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David Bender Obituary

David S. Bender, 71, was a beloved husband, father, and grandfather. Dave graduated from Bucknell University with a BA and from Cornell University with a PhD in educational psychology. For 43 years he worked at Penn State Berks, most recently as Associate Professor of Educational Psychology and as Registrar. He served on the Exeter School Board for 34 years. Dave is survived by his wife of 48 years, Barbara, his sister, Sherri Bender, sister-in-law, Sue Radcliffe, his children, Michelle and Andy Siegel, Eric Bender and Abby Brill, and Jeffrey and Kim Bender. Dave’s favorite title was Grandpa Dave to his grandchildren Shayla, Jocelyn, Zachary, Bryce, Colin, and Caitlin. He was pre-deceased by his brother Roger and granddaughter Catherine. In lieu of flowers, a memorial scholarship is being established in Dave’s honor. Contributions can be sent to Penn State Berks Office of Development, PO Box 7009, Wyomissing, PA 19610. Please designate the purpose of your contribution on the check. Henninger Funeral Home, Inc. is in charge of arrangements www.henningerfuneralhome.com

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Published by Reading Eagle from Nov. 7 to Nov. 8, 2020.

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Gregory T Mason

November 12, 2020

Dave was a trusted colleague, and I am grateful for having the privilege of working with him.

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Sharon J kistler

November 10, 2020

So devoted to Penn State Berks that he must have also been just as devoted to the school board and his lovely family. As a former adjunct I admired him so much.

Barbara Mizdail

November 9, 2020

Just add me to the many that admired your loved one.

Katherine Niroumand

November 9, 2020

Dr. Bender was one of the reasons I appreciated my time at Penn State Berks. He was very encouraging with his guidance to make sure that my college experience was successful and life-changing. He helped me believe that I could accomplish so much during my college career, and I’m forever grateful for his support each and every semester. He’s a man that will always be the face of Penn State Berks. May he rest in his peace and look down on all of us as we continue to live up to his legacy as one of his former students inspired to change the face of education. He will be greatly missed.

Samantha Simches (Taylor)

November 8, 2020

Dr. Bender was such a caring person and one of my favorite professors. He was the reason I chose Penn State Berks after touring many schools. I took one of his courses freshmen year and he helped me all the way up to graduation. One of my favorite memories of Dr. Bender was his humorous side. He explained to the class that a member of the school board was coming next class to answer any questions we had. Next week’s class came and in the middle of class he went and changed his outfit and tie. Then Dr. Bender introduced himself as the guest school board member. No one knew that our professor was also a school board member! It really lightened the mood and everyone laughed.

Rosemary Hauseman

November 8, 2020

As an English teacher at Exeter and Penn State, I respected Dave’s hard work and his smile. He will be missed.

Mohamad A Ansari

November 8, 2020

David was a great colleague, a dear friend and a superb human being. For ever, I will cherish our friendship.
With deepest sympathy,
Mohamad A Ansari,
Associate Professor Emeritus, PSU Berks

Randall Fegley

November 8, 2020

Rest in peace dear friend. Your expertise and humor will be missed.

Russ Diesinger

November 7, 2020

I knew Dave as a fine man and trusted colleague on the Exeter School Board. Please, accept my heart felt condolences.

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