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Katy Warner
August 5, 2024
Jocelyn...Always warm, always welcoming.
We miss you!
Jocelyn Weir
June 14, 2019
I was named Jocelyn, for Jocelyn Vollmar, by my mother in January 1955, in the hopes that I too would become a dancer. I actually studied at the San Francisco Ballet School in the late 60s and would see her occasionally in the dressing rooms. I was way too shy to approach her. Unfortunately a serious injury ended my (and my mother's), hope of my being a professional dancer. She was truly someone special to look up to and I'm so proud to have her name.
John Vollmar
April 30, 2019
Never met this relative, but she lives on in the loving stories I have heard of her remarkable life. Sympathies to all.
linda Hoxit
November 26, 2018
I was a scholorship student the summers of '67 and '68 , and Jocelyn was San Francisco ballet's Prima Ballarina those yrs.It would always amaze me that she would get dressed and ready for class with all of us in the ladies dressing room with no star attitude, and seemed to enjoy some conversation from us. I was impressed and in awe to be around such a talent , and I will always think of her as being the first celebrity of many in my life as a pro dancer and entertainer .
Soili and Leo Ahonen
August 14, 2018
How lucky we were to cross paths with Jocelyn!
Our friendship lasted 50 years, although most of it was spent far apart - with an occasional visit in San Francisco.
She changed our lives in 1968, on our way to Alaska and then back to Finland.
We stopped to take classes at SFB and Jocelyn asked us to stay a few more days to meet Lew Christensen.
We agreed to stay a year in America - and now 50 years later we are still here!
We will miss her beautiful smile and outlook and guidance in life!
Here is a quote from from her last nook we received this year:
"Am I worthy of all that I've been given : the Earth and Water. And Sun My Parents, my Country, my voice to be heard. Am I doing all that needs to be done? I try"
YES YOU WE'RE!
Rest in Peace Dear Jocelyn!
Soili Arvola and Leo Ahonen
Basya Petnick
August 11, 2018
It was an honor and privilege to have known Jocelyn. She was so thin and frail and yet amazingly strong. I met her at San Francisco Ballet's Alumni Memoir Project and then worked with Jeff Friedman and Mary Wood to further preserve her legacy via an oral history project, "Dance Icons of the West."
I've read and re-read her life story many times, and while it is filled with stories of exotic people and places and tremendous accomplishment, it is also filled with will, energy, humor, and perseverance. She told me many times that the reason she rose to the heights of ballet was not because she was great dancer, but because she wasn't a very good dancer (not true, of course), and thus had to work extra hard.
She married ballet and gave her entire life to it. Once when she was approaching the podium to speak at a formal event in the Opera House, commemorating SF Ballet's 75th anniversary, "...a whisper went through the house: 'Stand up--it's Jocelyn'." What emerged was a prolonged standing ovation- and this--forty years after she stopped performing! I cry to think of it.
She wore her greatness modestly. She was strict, but loving and kind and supportive always. She was our role model, super-artist, teacher, most dear friend. She understood what a body really is--a magnificent form for Spirit. They say Jocelyn died but I don't believe it. Jocelyn's body died, but her Spirit will always be this moment---this movement--this dance of life-- right now!
Claire Sheridan
August 8, 2018
A great lady and a kind, inspiring teacher. Jocelyn Vollmar will be missed indeed.
August 7, 2018
JOCELYN VOLLMAR
August 7, 2018
Barbara Picarelli
August 5, 2018
My husband and I loved this elegant lady, and she was kind enough to send us each of her volumes of poetry, which I still have. Ballet has lost another legend.
Jeff Friedman
August 5, 2018
We had the pleasure of recording Jocelyn's life-history at the San Francisco Museum of Performance & Design several years ago. But with Jocelyn, meeting her is just the beginning of a beautiful friendship that extended to running into her at many dance functions, intimate lunches at her favorite local Indian restaurant and extended conversations about life, dance and all in-between. What a great person, to have known her, listened to her wonderful life-stories, and felt her warmth and appreciation. I will miss her, but know that her impact will be lasting.
Dan McGarry
August 5, 2018
Jocelyn a wonderful human being and beautiful ballerina. Light and love.
Nancy Dickson
August 5, 2018
Jocelyn epitomized everything a ballerina...and good person..should be. Witty, elegant, kind, beautiful in and out. A San Francisco icon. She will be greatly missed.
Katy Warner
August 5, 2018
Jocelyn's beauty, grace and kindness were invested in her being and in her dance. She radiated her warmth and strength of spirit to all who were lucky enough to know her and see her dance. Just as she said, "That's my bridge!", about the Golden Gate. I can say "That's my Ballerina!" about my dear Jocelyn Vollmar.
Love,
..Katy Warner
Deborah
August 5, 2018
Jocelyn was an inspiration to all of us. A dedicated artist and servant to Ballet, she was a supreme role model. Who can forget her Sugar Plum Fairy and her drunk girl in "Filling Station"? RIP? Resting was never in her vocabulary.
Lunch at The Cliff House
Janet Hellebuyck
August 5, 2018
Jocelyn has a special place in the hearts of our family. I considered her my second Mom as a place of honorr. Our world is missing her beautiful spirit , there are so many lovely memories she left with us.
Both of our daughters and all the dancers remember fondly her classes. She would tell me I would give the students something difficult and they always would rise to the occaison.
She was not only a beautiful dancer and lovely to talk to, but she was The epitome of a Lady. Always loved her high heels I always admired her dedication and to see her her dedication. I loved to see her Warming up in her flowered ballet skirts and tights and leotard before teaching Her Pointe class she was about to give.
I was hoping to see her in October But will need to wait until we're both in heaven.
I feel blessed to have her books of poetry
We are sad she is no longer with us , but we thank God she was a part of our lives in many different ways , not just Ballet.
David
August 4, 2018
I was the luckiest dancer in the world to have studied with Jocelyn at the Contra Coast Ballet and Marin Ballet schools. "Joce" will forever be one of my most important mentors. She instilled in us life lessons that went far beyond the ballet studio. Never one to rest on her laurels, "and then I did"..... she was more interested in guiding us to achieve our hopes and dreams - looking forward - rarely back. While I am devastated by losing her physically her memory and influence will live on forever. As she said to me one time "Nothing truly dies. All energy simply transforms. RIP dear Jocelyn.
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