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John Selberg Obituary

1946 ~ 2013
John Ryan Selberg, 66, passed away at his home on Sunday, July 14, 2013, shortly after being diagnosed with brain cancer.
Ryan was born September 29, 1946, in Los Angeles, California, to John Peter and Helen Mildred (Kendall) Selberg.He began playing cello in fifth grade after his teacher denied his first choices, trumpet and drums, and offered him an available cello. Ryan played in his school's orchestra while taking private lessons. His first teacher claimed Ryan had absolutely no talent whatever, but his mother didn't believe this assessment and found another teacher, Patricia Thompson Pinkston. He studied with Pinkston and Joseph di Tullio and graduated from the University of California Los Angeleswith a BA in Music Performance.
In the late 1960s and early 1970s, Ryan spent two and a half seasons with the Los Angeles Philharmonic under Zubin Mehta, and worked as a freelance musician in Hollywood. Before moving to Utah, Ryan spent three years as principal cellist of the Edmonton Symphony in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, where he also taught and performed at Alberta College, the University of Alberta, and the Banff School of Fine Arts.
Ryan was appointed Principal Cello of the Utah Symphony in 1975 by Maestro Maurice Abravanel, and completed his 38thseason shortly before his death.In addition to his duties as principal cellist, Ryan was an active recitalist and chamber musician and was often a featured soloist with the Utah Symphony. He spent fourteen years on the faculty of the University of Utah, and continued to teach privately. From 1997 through 2003, he was artist-in-residence at the Black Glove Cello Festival in St. George. In recent years, Ryan has been a featured artist at the Deer Valley Music Festival.
While music was Ryan's passion, he had many other hobbies, including woodworking, photography, and golf, and was active in his church. He was also a lifelong outdoorsman. He first climbed Half Dome in Yosemite as a teenager, and continued to enjoy hiking, camping, and fishing with his sons, particularly during their time in Boy Scouts. He always enjoyed the opportunities provided by Symphony tours to explore and photograph local landscapes.
Ryan is survived by Joy, his wife of 43 years, as well as his sons and their wives: Erik and his wife Mary Kathryn (Rodgers), of Seattle, and Scott and his wife Tonya (Van Santen), of Santa Rosa, CA. Ryan had five beloved grandchildren, in whom he took great delight: Laura, John, Charlie, Ty, and Johanna.He is also survived by his sister, Nancy Selberg Sarna,of Las Vegas, NV; his brother Steve Selberg, of Los Angeles, CA; his sister-in-law, Gayle Erbele and her husband Jim, of Olympia, WA; many cousins, nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews, and countless friends. He also leaves behind his faithful collie, Ciara. He was predeceased by his parents.
A service commemorating Ryan's life will be held at First Presbyterian Church, 12 C Street, Salt Lake City, on Sunday, July 21, 2013, beginning at 4 p.m.
Inlieu of flowers, Ryan's family asks that donations be directed to the Utah Symphony (www.utahsymphony.org/support), so that they can continue to share the music that Ryan so loved.
Memories and condolences can be shared with Ryan's family at www.larkinmortuary.com.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jul. 17 to Jul. 21, 2013.

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Andy Harrell

March 30, 2018

I was shocked and disheartened to read about Ryan's death. He and I were friends during his "Alberta" years. We were both native Californians, grew up in LA, and hand friends in common. He was a great guy. He taught me how to fish when were in Edmonton. Loved the out-of-doors and was truly multi-talented. My condolences to his wife Joy and to rest of his fine family. I truly regret not keeping in better touch.

duncan mckean

July 24, 2013

he will be missed .i worked on his house during the big remodel .we had wonderful conversations about music.he loved the concept of craftmanship.i profoundly respected him and looked so forward to working on his house and validating our kindred spirit of our mutual interest in art and music.you will always be in my heart .hope the goose bumps are transcendent beauty now.

Edmund Cord

July 20, 2013

My sincere condolences to the family. I have fond memories of Ryan and our time together in the orchestra. He had a great smile and a wonderful laugh, the recollection of which makes me smile. Truly a great loss.

Marsha (formerly Cord) Zipkin

July 19, 2013

To Ryan's family... May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.

Leslie Vander Meulen Canavan

July 19, 2013

To our Selberg cousins, Ryan's wonderful family, please know you are in my thoughts on learning today of Ryan's way too early passing. What a career and what a man. I followed his career from here in St. Louis & through our SLSO cellists. May your wonderful memories help you through this very sad time. Ryan was my & my brother Kert Vander Meulen's second cousin. His grandfather was our dad's 1st cousin, his great grandmother sister to our beloved grandfather. May he rest in peace and love.

Lou and Debbie Moench

July 18, 2013

A sad surprise. We have been enjoying the Utah Symphony for as long as Ryan has been playing in it, and in our family, have a special fondness for cellos and the rich sound the Ryan-led section provided. We wondered how his large fingers could make those precise and delicate runs but saw Rostropovich do it on the same stage with the same-size fingers. Ryan and Ravel left this life in the same way. How comforting to think Ryan, Ravel, and Rostropovich are now in cel together. We thank you for his contribution and wish you peace and harmony, knowing his life was well-lived.

Michael Schlechtriem

July 18, 2013

A very fine man,a great loss.Thank you for your letters, your thoughts and your help.

Ina White

July 18, 2013

My sincere condolences to the entire Selberg family. Ryan will be greatly missed but always remembered not only for the quality of his music but also for the quality of his life and person. Personally I will remember his kind and generous spirit.

Judy

July 17, 2013

I had season tickets to the Utah Symphony for close to 30 years. I loved watching Ryan play. He made such beautiful music come from his cello. Thanks for the memories, Ryan. I'll never forget you.

Letty Workman

July 17, 2013

Ryan's Beautiful Spirit and Music were significant, Outstanding Blessings to our choir, as well as to the greater community. We shall miss him dearly, but always remember him in our hearts with much gratitude and Joy! May God hold him and his family is His Loving arms.

sarah schenkman

July 17, 2013

Cellists all over the world are in mourning for this wonderful man. Light and love to his family.

Anne Goldstein

July 17, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Love to you and your family.

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