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Zemis, Paul F.
8/27/59 - 6/02/10. Dedicated son. Loving brother and uncle. Loyal friend. A gentle soul who cared for all of God's creatures. You can honor Paul's memory by making a donation in his name to the Ariz. Humane Society at azhumane.org Love Forever, Your Family "We'll see you on the other side"

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Jun. 13, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
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Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Catherine Zemis

Planted Trees

Nature's beauty never ceases to surprise.

L A Zemis

December 22, 2012

The Hummingbird & Christmas Wreath

There was no snow on the gravel yard.
The daytime temperature had not fallen below 50°.
It was December in the Valley of the Sun.
The Christmas wreath sparkled with green and gold glitter.
A red satin ribbon tied in a bow cascaded from the top.
To welcome the holidays to the small abode.

As I sat on the sofa with my chocolate pup by my side, the enchanting creature hovered inside the open front door.
Without a moment's notice, the hummingbird came in to inspect the Christmas wreath's flora and then was gone.
Such a sweet gift to remind me of nature‘s closeness.

Happy Christmas from the desert.

Catherine Zemis

August 28, 2012

Laurene has the knack for writing the most beautiful poems for you, Paul! Me, well I have to resort to finding music and/or quotes that I find fitting. I surely didn't forget you on your birthday... I posted the following on fb: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkmO5acqOXE&feature=share
a wonderful song to describe how I feel and this quote: "Every man's life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another." ~Ernest Hemingway~
I love you and 'I miss you'... ALWAYS, with love, your sister Catherine*

Memories are fuel on life's highway

LA Zemis

August 26, 2012

When my chocolate velvet-eared pup points his noise up and sniffs the air, then I know your spirit is in the room. Time here continues to stretch on like an endless Texas highway.

I am thankful for your spirit which visits from time to time. I am reminded to raise my eyes to take in the cerulean blue sky and the shapes of the clouds. Also, to pay attention to the night sky as the moon grows from a sliver to a full one, again and again.

You will always be missed, but know that your special spirit lives on in my life. Happy birthday and thank you for being my brother, then & now.

My 3 Angels

Catherine Zemis

June 2, 2012

Catherine Zemis

April 14, 2012

I miss you, daddy, every day. Please give Paul a hug for me and Mark and Kitty too! I love you, Always... your daughter.

Thanksgiving Novemeber 2000 the last time we were ALL together (Chuck out of frame)

Catherine Zemis

December 9, 2011

The holidays, hm. Tough times. We DO, however, have much to be thankful for and our memories will last forever! Please give daddy, Mark and Kitty and all those with you today, a BIG HUG from me! I love you Paul and miss you so very much. Always, Your sister Catherine*

Rain or Shine... Always the 'healer', Dr. Paul :)

Catherine Zemis

August 26, 2011

My Dear Brother Paul, I know I haven't written in some time... but you and I both know that we have our daily conversations... just between us! It has been quite a difficult year and I have been at a loss for words (believe it or not). Coping with your loss has been something I never could imagine. Then, to lose Dad and Mark Lindsey in less than a year later, virtually hours apart... well, speechless. Please give daddy a hug from me. And Mark too, of course. Mark was a great comfort to me with our very frequent phone calls. I miss you all and the animals that followed (sigh) I am happy for you that you have company for your birthday though sad for us here. We'll celebrate you again at the Olive Garden and remember all the good times we have shared. I am including a pic of the little Angel mom bought for each of us after we were born... no surprise that yours has a broken wing AND a Dr's bag!!!! One look at those big, blue eyes and there's no mistaking it's YOU!
Happy Birthday, Paul I love you, Always... Your sister, Catherine*

The Moon is full, but my heart is not

LA Zemis

June 24, 2011

There is a full Moon in the sky tonight. Do you see it from the other side? If it were transparent, would I see you?
A father, a brother, a good friend. Each gave more than they would ever take. Their time here had come to an end.
I remember my Dad’s backyard gardens. In every house we ever lived in. On the smallest plot that was his land.
I remember my brother loved to cook. He knew all the right ingredients. He gave me lessons, but not sure it took.
I remember the coffee aroma in my good friend’s kitchen. And all of the animals welcoming me in. Sit and stay awhile was the message they were pitchin’.
Each man enjoyed life’s simple pleasures.
Now they peacefully lay in the clouds and breathe the wind.
There’s no doubt, death is life’s saddest moment.

Kitty 06/07 - 02/11

March 6, 2011

Hello my brother, Paul. By now Kitty should be there with you and all those that crossed over... I know she's in GREAT company and you will take good care of her until I meet you on the other side... but not yet! I love you, Always... your sister Catherine*

Janny Amos-Thomas

March 5, 2011

My thoughts and prayers to the family. Paul was part of our rodeo family back in high school, always had a smile for everyone. I have thought of him often through the years. Sorry for your loss.

Happy Halloween, Paul

L A Zemis

October 30, 2010

THE GHOST OF A FLOWER
"You're what?" asked the common or garden spook
Of a stranger at midnight's hour.
And the shade replied with a graceful glide,
"Why, I'm the ghost of a flower."

"The ghost of a flower?" said the old-time spook;
"That's a brand-new one on me;
I never supposed a flower had a ghost,
Though I've seen the shade of a tree."
-Anonymous

Greenway HS

October 20, 2010

Hi Paul, it's your sister Catherine* I know I haven't written for a while, but you know that thoughts of you cross my mind daily... so many fond memories I hold dear and use to comfort me. I'm sure the family agrees that it is nice to have this page to come to and share those special thoughts and photos and to be able to hear from other family members and your friends from high school. We encourage them to continue to share!
I love you, Paul! Always... With Love,
Catherine

October 19, 2010

Sorry to hear of your loss ... thoughts and prayers go out to you ...Linda Nimietz Cussins

Jesse Clayton Robinson

September 27, 2010

Paul and I ran together some in high school.We lost track of each other after that. I'm sorry to hear he is gone.

Bruce Hall

September 24, 2010

Paul and I were friends in high school.I've thought of him often.I'm sorry for our loss.

Scot Stephenson

September 24, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dennis Bullock

September 23, 2010

Hi my name is Dennis Bullock.Im so sorrey to hear about paul. Me and paul went to greenway.he was a good friend of mine.we had alot of good times togetheir.You will be mist.all see you in heaven my friend.

Veronica Love-Stroud

September 23, 2010

How awesome to be in our heavenly home without pain and sorrow. Always in our thoughts and prayers.

Derrell Selleys

September 23, 2010

I remember Paul well from high school. I hope he had a happy life.
My condolences to the family.

Pat Zemis

September 13, 2010

Sedona Creek 8 - 27 - 2010

Pat Zemis

September 13, 2010

Sedona Creek 8 - 27 - 2010

Patricia Zemis

September 13, 2010

Charles Zemis

September 13, 2010

Charles Zemis

September 12, 2010

Charles Zemis

September 12, 2010

Charles Zemis

September 12, 2010

so handsome!

August 27, 2010

I clearly feel your presence here today, Paul... Happy Birthday!!!!:) Bittersweet as it may be, we will celebrate your memory on this, your 51st year. You did teach me a lot, but mostly I've learned NOT to take for granted what means most to us in this life. And oh, "don't put off 'til tomorrow..." you know that one. I've put together another slideshow in hopes that others can enjoy YOU :) Here's the link:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gbkv5EgNCIs
(copy & paste to browser)
I love you and miss you.... Always. Your sister, Catherine*
"Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none." ~William Shakespeare

I Remember Paul

Laurene Zemis

August 26, 2010

August 27 When I was just one you came into this world as my new little brother. When we were all grownup, I counted on you for advice, so many times. As we all find out, thyme flies! When I was fifty-one, you left for a better place. Today is a day to remember who you were. You were my friend, my confidant, my wise, kind, compassionate brother. I will hold close your view of every edible thing as absolutely delicious and every living thing as absolutely beautiful! You are now free as you will ever be. I love you & miss you with all my heart. Your sister, Laurene

August 26, 2010

Paul, we WILL be celebrating your
51st birthday tomorrow in a way
that you may have if you were
here with family & eating at the
Olive Garden. We'll all bring
the leftovers home.
Love,MOM & DAD

August 19, 2010

Today's my birthday, but it doesn't feel like much of one to celebrate It's just one of those 'middle of the road' birthdays, Paul, but not getting that call... hm, that's the kicker. I know you're smiling down on me though and wishing me another happy, happy! I did take the day off, that must count for something! 8 more days until YOUR birthday...we'll celebrate then!Love you, miss you... Always, your sister Catherine

December '09

August 2, 2010

Dear brother Paul, Even though miles separated us, we still had those frequent, lengthy conversations and lots of laughs. I miss that most, but am so grateful for them, as the memories bring me comfort. Thank you, Paul! With Love, your sister Catherine

PAUL & BROTHERS...

SHARON LONGO

July 17, 2010

You are in our thoughts......
Love, Auntie Sharon & Uncle Joe

July 10, 2010

On July 04 2010 several of
Paul's family & friends got
together and shared what was
2:00 PM their time & place.
AMAZING GRACE ! MOM & DAD

Clouds & Moon

Laurene Zemis

July 4, 2010

July 4, 2010

"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; he leadeth me beside the still waters."
July 4, 2010 2:00pm central time

There's that big smile!

July 1, 2010

Henry David Thoreau wrote, "Be true to your work, your word, and your friend." He must have known my brother Paul! I love you and miss you...always. Your sister, Catherine

Mark Lindsey

June 22, 2010

Paul, We will miss you dearly but I know we will see each outher again someday. With all our Love Mark & the Animals.

Paul at home in Texas 12/09

Catherine Zemis

June 20, 2010

Hi Paul, it's your sister Catherine! I wanted you to know that I made a photo slideshow from pictures mom had of you from childhood on and it was so nice to take that walk down memory lane. I'll be making extra copies for everyone and letting them choose a song for the background, so it will have that personal touch. I will add some photos on this site now and then, I hope you don't mind, but I think we'll enjoy seeing you looking back at us from the pages! :) Bye for now. Love forever, your sister Catherine

June 17, 2010

To my Godchild Paul, my last meeting was when you came to Massachusetts in the summer around 15 years ago, and stayed at my home for a couple of days. That is the memory I will hold forever.
Pat,Frank and family, it is so difficult to lose a son. I offer my condolences, and to keep Paul's memories alive.
Peace and Love
Mary Mascola

Laurene Zemis

June 17, 2010

Dear sweet brother Paul: May you rest in Peace and look down on us each day with your beautiful blue eyes and a smile. I look to the stars at night and have memories of you. I love you & miss you. Your sister, Laurene

KIM DOMOVICH

June 17, 2010

We hope to express our condolences to the entire family. May your loving memories help to temper the pain of your loss. Kim and Mike Domovich

Linda Flanders

June 16, 2010

To my cousin Paul, it has been so many years since we have seen each other or even spoken, but I can still see that huge smile you always had!! That is the memory I will hold forever..
To his parents and family, my aunt & uncle and cousins, to the extended family, there are no words that can make the pain go away with the loss of someone so dear and close to you. WE must all remember, he has not left us forever, but he has moved on in the next phase of life and we shall all meet again someday and I know Paul will still be smiling as he greets each and every one of us. May he rest in peace.
Love
Linda & Alan & Family

IN HIS ARMS.....

SHARON LONGO

June 15, 2010

OUR NEPHEW PAUL: You were always a 'pretty cool kid' growing up and became a great guy. Paul, you have touched the hearts of so many with your kind and gentle spirit. We thank you for being part of our family and our lives. We shall treasure the fond and loving memories you have given to each one of us. You will always be in our hearts!
May you rest in PEACE in the arms of JESUS our Lord & Saviour.
Love,
Aunt Sharon & Uncle Joe

June 15, 2010

i know your in heaven enjoying no pain and probably big farms with lots of animals. thank you for making the world a better place while you were here!

Alicia Valentyn

June 14, 2010

Paul, you lived Life to the Fullest. Thanks for being my Brother. I'll think of you daily and When people ask me Why are you smiling?... I'll answer It's because of my brother Paul- he put all his love out into the world- for his friends, family, our planet and the animals & he has a great Laugh! I Love You. Alicia

Beautiful Just Like You Paul

Alicia Valentyn

June 14, 2010

June 13, 2010

To family and friends of Paul,
We would like to invite you to join us in celebration of Paul's life by using this guest book to share your thoughts, memories, photos or whatever you feel the family and others would enjoy reading.
Our sincerest gratitude for all the heartfelt condolences and prayers we've received.
Love, Paul's Mom and Dad

June 13, 2010

"Hi Catherine, it's your brother Paul." That is just one on the many things I will miss about you, Paul... our monthly phone conversations.
But I will look for your image in the clouds and carry on our talks there!
I love you brother... Always and Forever, Your sister Catherine

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