People Want to Be Helpful, But...

Grievers cope with what people don't say—and what they do.

Voices of Support After the Charleston Shooting

Although atrocities such as the June 17 massacre of nine people in a historic Charleston, South Carolina, church shake us to our core, it gives us hope to see people coming together online, offering support and sympathy.

Fourth of July Memories

People love to reminisce about holidays spent with family and friends — even in condolence messages.

Funeral Flower Messages: What to Say

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How To Write Condolences on Facebook

Writing a message of support on Facebook is different from writing a sympathy note.

How To Comfort When a Pet Dies

Your support of someone mourning a beloved pet can positively impact their healing.

Back to School: The Incredible and Enduring Impact of Teachers

Teachers are such a huge part of our lives, it’s no surprise that we remember them so fondly in condolences.

The Truth About Goodbyes

Nearly 13 years ago, I joined Legacy.com as a content screener.

The Power of Condolences

Friends and family members play a crucial role in extending support during mourning.

People Who Love Southwest Airlines Have Turned Out in Droves to Mourn Its Founder

Was Herb Kelleher one of the most beloved corporate executives ever?

Best Sympathy Quotes

This article brings together 57 timeless sympathy quotes drawn from history, literature, scripture, and voices of spiritual and philosophical reflection. Spanning cultures and centuries, these words offer comfort, perspective, and reassurance to those navigating grief, loss, and mourning. From well-known authors and poets to biblical passages and proverbs, the collection is designed to help readers find language that honors love, acknowledges sorrow, and offers hope when words feel hardest to find.

What to Do for a Grieving Mother on Mother's Day

Some thoughtful acts can make this time a little less painful.

What to Say When Someone Dies

When someone you care about is grieving, finding the right words can feel overwhelming. This article offers practical, compassionate guidance on what to say—and how to listen—after a death, emphasizing simplicity, empathy, and sincerity. It explores supportive responses for a wide range of situations, from sudden or traumatic losses to long illness, strained relationships, and losses involving children, coworkers, or even strangers. With expert insights, examples of thoughtful phrases, and reminders of what to avoid saying, the guide helps readers express sympathy in ways that acknowledge loss, offer comfort, and remind the bereaved that they are not alone.

'Immortalized' — Legacy's fascinating new obituary podcast is now available to listen or watch

Join Legacy's award-winning obituary reporters for our new podcast, "Immortalized." In every episode, we'll explore the fascinating ways people pay tribute to those we've lost -- from famous celebrities to our everyday neighbors.

Condolences: What Do I Say?

When someone you care about has lost a loved one, it can be hard to know what to say when sending condolences. But it's important to say something. Sharing your condolences lets them know you care and offers comfort in one of the hardest times they'll ever experience. It's a loving gesture that means a lot.