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Joan Skelly Obituary

Joan Skelly, 77, of Scottsdale, AZ, passed away peacefully February 21, 2012. She was born September 9, 1934 in Elizabeth, NJ. Joan worked in government for Senator John Kyl of Arizona for 18 years and retired as the Assistant State Director under Senator Kyl. Joan was a member of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church in Scottsdale. Joan is survived by her husband of 56 years, Jim. Surviving family members include her sons, Chris and Jim, and seven grandchildren Mary Margaret, Matt, Theresa, Claire, Joe, Daniel and John Skelly. A visitation will be held in Joan's honor from 6-8 PM with a rosary at 7:00 PM on Thursday, February 23rd at Messinger Mortuary, 7601 E. Indian School Rd. in Scottsdale. Funeral mass will be held at 10:00 AM Friday, February 24th at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church, 7655 E. Main St. in Scottsdale. Burial will immediately follow at St. Francis Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to Messinger Indian School Mortuary.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Feb. 23, 2012.

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Liz Colter

March 13, 2012

Jim--I was very sorry to read that you had lost Joan. She was a lovely person and I was privileged to know her when we were all involved in Republican politics. It is very difficult to lose your life partner as I know and I want you to know that I have been thinking of you at this time which is about the worst thing that happens to any of us. Liz Colter

February 23, 2012

I will miss you and joan very much. You both became such a special part of our family at scottsdale heritage court. I myself can say i love you both and will miss you very much. God bless you Jim and your wonderful family....................Tina

TINA ZEDEKAR

February 23, 2012

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

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