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Merritt and Patti
October 16, 2023
It´s been well over five years since we have been in touch with this wonderful family but we do have some good memories. We see you are all pretty much all over the country now, but our memories of Mal and his family remain in our hearts.
Gary Gilbert
October 21, 2019
Mal was simply a class act. Bright, funny and full of
insight. I had the pleasure of being his pledge mate
and Topper house mate, times I continue to treasure.
Evelyn Rosa
November 8, 2010
Dearest Laurie,
I was so sad to hear about "Hop's" passing, keeping you and the family in my Heart and Prayers. I will alway remember how he believed in me, and always treated me as an equal.
James Leone
November 2, 2010
Laurie,
I pray that God's peace be with you and your family.
November 1, 2010
Laurie,
It is with great sadness that I learned of Mal's passing. My sympathy goes out to you and your family. Mal was a great guy and will be dearly missed.
Jay & Jess Shelgren
Julie Travis
October 31, 2010
Laurie, I'm shocked to hear of Mal's passing. I hope your memories of a terrific life together will help you through this very difficult time. My sincerest condolences.
October 30, 2010
Dear Laurie and family:
It was with great sadness and shock that we learned of Mal's passing. It seems such a short time ago that we attnded your wedding, and mal was so happy. We have only fond memories of Mal and hope that those same memories will keep you strong.Sonny & Janine Sabinsky ( West Palm Beach, Fl)
Hugh O'Rourke
October 30, 2010
Laurie & Family:
My deepest sympathy on Mal's passing. I knew Mal from the time he started in Parole and worked in the Manhattan and Bronx Parole Offices together as parole officers and then senior parole officers. Mal was well liked by his fellow/sister officers, and held in high regard by all. May he rest in peace.
Hugh O'Rourke
bob gillen
October 30, 2010
Dear Laurie,
Just learned of Mal's passing & am so sorry he was taken at such a young age. I was informed by Bill Payne on Memorial Day that he was very ill. I'll never forget the leather vest he always wore while working in the Pough. office. Please accept my condolences. "Bob Gillen Saug., N.Y.
Craig Winterfeldt
October 29, 2010
Dear Laurie and family,
Life gives us brief moments with another...but sometimes in those brief moment we get memories that last a life time... - Author Unknown
Although our time together as Fraternity brothers at SUNY New Paltz was a brief four years Mal is one of those memories that will last a lifetime. His enthusiasm for life, his sense of humor, his banjo and his singing recall a wonderful time in our lives.
The last time I saw Mal was in 1990, soon after you were married. Laurie, I have never met you but I know you are a special person because Mal couldn’t stop talking about you and the wonderful life you had made together.
All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Craig Winterfeldt
October 29, 2010
Life gives us brief moments with another...but sometimes in those brief moment we get memories that last a life time... - Author Unknown
Although our time together as fraternity brothers at SUNY New Paltz was a brief 4 years Mal is one of those memories that will last a lifetime. His enthusiasm for life, his sense of humor, his banjo and his singing recall a wonderful time in our lives. The last time I saw Mal was in 1990, soon after you were married. Laurie, I have never met you but I know you are a special person because Mal couldn’t stop talking about you and how very happy you made him.
All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Steve Curran
October 28, 2010
Dear Laurie and family
I am very sorry to hear of Mal's passing. Seems shuch a short time ago when I first met him playing his 12 string at Topper House. It was his encouragement that caused me to join the fraternity. Some years later, we often chatted in front of the Dutchess County Office building (on lunch break) when he started working for the Probation Department. He will be missed.
Jim and Lisa McClaine
October 28, 2010
Dear Laurie and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Mal's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jim Flood
October 28, 2010
To the Hopper Family- I first met Mal when I pledged Toppers fraternity in college. Mal,already a brother,was upbeat, humorous, and non-judgmental. His infectious smile and positive attitude immediately convinced me I was joining an exemplary group. It is with great sadness I hear of his passing and sincerely hope his faith and love will continually give you comfort.
Gary Gilbert
October 28, 2010
A wonderful man with a great big heart.
I never forgot his giving and warm,
intelligent nature; living with him
at the "Topper House" he could light
up a room and was a natural leader,
Gary S Gilbert, Fair Oaks CA
Carol Smith
October 28, 2010
Dear Laurie and Family,
My deepest sympathies for Mal's passing are extended to you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please cherish your memories of a truly remarkable man.
Carol Smith
Richard Ohlerking
October 28, 2010
Mal was my close friend and roommate at SUNY New Paltz. Although our lives took different paths after graduation, we did manage to get together once many years later. I have always remembered the great times we had, especially as Toppers fraternity brothers. These memories will be with me always.
My condolences to Laurie, freinds, and families. God be with you.
Sincerely,
Rick Ohlerking
Kim Hoover
October 28, 2010
To the Hopper Family,
I am so sorry to hear of you loss. Please accept my condolences.
October 28, 2010
To the Hopper Family,
Please accept my condolences to you all.
Rick Gravelding - Auburn,N.Y.
John Sobol
October 28, 2010
Laurie & Family,
Sorry for your loss. Mal was a exceptional man, he will be missed. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
October 27, 2010
Laurie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Although I did not know Mal well I always found him to be a real gentleman. May he rest in peace.
Joe Lopiccolo-Auburn
Lorraine Tremmel
October 27, 2010
Laurie, My heart goes out to you and your family. Although I did not know your husband I heard alot of good things about him while he was in parole. You are in my prayers.
Judy Johnson
October 27, 2010
Laurie I am so sorry to hear about Mal's passing after his very courageous battle.. My condolences and sympathy are extended to you and to your families. .
luis ALVARADO
October 27, 2010
"Laurie, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are in my prayers". Lou Alvarado (Wurtsboro, N.Y.)
Donna St. John
October 27, 2010
Laurie & family, So sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Al Bove
October 27, 2010
Dear Laurie,
I am very sorry to learn of Mal's passing.
I will always remember the good times we had together.
You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Al and Mary Ellen Bove
Cheryl Flagler
October 27, 2010
Laurie and family, I was very sorry to hear of Mal's passing. He was a wonderful person and I remember his kindness to me when I worked with him at Parole. You are all in my prayers.
Dawn Lewandowski
October 27, 2010
Laurie and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
October 27, 2010
Dear Laurie,
I am very sorry to learn about Mal's passing. I well remember working with him at Parole and I think about him each time I drive the Taconic. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Scott Christianson, Sand Lake
James Torriani
October 27, 2010
Laurie, our deepest sympathy. Malcolm was a dear friend. I know you are comforted by the love he gave to you and his children and the contribution he made to the people of the State of New York.
James & Sandra Torriani
Raná Meehan
October 27, 2010
Laurie,
Our deepest sympathies during this time. From the many stories John has told us, Malcolm was a very dear friend and remarkable person and will be missed deeply. You are in our thoughts.
Damian, Raná, Peter and Tyler Meehan
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