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Stephen Butterfield Obituary

Stephen F. Butterfield

Paradise Valley - Stephen (Steve) Fred Butterfield, 65, of Paradise Valley, died of heart complications on Monday, April 16, 2018. While his family mourns the passing of their patriarch, his friends, associates and so many others mourn the loss of an irreplaceable man. Nicknamed "Butter" as much for his ability to make everything better as it is a play on his name, Steve was a stranger to no one, a friend to everyone and was loved by all who met him. His personality was larger-than-life and his generosity was immense. Steve believed in "dreaming big," a motto that guided him in both his personal and business practices. The son of the late Sam and Marcia Jo Butterfield of Hutchinson, Kansas, Steve left his hometown in Kansas in 1970 to attend Arizona State University, where he received a B.S. in Business Administration. With his new degree and a newfound love for the Valley of the Sun, Steve knew he had big dreams to pursue right here in Arizona. And that he did. His career spanned more than 35 years and included work in investment banking, capital markets and municipal finance, but it was his work in the student loan industry that propelled Steve's career in the direction of his dreams. In 1990, Steve and business partner, Mike Dunlap started to acquire student loans portfolios together and in 1996 they co-founded Nelnet with a vision that it would become a world-class business designed to help students and families plan and pay for their education making their educational dreams possible. In 2003, they took the company public on The New York Stock Exchange. As a visionary and founding partner, Steve's entrepreneurial spirit and passion became the heart and soul of Nelnet. He had an amazing memory for faces and names and believed in coaching and bringing up everyone around him. He grew his team at Nelnet, leading with humility, inspiration and instilling in them his motto to "dream big" and reach further than they thought possible. In 2007, Steve retired from Nelnet to spend more time enjoying two of his other great passions - family and travel especially to McCall, Idaho where he enjoyed most of his time - while still remaining committed to Nelnet as vice chairman and shareholder. Steve's commitment to building his business was only matched by his desire to give back, a role which he played proudly as a Phoenix Thunderbird, a founder of the Nelnet Foundation and Nelnet Scholars program and an active member of several local and national boards. He will be remembered for his love of ASU football and Sun Devil Athletics, which drew him to a leadership role within the Sun Devil Club and his most recent passion project as co-chairman of the Club's recent Sun Devil Stadium fundraising effort. His love of the game helped drive the strong culture of giving within Sun Devil Athletics and was backed by personal investments that he ensured funded specific programs. It can be said that his immense generosity mirrored his life motto - he not only dreamt big, he gave with all his heart. The world lost a great one. However, Steve's legacy will live on through his many contributions and the greatest of all his accomplishments - his family - his favorite dream come true. Steve is survived by his wife, Shelby; his sons Stephen Jr. (Mary), Brooks, Matthew, and Jack; his daughter Bailey; and his three grandchildren, Mary Josephine ("Joey"), George and Stevie. Steve is also survived by his brother Scott and his wife, Susie and their sons Tyler, Jake and Sam. Family and friends will celebrate the life of Steve with a Memorial Service and reception where they will raise one "final final" in honor of their beloved "Butter." Memorial Service and reception will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, April 24 at Paradise Valley Country Club, 7101 N. Tatum Blvd, Paradise Valley, AZ 85253. Arrangements entrusted to Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Butterfield Family Scholarship Fund, care of Hutchinson Community College Endowment Association, 1300 North Plum, Hutchinson, KS, 67501 or online at hutchcc.edu/alumni/online-giving.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Apr. 22, 2018.

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Leigh Duncan Wills

January 31, 2025

As a younger, second cousin to Steve and Scott Butterfield, I have fond memories of our childhood in Hutchinson, KS, where they grew up. I think about them both and decided to do a search. Saddened by this news, I'm thankful for the fond memories of Hutch and the good-looking, kind - hearted and accommodating cousins who tolerated and entertained, with grace and enthusiasm, their younger, starry- eyed cousin who could never decide which one she l loved the most. Rest in peace Steve. Hope to see you soon.

August 5, 2018

So sad to hear of Steve's passing. He had such a zest for life and was so fun to be around. Love you Steve!,,

Peggy Street

April 30, 2018

I am heartbroken for Steve's family. I only met him briefly last summer when we bought the house next to Shelby and Steve's in McCall Idaho. I was looking forward to getting to know them better, everyone who knew them in McCall raved about what a wonderful guy and father Steve was. Shelby if there is anything I can do please let me know.
Fondly, Peggy & Paul Street

April 23, 2018

Steve was a great friend and an even greater human being. While he may be physically gone from this earth, his enormous footprints remain.

I will miss him.

Terry Maas

Leo Valdez

April 23, 2018

It was an honor and privlidge being Steve's friend and coworker. I have so many fond memories and laughs. He will be surely missed by all. To his family I express my sincere condolences. Tu Amigo Leo valdez and family

April 23, 2018

To the Butterfield family- We have all lost an inspiring friend. It was always such a great experience to be in Butter's company. My wife Mary and I have many fond memories of spending time with Butter and his many friends in Phoenix and San Diego.

I am sure you are all in need of prayers...you have mine.

May the blessings of God descend upon you and dwell in your hearts forever. Mike O'Connor
aka Pounder

Anne Hecht

April 22, 2018

I am Elizas grandmother. Her love of Mr Butterfield, his wife and especially his young children who she cared for so many years, was expressed to me so many times by Eliza. It was a sad day for her and the loss of this man who was so dpecial

April 22, 2018

Kind thoughts are with the family in your time of grief. May fond memories bring comfort during these difficult days. Psalms 9:9

Sally Ricchiuti

April 21, 2018

Steve, your energy was contagious....you made the hearts of all those lucky enough to know you feel happy, free and loved. Your passing is truly a loss of all losses. Enjoy your final reward, you certainly deserve to dance with a stoggie in your mouth while feeling just how truly loved you are. God bless you.

Pat

April 21, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. Along with the support of your family and friends, may you gain comfort by expressing your deepest emotions to God in prayer. He loves you and wants to help you during this most difficult time.

M C

April 21, 2018

I am truly and deeply sorry for your loss. My warmest condolences go out to the family and friends of Stephen. May the God of all comfort grant you peace and strength during g this difficult time (psalm 29:11) .

April 21, 2018

Deepest Sympathy for the passing of Butter- he was one of kind.

Roxanne Frederick

April 21, 2018

Deepest Sympathy for the passing of Butter- he was one of a kind.

Roxanne Frederick

Dennis Spider Johnson

April 21, 2018

Shelby, Scott and the entire Butterfield clan: I loved butter more than words can explain. Being a teammate with him for many years brought us together as one family. He was a inspiration to all that knew him. My God Bless you all and my heart will be there Tuesday

April 20, 2018

Very sorry for the lost of your loved one May God the hearer of prayers comfort you during this difficult time and give you strength. 2 cor. 1:4

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