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Ann Hila Obituary

Ann M. Hila

AGE: 80 ? Hazlet

Ann M. Hila, 80, of Hazlet, passed away peacefully with her family by her side on Saturday, Feb. 5, 2011, at Bayshore Community Hospital, Holmdel. Ann was born Nov. 9, 1930 in Linden, where she grew up, and settled in Hazlet to raise her family over 50 years ago. Ann was a loving, gentle and caring wife, mother, grandmother and friend.

She was predeceased by her parents, Frank and Klara Becker Arndt; her cherished great-grandson, Jason J. Graves; and her brother and sisters, Frank Arndt, Isle Bettinger, and Dolores Kushner. Ann is survived by her beloved and devoted husband of 60 years, Joseph G. Hila; her loving children, Debbie Rekoon and her husband Bob of Atlantic Highlands, Donna Kester and her husband Rich of Hazlet, Greg Hila and his wife Claire of Naples, Fla., and Jeff Hila and his wife Pamela of Howell. She is also survived by her cherished grandchildren, Christine Smith, Amy and Kurt Kester, Dana, Morgan, Taylor, Rebecca, Blake, and Lacie Hila, along with her great-grandchild, Hailey Graves. She will be sadly missed, but never forgotten.

Family and friends are invited to visit from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 9 and from 9 to 9:45 a.m. Thursday, Feb. 10 at the Shore Point Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 3269 Route 35 North, Hazlet. A funeral Liturgy in celebration of Ann's life will be offered at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, Feb. 10 at St. Benedict's Roman Catholic Church, Holmdel. Interment will follow at Holmdel Cemetery. For information, directions, or to send condolences to the family, visit www.shorepointfh.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Feb. 8, 2011.

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February 14, 2011

Jeff, Pam, and family, we are so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Joe and Elaine Wartinger

February 9, 2011

My condolences to the entire Hila family on Mrs. Hila's passing. I was terribly saddened to hear the news, but was able to reflect on all the great memories I have of her. She was a wonderful woman - sweet, loving, kind, and generous. We still have the Xmas ball she gave to me the year of my marriage (1983), we even hung it on the tree here in Nassau. It was my life-long pleasure to have ever made her acquaintance. We will miss her… (Mike Pennell, the Bahamas)

Joe Whelan

February 8, 2011

My condolences to you and your family for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. Joe Whelan

February 8, 2011

Dearest Donna and family- So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She was always such a sweet and gentle lady, with infinite patience and caring. You and yours are in my heartfelt prayers. Fondly, Terry Good.

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