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Joseph N. "Dody" Cugini

1930 - 2019

Joseph N. "Dody" Cugini obituary, 1930-2019, Westerly, RI

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Joseph Cugini Obituary

Joseph N. "Dody" Cugini, 89, of Westerly passed away on June 15 following a brief illness. Born in 1930 in Westerly to Daniel and Josephine Cugini, Joe was a graduate of the Immaculate Conception School - class of 1945 A 1948 Westerly High School graduate, he was the Class Marshal and played on the undefeated 1948 state championship basketball team under Coach James Federico.
He enlisted in the US Air Force in November of 1950 during the Korean War. While in the Air Force he earned the rank of Staff Sergeant and served in North Africa as a radar controller. He was a graduate of Bryant College. Following college, he worked for the Bradford Dying Association in their time study department.
On April 13, 1959 he became the General Manager of the Westerly Community Credit Union. During Joe's 41 years at WCCU, he served as President, CEO, and Chairman of the Board. In addition to his responsibilities at the local level, he also was elected to the highest office in the Credit Union movement and held several national and international offices. They included President of the Rhode Island Credit Union League, Chairman of the Credit Union National Association, and President of the World Council of Credit Unions. Additionally, he was a member of the Federal Reserve Advisory Board. One of his proudest accomplishments of his community involvement included founding the WCCU Holiday Basketball tournament in 1984 at the Westerly High School.
He traveled around the world three times through his Credit Union involvement, but always said his hometown of Westerly was his favorite place. The greatest pride in his life was living in our town surrounded by his family and friends. Some of his many community positions included Treasurer of the Westerly Tercentenary, President of the Westerly FOPA, a member of the Future Needs Committee of the Westerly Fire District, a board member of the Westerly Chamber of Commerce, and as the Chairman of the Vision 20/20 school building committee to create a new high school campus and build a new Westerly Middle School where the school's Library/Media Center bears his name. He most recently served as an active member of the Westerly 350th Anniversary Committee.
He had also been honored as the 1994 Westerly High School commencement speaker, an inductee to the Credit Unions Executive Society Hall of Fame, the 2000 Dante Society Man of the Year, the recipient of the Westerly YMCA Service to Youth Award, the Key award winner for the Ocean Community Chamber of Commerce, as well as the Chamber's Man Of The Year, and as the Grand Marshal of the Westerly-Pawcatuck Columbus Day Parade along with his wife, Betty. Most recently he was named as one of Westerly Armory's Honored Citizens in April.
One of the highlights of his life was hosting the Thursday morning show on WBLQ radio from 7-9 each week. His dedication to bringing the news and information to his local radio family kept him going long after his retirement. Joe embodied the lyrics of his weekly theme song sung by Bing Crosby and truly loved all the "dear hearts and gentle people" who live here in his hometown. Joe lived by the advice he shared with his listeners each week for the past two decades as he closed his program; "Life is precious, Live it well."
Joe is survived by his high school sweetheart Betty Cugini, married for 63 years along with his children, daughter Betty-Jo (Stephen Greene) of Westerly and son David Joseph (Denise Ruddy) of Boxford, MA, and his three grandchildren Christopher Koretski, Katherine Koretski, and Finley Cugini. He also leaves several nieces, nephews and a large extended family. He was predeceased by his parents and three siblings; Alfred (Penita), Lillian (Pat) Falcone and Rudolph (Marian).
Joe's family would like to thank his local Doctors, the Doctors, Nurses, and staff of the Westerly Hospital and Lawrence & Memorial Hospital for the extraordinary care he was given over the years and recently. The family also extends appreciation to Dr. Pam Connors for her level of caring as a family friend and as his doctor.
The family will greet relatives and friends on Tuesday, June 18 from 4:00-7:00 pm at Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce Street, Westerly. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Saint Clare Church, 4 Saint Clare Way in Misquamicut on Wednesday, June 19 at 10:00 am. There will be no procession from the funeral home to the church. Interment with Full Military Honors will follow at River Bend Cemetery in Westerly. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joe's memory may be made to the Joseph N. Cugini WCCU Holiday Basketball Tournament Fund c/o Westerly Community Credit Union - 122 Granite Street, Westerly, RI 02891 or to The Westerly Hospital Foundation - 25 Wells Street, Westerly, RI 02891. For online condolences please visit www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Westerly Sun on Jun. 17, 2019.

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Ken Burton

July 8, 2019

Dear Betty,
God Bless you all. Joe, you and all the Cugini family have made live in our little town such an enjoyable journey.
Your hospitality, kindness and loving ways has set a precedence for all your friends and neighbors to enjoy in "OUR HOME TOWN"!
Thank You and God Bless !

Ken Burton

July 8, 2019

God Bless Joe and the Cugini Family. Your kindness, hospitality and loving care for all your friends and neighbors is a gift the community has enjoyed for many years and for many years to come.
Thank You and God Bless !

James Sisson jr

July 8, 2019

Betty and family I am very sorry for your lose my heart goes out to you J

Nicole Kelly

June 28, 2019

Dear Betty and Family, thinking of you all and paying tribute to the exceptionally wonderful man that Joe was -- and always will be in your hearts.

June 22, 2019

Dear Betty, Betty Jo, David and family,

The whole Edmond family sends their sympathies to you all at this difficult time. We remember Joe as many others have said - warm heart, big smile and always a joy to talk to. He had that certain sparkle of life. Love, Brian, Joan, Janet and families

Carolyn Longolucco

June 20, 2019

Dear Betty and Family,
How sad to think that Joe is no longer a part of our lives in Westerly. But how beautiful are the memories we all share of this selfless man who was so willing to give his all to the town he truly loved. His was a life well lived. How wonderful that he touched so many lives, and that this legacy lives on in you, Betty, with your own selflessness and in your great family. May peace be with you all.

Henry & Karen Boeniger

June 20, 2019

To the Cugini family our sincere condolences on the passing of Joe. A wonderful man who helped many families including mine. May he rest in peace.

Florence Vacca Texter and family

June 19, 2019

The world lost a good man. I started doing business with the westerly credit union when I was 14 years old .That's when it was in downtown Westerly.I got my first mortgage at. 27.I am now 78 and still going there. GOD BLESS the family always,

June 19, 2019

So very sorry for your loss, Mr. Cugini was a wonderful man and will be sadly missed, My Heart and Prayers go out to the family during this very difficult time!

Love Kevin and Lori Algiere
Westerly Jewelry Co.

Katie Raithel Falls

June 19, 2019

Cugini Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of Mr Cugini. He was such a wonderful man, kind, generous and could always make us laugh. A pillar of the community that was selfless. He will be missed by many. Sending love and prayers your way during this very difficult time.

June 18, 2019

Dear Betty,
So very sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. May you find peace and joy in your memories.
Pat DiFolco

Carol McCarthy

June 18, 2019

Dear Betty-Jo and family,
May his memory be a blessing.

David Stenhouse

June 18, 2019

To Betty Jo and family,
Joe has been a long-time acquaintance of mine, and though we did not see each other often, I have always admired and respected him for all he has accomplished. Our sympathy to you in the loss of this fine man.
Dave and Phyllis Stenhouse

Pearl Cartier

June 18, 2019

Dear Betty and family

My deepest sympathy. Thoughts and prayers with you.

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Angela Bacari

June 18, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of his passing. So happy I had the chance to see him at the Westerly Gala at the Armory. He was a big part of my Dad's life and mine. He was loved and respected by all. Sending My thoughts and prayers to all the family. Angela Bacari

June 17, 2019

Cugini Family,

Mr. Cugini was very well known he touched many lives in away that only he could. He was a special man, soft spoken and choose his words well.
Mr. Credit Union I offended call him he and the late Robert Bewlay worked well together and both would greet many of the patrons with a hand shake.
I believe they passed that onto Miss Buckley.
I was honored to have Mr Cugini and his wife as my Master of Ceremony at my retirement party from the Westerly Police Department in 1992.
He spoke so highly of me and my accomplishments as I sat their I was wondering who he was talking about. After he finished my mom stood up and let everyone know that is my son. I then knew he was talking about me.
In my Indian world I will remember him with the Indian name of "Bright Star" he who shines from above. He left a path for many to follow.

Lt. Ret, Byron Brown WPD

Peggy Sue Long

June 17, 2019

To The Entire Cugini Family and WCCU Family,
My parents opened an account for me when I was very young at WCCU, I am now 53 and still expect to see Joe there. He always had a huge smile and a great "Hello". I truly thought the world of this man. He will be greatly missed by so many. From the memory of a child, this man was bigger than life.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Peggy Sue Collins

June 17, 2019

Betty-Jo and family. Sorry to hear of your dad's passing. What a wonderful man. I remember always seeing him at the bank with the biggest smile. He will be missed. Celebrate all the good things of his life. That is what he would want . Believe it or not it really helps get through the sad times. Take care of each other.
With love, Janice (Gavitt) Buck and Ed Krupinski

Patricia Marchese

June 17, 2019

BettyJo and family, my deepest sympathies for your loss. Heaven has gained another angel. May he soar with those Angels while guiding us. May he Rest in Peace.

Bill Falcone

June 17, 2019

Dear Betty, Betty Jo, David,

Deepest sympathy on the loss of Joe. He was a beautiful and wonderful man. May God bless him and all of you and your family.

John Eldridge

June 17, 2019

When I was ten years old I watched Joe play on that terrific team. Those guys were my first heroes. Later in life during my time in the Air Force Joe gave me advice on moving forward in the service and in life. He was a great guy and a great gift to Westerly.

Some people you never forget, even if you haven't seen them in years. Joe was one of those people. Sincere condolences to the family and all of Joe's many friends. A true loss the town of Westerly.

Jack Eldridge

Lorren Kleinkauf

June 17, 2019

I feel so fortunate to have spent so many Thursday mornings with Joe. He was a wonderful man and I'm miss him dearly.

June 17, 2019

Our condolences to The Cugini Family on the lose of your terrific husband . father . Grandfather. he will be sadly missed by a huge community of friends. Thomas Abbruzzese , Vernon and Colleen Abbruzzese

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