What to Say When Someone Dies

When someone you care about is grieving, finding the right words can feel overwhelming. This article offers practical, compassionate guidance on what to say—and how to listen—after a death, emphasizing simplicity, empathy, and sincerity. It explores supportive responses for a wide range of situations, from sudden or traumatic losses to long illness, strained relationships, and losses involving children, coworkers, or even strangers. With expert insights, examples of thoughtful phrases, and reminders of what to avoid saying, the guide helps readers express sympathy in ways that acknowledge loss, offer comfort, and remind the bereaved that they are not alone.

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