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Nanci curcio
September 18, 2022
My great aunt and uncle lived in Balboa CZ for many years. Going through her items I found a diploma for prentice Farrah Wilson. Would that be your family?
Farrar Wilson 10-1964 m31.5x34
Romain Saide
September 4, 2017
Wilson. Two, 1989
Rob Corder
November 10, 2014
Farrar was my first art instructor at San Jose State in the late 70's. He was wonderfully talented painter and a dedicated teacher. He was the first professor to introduced me to the drawings of Egon Schiele and Gustave Klimt. Farrar left a deep and lasting impression on me as a young student. Leslie, thank you for the email. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Leslie Wilson-Rutterford
October 2, 2012
Thank you everyone, for your wonderful comments.
Hi Dee, thanks so much for your heartfelt entry. How did you know our Dad? I would love to hear about your memories. Please email me at [email protected] if you would like to share. If anyone who knew him would like to connect with me, please feel free to email me. All the best, Leslie
dee parker
October 2, 2012
i cried reading abt your dad & felt the love ,respect you have for him. i am a farrar too though distant &came across this. thanks for sharing.sorry for your loss.wonderful memories.
Diana McBride
May 30, 2012
Leslie, I didn't know your father very well, just spent a few weekends as a young teen with you on your visits with him. Your eloquent and loving tribute to Farrar has helped me understand the strong bond you two shared both as father-daughter and through the deep appreciation of the arts. He was a gentle soul and it warms my heart that he so enriched your life. With love to you and Jody, Diana
Geri Wittig
May 30, 2012
Leslie and Jody, so sorry to hear about your Dad, he was one of my professors at SJSU (BFA in Painting/MFA in Computers in Fine Arts). He was a great mentor, loved the field trips he took us on to his Bernal Hill SF studio and the gallery tours - left a lasting impression.
Leslie Wilson-Rutterford
May 30, 2012
A year has passed since my father's death and it's just as poignant now that he is no longer with us. I miss him so much. Leslie, his eldest daughter
Ellen Van Fleet
July 3, 2011
I love being able to read other's pictures of Farrar. It fleshes him out for me, beautifully.
Krista White
June 29, 2011
I may be the only person writing who did not have the privilege of knowing Farrar before his passing. However, I read his memorial in the Sacramento Bee, and was so touched by the beautifully written story of his life, artistry, and the people he loved that I actually felt compelled to express my appreciation for this wonderful man, though I never had the honor of knowing him. As a young musician and college student, I found reading about his dedication to his art incredibly inspiring... "He did what he wanted to do." Judith, I know this sounds crazy but if you are reading this, I would love to get in touch with you. Let me know if that might be possible. I can be reached at [email protected].
With my sincere condolences,
June 26, 2011
I met Farrar late in his life through Judy when I returned to Sacramento. Even though frail, he was indomitably committed to his work, appearing for his last showing on 21st Street with oxygen tank. A gentle, now somewhat subdued man, he was gracious and charming until the end. His brilliance on canvas will be cherished forever by the legatee world. I am privileged to have known him, however briefly.
Diane Powell
Jim Thomas
June 8, 2011
I am genuinely saddened to hear of Farrar's passing. I had a class with him at San Jose State and we never really hit it off. It was only later, after I graduated, that we'd see each other at openings or other social gatherings, and realized that we had a good many interests in common. That developed into a friendship that lasted over 30 years.
I learned an important life lesson from Farrar. The amount of fun you can have gigging frogs is in direct proportion to the actual number of frogs you capture. We spent a long night in the sloughs east of Los Banos with a good deal of drinking, grumbling, rowing and a sadly inept effort to seal the hole in our inflatable raft with a pair of jumper cables. The three of us spent a cold and wet night on the floor of Vic's van with two sleeping bags between us. With no frog legs for breakfast we retreated to Los Banos for biscuits and gravy, tails between our legs.
It doesn't seem like much, but I've remembered it fondly all these years.
Losing Farrar is a body blow. Rest in Peace Bud.
Nina Levan
June 7, 2011
Thank you Judy for sharing this remembrance of Farrar. I can still see him in his studio with his newest painting and his fantastic collection of brushes. I feel fortunate to have met him and to have been able to view his work. He was a very special painter--he will be missed.
Judy Berman
June 7, 2011
My husband and I lived across the street from Farrar and Judy in Point Richmond and were privileged to see and enjoy his work at several "open studio" days as well on the walls of the apartment he and Judy shared beneath their church (which housed their very large workspace.) Whenever I came over to the studio to meet Judy and take a walk with her and our dog, Summer, Farrar would emerge from his work space to greet him; and Summer would wiggle his whole body with joy in greeting to another "dog lover." Then Farrar would take his cigar out of his mouth, bend down and return Summer's greeting with a pat, an ear scratch, a big smile and a chuckle. I'll always remember him that way.
Jeffrey Genzlinger
June 6, 2011
What a loving, caring and evocative obituary, Judy. I only wish we had known Farrar better than we did. We only met him once or twice at your shows, but he was clearly a kind and warm-hearted man. I hope someday to see some of his work and get to know him through his art. Both Katrin and I express our deepest condolences to you for your loss. I know you have found and will continue to find a catharsis in your work. Art has an immense capacity for healing, and your work has been a source of strength for me more than once. May it now serve to bolster you against sadness. I also hope that our Bach motets CD, which you said he so enjoyed, provide some spiritual food and give you strength and peace - it pleases us that our little musical efforts were of enjoyment to him. We both send much love to you and look forward to seeing you soon.
June 5, 2011
We knew Farrar through his paintings; rich, densely luminous paintings offering us knowledge and virtuosity and nuance. They are filled with the gift of insight and, through the artist’s discerning hand, a bountiful, giving sensibility. We are grateful for the artist’s lifelong commitment to their making and for the ongoing and generous spirit of understanding that lives in them.
Lon Clark, Laura Harden
San Francisco Studio School
Bob Larsen
June 5, 2011
I lost contact with Farrar after he moved to Sacramento. I have fond memories of times spent with him during the days he and Judy lived in Point Richmond. I have one of his paintings in my home and I never tire of looking at it. Farrar was a joy to be around. He was very bright and he could be very funny and often was.. Farrar and I had several interests in common, one of which was listening to the music of the jazz pianist, Bill Evans. We also had a tomato contest several years in a row. Farrar planted a couple of tomato plants in the limited space in front of the church he and Judy shared on Washington street in Point Richmond. Now I wish I had given him the opportunity to win the tomato contest at least one of those years.
Farrar is going to be missed by all those who knew him, but he will be really missed by those who never had the opportunity to know him.
Susan Aulik
June 4, 2011
Thank you for the wonderful description of Farrar's life and work. Daily, I admire one of his watercolor paintings hanging in my dining room. It never fails to uplift and inspire me. He was a very special man and an exceptional artist. Judy, you two were lucky to have each other and I am grateful to have known him as a friend. Love, Susan
Nancy Truax (Narciso)
June 4, 2011
I remember Farrar as one of my professors. He was kind and quiet. He seemed to have a difficult time critiquing work he didn't like...perhaps because he was so nice.
In an Advanced painting class, Farrar brought in his own portfolio-showing us his drawings. We were all excited to see his work, thinking it was so professional. He brought out a portfolio made of cardboard., taped together with, I think, duct tape. All his drawings were separated by waxed paper! In one way I was disappointed by his humble portfolio-on the other hand, I thought it was soo cool! He taught us all that day that it didn't matter how much one spent on "the portfolio", it was the art within the portfolio that mattered. It let us all off the hook in regards to spending money we didn't have to try and look grown up,professional and impressive!. I was happy to see Farrar over the years at functions in San Jose...at openings, birthday party's and Fred Spratt's Memorial. He was a great guy-mellow and creative and honest. He will be missed! Nancy Truax, MFA 84'
Stephanie Peek
June 4, 2011
What a loving review of Farrar's rich and generous life. The evocative description of his studio and paintings, most especially his painting chair, made him live again for me. From Farrar's sweet photograph to the very last touching service, this obituary is truly the most beautiful memorial ever. He was indeed loved.
sydney & arthur carson
June 4, 2011
Thanks for sending this, Judy. His was a life fully lived. We hope to see you some time soon. Love, Arthur and Sydney
Sandy Cappelletti
June 4, 2011
When I think of Farrar I will think of his beautiful bougainvillea vine, climbing tenaciously up the back stairwell of his studio.
His spirit lives on! Love, Sandy.
Katherine Huffaker Jones
June 4, 2011
Thank you for sharing these details of Ferrar's life. I only knew him as a teacher and as a role model for living an artist's life. In that way he has had a lifelong effect on me. I imagine there are many more souls he's influenced over the years. Uncountable. With love and appreciation,
Phyllis Bronstein
June 4, 2011
So sorry to read about your loss, Judy. It was fascinating and inspiring to read about your partner's life.
Phyllis
Chris and Dana Daubert
June 4, 2011
We are so glad that we got to know him, as a painter and as a quiet and eloquent man.
Santa Clara County Fair photo booth pic of Dad and me
Leslie Wilson-Rutterford
June 4, 2011
I will miss my father, Farrar Wilson, immensely. He was my first love, my first mentor. Fatherhood was a slightly abstract concept to him, but I had a deep respect for him because he always respected me. A bit distant when we were young, and even not terribly demonstrative later, his was a gentle and kind attention that was a pleasure to be near. He had a generous nature toward others, much patience and never raised his voice in anger to me.
He taught me much about art, not so much from his own work, but, early on by taking my sister and I to galleries and museums, to take in the classic and current iconic modern artists of the second half of the 20th century. We continued this tradition up until a couple years before he died. It is from him I acquired my love of fine art.
When young, during the odd time we were allowed there, I would dance around in his studio. As an adult, when visiting, with his music wafting through his studio, his home, I was transported to another time and place, one of happiness, peace and introspection. One of my cherished possessions is his copy of Carmina Berana, by Carl Orff, which he gave me when I was in my twenties.
My father, Farrar, was an individualist, not overly political, but a believer in truth and justice. He attracted fellow outspoken characters like Vic Bagno, Jeff Bowman, both now sadly deceased and Bob Friemark , mostly fellow artist and academic men who shared his sense of the absurd, but with intelligence and bravado. After my parents divorced, my sister and I would visit my dad every other weekend. On some of those occasions, I would be allowed to sit with my dad and his cronies while they drank a gallon of burgundy wine, from some small local vineyard, and shoot the breeze around the kitchen table into the wee hours. I learned how to drink from my dad. He appreciated good conversation, but quietude and introspection were equally valued. Camping was the ultimate place for these pleasures. Talking, drinking and thinking.
He was a man's man, though women were always attracted to him, and later in life he acquired a deep compassion towards women and the injustices they've suffered, including some of those in his own past.
Farrar was tolerant and big hearted but he didn't suffer fools gladly. One of his old adages for me if I attempted to complain about a problem I was having was, "You made your bed, now lay in it." My father valued self-reliance, but also believed in the power of thought and philosophy, and shared that with me. He gave me his copy of 'The Story Of Philosophy', by Will Durant, when I was going through a troubled time, and on a note placed inside he wrote:
"Dear Leslie, When I was in my early twenties, and going through a lot of anguish over. "What does it all mean", I took a lot of philosophy in school and read a lot on my own. One of the books that really helped me was 'The Story of Philosophy', by Durant. The great thinkers throughout time have wrestled with the same questions we still have now. Maybe the results of their efforts can give you some insights into how to find the answers for yourself. None of the answers are easy or magical, as most organized religions provide, but must be found within oneself, by utilizing one's own feelings, strengths, abilities and talents. To make one's own life meaningful is to give life meaning. The answers are in the process of living a full and purposeful life. I don't mean self-indulgence, or exploitation of others- these things always come back at you- but through your own good instincts and impulses, follow a full, rich and ethical path to self-realization. (It's still not easy). I love you alot, Dad."
Despite the distance between us, once I moved to London, our mutual respect for each other was a constant. His life is intertwined with mine, and as I continue to wrestle with life's big questions, our conversation will continue.
Leslie Wilson-Rutterford
Ellen Van Fleet
June 4, 2011
Judy; Lovely obituary. I got a sense of Ferrar in his surroundings and in a sense can still feel him in those places and paintings. Love, Ellen
Susan Steinman
June 4, 2011
A beautiful essay on a compassionate, insightful man--and a soulful yet bright painter. Condolences to his family. Love to Judy. Susan and Arnie Steinman
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