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Dustin Stuebs Obituary
SPRINGFIELD - Dustin Matthew "Bub" Stuebs, 4, of Springfield passed away July 21, 2008, at Genesis Medical Center in Silvis.
He was born April 7, 2004, in Springfield, the son of Jason Matthew and Christina Marie Adams Stuebs.
Dustin was a member of Calvary Temple and attended preschool at Springfield Ball Charter.
He loved Spiderman, Superman, riding his big wheel, playing baseball, fishing, camping, the outdoors, playing with his cars and dinosaurs and was a natural swimmer.
Surviving are his parents, Jason and Christina; brothers, Dyantae and Jacob Stuebs, and sister, Hannah Stuebs, all of Springfield, grandparents, Tina and Frank Adams; great-grandmothers, Jackie Pickrell and Jess Adams; and several aunts, uncles and cousins. He was preceded by his grandparents, JoAnn and Erich Stuebs; great-grandfather, Doc Vaughn; two uncles, Jess Stuebs and Phillip Vaughn; and an aunt, Jenny Logerquist.
Friends may call from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. Thursday, July 31, 2008, at Calvary Temple. Dustin will lie in state from 9 a.m. until time of service at 10 a.m. Friday, Aug. 1, 2008, at Calvary Temple with the Rev. Mark Johnson officiating. Burial will be in Oak Ridge Cemetery.
Memorials may be made to the Stuebs family at any Marine Bank location.
Services are under the direction of Bisch and Son Funeral Home, 505 E. Allen St., Springfield, IL.
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Memories and Condolences
for Dustin Stuebs
August 4, 2008
Please know that all that were there that day have prayed for your family everyday since. Your grief we cannot imagine. Your hearts we cannot mend. But our prayers for you in this time of pain we can give. Our brief meeting is something that I will cherish always. For today we are here, and tomorrow God calls.
Anonymous
August 2, 2008
Precious parents, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, family...
To this day, and only this day...may you gain the hope of many and the strength from all, my heart goes out to you. In prayer, I lift you. For all souls reading this, the Stuebs family needs your prayers, your compassion, there is nothing of this earth- no secret that can mend this devestation. I pray, in whatever means...be there for this family today, next week, in the coming years. Mow their grass, clean their home, do not ask what you can do...imagine their needs as if they were your own and just do them. This, above all else will at least give them some hope and direction. Please, don't let them become invisible in their grief. They need us all for we are whole and have our sweet babies near by. May we all unite, hand in hand, for the Stuebs family.
Nancy Mullen
August 2, 2008
To the Stuebs Family,
It is incomprehensible to imagine what you must be going through. We will never understand some events in life, but my prayer is that you'll feel God holding you through this very sad time and find some comfort. The entire community grieves with you and your are in our prayers always. God Bless.
alicia marta
August 1, 2008
To The Stuebs Family, im deepely saddened and sorry for the loss of not one but two kids. May Dustin and Savannah rest in peace.
Ben Schubert
August 1, 2008
Dear Stuebs family,
I was one of Dustin's VBS teachers.
He was always energetic and I knew
he had a great time. Now that he is gone, I remembered that the Bible says that Christans should always rejoice even when it is hard. We all know he is in a better place and we will see him again. You will always be in my prayers.
Cindi Bottoms-Briggs
August 1, 2008
For Parents*
"I'll Lend you for a little time, a child of mine," He said, "For you to love while she lives, and mourn when she is dead. It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three, But will you, till I call her back, take care of her for me? She'll bring her charms to gladden you, and shall her stay be brief, You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise she will stay, since all from earth return, But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn. I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true. And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you. Now will you give her all your love, nor think the labor vain, Nor hate me when I come to call, to take her back again. I fancied that I heard them say, Dear Lord, Thy will be done. For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run. We'll shelter her with tenderness, we'll love her while we may; And for the happiness we've known, will ever grateful stay. But shall the angels call for her much sooners than we planned, We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand!"~ Anonymous
A Friend
July 31, 2008
Stuebs Family,
There is nothing anyone can say that makes losing your child any easier. You are in the thoughts and prayers of many.
P
July 31, 2008
You do not know me, but as a mother my heart aches for you. I know that no matter how many times you hear "I'm sorry" it does not make the pain any more bearable, but I am truly so sorry for your loss. I wish I had a magical cure for your pain and suffering. Please know that you are in the hearts of many and we all will be grieving with you.
Laura Crawley
July 31, 2008
To the family I hold you up in prayer. I attended school with Christina in Petersburg, and I work with Penny. I pray that the Lord carries you through this time of pain. To lose a child is beyond my knowing, be strong and rely on God. My heart goes out to all of you.
Lisa T
July 31, 2008
To the Stuebs Family although we don't know one another. It was really upsetting to me to hear about your tragedy. Words cannot express how anyone feels. These little kids are with God now and he is watching over them. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
A Mom
July 31, 2008
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.
George & Helen Tiemann
July 31, 2008
Stuebs family
Our hearts go out to you. We met you for a short time at the camp ground in Colona. On a stormy night ,you pitched your tent in front of us. We admired you so much for the job you were doing.May God be with you as you try to go forward.
Fellow campers
George & Helen & Tiemann
July 31, 2008
My deepest sympathies to your family. My heart just broke when I read your story. Please know that there are so many people out here in this community that care. We are all behind you. May god bless you and your angels that heaven has gained.
A parent of a three-year-old.
A Parent of three My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
July 31, 2008
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
Angie
July 31, 2008
Dear Stuebs Family,
I cannot begin to comprehend the grief, pain, and anger you must be feeling now. Although we have never met, when I heard of your tragedy, I had such a strong urge to comfort you. Please take solace in the belief that you will hold your babies again in heaven. Until then, may god comfort your heart and calm your soul.
A parent
July 31, 2008
My heart goes out to this whole family, including the sisters and brother of Dustin and Savannah. What a terrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. There are two new angels in heaven.
Marlene Wiker
July 31, 2008
I just want to express my deepest sympathy in the loss of these two beautiful little angels. May you gain strength from God to get through the days ahead. My prayers are with the whole family
Mike Hatfill
July 31, 2008
My heart and prayers go out to all of you. Nothing can ever replace the ones we lose, but their love never leaves our lives.
Jack & Virgene Fair
July 31, 2008
Sometimes words aren't adequate. Please know you are in our prayers for you and the loss of Dustin and Savannah.
Cathy
July 31, 2008
May God Bless You and Your Family. I was devastated to hear about the loss of your two children. Know that your angels will now be looking over you to help you get through this.
Julie DeVault
July 31, 2008
Stuebs family,
You do not know me, however, I did know a few members of your family, I taught Jess, then the following year, I taught Emma. I visit your store very often. I cannot begin to imagine the pain that you and your loved ones are going through. Children are gifts to cherish forever, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish there were words to say that would make it all better, just cherish every minute you have with your family and friends. Your angels are watching over you now.
Becky Ochs
July 30, 2008
I remember your siblings from the Avenue thrift. I can't begin to express my sadness for your family and the loss of your two little angels. Somehow God will get you through this. What the community is doing to help your family speaks volumes for your family.
Sincerely, Becky Ochs
Sondra Lessen
July 30, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kirk Richardson
July 30, 2008
Know that our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this time of great sadness and sorrow. God has certainly added to His circle of special loved ones residing with Him in all His glory. You will all be in our hearts. We are sad with you.
Andrew Stroupe
July 30, 2008
Chrissy & Jason, we love you guys and are praying for you.
Shirley Hauk
July 30, 2008
i am sorry for everything you and your family are going through. you and your family are in everyones prayers
April Smith-Rhone
July 30, 2008
Chrissy and Jason you are very strong and giving People please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers, there are no words I can say to tell you how very sorry I am, You guys are loved and there are many people here for any needs we can help with..
Tracy McGrew
July 30, 2008
My heart goes out to you and your family, may God bless you and help you find peace and the strength to move forward. God bless Dustin and Savannah, they will be missed.
Korie Kissiar
July 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss
Kade's Aunt Korie
L R
July 30, 2008
Stuebs Family,
may the Lord keep you & give you peace at this time and future. We are all sadden of you lost please know that we as a community have been praying for you all.
Bubba Bubba
July 30, 2008
I heard about your son's passing on the tv. i just wanted to express how sorry i am for your loss and you are all in my prayers.
Andrew ( Drew ) McLaughlin
July 30, 2008
Dyantae, Chrissy, Jason and family I'm so sorry about Dustin and Savannah. I wish there was something I could have done to stop what happened. I will miss all the fun times Dyantae,Dustin and I had together playing. I'm praying for you all.
Monica Dishon
July 30, 2008
Chrissy, Jason and Family, I'm so sorry, I know nothing I can say will take away your pain. Dustin is a very special little boy and loved by all. Please know your in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please call me. We love you all.
Chris Burge-Jordan
July 30, 2008
Your in my thoughts and prayers. Your Angel's are watching over you now. You will always have wonderful memories of your babies. I didn't have the joy of knowing you or your children but I was a neighbor of Tina years ago. I will continue to pray for your family. May God bless you.
Carole Hunter-Aubrey
July 30, 2008
The Stuebs Family
My very deepest and heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your dear son, Dustin.
You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tracey
July 30, 2008
I am very sorry for the loss of your children and your pet. This has touched many people and alot of prayers are going your way. God Bless
Tracey
sandy travous
July 30, 2008
i dont know you folks, but my prayers are with you, no parent should ever have to bury a child, god bless you all.
Rose Stark
July 30, 2008
My heart is sadden to see that you had lost Dustin. I know he was a bright young man he was always a very sweet young man. Hw would alway's say hello to me and my family.Dustin will be missed by many of us. But remember all the good time's you ahd spent and had with him. He will always live in each of our heart's and he will never be forgotten by any of us. If their is anything I can do please contact me. You all will contuion to be in my prayer's and may each one of you find confort in the Lord in your time. May the Lord keep you a peace always. Remember Dustin will always be with you always in each of your heart's. God Bless you & keep your faith in Him.
Erin Truter
July 30, 2008
I asked the Lord to bless you
As I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way....
His love is always with you
His promises are true,
And when we give Him all our cares
You know He will see us through
So when the road you're traveling on
Seems difficult at best
Just remember I'm here praying
And God will do the rest.
Jennifer B.
July 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
mark and cathy leathers
July 30, 2008
Jason and Chrissy and family
Our hearts break for you, I have no words to help ease your pain. Know that we are praying for all of you. If you need anything please contact me
Todd Schnirring
July 30, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our Thoughts and Prayers during this time of grief. I cannot begin to understand the pain that your going through. I myself try to understand why things happen the way they do and why innocent children are take from us and cannot. Remember time will heal your pain, but it will not erase your memories.
God Bless,
The Schnirring Family
Gloria Livingston
July 30, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. There are not words enough to express but our prayers are with your family and God has promised those that love him that he will not give them more than they can bear. It's very difficult as I just lost my mother who was my dearest friend and I still can't understand or believe it.
Kim Doolin
July 30, 2008
To the Stuebs Family,
I had the pleasure a meeting your family and assisting in the activties with Ginger at Honey Bend over 4th of July. Pease know that we at Honey Bend Resort are thinking of you and praying for you at this time.
J. Marinelli
July 30, 2008
I'm so sorry for the loss of little Dustin. He was a beautiful boy. We lost a baby this year too, I know how hard that is on those of us left here. I'm praying for you and your family to have peace and comfort in this time, and for future healing. God Bless.
Mary
July 30, 2008
Stuebs Family:
You do not know me but I want you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad time. I am a mother and I can not even imagine what you are going through. I just wanted to tell your family that I was thinking of all of you and keeping you in my prayers. Cherish all the wonderful memories you have and ask God to help you get through the days and nights ahead. God Bless all of you!!!
July 30, 2008
our hearts go out to you. i cant imagine this loss. May God be with you all.
Shannon Neuhoff & Madison Lowder
July 30, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Laura
July 30, 2008
Stuebs family: I wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers and thoughts daily. Your loss has touched so many whom you have never met and they are thinking of you at this time. May God speed his love and grace upon you and know that many are keeping you in their thoughts and prayers.
Kristina White
July 30, 2008
Dave Logerquist & family,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I know words may be of no comfort at this sad time, just know my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the Lord get you through this and give you comfort.
Amanda and Gabriel Helm
July 30, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Michelle Lefrere
July 30, 2008
May God Bless your Family & Watch over Dustin in Heaven My Prayers are with you,Michelle Lefrere
Karen Miller
July 30, 2008
To the Stuebs family, my heart felt sympathy goes out to you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers for the loss of your two beautiful angels. May you be able to take comfort in your wonderful memories and the words of solace that have been offered by so many people who have been touched by your sorrow.
Dan
July 30, 2008
May Dustin find peace playing in heaven with his little sister. They will be missed.
Ed, Jackie, Jeff Bowen
July 30, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Colleen, Sarah and Caitlynn
July 30, 2008
Our deepes sympathy. Our thought and prayers are with you. There is nothing we can do or say to ease your pain, just know that we are always just a phone call away.
'Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.'
Debbie
July 30, 2008
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family in the loss of your children. We all cannot fatham the loss of one child, much less two. May God comfort you at this time.
Jenny Heaton
July 30, 2008
You are in our thoughts and Prayers. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.
July 30, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Debbie Gibson
July 30, 2008
So sorry for your loss, they are with Jesus now. I'm so sorry. Debbie
Marty Mueller
July 30, 2008
Stuebs family,
I was so saddened to hear the news of the accident and the passing of your young children...I just want you to know that Dustin will be with you always...he will live on in spirit and you'll see that often in the things and people around you.
I pass along this Psalm that a good friend passed on to me over 2 1/2 years ago after we lost our 4 year old daughter:
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those who are crushed in spirit.
As the passing days turn into months and years, you will certainly grow to understand what God means when He says 'Do not be not afraid, I am with you...'
My heart is heavy today...I will keep Dustin, the family and friends in my daily prayers.
May the good Lord bring you peace and comfort this week and during the difficult days ahead.
Meredith
July 30, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to your family on the loss of your children. I pray that God will surround your family with his love during this very difficult time.
Cindy Davis
July 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. This has affected so many of us, like no other. The Lord will comfort and care for His children.
Jackie Green
July 30, 2008
My heart goes out to you!! You are in my thoughts and prayers! you don't know me but I have heard your story! May God be with you and hold you all in his loving arms!!
Wendi
July 30, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Mike, Jill and Dylan Christofilakos
July 30, 2008
Judy and Tim Bates,
There aren't any words that can take away your pain, but know that you are in our prayers and in our thoughts.
Tammy
July 30, 2008
My prayers for your family will continue. God Bless you.
Julia Waldrop
July 30, 2008
I cannot imagine your loss.My prayers are with this family.
Two Little Angels are in Heaven.
carla bracken
July 30, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Meaghan Morris
July 30, 2008
My heart and prayers go out to your family during this time of sorrow.
Mel
July 30, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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