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Paul RAY

1942 - 2016

Paul RAY obituary, 1942-2016, Austin, TX

BORN

1942

DIED

2016

Paul RAY Obituary

RAY, Paul
Paul Ray, for four decades the beloved voice of KUT and KUTX's Twine Time, died on Friday, January 15, his wife Diana at his side and with a band of angels to carry him home. His passing leaves a void in Austin's collective heart, as he spent his life singing for Paul Ray & the Cobras, as radio host, and longest-running emcee of the Austin Music Awards. That painful emptiness is quelled by an award-winning legacy informed by a lifelong love of rhythm & blues and jazz.

Paul Henry Ray was born August 12, 1942 in Dallas, Texas to Charles Lewis and Vera Evans Ray, also passed. He was affectionately known as "Tarzan," the eleventh of 12 children, including surviving brothers and sisters Robert, Thomas, Butch, Marian, Harriette, Ellen, Patty, and Carl, and deceased siblings Dorothy, Johnny, and Billie Lou. A zillion other relatives, nieces and nephews love and remember him with respect.

Paul Ray's singing career began in his teens in the late 50s in Dallas, where he graduated from Woodrow Wilson High School. He witnessed Chitlin Circuit acts and regional R&B stars whose names and music he would remind the world of throughout his life. In early acts such as The Playboys, he wore a suit and tie like a big band leader. His warm, supple voice with built-in vibrato crooned ballads and punched rockers, making him a first-call vocalist in the burgeoning Metroplex and the righteous music cultivated between Fort Worth and Dallas. By the late 60s, he'd attended University of Texas and North Texas State University and befriended Jimmie Vaughan and Doyle Bramhall, migrating with them, Denny Freeman, and families to Austin in 1970 to form Texas Storm.

Ray's personal retinue now included Diana Thomas, a leggy blonde he'd met in 1968 and married in 1975. Their romance bridged decades with heart-tugging tenderness; Ray dedicated a song to her every show and faithfully played Motown songs on her birthday. They traveled together, supported each other, worked together, played together and helped revive Hank Ballard's career, and on Saturdays after Twine Time, he'd pick up food on the way home for 1am dinner with her. On the bittersweet New Year's Eve of this year, Paul and Diana fell in love again, the lingering note to an endless romance.

Austin might have danced to Paul Ray & the Dallasites at the OneKnite, Soap Creek, and Antone's, had Doyle Bramhall not suggested the name of his first band, the Cobras, after a La Cucaracha gig where no one showed up. Thus, the first Paul Ray & the Cobras boasted a mixed race lineup featuring Dallas guitarist Denny Freeman and bassist Alex Napier with locals John Henry Alexander on drums and Oscar "Bubu" Watson on percussion, the latter replaced by Rodney Craig on drums and adding Stevie Vaughan on guitar and later Joe Sublett. This classic Cobras lineup that won Band of the Year in the Austin Sun's 1977 Music Poll, a remarkable feat during Austin's Cosmic Cowboy days, facilitating Vaughan's explosive rise to stardom and the first in decades of Ray's awards. Other players in Paul Ray's Cobras lineup included Jim Trimmier, Larry Lange, Bob Dolgan, Paul Constantine, and Ed Vizard playing long-forgotten clubs such as the IL Club and Joker's Lounge. Paul Ray fronted the Cobras until throat trouble forced him off regular singing gigs in the late 70s, returning years later for annual Christmas reunions at the Continental Club in the 2000s.

Besides singing the first song at the opening of the Armadillo with Ramon Ramon & the Four Daddios, Paul Ray produced An Austin R&B Christmas in 1979 and Lou Ann Barton's Read My Lips in 1989. In 1978, he'd started co-hosting KUT's Twine Time and took Bill Bentley's slot permanently in March 1980, turning the show into the land of 1000 dances all year long, with New Year's, Mardi Gras, and Christmas specials, featuring female vocalists for Mother's Day and male singers for Father's Day. Paul Ray's Jazz and Just Jazz programs were hosted by him also, but Twine Time was so beloved that when Prairie Home Companion flexed muscle to move it, Austin stood up for its hometown hero. Inducted into the Texas Radio Hall of Fame in 2009, Paul Ray also received an Addy Award in the 90s for a local commercial, the GHR from his high school buddies, and numerous Austin Music Awards himself during the 24 years he hosted the Austin Chronicle's Austin Music Awards. His familiar presence brought continuity and gravitas to the dozens of categories and musical genres reflecting Austin's musical past and present. Many a winner over the years commented, plaque in hand, that the true honor was meeting Paul Ray.

But ah, it was his voice. Nothing bespeaks the capital city quite so much as the "Ooh! Ah! Ooh ah, ooh ah!" call of Twine Time's theme by Alvin Cash & the Crawlers. 52 weeks a year he ruled the weekend airwaves, the soundtrack of Saturday night in Austin, blasting Texas R&B from taxicabs, inside bars, out of restaurant kitchens, from cruising cars, darkened parking lots, shouldered jamboxes, and home stereos, spilling into Austin's streets, later to the world, and always rising to the stars. He resonated with authority and knowledge, emphasizing the best in vintage rock & roll, R&B, rockabilly, blues, and soul. Paul Ray's music presided over countless kisses, breakups, makeups, weddings, funerals, births, but that voice could steal your soul.

Diana Ray would like to thank Dr. Don Counts, Ellie and Joani for being Paul's earthly angels and her "three musketeers," Jimmie Vaughan, Denny Freeman, and sister Nancy Schuele. She also wishes friends and fans to know Paul Ray's homecoming celebration will be announced in the near future. In lieu of flowers or other gifts,a fund has been set up at https://www.youcaring.com/diana-ray-504662 with 100% of all donations going to funeral, medical and living expenses. Paul would want ya'll to keep on rockin'. Keep loving one another.
"And that's all this week for Twine Time, featuring music from World War II to Watergate. Good night, Austin."

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Austin American-Statesman from Jan. 24 to Jan. 25, 2016.

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Kathryn

January 17, 2021

Sorry for your loss. Prayers

Thomas Kowalak

March 18, 2016

Miss you Paul. Your voice and presence was soothing and won't be forgotten.

Lionel Bess

March 5, 2016

In 1982 I began my career as an Austin firefighter at fire station 19 on Balcones Drive. The crew would have workout in the truck room at 6:00 pm and on Saturdays the radio would always be tuned to KUT for Twine Time. Thanks Paul for all the great music and times, Austin fire stations will miss you.

terry dyer

March 3, 2016

In a twinkling of the eye, you
passed to the other side. We
miss you in so many ways Brother. Our memories will have to do. God bless always.

Alister Ray

February 1, 2016

It`s sod to loose a loved one. Paul was a special person, I knew him my whole life and thought he was the coolest uncle a kid could have! I wish I still had the cobra T shirt that wound around the capital building, I wore it out! Because of him my dad and the rest of the uncles my love of music lives on. you have not lived if you have not been at a RAY jam at grannies! We will all miss you Paul, we called him Tarzan. Best wishes Diana, stay strong. Many remember and love you both! Alister Ray

Bill Mercer

February 1, 2016

RIP Paul,you will be missed by thousands.You are lucky that way fella,some of us have been completely forgotten but you will live on in the hearts of all those who loved you so much.I was a small-time player in your life compared to all the famous people you knew,but remember the night I talked you into going with me to a hippie club in Dallas called "The Walrus" which was located on Mockingbird Lane.You met your Diana that night."Peace,peace he is not dead he does not sleep,he has awakened from the dream of life,it is we who keep with phantoms an unprofitable strife."Shelley Bye for now,Bill Mercer

Marie Moreland

January 31, 2016

Diana, My hearts goes out to you. You and Paul were loved by so many. Marie (Ralph) Moreland

Malinda Wilson

January 27, 2016

One night a hundred years ago I was sitting at home in my sweats doing nothing - heard on the radio that Paul and the boys were playing at Hut's...got up and went to Hut's and danced by myself to the great music. Paul, KUT days and Twine Time were the best of Austin for me. My condolences to you, Diana, and all of your family. Much love.

January 27, 2016

He was a remarkable man.
I am so glad he was able to make our last class reunion. It was fun catching up with him
Fletcher Phillips

Brenda Hill Massingill

January 26, 2016

So sad to hear of Paul' s passing. I think of you and Paul often, remembering the good old days ! He will be sadly missed!
Diana, lately I have thoughts of y'all, sorry I didn't call. Hope I can come see you soon! Love, Brenda (Dallas)

j r

January 26, 2016

So many fond memories, mostly of the old days. Thanks Paul. RIP and condolences to the family.

Jeff Stebbins

January 25, 2016

I just watched a Rise of a Texas Blues Man and Paul Ray was prominently featured in the show through his work with the Cobras and Stevie Ray Vaughan. It was so great to hear him talk of his experience about Austin, the blues scene and Stevie Ray Vaughan. I didn't know him but him seemed to be a true gentleman. Rest in peace Paul Ray and Thank You!

John Reilly

January 25, 2016

You made me dance.

Jim O'Brien

January 24, 2016

Rest in peace Paul. Thanks for broadening my musical horizons. I'll miss that voice.

V Pool

January 24, 2016

Loved him - listened every Saturday. I am so very sad.

Alix Frank

January 23, 2016

Paul was like an old friend even though I never met in person He spent every Sat. night in my living room or on the back porch.
I love you man
Happy Trails

orando prouty

January 23, 2016

My hearts broken! Man I just don't what I am going to do on Saturday Nights! First Blu Monday and Now Twine Time comes to an end. So Grateful that I grew up with Both Shows! The Best Two of Three Radio shows that ever existed. RIP Joe Anthony (The GodFather of Rock n Roll, Paul Ray (Twine Time) and Larry Monroe (Blu Monday) will never forget the Happiness they brought in the music they inspired and played.

Barbara Beal

January 23, 2016

I AM SO SORRY FOR PAUL TAY'S FILY, HIS CO-WORKERS @ KIT AND KIT X FM RADIO "TWINE TIME A SATURDAY NIGHT RADIO SHOW, THAT PLAYS MUSIC, FR THE 50"S 70'S AND FARTHER BACK RHYTHM AND BLUES.
I'M REALLY GOING TO MISSR PAIL TAY.
FROM BARBARA BEAL "BB" AND "OAK CLIFF" IS WHAT MR. RAY CALLED ME.
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH HIS FAMILY, HIS L8STNERS, AND HIS CO-WORKERS

REST IN PEACE MR PAUL RAY

john rozelle

January 23, 2016

I first saw and met Paul Ray at the Continental Club in '73. A fine man and the greatest Blues singer that I have ever heard. Shalom.

Kat Yergr

January 22, 2016

I always had his show tuned in on Sat. nights. I will surely miss the trips down memory lane. Rest in Peace

James Cooley

January 22, 2016

Loved Paul on the radio. The guy knew his stuff and was entertaining as could be.

Emi Thomas

January 21, 2016

Sure going to miss Paul. All the memories with he and Diana are good ones. And the music, the songs, will touch us more deeply than before.

Marilyn Weisbruch

January 20, 2016

We listened to Twine Time faithfully for so many years and Paul just kept them coming! He was a part of our Saturday nights from 7 to 11 when dancing in the kitchen from the tunes he played was just too much fun. We will miss him so much! As well, we will think of Diane in June and remember Paul's special playlist just for her...solid Motown.
Vaya con Dios, Paul.

January 20, 2016

Sorry to hear the news.My family goes way back with Paul Ray at Alexander's Place off Brodie Ln. Will miss him on the radio. The Alexander Family, Ruth, Barbara, Thomas III and Theodore

Mike Tatum

January 20, 2016

I first met Paul at Fat Dawg's in Lubbock back in the 70's with the Cobras introduced by my former band mate Rodney Craig and later at the original Stubb's BBQ. We did the Harlem Shuffle thru the place. Sad weekend for music lovers. God bless all and RIP Paul.

poster from Jon's birthday

Annette Kobus

January 19, 2016

I was introduced (in person) to Paul by my late husband, Jon (2001-ish?). But I have listened to KUT and Twine Time since the 80's (as a person born in the Midwest, I got here as soon as I could). To Diana - the brief moments I met with you and Paul, I know that your love could overcome any obstacle. My heart is with you and I know your hurt. Paul was a very influential musical personality but behind it all was his Diana. Wishing you peace and happy memories of Paul.

Bill Mercer

January 19, 2016

You will be greatly missed by so many for so many reasons.I always looked up to you as a musician and a person.God Bless you Paul,you be jamming with your friends right about now and I know there were many waitin for ya.RIP

January 19, 2016

Patsy sends her love, she is blown away by the Biddle pictures , that yawl kept them all these years! Prayers and God bless. Patsy and Danny Walsh, Waco Texas

wayne b

January 18, 2016

Diana, the whole city thanks you for being Paul's better half, for loving him and being there for him, and making his contribution to Austin's culture possible. Any list of things that helped make Austin 'Austin' would have to include Paul, Twine Time, and the Cobras... and you were there for all of it. Many loving hearts embrace you and hold you in this tough time, and wish you well.

debbie albonetti

January 18, 2016

Emma Little couldn't have said it better in her condolences regarding Paul Ray. He enriched many of our lives with his knowledge An Austin icon who will be deeply missed. What a gentleman. My heart goes out to Diana. You will be in my prayers. debbie albonetti

ron erwin

January 18, 2016

Thank you....

Debe Bentley

January 18, 2016

Missing you, Paul. So glad for all the Saturday nights hearing your records and your stories. I will always have you in my heart at Twine Time. Great stuff.
Love, Debe

Hendle Rumbaut

January 17, 2016

Paul and Diana were our next-door neighbors for 15 years, the best neighbors ever, and friends to this day. They were a match made in heaven, so in love. We took care of their many cats and their house when they were on trips, and they took care of our place. Just before they lived there, another Austin music legend occupied that house--Doug Sahm and his wife Beverly. So many memories of the Rays: Paul's headlights as he came home after hosting Twine Time on Saturday nights. His old push mower and typewriter, which he gave to us. Diana dancing flamenco with castanets. The endless rows of LP's and 45's in their living room. The list in the kitchen of their current or missing cats, the Airstream, the stories about Stevie Ray and Jimmie Vaughan. Diana: Mike and I love you and our hearts break with yours.

Mike Ambrose

January 17, 2016

Paul and Diana were our Dear Neighbors for 15 years. Here are two true rockin' robins in our side yard, March 25, 1989, photo by my wife Hendle Rumbaut. We miss you, Paul, and we love you, Diana!

Paul and Diana Ray, at our house

Hendle Rumbaut

January 17, 2016

Paul and Diana Ray, 1989, at our house

Hendle Rumbaut

January 17, 2016

Emily Johnston

January 17, 2016

I have listened to Twine Time for years. Saturday night and Paul Ray's voice have become sonoymous for me. I will miss you so much. Heaven just got a whole lot cooler.

Carla Tanner

January 17, 2016

RIP my dear friend. You are going to missed so much. I am so Blessed to have crossed paths with you on this journey.

Emma Little

January 17, 2016

Paul and Diana are part do our chosen family.
He was related to His family by blood, to us by his joie de vivre, his musicology and his performances that became part of the DNA of our blues cult. Austin owes a part of its musical heritage to Paul Ray. His fingerprints are all over our city motto "Live Music Capital of the World". We have all been schooled by his love of the sound that is the basis of so many genres of modern and popular music heard today.
Everyone who listened to his radio show, not to mention his live performances are saddened by his loss. But we are blessed to have had the experience.

Brenda Cromwell

January 17, 2016

Diana, I'm so sorry for the loss of Paul, you are in my prayers, peace to you soul my friend, you and Paul were very special friends to me !!

lynne whittington

January 17, 2016

We shared more than a birthday...a love of good music !!!

January 17, 2016

I came to Austin about 15 years ago. That's when I first heard Twine Time. Made me a stay-at-home guy on Saturday Night. Gave me an incredible education in music and probably kept me out of a lot of trouble.

Thank you Paul-RIP

Danny Garrett

January 17, 2016

It'll never be the same here without Paul. As Denny said on Friday, "This one will leave a mark."

John Shannon

January 17, 2016

Loved your show!

Jack Zelensky

January 17, 2016

Deepest condolences,will miss twine time on Saturday nights and all of Paul's knowledge and insight. Austin lost a true legend.

Kay Rosenkranz

January 17, 2016

I feel as though a big chunk of my heart has dropped off. Paul Ray has been a part of my life and the life I live for 45 years. He will missed. Listening to Twine Time gave me life while I plunged through challenging times. I have no wards on how the loss of Paul Ray effects me. He was an Icon, a hero, a musician and so much more.

Sally Adams

January 17, 2016

No words to express this great loss...my love and friendship to Diana.

Joe Newton

January 17, 2016

Paul and Diana words cannot adequately express how much your friendship has meant to me over nearly 50 years what a classy gent you always are Paul Henry-I never heard you say bad words to anyone or about anyone and never heard anyone say a bad word about you. That is truly the Hallmark of a good soul and real mensch Yes the sky is crying and I am too. I pray KUT reruns your show in perpetuity so those who move here can know what it is to be a person with Texas Soul. Gonna miss seeing you but those Twine Time Tapes you sent me will always be by my side and it will be a comfort to hear your voice until I exit this beautiful blue marble. I know you are with God and God Bless you and the lovely Diana

January 17, 2016

Saturdays will not be the same without your voice, Twine Time. A true original. RIP, Sherry

Andrew Rozycki

January 17, 2016

Paul's Twine Time was an important part of my Austin experience since I moved here in 2010. To me, part of Austin passed along with him and I am so very sad. RIP my "radio friend."

Cavett Hughes

January 17, 2016

My heart goes out to Paul Ray, Diana, their family, friends and listeners. I agree with the fellow who said that somewhere in Austin, it's always TwineTime. Thanks for bringing such a good scene. Love y'all! Cavett

Richard King

January 17, 2016

Paul was a special music elder to me when I distributed television programs of music performances by Austin bands to Europe and Japan stations in the '80s. He was always a gentleman, accessible, fun, highly intelligent, full of good counsel, supportive and with a twinkle in his eye that drew me in to his musical journey as a co-traveler. Like Clifford, Paul was Christlike in his devotion to music. A kind soul who absolutely lifted the spirits of everyone he touched. Diana, with a heavy heart, we send you warm thoughts of comfort and healing.

RAYBANN CISNEROS

January 17, 2016

THE SKY IS CRYING . SEE YOU AT THE CROSSROADS ....... O KING COBRA . GOT THE BLUES . AUSTIN JUST LOST PART OF ITS SOUL, LOVING RESPECT MAY U REST IN PEACE ,PAUL RAYBANN SOUTH AUSTIN.......

Steve Gotesky

January 17, 2016

For all the years I worked with Paul at Antones he was always the professional, always the gentleman. He always had a kind word for me. My heart and sympathies go out to Diana. I know that words are of little help at times like these. My heart goes out to you Diana.

Thanks for the good times,
Steve Gotesky

Pat Murphree

January 17, 2016

What a loss to our community! I spent many hours listening to Paul--he will be missed.

January 16, 2016

I moved to Austin 14 years ago and found Paul Rays Twine Time my second Saturday here. I listened all the time, and enjoyed hearing his obscure R&B and down songs. I love how excited he was about what he played. He brought all the best into my life, and I love that he loved what he did. Saturday nights won't be quite the same without him. Rest in Peace, King of Saturday Night.

Kaye

January 16, 2016

Saturday nights will always be Twine Time. Rest in peace, Paul. You brought so much joy to me and so many others. Can't imagine the Austin music scene without you.

Kirk Adie

January 16, 2016

Paul kept the energy up for my second shifts at Fiddlestick on Saturday nights, for years and years.
Saturday nights will continue, but they will never be the quite the same. Another little part of old Austin lost but not soon forgotten.

January 16, 2016

Paul Ray ----- Twine Time----++++++

An eagerly awaited event every Saturday - as a California transplant '98 knew Stevie Ray's music - to hear Paul Ray play the music which influenced him, Stevie Ray and others was and will always remain the Penultimate Treat!
Good bless you Paul Ray - we'll miss you!!

Paula

January 16, 2016

Paul Ray made Saturday night a party in your own house. He made it fun to just stay home and float on his music wave . I first saw him and The Conras at Soap Creek Saloon. Hard to imagine Austin or Saturday night without his music and knowledge. Adios from old Austin..

Suzie Harriman

January 16, 2016

January 16, 2015
What a shock to see the news of Paul's death on television this evening. I was an announcer at KUT in the late 1990s and Paul and I relieved each other quite often doing shifts. He regaled me with many funny stories about people in the music business and of all the announcers at KUT, he was my favorite.
This news is so sad, especially after losing Larry Monroe two years ago. A great public radio era has ended in Austin with the deaths of these two men. My deepest sympathy goes out his wife and family.

January 16, 2016

Loved Paul&the Cobras, loved Twine Time and Paul's jazz shows for so many years. He is one of Austin's greats!

Gary Hickinbotham

January 16, 2016

RIP Paul. I'm honored to have worked with you.

Debbie Armstrong

January 16, 2016

Old Austin just flashed before my eyes. It can't be true. How many parties started to the Intro to 'Twine Time'? We'll miss you so much. Thanks for it all.

robert randolph

January 16, 2016

Condolences to Diana , family. Paul was a landmark musician , DJ, and purveyor of the cool .Since moving back to Austin , I enjoyed Twine time program ,and bowed to his expertise in all music of the period . I vow to continue his fine work through any performance of my group, Wampus Cats . Wave on, Paul .

January 16, 2016

Listened to you from the beginning in the 70's to the present - how many Saturday nights with Twine Time - an Austin treasure for sure!
David Dailey-Castle Hill Cafe

Norm Hartwell

January 16, 2016

we'll miss you and continue your legacy by enjoying local music...remember seeing you at the Antones on Guadalupe to start with...

Shauna Richards

January 16, 2016

I was glad I enjoyed your music in the 70's and 80's. Proud to have been a part of your last days. God will love having you there to entertain him. See you someday buddy.

January 16, 2016

Your show was one of the things we missed most after leaving Austin. You will be missed by many.

Julie

January 16, 2016

Thanks for sharing your love and passion for music. You were a one of a kind talent.

S Stricker

January 16, 2016

I barely knew him but the few times I was honored to be around him was thrilling for me. He sure was a nice person. He had a kindness you don't come across much anymore from people. Once at a party I watched him watch his wife as she was walking away to get a drink or something. It was so obvious he was in love. To this day I still think to myself "man, I hope my husband looks at me like that". She and his friends...they lost a good guy. Austin is a better city because of him. My very sincere condolences.

Carol Cornsilk

January 16, 2016

It's always Twine Time somewhere.
Thanks for bringing so much dancing
Into my life.

Leland Stanford

January 16, 2016

Good Memories, Great Music, Good Times. He brought the Blues to Austin, Long live 'Stormy Monday' at the 'One Knite'.

Thomas Vessely

January 16, 2016

Thanks for sharing your knowledge along with the music. You were a guide. RIP

Theo Jones

January 16, 2016

Driving around Austin on a Saturday night will never have the same feel again.

Phil Freeman

January 16, 2016

Thanks, Paul, for all the great music over so many years. You will be missed.

Alison

January 16, 2016

I always looked forward to spending Saturday nights with you listening to Twine Time. You've left a void that can't be filled. We'll miss you, Paul. Prayers to your family.

Ernie Durawa

January 16, 2016

R.I.P. Thanks for the great music Paul!

Erin ( HankErin) Sanders Whitson

January 16, 2016

Paul, it has been years...but never forgot you....yes in Storm and the Cobras...You were part of what Austin was all about...I was but a devoted South Austin Kid and music freak...I remember the Black Queen well... I still have a schedule...Storm was on that schedule several times that month...Well all fond memories ...You will Continue on...You leave us sadly...Love to you Family...but you now join some of Austin and Texas best...Play on...Peace

Scott Chester

January 16, 2016

Paul was a huge influence on my guitar playing as I would record all his Twine Time broadcasts and play along with them. He taught us what the good stuff was. He'll be sorely missed. Scott Chester

David and Sally Hamilton

January 16, 2016

Great loss of a friend and musicologist who knew more about the blues and R&B than all the rest of us combined.

Victoria Hawkins

January 16, 2016

Thanks for all of the wonderful blues over the years.
Peace,

Linda Wetherby

January 16, 2016

When we were forming RoTel and the Hot Tomatoes I asked Paul for song suggestions. He made tapes for us from his personal collection of the hottest sixties girl group songs I had ever heard. Those songs became our set list! We could never have done it without you Paul. You were the kindest soul and the gentlest man. l would give anything to be back at the Oneknite listening to you and the Cobras again. You will be forever missed and forever legendary. Goodbye dear friend.

Paul Gaston

January 16, 2016

Saturday night will never be the same without Paul Ray and Twine Time. He was a wealth of knowledge of Austin and the old days and the music that we love. My sympathies go out to Diana and all of those who mourn this loss.

Hayley Fassnidge

January 15, 2016

Thanks for spending all those Saturday nights with me- You will be very missed by many-

Bonnie Spanogle

January 15, 2016

Thank you for sharing so much great music with us.

Geralyn Blanda Vine

January 15, 2016

You were never home alone on a Saturday night when Paul Ray was on the air. Blessings on his family.

Tammy Walk

January 15, 2016

I am so sorry to here this. He is such a great guy. I am so glad to have gotten the chance to meet him. May god bless you and your family at this time. My thoughts and prayers go out to the "Ray" family.



Tammy Walk

Joe Blanda

January 15, 2016

Paul Ray, you'll always be my favorite DJ & "Twine Time" my favorite radio show . . . I'm a member of the Cobra Club too!

Bobby Tillotson

January 15, 2016

Keep playing the great music beyond earth. Love by all.

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