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LANNY ALEXANDER

LANNY ALEXANDER

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ALEXANDER--Lanny, age 79, of Southold, New York, died on December 7, 2025. She was a lawyer, public servant, devoted partner, mother, and grandmother. She is survived Sally Renfro, her partner of over 40 years; her daughters, Nicole Schlesinger and Dori Acampora; her sons-in-law Damian Smith and...

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