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Advice & Support
Dec 14, 2025
12 of the Best Famous Eulogies (Examples for Inspiration)
Writing and delivering a eulogy can be challenging. Most of us are not professional speakers, and grief makes finding the ability to say the right thing even more difficult.

Advice & Support
Dec 10, 2025
Attending a Funeral: What to Know
Legacy offers advice from experts to help answer all of your funeral etiquette questions: What is the difference between a memorial service and a funeral? What should I say to the deceased's family at the visitation? Does it matter what I wear?
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Advice & Support
Oct 27, 2020
A funeral director in 2020: 'I worry about masks'
Sammy G. Oakey III is a fifth-generation funeral director, the president of in Roanoke, Virginia. In the 150 years since his great-great-grandfather founded the business, it has never changed quite as fast as it has in 2020.
Advice & Support
Mar 12, 2020
Funerals During the COVID-19 Coronavirus Epidemic: How to Plan
As the new coronavirus strain COVID-19 travels around the globe, it’s not always easy to know what to do to keep ourselves and our loved ones safe. In many areas of the U.S., public gatherings have been banned or discouraged. We're practicing social distancing, staying home as much as possible.
Advice & Support
Dec 21, 2019
What Kind of Flowers Should I Buy for a Funeral?
A guide to which sympathy flowers are often used to remember the most important people in our lives.
Advice & Support
Nov 26, 2019
What to Wear to a Funeral (video)
This guide explains how to choose appropriate clothing for funerals and memorial services in today’s more casual world. It outlines respectful attire options for women, men, and children, with additional guidance for seasonal services, family members, and funerals with specific dress requests. Emphasizing modesty, neutral colors, and consideration for the grieving family, the article also clarifies what to avoid wearing and offers practical advice for situations where expectations are unclear. Overall, it helps readers balance personal comfort with tradition and respect, ensuring their appearance supports—not distracts from—the purpose of the service.

Advice & Support
Aug 8, 2019
What Is a Wake?
A wake is one of the ceremonies some people perform after a death. It’s often used interchangeably with visitation or viewing, though historically it was a different kind of ceremony from our modern-day visitation.
Advice & Support
Jun 26, 2019
How to Choose a Pallbearer
Serving as pallbearer is a position of honor. Here are tips on who to ask.
Advice & Support
Jun 12, 2019
Tips and Advice for Pallbearers
Serving as a pallbearer is a serious job, but it doesn't have to be overwhelming.
Advice & Support
May 28, 2019
Jewish Funeral Service Rituals
Will you be attending a Jewish funeral for the first time? If so, you may have questions or be unsure what to expect. Here is a general overview of Jewish customs and traditions surrounding death, burial, and mourning to be aware of when attending a funeral in the Jewish faith.
News
Apr 29, 2019
Military Funeral Service Rituals
One of the most revered traditions of military life, a military funeral honors ceremony is a key part of how many families honor their lost veteran. But like all formal ceremonies, they can be a little intimidating if you don’t know what to expect. Read on to learn what happens at a military funeral and find answers to questions on how to behave, what to bring, and how to best help a family say goodbye to their veteran with dignity and respect.
Advice & Support
Apr 5, 2019
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
Sending flowers is a meaningful way to express sympathy after a death, but etiquette can feel unclear—especially around what to send, where to send it, and when flowers may not be appropriate. This guide answers common questions about funeral and sympathy flowers, including timing, arrangement types and sizes, message card wording, and practical delivery considerations. It also outlines respectful alternatives such as potted plants, food baskets, memorial gifts, or charitable donations, and highlights faith-based customs where flowers may be discouraged or require specific choices. Overall, it provides straightforward guidance to help you offer support thoughtfully and respectfully, whether or not you can attend the service.

Advice & Support
Mar 11, 2019
What to Expect at a Memorial Service Held at Home
A casual setting can make it more comfortable to share memories.
Advice & Support
Mar 6, 2019
Sikh Funeral Service Rituals
Will you be attending a Sikh funeral for the first time? Here is an overview of the general Sikh customs and traditions surrounding death, burial, and mourning to be aware of when attending a funeral.
Advice & Support
Feb 14, 2019
Hindu Funeral Service Rituals
Will you be attending a Hindu funeral for the first time? Hinduism is the world’s third largest religion, with over a billion followers. Here is an overview of the general Hindu customs and traditions surrounding death, burial, and mourning to be aware of when attending a funeral.
Advice & Support
May 7, 2017
Feeling Guilty About Missing a Friend's Funeral
Missing a funeral can bring up a lot of emotions, but guilt shouldn't necessarily be one of them.
Advice & Support
Jan 5, 2017
Attending a Funeral: What's In It For You?
So many rituals, which bind us together, have fallen by the wayside in our society — and funerals are on the endangered species list.
Advice & Support
Dec 29, 2015
Who Pays for the Funeral? Defining 'Immediate Family'
Money is always a touchy subject, whether you're requesting financial help or being asked to provide it.
Advice & Support
Oct 5, 2015
What to Wear to a Funeral
Advice from experts on funeral dress: what is appropriate to wear to a funeral—and what you should never wear when attending a funeral, memorial service, visitation, or wake.
News
Dec 12, 2013
What Is a Memorial Service?
This article explains what a memorial service is and how it differs from a traditional funeral, helping first-time attendees know what to expect. It outlines why memorial services are held without the body present, how their timing can be flexible, and why they are often more informal and personalized. Emphasizing remembrance and celebration of life, the guide describes common elements such as shared stories, music, and opportunities to connect with other attendees. It also offers practical etiquette tips on participation and expressing condolences, highlighting how personal memories can bring lasting comfort to the family.

