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Ralph Messinger Obituary

WELLSVILLE Ralph J. Messinger, Jr., 53, died Thursday morning, March 5, 2009, at his home following a 14 month courageous battle with melanoma cancer. He was the loving husband of Arlene (Angelastio) Messinger. The couple celebrated their first wedding anniversary November 25, 2008. He was born March 25, 1955, in Dover, a son of the late Ralph J. and Pauline S. (Weigle) Messinger. Ralph was a 1974 graduate of Dover High School. He worked with the Newberry Township road crew and was a self-employed auto body mechanic. Ralph was a member of New Life Baptist Church, New Cumberland. He was also a member of Teamsters Local Union No. 776 where he was a steward, Shiloh American Legion Post 791, and the Fireman's Club, Goldsboro. Ralph enjoyed baseball, soccer, fixing up street rods, riding motorcycle, and hunting, especially at his hunting camp in Franklin County. Most of all, he loved playing with his grandchildren. In addition to his wife, Ralph is survived by two daughters, Jessica L. Hernandez and husband, Carlos of Artesia, N.M., and Shelly J. Reider and husband, Darrell of Mount Joy; two stepdaughters, Shavonne Santanna and Nicole Burgos, both of Camp Hill; grandchildren, Hunter Souders and Evynn Reider; stepgrandchildren, Mitch and Aubrey Reider, Alexia Santanna, and Elijah Wilburn; two brothers, Philip Snyder of Dover and Merle Messinger of York; and a foster brother, Donald Green of Wellsville. He was preceded in death by a brother, Carl Messinger. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend the funeral at 11 a.m and the viewing from 10 to 11 a.m. on Monday, March 9, 2009, at Emig Funeral Home, 47 N. Queen St., Dover. Following cremation, burial will be private in Suburban Memorial Gardens. Officiating will be the Rev. Mike Shuff, Associate Pastor of New Life Baptist Church.

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Published by York Daily Record on Mar. 6, 2009.

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Jimmy Stout

March 10, 2009

Jess,
So very sorry to hear of the loss of your father. May God give you peace during this time

Isabel Fuentes

March 10, 2009

Jessica, I am very sorry for your loss. I pray that God will pour His amazing love and peace on you. Eddie and I will pray for you and your family. God bless...

Gene Gutierrez

March 10, 2009

Jessica & Carlos,

My condolences to you and your family for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

your friend,
Gene

David Garza

March 9, 2009

Jessica,
Sorry to hear about your loss. You often spoke about your father and all the fun stuff that he liked to do and even though I never met him, i'm sure we would have gotten along just fine. The world will be a lesser place without him. May God Bless you and your family.

The Garza's

Maria Morales

March 9, 2009

Jessica,

You and your family are in my prayers. I know you loved your father very much and I hope that you may feel comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Love,
Lupita

Rod and Kathy Holtzapple

March 9, 2009

Dear Jess and Shelly,
Please accept our sincere sympathy - we went to school with your Dad and Rod played soccer with him for many years. We saw him last summer and he told us about his fight with cancer. When we asked about the both of you and his grandchildren, he gave us that amazing smile! He literally beamed with pride. He loved you all so very much as you very well know. May your wonderful memories sustain you and bring you comfort. May God bless you and give you strength and may you remember that your Dad is only a thought away. Take care.

Lorri Bupp

March 9, 2009

I was very sorry to hear about Ralph's passing...I'll never forget him teasing the boys when he plowed our road. I'm glad Bill and I got to talk to him in September and he seemed like the old Ralph.

William & Lori Carpenter

March 8, 2009

The fact that our paths had crossed made life a little more entertaining. The world will be a little less lively now.

Mariellen Cassel

March 6, 2009

Dear Jess and Shelly,
No bond is greater than that of a father with his daughters. We know how much you loved each other. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both as you grieve. Ralph had a kind heart and a fun loving smile. Your father will be greatly missed!

Love,
Mike, Mariellen, Becky, and Michael

Sylvia Bruinsma

March 6, 2009

Jess and Shell,
Jeff and I are so very sorry about your dad. He was a great friend and will truely be missed. I always loved that smile of his and his teasing, you never knew if he was serious. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will be unable to attend the services as I just had surgery for cancer on Wednesday myself. Your dad loved you girls very much and he was always proud of you. And those grandchildren were such a joy to him. God be with you during this difficult time.
Jeff and Sylvia Bruinsma

Robin DeBolt

March 6, 2009

I never got to meet you, Pappy, but I do know your wonderful grandson, Hunter. You must be one very special man to have a grandson who loves you so much. Someday, I'd like to shake your hand.

For Shelley, Darren. Evynn, Aubrey, and Hunter, please accept my hope for peace and healing for all your family as you mourn the passing of his courageous spirit.

Zula Knudsen

March 6, 2009

God be with you in your time of sorrow.

Connie Fhurman (Messinger)

March 6, 2009

Jessie, Shelly, and Corrine,Phil, and Don, my prayers are with you at this sorrowful time. Ralphie is now with his mom and dad in heaven. They are rejoicing even though we are in sorrow of the lost of Ralphie. Keep the faith and look to Jesus for all your strength to get you through each day. If I can do anything please let me know. When I was little I was a big part of this family. I was their little girl. I love them all.

Karen Hawkins

March 6, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Ralph's family. He was the type of guy that would do anything for you. He will be truly missed.

Stacy Zeigler

March 6, 2009

My thoughts & prayers are with you. May God be with you during your time of need.

Dave "Bake" Baker

March 5, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow, We truly belive that Ralph is in good hands and at peace. I'll miss Ralph but will never forget the time I have come to know him. His pranks will forever be a part of my memories of a man who always enjoyed getting under somebody's skin and then smiling that devilish little grin that only he could do. Thanks for the privilege of knowing you and calling you friend.

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