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Wally Aseltine Obituary

NORTHFIELD – Wally Aseltine, 74, died Thursday, Dec. 17, 2009, at his home on the family farm, a few steps from where he entered the world on Oct. 9, 1935. He was the son of Harry and Avis (Blanchard) Aseltine.

He was a graduate of Northfield High School, class of 1953, and had served in the Vermont Army National Guard. Wally had worked locally as an automobile mechanic for many years before owning and operating the Texaco Service Center in Northfield Center, subsequently moving to the former Nantana Mill in Northfield.

His passion was working the farm on Aseltine Road in Northfield, which was purchased by his parents in 1921. He was a member of the Dewitt Clinton Masonic Lodge in Northfield and the Elks Club in Montpelier. He was very active in Northfield, serving the community for over 40 years in such capacities as lister, member of the select board, zoning board, and currently board of adjustment.

He had been married to Barbara McFarland. He married Carol (Hight) Bailey in Biddeford, Maine, on Feb. 25, 1977. Survivors include his wife Carol Aseltine of Northfield; four children, Dwight Aseltine of Burlington, David Aseltine and his wife Jeanne (Melville) of Middlesex, Jocelyn Lawson and her husband Kedric of Colchester, Jessica Aseltine of Northfield; two stepsons, Karl Bailey of Northfield, Shawn Bailey of Marshfield; two sisters, Anna Grenier of Waterbury Center, Ellen Jerry of Williamstown; four grandchildren, Isaac Aseltine, Angie Aseltine, Brittany Bailey, Shawn Venner; and several nieces and nephews.

There are no calling hours. A memorial service will be conducted Tuesday, Dec. 29, at 11 a.m. at the United Church of Northfield. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Central Vermont Humane Society, PO Box 687, Montpelier, VT 05601-0687 or to the Vermont Heart Association, 434 Hurricane Lane, Williston, VT 05495.

Kingston Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements.

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Published by Times Argus from Dec. 21 to Dec. 24, 2009.

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michael norris

January 5, 2010

carol an family so sorry about wally i got to know him at the rustic.what a man he was. all the wisdom an stories he had.he always took care of me when i needed work done on my truck.i will never for get him.carol i got to know you an your family,great people to know.carol if you ever need help let us know.wally my friend rest in peace. i will always have a drink with you at the rustic.mike norris

Kira Byrd-Dailey

December 30, 2009

Carol & Family- I am sorry to hear about Wally, he was a good man! I know its a hard time and my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I wish you the best Carol, god bless!

December 28, 2009

We are friends of Jocelyn and her husband Kedric, and we just wanted to say we are so sorry for your loss, and that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... Phil, Kathi, and Ava.

Paul Tartaglia

December 28, 2009

Carol, Josselyn, Jessica and Family,

Words escape me. I, like everyone else who has had the pleasure of having Wally in our lives, could go on for pages with "Wally" stories ! I miss him......

Paul

Rita Garcia Bassett

December 28, 2009

Carol & family:
It was with great sadness to hear of Wally's passing. I have known him for many years having purchased one of their homes in Northfield many years ago. He was a wonderful and thoughtful man. He will be missed by so many. My sympathy goes out to his family during this difficult time.

Mary Richter

December 27, 2009

I had the greatest respect for Wally Aseltine. He was a very fair man. When other farmers would gouge me on the price of 'ok' hay and delivery charges because they knew I didn't have many options at the time, Wally would charge only the fair price for the very best quality. If I said I wanted horse hay, every blade of every bale was top quality horse hay through and through. Beyond that, he always had a pleasant or encouraging word. And he was the sort to get to the bottom of things and know what he was talking about before making judgments. Carol, Joselyn and Jessica, I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Louise Lane Kafka

December 26, 2009

David and Dwight and family,
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. My husband and I are holding you in our thoughts and prayers.
Louise Lane Kafka & Charles Kafka

Chris Baker

December 25, 2009

Carol and family

I was introduced to Wally through my grandparents 40 some years ago,now in my 40s I look back and think of the joy and smiles he brought to those fortunate enough to know him.My children now 12 and 8 always hoped to get by Wally"s farm whenever we were close by.Our thoughts are with you and your family
Thanks for the memories,he will be greatly missed.

Kathy Codling

December 24, 2009

Carol and Family,
Saddens me to hear about Wally's passing. It was always great seeing Wally no matter where he was or what he was doing he always had a big smile on his face. He would come in the office with his big happy smile and give me my hug. He will be missed by all that knew him. He was a wonderful man and it was a great pleasure knowing him.

December 23, 2009

Dear Carol and family: Eddie & I were so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Eddie & Bev Tucker

Mona Hill LeFebvre

December 23, 2009

Dear Aseltine Family, I went to school with Wally in the Holton School, many memories. Our car ended up in his garage, nice person, loved to see him always and go by the farm to say hi if he was out. My thoughts are with you.

Sally O'Neil

December 23, 2009

Dear Carol, Jocelyn, Jessica,

I am so sorry for your loss. Wally was a wonderful man with a kind word for all. He will be missed. My thoughts are with you.

Lea & Jeff Hatch

December 23, 2009

Wally and my parents (Dick & Peg Greenslit) were friends since they were all in highschool together -- and it was wonderful of Wally to come to my Dad's funeral services just a couple of weeks ago. Little did we know that he would be joining Dad again so quickly ... my heartfelt thoughts to those he leaves behind. He will be remembered often, and with great joy.

Lea & Jeff Hatch

Mark Ruel

December 23, 2009

A true icon, and a man I was always happy to see walk through my door. He was the embodiment of was it was to be a true Vermonter, a real one of a kind.

Kim Parsons

December 22, 2009

Carol & Girls: My thoughts are with you. I met Wally years ago when a friend bought a horse from him. I rode on the 100 mile Vermont ride with a group including Brenda & Morris and Hariet Gallagher. He was a great man whom I have always remembered and it just so happened I was looking at old photo albums the other day of one of those rides.

James Perry

December 22, 2009

Carol and family,

We are think of you all.
Wally was a good kind humorous man,a inspiration to many and a good talker.
He'll be missed.

December 22, 2009

Carol & Family,

Wally will be greatly missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I pray you will find comfort, strength and peace during this difficult time....

Toni Lagerstedt

Melanie Archer

December 22, 2009

My thoughts are with you all and I wish you the strength you need in this difficult time. I'm sorry for your loss.

Bonnie Maxham

December 22, 2009

So sorry to hear of your loss. He died with his boots on. He had a good & full life. You & your girls are in my prayers. Wally & Rodney are in a good place, we will miss them until we join them.

Joe

December 22, 2009

Rest Wally, your weary feet have come to the end of life’s toilsome journey.
God Bless!
Joe, Kathernine, Joey and Steph.

Dena Duquette

December 22, 2009

Carol, Joselyn and Jessica,

I'm so sorry for your loss. Wally was a good man. He was good to my father and always had work for my brothers when they were growing up. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love, Dena

Brad Snow

December 21, 2009

We will miss you Wally and your open heart. Thanks for being a good friend and loyal to us and our cars :). Our Prayers and thoughts are with you Carol and family. God Bless,
Brad and the Snow family in Kansas.

Denise & Louie Kingsbury

December 21, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Terry MacDougal

December 21, 2009

Carol, Joselyn and Jessica,
Wally will be missed by many.
May the memories you have of him, the stories he left behind and the knowledge of the love and support of so many around you carry you through this difficult time.
My thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.

December 21, 2009

I have known Wally for more than 50 years. We worked together at Davis Ford for several years in the early 60s and were part of the Northfield Boating club that frequented Waterbury Dam.
My sympathy goes out to his family.
My Very Best Regards,
Wayne Staples

December 21, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to the family. Wallie will be greatly missed by everyone. ken & sue sears
howard sears

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