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Michael Francis "Mike" Dufficy

1939 - 2019

Michael Francis "Mike" Dufficy obituary, 1939-2019, Westerly, RI

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Michael Dufficy Obituary

Michael Francis "Mike" Dufficy, 79, died peacefully in the loving arms of his wife and with his children at his bedside at the Providence VA Medical Center on October 1, 2019. A veteran of the Vietnam War, he was a staff sergeant in the US Army and awarded the National Defense and Vietnam Service Medals.
Mike was born to the late John and Anne Dufficy in Hamilton, Ohio on December 5, 1939. He graduated from Westerly High School in 1957 and attended URI's Agricultural School until he was drafted into the US Army in 1958 and proudly served for 10 years. He worked for Yardney Corporation for 19 years and retired from GTech as a quality control engineer.
He loved animals, puttering in his garden, and tinkering in his workshop. A voracious reader, he had a desire to just "know" things. Before and during retirement, he mystified his programming knowledge and all things computer-related.
Mike married the love of his life, Cynthia Carlson, on January 23, 1965. He was a man of faith and showed his family what it meant to be a loving and generous husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. In addition to Cynthia, he is survived by Michael (Kim) and Matthew (Christine) Dufficy, Melissa (Darrell) Paulsen, and was pre-deceased by his son Patrick. He also is survived by his seven grandchildren and one great-grandchild (Caitlyn, Sean, Aaron, Madeleine, Alexandra, Julia, Logan, Kairi) and his brother and sister, Tom Dufficy and Judy Cappizzano.
Calling hours are from 2 to 5pm on Sunday, October 6, 2019 at Avery and Storti Funeral Home, 88 Columbia St, Wakefield, RI. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, October 7, 2019 at 10am at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church, 114 High Street, Wakefield, RI. Burial will take place at River Bend Cemetery in Westerly. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Parkinson's Foundation, 200 SE 1st Street, Suite 800, Miami, FL 33131. For guest book and condolences, averystortifuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Westerly Sun on Oct. 4, 2019.

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Carolyn Longolucco

October 5, 2019

To the Family of Michael "Mike" Dufficy:
As a member of the Class of 1957, I would like to extend to you my sincere sympathy in the loss of Mike. Please know that I am most appreciative of his service to our country for 10 years in the Vietnam War. He has left a wonderful legacy for his children. It is my wish that you find comfort in his life well-lived and I pray that God will grant you peace and strength in the sorrowful days to come.

John Eldridge

October 5, 2019

I'm very sorry to read about the passing of my high school classmate, Mike. I send my condolences to everyone in the Dufficy family and all of Mike's many friends.

Jack Eldridge. W.H.S. class of 1957

Scotty & Susan Luhrmann

October 5, 2019

Cindy,
We are so sorry to hear about Mike. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Scotty & Susan Luhrmann

October 5, 2019

Dufficy Family,

Sorry to learn of the passing of your love one, I knew Mike from WHS we were both a member of the class of "1957". We were both veterans I salute you Mike for your service. He later worked with my wife at Yardney in Pawcatuck, Ct. When my son had a and accident that he lived to overcome Mike called me to offer his help. I sadly returned a call to Mike when he lost his son. Rest in peace Mike you will be remembered in the heart of your family members. Where we are now Mike was. Where Mike is now we shall be.

Lt Ret Byron Brown WPD

Betsy Mercer

October 4, 2019

My sincere condolences to Cynthia and family. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time.

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