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for David Dellinger
Vonnie and Jim Privett
January 26, 2023
Why is it that you can feel like it happened yesterday and at the same time you feel like it never happened?
We can not believe the time that has passed. The people that have joined David in the arms of God. He will be forever remembered for his jovial, loud laugh, big smile and abundant heart.
Perhaps he and Kylene are playing cards!
We shall always love him and have beautiful memories of him.
God bless you, Mary and your family.
Debbie Thiesing
May 12, 2010
David was a wonderful man to my family and I. We have used his pharmacy since 1989. He will be greatly missed by all. It was a pleasure knowing him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bill Wray
February 17, 2010
I was shocked recently in conversation with William Watson to learn of David's passing. Having called on David over many years as a pharmaceutical rep was a distinct pleasure. He was very current on drugs and procedures being promoted to physicians. Outside of his pharmacy activities David gave back to the community, one example was his strong support of George Mason U's Football program that he put a lot of time and energy. My wife, Khaki, was a pharmacy school classmate.
He will be missed, and was a good man.
Bill Wray - Retired Bristol-Myers Squibb
Dave Kannard
February 10, 2010
David was a great man as well as a great friend. I knew David for a long time and everytime my wife or i came to the pharmacy for our presciptions,he would always have a joke or two for us.He will be greatly missed by all.
Susan Windle
February 9, 2010
David was a good man. Always took care of my family's needs at the pharmacy. It was always a pleasure to talk to him each time we would pick up our medicines. He took time out of his day to ask about our family and how everyone was doing. We always went to David instead of the other pharmicies because he was so kind. We will miss him greatly. The Mike & Susan Windle and Family.
Julie Colgan
February 8, 2010
The Dellinger Family: Mike & I were so deeply sad to hear about David. My daughter, Kelly from the age of 5 would show David her new dance steps when we were there and she is now 22!!
Sincerely, The Colgan Family
Phyllis Burt
February 7, 2010
David always had a smile and kind words, along with a great sense of humor when I would see him at his pharmacy. He loved his music, so knowledgeable about the different music groups, and can remember when he was so excited to see Dave Matthews concert. He will most definately leave a void in the community.
My condolences to his family.
Rhonda
February 5, 2010
I remember David very well. He was always pleasant and cared so much. One time, I remember I could not afford a prescription, he gave it to me anyways and told me to pay when I could. I am sorry to hear about his passing. I am sure he will be very missed by very many!
Rhonda
Laurie Dorgan
February 4, 2010
I am so sad to hear of David's passing. I worked with him at People's Drug (now CVS) in Manassas as his pharmacy clerk in the 80's. David always made it fun to be at work and he could find humor in almost any situation. Years later I stopped by Crestwood Pharmacy with my then toddler aged daughter to pick up some medicine for her. He was genuinely happy to see us and we had a wonderful visit together. We still exchanged Christmas cards after all these years. I am so very sorry for your loss, and hope you find comfort in your memories of such a wonderful husband and father.
candice ransom
February 4, 2010
Dear Robert and Michael: I sat behind you yesterday at your father's funeral. You didn't see me and wouldn't, more than likely, remember me. I was David's "almost-the-exact-same-age" cousin. We were the two who were born in 1952, in the pack of 15 cousins on your grandfather Robert Dellinger's side (my mother was Irene, the oldest). I was in and out of Bobby and Irene's house a lot, mostly hanging around with Debra. David taught me to ride a bike and tried to teach me card games (I could never remember rules). I preferred to read, but David would push me to play ping-pong or Red Light, Green Light. It was easy to get caught up in his energy and foolishness.
We graduated the same year, but from different high schools. We were married the same year. In 1987, my stepfather Howard, who raised me, died. David was pallbearer. A year and a half later, he helped carry my mother's casket. I remember thinking how odd it seemed that the kid I played with was now in such a grown-up role.
I want to say how sorry I am. I know what it's like to lose your father at a young age. I was a few years older than you two, but not much. I last saw David in early December, at his pharmacy. I commented on the picture of you boys skiing. He told me what you were both doing now. I could tell he was very proud of you.
Please accept my condolences. He'll be watching you always, I know.
Much love,
Candice
Jim Midkiff
February 3, 2010
Mary, David and Michael:
David was a rare gem in the lives of everyone he interacted with. One of my favorite "stunts" David orchestrated was the letter he sent to Tim and I, at the office, addressed from the Virginia State Board of Pharmacy, informing Tim and I that we were being investigated for prescription drug fraud (whtever that is). The letter looked quite official, and gave a relatively elaborate explanation of what we should expect to happen, in the investigation. The end of the letter stated that if we had any questions regarding their explanation, to call their office, and it gave a phone number, and was signed and looked very official! Needless to say, I immediately called the number, and as soon as the call was answered, I immediately went into a tirade about the letter, and wanting to know what had precipited the investigation, and that I wanted to refute all the allegation...yada, yada, yada. When I finally stopped to take a breath, the person on the other end, calmly told me they had no idea what I was referring to, that I had called Ames Funeral Home! I verified the number, then had to humbly apologize. He asked me if someone might be playing a joke on me...my immediate and first thought was, "Dellinger!" I called Dave, at the pharmacy, and as soon as I started to ask if he had anything to do with the letter, he laughed the laugh I had heard so many times before, and I know he had gotten me good! He knew it too, and was so proud of his accomplishment!
My life has been enriched just knowing David...and the memories are too many to list. I am sorry for your loss...we have all lost a rare person.
Melissa Stoltz
February 3, 2010
Dear Mary, Robert and Mike,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of David. I was out of town or I would have been at the funeral. David always made us laugh at his stories, and that will never be forgotten. His caring demeanor will always be missed.
Ken Ryder
February 3, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of David's passing. I have known David for many years as a customer and friend. Always a smile on his face and a kind word to brighten your day. I will truly miss you David. Rest in peace and may God comfort your family.
Kelly Martin
February 3, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about David's death. I was a customer of his and always enjoyed dropping by and visiting. He was always so funny and helpful to everyone. He will truly be missed.
DeeDee Arnold
February 3, 2010
I am deeply saddened to hear of David's passing...I knew David from living in Manassas and going to Osbourn High School with him...He was indeed a truly special, caring and loving person. He will truly be missed : DeeDee Arnold (formerly Berger)
February 2, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael, I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you. I am saddened to hear of your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts, heart and prayers and this most difficult time. Sending warm hugs from the Pacific Northwest, Shelly Fleischer
February 2, 2010
Here are a few memories I will never forget:
1. Calling my mother in a speaking in a broken foreign language attempting to buy her 1979-ish station wagon.
2. Calling Dawn Lewis offering to adopt her dear cat, after she placed an add in the adoption section of the News Paper, poor innocent Mrs. Lewis.
3. Being forced by my loving father to pick poop to put in an old toilet that we placed in David's front yard. And yes we were forced to have photos taken of us standing beside the toilet.
4. Waking up one morning to a front yard full of fancy plastic pink flamingos, but no one is sure if Larry Monroe or David was beind this, I think we all know who I suspect.
5. Having my sister called by 'Officer Diddimire' discussing her felonious act of discharging a gun of a police officer......"Damn he's good" my sister Mary said with rage just minutes after the phone call ended.
6. While at Walmart with my sisters and the boys, somewhere in the middle of nowhere, being called over the loud speaker (by you know who) to come up to the front desk, being referred to as the 'Manassas GTM'er club'...You'll have to ask my Dad, but it was mortifying.
7. Preceeding a ski trip to Seven Springs we were trying to arrange who was to ride with either David or Mary. The majority of my family and the boys chose to ride with Mary, they were smart, I wasn't and made this life long unforgettable mistake. I told my Dad that I wanted to ride with Dave because "I find him interesting"
8. To the day he died (even just 2 weeks ago) he introduced me as his girlfriend, and that I found him "interesting"
9. I would periodically stop into the pharmacy to hear an old story and visit. A couple of weeks ago he told me a story about him and my dad passing gas at a party where they knew no one. I had shockingly never heard this story before, but the point is that I can't remember ever being around him with out laughing.
Much love to his family, he is truely an unforgettable man,
-Laura Ferramosca
Claudia Kilmer
February 2, 2010
We really appreciated the personal touch David shared at his pharmacy. Lots of interest, the utmost discretion, and pure professsionalism combined with a good touch of humor. We will miss him greatly.
Claudia and Robert Kilmer
Gina Binder
February 2, 2010
Mrs. Dellinger, Robert, and Michael:
I only knew your husband and father through exchanges at his pharmacy. Never have I encountered such a kind, cheerful, and friendly pharmacist. His personality made trips to the pharmacy fun, while his pharmaceutical acumen ensured our trust. It was a pleasure to encounter a professional who was so proud of his family. Although we've never met, I've heard of each of you - from the man who loved you dearly.
I am shocked and saddened by his loss.
February 2, 2010
I was shocked and saddened to hear of
David's passing when I walked in the Pharmacy this morning after my Dr. visit. I live about 30 miles away, but liked to support a "local" not chain pharmacy, so when I was at my Dr.
a few times a year I got medicine at David's. He was so proud of his family and sons. We often spoke of our sons.
I didn't know him other than seeing him
a few times a year, but he will be missed by many I am sure. He always had time to answer a question and smile.You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult sad time. God Bless You. The Bowman's
Mark Bergeron
February 2, 2010
My family and I were saddened to hear of David's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bergeron Family (Nokesville, VA - Sudley Members)
Victoria TenBroeck
February 2, 2010
Mrs Dellinger, Robert, & Michael,
I am so sorry for your loss! David (never Mr Dellinger, because that was his father!!) was always one with a joke and a smile at Sudley. One to always make us laugh when working at Sudley 'was just so hard'. David touched so many lives with his personality and outlook. I know he is smiling down on us now. Prayers are with you all.
I had to smile when I think of David's legacy, because I see a lot of David in both of Michael and Robert... especially from our dive trip to the Keys almost 10 years ago. Stay strong!
Lillian (Sue) Wroten
February 2, 2010
I first met Dave at the old Peoples Drug Store in 1968. I was working as a waitress at the luncheon counter, and Dave was the dishwasher, and a very hard worker. He was actually the reason my husband and I had our first date, so thank you for that, Dave. I did not see Dave again until our high school reunion in June 2009, so I didn't know him as an adult. Now that I have read these entries, I see I missed out on knowing him as a successful and wonderful family man and friend to many. Mike and I want to express our deepest sympathies to his family and friends. Rest in Peace, Dave.
Lila Green
February 2, 2010
I only know David through the pharmacy. I can honestly say that there isn't anyone quite like him. He was always so kind and often would stop what he was doing just to chat. There will be a huge void in Manassas without David. God bless him and his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 2, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael,
We are so sorry to hear about David's passing. What a wonderful delightful person he was. Everything I have read on here about David is absolutely true. You always knew you would get a good joke when David was around.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Joe and Maureen Macri
Gina Pomering
February 2, 2010
We were so sad to hear about Dave's passing. He was a wonderful man. He took such good care of his family and friends and he always made us laugh. His love and laughter will be missed but never forgotten. We wish you peace and love in this difficult time.
The Pomering Family
Andy, Gina(Matthews), and Dominic
Ernie and Linda Wright
February 2, 2010
February 2, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael,
We are extremely sadden by this loss. We will miss him dearly. So many good memories. We looked forward to his next good story whenever we saw him. Such a good man. Please let us know if there is anything we can do in this time of your sorrow. Our condolences to you and the whole family. We apreciated his service at the Pharmacy, and appreciated his trust in me in servicing your family vehicles. We love you Dr. Dave. May you rest in peace. Ernie and Linda Wright
Mike&Dana Watts
February 2, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael
May the beautiful memories you shared be a comfort to you now and through the days ahead. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Les Davenport
February 2, 2010
Truthfully, I probably have spent less time with Dave than anyone else signing this guestbook. Nonetheless, when with him it was like he was my oldest and best friend, because that is the way he apparently treated everyone. If you were a friend of a friend, you were in his close circle of friends. What a circle that must have been. Dave was unique in this world, and a treasure of Manassas! Fortunately, he left countless memories for his friends to laugh at and love for a lifetime. Excuse me if I am off base here, but I fear that the Birchmere will never recover from his absence. Someone needs to get them to hang a photo of him there.
Mary, we pray that love, memories and the grace of God comfort and carry you all through these difficult days.
Stanley Ahalt
February 1, 2010
I was in High School with Dave, and he was one of the people I remember with incredible fondness. His jokes - sometimes aimed at me - were incredibly funny, and at the same time very witty and intelligent. I am heartbroken to hear of his passing, and my most sincere condolences to all of your family.
Phyllis Shomate Roberts
February 1, 2010
Mary and the Boys,
Everything I read about David is so true, I've known him since before school, starting out in Sunday school when none of the teachers could handle him, thru school and High school and afterwards. When ever I came home and saw him he made me feel so special. I know he will be truly missed but never forgotten by all that had the pleasure of knowing him. His stories kept me in stiches and he was always there when I needed to find out Something or about somebody. I know he must be in heaven telling everyone about his pranks and whats going on. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. He was so very proud of you
Jay Eidson
February 1, 2010
David is best remembered just being David - a true prince of a gentleman. A swim meet without David is like Oscar Meyer without B O L O G N A. However deeply saddened we may be by his passing, I chuckle to myself every time I picture those poor angels up in Heaven, scrambling to figure out what the heck to do .. now that David's up there with them!
Paul Cioletti
February 1, 2010
My father and David were friends for many years since I was fairly young. In most recent years, we all carried on a tradition of making an annual 'bread run' into DC, where we drive into the worst part of DC, and purchased enough bread to allow Manassas to be disaster recovery compliant for the upcoming year. I'm extremely saddened to hear about his passing, and can only hope he and my father are hanging out somewhere telling jokes and sharing fresh loaves from Catania. My deepest sympathies are with your family.
Sue and Nick Hemmer
February 1, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael, Sue and I were truely surprised and saddened to hear about David. We remember with great fondness the wonderful times spent at Sudley, Dave's great sense of humor and the skill which he displayed as club president. You will be remembered in our thoughts and prayers during these trying times.
Terry and Jo Matthews
February 1, 2010
When we remember David, it brings a smile to our faces and a favorite story to mind. His practical jokes became legendary. Just hearing the name "Calabash" will always remind us of Dave.
Beneath all the jokes and humor, we admired his intelligence and medical knowledge. He provided us with a sense of assurance whenever a question arose. Since we moved from Manassas, we always looked forward to his annual Christmas letter. It showed how proud David was of his family and their many accomplishments.
We are so sorry for your loss. He left us all too soon. We will miss him terribly.
Ann Marie (Ferramosca) Coolick
February 1, 2010
David was one of my dad's best friends and as such my sisters and I (the Ferramosca's) were the recipients of many of David's practical jokes. I'll never forget our many ski trips to Seven Springs... during one trip we stopped at Wal-Mart with the Dellinger boys and David got on the loudspeaker to page us, "the GTM (Got Too Much Club) of Manassas", to the front. David always challenged my doubles partner Kelly Beauchamp and I to a tennis match vs me and my dad, however we never made that happen probably because we were secretively scared of losing to a couple of old farts. David went to many of my art shows and liked to tease me about using my abilities to do a nude portrait of him. When David found out I was pregnant he called and suggested that I name the baby David of course or Davina. I will miss his sense of humor and everything he has done for my family.
Myrna Sullivan
February 1, 2010
Mary, Michael and Robert
I wish there was something that I could say or do to lesson the pain of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts.
Nettie Shomate Stevens
February 1, 2010
I remember, not too along ago, driving down the road and in Pascale's front yard was a sign...David Dellinger for Senator...I died laughing. When you walked up to him you would just start to laugh, because you knew you were about to hear a good one. His antics along with his humor and compassion will be dearly missed. The Dellinger family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Gary and Susan Harris
February 1, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael,
Your husband and Dad had one of the biggest hearts of anyone we have known. He loved you all so much and we loved him. His countless kindnesses, great jokes and tireless energy will be sorely missed. Truly a hometown good guy. Your loss is crushing for many.
February 1, 2010
When I think of Dave I have to smile. He was always up to something. His practical jokes were priceless and to be told over and over. Every once in a while Jim and Tim pulled one on him like the toilet in your front yard complete with flowers planted and your name and housenumber all while you were away. I think that ended up in the Journal Messenger. I remember whenever anything happened at the office that they couldn't figure out it would always be, "Do you think it might be Dave."
What a great guy. He enriched everyones life who knew him, both young and old. Our boys are deeply saddened and send their condolences to you Mary and the boys.
May God hold you in his arms and comfort you at this time.
With love, and sadness, Jim and Susan Midkiff
February 1, 2010
I was so sorry to see David's obituary when I checked Legacy this morning. He was always such a nice fellow in school. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this time and in the days to come. May the Lord grant you the comfort that only He can give.
Love & prayers,
Gayle Spencer Cockerham (OHS Class of '70) and family
Linda Cornwell McLaughlin
February 1, 2010
Mary, Robert and Michael,
David was my best friend. His stories (although sometimes not exactly as I remembered) always made me smile. His sence of humor, laughter, generosity and honesty are all things that made him special. The three of you made him complete and he was so happy.
I will never forget the compassion and love he showed for Denny. You can be very proud of the person he was and the legacy he leaves behind.
My heart aches for you and my prayers are with you.
Much love,
Linda
Tim and Cathy Ferramosca
February 1, 2010
David was a kind compassionate gentle person, but was a prankster without equal. I know because me and my family were the recipients of many of his goodnatured practical jokes, and after a while he trained me to help him pull his pranks on others. He could tell a story like no one else could, and captivate his audience. I have heard the same story many times over the years, the details stay the same, but those stories remain just as funny as the first time I had ever heard them. His knowledge of medications always amazed me, and he could recite details of even the most obscure drugs from memory. He could do incredible things with his camera, yet was very creative with it in a mischievous way. He was so proud of how he photoshopped my face on to our newborn grandson's body, and put his own face over our daughter's new husband's face in one of her wedding day photos. As he would say, "there's no off position on the rascal switch." I can't begin to describe the void that his passing has left in my life and in my heart. Any one who was lucky enough to have known him, loved him. I am truly honored that he considered me a close friend.
Stephen Carter
February 1, 2010
While I only met David a handful of times, I can remember each time he had a story or a joke that made us laugh. Most importantly, I see the men which Robert and Michael are and know that he and your mom are very proud of you both. Continue to be the individuals which made him proud of you. Our prayers and sympathy go out to you and your family.
John (Johnny) Hooe
February 1, 2010
David was my source to keep up with my Manassas friends. He was a good man.
Jeannie and Jerry Hetherman
February 1, 2010
Mary, I want you to know we are thinking of you and the boys. Is there anything I can do to help? I always loved Davids sense of humor and laughs. I was so shocked when Jay called me Sat pm. HIs mother had called him. She and Hank always loved David and thought so much of him. Lots of people will miss his smile and his help.
Kimberly Baranyk
February 1, 2010
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief. We will cherish the memories of the times spent together. Curt and Kim
February 1, 2010
Dear Mary and Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
David will sorely be missed. No longer will he appear in our doorway with a joke or story then share dinner with us. No longer will David share those memorable pictures (many times touched up and not necessarily in a positive way) of family and friends. No longer can we anticipate (when the creative juices are flowing he use to say) that our front yard would be engulfed with Xmas decorations which were quite unique and something we wanted to remove immediately. No longer will people experience his generosity and love. But ,OH, thank you, David, for the memories and thank you, Mary, for sharing him with us!!
Love,
The Pascale's
Judy Whiting Swoope
February 1, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
February 1, 2010
The kind of friend everyone should have, I'm going to miss you buddy! There are so many wonderful memories including white water rafting, Delbert Concerts, March Madness Games, Sunday morning tennis at Sudley, OHS and George Mason Univ. football games, ski trips to Seven Springs, and alot of practical jokes on half of Manassas.....just won't be the same without you DaBido!
Our thoughts and love to you, Mary, Robert, and Michael.
Pam and Meade Gwinn
Jim Rudzenski
February 1, 2010
David was a fantastic guy! I will always remember playing tennis, going sking and concerts at the 930 club. One of the funnest people I knew! Our deepest sympathy! Jim, Linda, Heather, Jamie Rudzenski
Sharon & Don Fleetwood
February 1, 2010
Few people have achieved the position of respect and high esteem which David enjoyed for so many years in the community. His absence will be felt by many. With deepest sympathy.
Jim & Vonnie Privett
February 1, 2010
Mary, Robert, and Michael,
You have our deepest most heartfelt sympathy. David was a friend to everyone he met. My husband, Jim and I knew him since almost the beginning of his opening Crestwood Pharmacy. He was ALWAYS there when we needed him for advice, a joke, or comfort. He once went out of his way to bring antibiotics to our house for our disabled daughter! I found that so amazing. But then again, that was David. Our daughter passed away almost 3 years ago and David has always been there with a smile and words of kindness. He could be irreverent at times, with his less than politically correct behavior, but that was part of the reason we loved him, he was honest, blatantly so. We shall miss his laugh, his jokes, his long stories, his way of making you feel like you were part of his family. He loved you all, Mary his eyes lit up when he spoke of you; Robert and Michael, his pride nearly busted the buttons right off his shirt when he spoke of your accomplishments. As for "the girls" at Crestwood, he had special relationships with each one of you; Lenore, just recently I was in there and we were teasing about you finding a beau...David said that you two were going to get married, and then laughed! He was so proud of Gene's medal and article in the paper. He loved and loves all of you. He loved his Manassas and the people in it and they loved him. He will be so sorely missed. We share in your shock, your sorrow, and your sweet memories of one heck of a great guy. Nothing will ever be the same without him. We do pray that you will eventually find peace in your memories.
Mark Fischer
February 1, 2010
All of us in Crestwood will really miss Dave. He was a wonderful, caring man that brought a smile to all of us. We are so sorry for your loss.
Bridget Lowe- Ouellette
February 1, 2010
Dave always brought a smile to my face. I have many fond memories as a kid at Sudley Club. I am terribly sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed. Prayers and love to all of you.
Bridget Lowe Ouellette
BETTY/BOB BELSHEE
February 1, 2010
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
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