

April 13, 2008

Words can not express the love,dediction and loyal Mr Wheaton had and give to everyone, he just love people, helping, talking and a idealist we could set and talk for hours, so many good memorys, "Semper Fi" my comrade, My condences to family and friends.

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