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Troy Brinkerhoff Obituary

Troy O. Brinkerhoff, M.D., 59, passed away unexpectedly on October 1,
2006. He is survived by his wife of 38 years Darlene DeWitt Brinkerhoff; daughter Linsey and husband Tyler Maxson and grandson Cole; son Jake and wife Colleen Brinkerhoff and granddaughters: Mackenzy and Jaidyn; son Travis and wife Stacey Brinkerhoff; daughter Bailee; brother Randy and wife Robyn Brinkerhoff; and sister Deon and husband Richard Tait. Dr. Brinkerhoff was a graduate of Arizona State University and earned his M.D. degree from the University of Arizona. He served his residency at the Maricopa County Medical Center where he was named resident of the year his final year. He then went on to become a much loved and respected physician and surgeon serving patients in the Mesa area for over 26 years. He served on numerous professional committees and boards, often in leadership positions. He was affectionately called "Brink" by his co-workers. He set the standard of breast care in the East Valley establishing East Valley Breast Care with his loyal staff. He served a mission for the LDS Church as a young man returned home to marry his high school sweetheart, Darlene. He loved his family, his work, his devoted staff, his Harleys, dirt bike riding with his sons, watching his children perform in sporting events and musical performances and rejoiced in their success. His greatest new love was being a Grandpa. He enjoyed cross country motorcycling, exploring the back roads of Arizona, all kinds of music, and reading. He was a life long learner, often saying, "Everyday is a school day!" He was proud to be a third generation Arizonan and studied Arizona history extensively. He will be sorely missed both for his medical expertise and wisdom, wit, humor, big bear hugs, smile and infectious laughter. Services will be held at the LDS chapel at 848 North Westwood, Mesa. There will be a viewing on Thursday, October 5, 2006 from 7:00 to 9:00 PM. Funeral service will be held on Friday, October 6, 2006 at 2:00 PM with a viewing one hour prior at the LDS Chapel. Internment will be in the City of Mesa Cemetery. In lieu of flowers your tax deductible donation may be sent to the Mesa Foundation for Educational Excellence supporting Mesa Public Schools at 549 N. Stapley Dr., Mesa, AZ 85203.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Oct. 4 to Oct. 6, 2006.

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Ames Yee

December 31, 2020

It has been many years my friend. I still think of you. Now that I am retiring I look back at the years we spent together during our surgical training. You were truly a prince with a giant heart.

Garth Smith

March 18, 2009

Darlene,

I find myself thinking of Troy often. Without question, he was one of the most unique individuals I've ever met. Hope all is well with you and the family.

Garth Smith

Patty & Norma Dudash

November 2, 2006

Around this time last year I had the opportunity to meet Dr.Brinkerhoff.My mother(Norma Dudash)had breast cancer and Dr.Brinkerhoff performed her surgery.Not only did he care for my mother but he cared about me and our family.He is the meaning of "Humanitarian".May your family be blessed always with your memories,as my family has been blessed by a man who truely cared.

Barbara Scarcello, RN

November 1, 2006

To the Brinkerhoff family,
My sentiments echo so many of the kind words people have wrote. Dr Brinkerhoff was a wonderful, kind and truly a gentle man. He always treated his patients well and the nurses well also. When he asked how you were it was because he really cared. He would talk to you and not down to you. If you had a question or concern he would always take the time to answer and talk to you. I admired and respected him very much. I too trusted him to operate on my daughter when she was 3, (she is now 12)and the care he gave her and me was wonderful. I am sorry for your loss.

kathy murphy

October 27, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff Family,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Brink as I have known him over 20 yrs. from Mesa Lutheran. The man who was your husband and father always treated me to a friendly greeting when he arrived on the floor, and was just a wonderful human being in my opinion. He always asked me how I was doing and seemed genuinely concerned about his patients. I remember one day when I was in charge, there was a pt. needing a surgical consult, and we spent hrs calling 7 other Drs. to no avail, then I said call Brink. He immediately said yes and was there shortly to render the much needed care, no questions asked. I really respected him a great deal, even more and more each yr we worked together. I so trusted him I had him do my son's surgery as an 18 month old, he never sent me any bill, only took insurance payment. My baby son is now 18yrs old and very healthy.
I know you have many people writing you rememberances, but we were all touched by Troy and will never forget him. He was so kind to us all. The world is alittle sadder in his passing, but we will all meet again at our Heavenly Fathers house and rejoice in being there. My deepest sympathy to your entire famliy. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers forever. I know God has a special place for Dr. Brink in Heaven !!
Kathy Murphy, RN

Christy Wood RN

October 21, 2006

Dr.Brinkerhoff was a wonderful doctor! Along with great bedside manners, doctor Brinkerhoff also listened to the nurses and was conscience about their concerns for their patients to better care for his patients. He took time out to smile, say hi, listen, and respect the nurses at Banner Mesa (Mesa Lutheran) and being a nurse, that means a lot. I worked with Dr. Brinkerhoff for 10 years and even with his tremendous schedules for surgery and post op care he always maintained himself and was thought of by many nurses as being "cool". I will miss you Dr. Brink, seeing you come to work on your nice bike! To Dr. Brinkerhoffs family I am deeply sorry for your loss. I hope all of you find peace in knowing that your loved one was very respected and loved by his patients and nurses. Rest in peace Dr. Brink.
Your friend and co-worker Christy Wood RN

CAROL DAVAULT

October 18, 2006

DR.B.
EVERY TIME I GO TO WORK I STILL GLANCE FOR YOU IN THE PARKING LOT, OR IN THE HALLWAY. WHERE IS YOUR TRUCK? YOU ALWAYS BRIGHTENED OUR DAY AT WORK. THERE IS TOO MUCH TO LIST. OH, HOW YOU ARE MISSED. YOU TOOK AWAY MY BREAST CANCER. I NEVER ONCE WORRIED BECAUSE OF MY CONFIDENCE IN YOU. WHY IS IT THAT YOU SAVED MY LIFE BUT NOW YOU ARE GONE?? I DON'T HAVE THE ANSWER. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU ARE, FOR ALL YOU DID AND FOR ENRICHING ALL OF OUR LIVES. GOD BLESS YOU.

Caprese Vance

October 17, 2006

I had the pleasure of working with "my" Dr Brinkerhoff when I was a CNA at Banner Mesa. What a wonderful gentle teddy bear of a man. Then was blessed to have him, by my own request as my surgeon on several occassions. His bedside manner and skills as a surgeon will be hard to beat. Don't know what I am going to do now if I need a surgeon :). Thank Goodness for our Eternal knowledge. Can't wait to see him again. Know that you,his family, are in my thoughts and prayers . You will be missed Dr.Brinkerhoff....

Jolynn

October 14, 2006

Dr. Brinkerhoff will be greatly missed for his honest integrity that he provided in caring for his patients. I know that he used his talents that Heavenly Father gave him to help others while showing compassion. This is a rare thing among the medical communicy.

lisa schultz

October 14, 2006

I really did not know Dr B much more than passing in the halls in the hospital or a brief elevator chat. What I do know is our jokes about speeding tickets, fast cars and the best places to give the car a punch without getting caught brought a distraction and smile to what was sometimes a less than desirable day.
I had always hoped the kind spirit and genuine concern he expressed would be the seed that allowed others to grow!
I am so sad for this loss...maybe we will race again one day and not have to worry about a speeding ticket.
Lisa Schultz (aka Soto)

Jack Lewis

October 12, 2006

Darlene,
So sorry to here of Troy's passing. Troy was one of my oldest friends, we knew each other in Coolidge, befor Holbrook. Gary Eiler informed of Troy, again I am so sorry.

Jennifer Layton

October 12, 2006

You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so thankful for the eternal blessing of the family. Please know how much we love you!
Love Always,
Emery and Jen (West) Layton

Melissa (Pitts) Fletcher Brown

October 12, 2006

Darlene,

I was saddened when I heard about Troy. I have such fond memories of your life as it began with Troy and, at the time, your young children. Saddened because I know he will be missed.

I was impressed by the love I saw between the two of you and it will always have a place in my heart and memories. You two, together, are an example of true love. That love showed through your relationship with each other, your family, and your faith. You were radiant and glowing with that love and I will always cherish seeing it in you. I hope you realize that when I use the word "you" here in context, I mean the two of you, as you are one.

Praying that you feel the strength and comfort from your faith and your family. Tell your mom and dad to give you a hug for me, okay?

Love you,

Peggy Crofford Downey

October 12, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff Family,
My first aquaintance of Troy goes back to Holbrook and Woodruff. My family lived in Woodruff where he would visit his cousins,and Holbrook was where we went to school. He was about six years ahead of me in school, but in a small community everyone knows EVERONE.
It has been the past 20+ years that I have become better acquainted, working with him at Mesa Lutheran / Banner Mesa Hospital. I have admired this, small town boy who made it big, in the big city. He has been loved by so many in the profession. A "nurses choice" for a surgeon. He will be greatly missed.
May his special memories,love and laughter give you strength through your sorrow.

Carol Gelman

October 11, 2006

I was a patient of Dr. Brinkerhoff's. He gave me strength and hope during a difficult time. His death is a great loss to us all.

The family of Jon M. Bourland

October 11, 2006

Our heartfelt sympathy for the family of Dr. Brinkerhoff. He was truly a special person and physician. May you feel comfort from the gratefulness of the many he touched.
Love and prayers,

Sandy Pomeroy-Wood

October 10, 2006

Darlene and Family
I just got home from being out of town and am shocked to read about your loss. I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. I don't know how to get a hold of you any other way than this, but I am so sorry for your family. Love, Sandy Wood

Christine (Tina) Hanneman

October 9, 2006

I am so saddened by Troy's death. I first met him when he was a Clinical Clerk, not even out of medical school, back in the late 1970's at Maricopa County Hospital. He was one of the best natural surgeons I've ever had the pleasure of working with. His ability to bond with patients and take care of them, was amazing. I still work in the OR with young residents, although all the way up here in Washington State for the United States Army. And yet, here with these new surgical residents I am reminded of just what it takes to become as special as Troy was. There are some things that cannot be taught, they are born into a person. I'm not sure there are many in this world. He has operated on 5 members of my family and myself, and I cannot ever express to anyone how grateful I am for his skill AND compassion. Nobody compares to Brink, not even close.

Virgene Silvers

October 9, 2006

Darlene and Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your friendship with my sister, Kathryn, and her family has spilled over to my family. Thank you for all your kindnesses. My parents have a high regard for Troy and the care provided my mother. May peace and comfort be with you all.

Randy and Eyvette Kartchner

October 8, 2006

Dear Dar, We just wanted you to know what an exceptional service you had for Troy. It was truly precious to see and hear your children entertain us with storys and songs that were special to them as they remembered there father. "It was the Real Deal"
When our Kids were in Jr. High and High School together, I can tell you they would have many times over rather lived at your house than their own. Your family has played a wonderful role in shaping them into who they are today and we will always be apprecitative of your familys influence in their lives Troy was an exceptional surgeon . I've heard many of his associates comment on how much he will be missed along with nurses and students who say that Dr. Brinkerhoff was one of there favorite "Docs" When my own father was dying with cancer and living in our home he had an emergency and i took him troys office. Dr. Brinkerhoffs day looked as though it was winding down as we entered. After Troy checked out the situation he welcomed us and I assisted Troy as he stitched Dad back together. I know that he was heading home to spend time with his family and I wanted to thank you for the time he gave us instead. Our Family Loves Your Family very Much and we are so sorry for your saddness and tears. With deepest sympathy Randy , Eyvette , Tyler and Brooke Kartchner

Emma Jean Hardenburg

October 8, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts are with
you and you family during this time.
Dr. Brinkerhoff you will be missed very much.

Emma (Jean) and Bill Hardenburg

Rosetta Lunsford

October 8, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Sandi Craddock

October 8, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff Family:

I have known the DeWitt/Brinkerhoff family for years but it wasn't until my niece Stacey married Travis that I had the priveledge of getting to know Troy. At first it was a little overwhelming for Stacey to marry into a "huge" family but Troy helped her in that transistion and ALWAYS made her feel welcomed and loved. Stacey, like Troy and his boys also had a love for motorcycles/ATV's, so how fitting it was for her to join Travis and Jake as they rode along on Troys bikes to lay him to rest. The Memorial service, a tribute to Troy was beautiful, the family should be so proud. I know Troy was looking down on all of you and giving you strength and support like he always did and always will. Hearing everyone tell their stories of Troy so lovingly validated the things I already knew about Troy, he was a loving husband, father, grandfather, friend, and doctor. Troy not only became part of my extended family, he also was responsible for operating and caring for my sister Carrie (Stacey's Mom) as she battled and won her fight with Breast Cancer. Not everyone gets to go through their lives and impact so many others, I am Thankful to Troy for saving my sisters life and loving my niece as his own. I hope all of the fond and loving memories, stories, and well wishes will in time help to ease your sorrow. His legacy will live on through you Darlene, all of your children, grandchildren, and the ones to come.

In Sympathy, Love Sandi

BETTY & BILL BRYANT

October 7, 2006

OUR PRAYER AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. BECAUSE OF DR
BRINKERHOFF I AM CANCER FREE OF 5YR.
BETTY BRYANT

Meg Nero, RN

October 7, 2006

My prayers go out to the Brinkerhoff family. The community is surely feeling the loss of Dr. Brinkerhoff. He was a very caring physician and I'm thankful I had the opportunity to work with him at Mesa Lutheran Hospital.

ALANA FITCH

October 7, 2006

MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AT THIS TIME IT IS NEVER EASY LOSING A LOVED ONE OR LONG TIME PARDNER I WORKED AT MESA LUTH WHICH IS WERE I HAD THE PRIVILEDGE OF KNOWING DR BRINK AS WE ALL CALLED HIM HE WAS A VERY SPECIAL SURGEON ONE OF A KIND AN HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.

Dennis June

October 7, 2006

So sad to hear passing of this great guy - an old Holbrook High School chum. Troy was always full of life and energy. It looks like he will be missed but not forgotten. See ya on the other side, Troy!

Loralee Weimer, RN

October 7, 2006

To the Brinkerhoff Family:
My deepest sympathy to all of you at this time. Dr. Brink was a great person and very caring. I worked with him at Mesa Lutheran. He will be missed by all.

Michelle & Marc Burkheart

October 6, 2006

Dear Mrs. Brinkerhoff ,family and Staff: We want to send our deepest sympathys to you. I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Brinkerhoff this last June when I was sent to him for a mass in my neck. He performed surgery this last August on me to remove it. He was one of the best doctor's I have ever known. He really cared about what my husband & I thought about the whole thing. He was patient, kind, and full of jokes which helped to ease the situation. He knew what to say and when to say it. When he received my pathology report, he called me himself to tell me it was cancer. He didn't rush to get off the phone, he patiently waited to answer all of my questions and to let me know that he would be there through it all. I am saddened to think that I will have to go through this without his expertise, but I know he will watch over me too. Dr. Brinkerhoff has touched me like no other Dr. has before and I am honored that I was blessed to have him as my doctor and surgeon. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers through these difficult times. I will miss him as alot of other people will too. He was a great doctor and person.

Tammi Veater

October 6, 2006

Darlene & Family,

My son Morgan, 22 yrs was the one that called to tell me Troy died. Troy performed a hernia operation on Morgan when he was a teen-ager and they bonded big time. Troy made sure he let Morgan know we were related and even gave him a "Family Tree" background along with surgery! Morgan was so sad when he called and said "Mom your never going to believe this," and I really still can't believe it. I am so sorry for your families loss and all those patients that will need to be cared for by someone else. My mind has been flooded with memories of Darlene waiting for Troy to come home off his mission so they could marry, the "Wedding" that was every girls dream, including love birds in cages that I thought was the most romantic thing I had ever seen, and then watching your little family grow through the years including when medical school took you to Tucson for those few years and I also lived there at the same time. Lots of fond memories to think of.

I Love you all,
Tammi Kartchner Veater

Carol Griffin

October 6, 2006

I am a patient of Dr. Brinkerhoff and he will be greatly missed. I had surgery a year ago in June and we both felt it was a success. He was a great doctor and certainly put myself and son at ease when he had to give us the bad news. Our prayers and sympathy to the Brinkerhoff family and to his staff.

Terri Denley

October 6, 2006

I am so sorry for the loss of your father and husband.Dr. Brinkerhoff was a wonderful surgeon and a great man. I enjoyed working with him throughout the years. He always had a smile and kind word for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Susan (Thompson) Frederick

October 6, 2006

To Darlene and family,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. I am humbled by Troy's death for not staying in touch with my cousins and their families. May the Lord bless you with comfort and peace in the knowledge of your eternal family.
With love, your cousin,

Jenn Crandall

October 6, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff Family,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your father and husband. We love your family and you are always so happy and willing to share your home and talents with everyone. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love, Eric & Jenn Crandall and Family

Stephania, Peggy, Paul, And Carol (Johnson)

October 6, 2006

Darlene and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We were all very shocked and sadden to hear about Troy. As our cousin, we each have our own individual memories of him growing up and those mememories will be honored and cherished. Please take care.

Delores Steele (Lic. Nurse)

October 6, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Brant & Melinda Layton

October 6, 2006

Dear Darlene and Kids:

How does one express the feelings that come at the loss of a soulmate, mentor, friend, Daddy? Troy will be missed, in oh so many ways, a tribute to him and you, Darlene, and the life and family you have created together.

Dr. Brinkerhoff was so kind, gentle and caring, whether to a young Christopher with appendicitis, or to an elderly Earline with special needs he could care for. His way with people was fantastic! He always left you feeling better than before he was there.

Thank you, all of you, for sharing Troy with us. Know that our prayers and love are with you, now especially. May the peace that comes from our Father in Heaven be with you.

Our Love to You All,
Melinda & Brant Layton & Family

Regina Cavataio

October 6, 2006

To The Brinkerhoff Family,
I had the honor of working with Brink in the operating room at Banner Mesa for 3 years. As I started out my career as a new grad at Banner Mesa, Brink really took me under his wing and was quite the father figure in my life! I have many fond memories of this great man and will never forget the impact he made in my young life. He will live on in my heart forever. I love you Brink!

C. Gresh

October 6, 2006

I will miss Dr Brinkerhoff. He was the best surgeon and doctor. Always heard great things about him. No doubt we will see him in Heaven. Mrs C. Gresh

The Pinto Family

October 6, 2006

Our thoughts are with you. God bless you.

Keith Estes

October 6, 2006

My only meeting with Dr. Brinkerhoff was May 20, 2004. He was the operating doctor on an emergency surgery I had while vacationing in Mesa. He was very pleasant, and when he found that we both rode Harley's we really found a common bond. I still have a framed picture we took together and look at it quite often. A wonderful man and I am sure he will be sorely missed.

Michelle Smith

October 6, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the entire Brinkerhoff family. I am an RN who worked with Dr. Brinkerhoff for many years before leaving Banner Baywood Medical Center to move to Texas. He was a wonderful doctor and gentleman. I enjoyed doing his cases in the OR. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word for everyone. He will be missed.

Bill Dearman

October 6, 2006

To the Brinkerhoff Family, We are very sorry for your loss. Dr. B was a kind and fair man.

M-D Computers

darcy socha

October 6, 2006

to the entire brinkerhoff family, we are all so sorry for your great loss. our thoughts are with you.

Alan/Shirley Perysian

October 6, 2006

Darlene and Family:
Shirley and I probably saw you last
when we were neghbors on Ninth St.
We were saddened to hear about Troy and wish you all the best. Please accept our condolences. We
will always remember Ninth Street
neighbors since they were so helpful and friendly,
Our sincere regrets,
Alan/Shirley Perysian & Family

Joe and LaGail Damron

October 6, 2006

Dear Darlene and family,
Our hearts have been broken on learning of Troy's death.It is so difficult to understand why, but stay strong as he would want you to do. In our town we have a slogan that says "pay it forward" which means that when you serve others someday it will be returned to you ten fold. Darlene you and Troy have spent a lifetime together opening your home and hearts for everyone to enter. Now it is our turn to wrap our hearts and arms around you, the kids and grandkids. God will provide so many to comfort you in your time of need. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Love,

Kayte del Real

October 5, 2006

Darlene, Troy's beloved children, Resa, Darla and staff,

I have been acquainted with you for many, many years through the stories that Brink has told. Some of you I have had the privilege to know closely over the years.

He loved all of you very much and spoke frequently of your adventures through life.

Please know that Dr. Brink was a great man and he was loved by many and will be missed by the community, by his patients and his friends. He will be remembered for his sensitivity, his talent, his great stories (jokes) and his compassion and dedication to the field of medicine. He was loving known as the "Nurse's choice" which says a lot!

Losing him leaves a hole in my heart. Having said that, he is in a place free of pain, sorrow and saddness.

I will pray for all of you, please know that you were loved dearly.

With respect and love,
Kayte del Real, RN, BSN, CNOR, RNFA

Dr. Rich Ruskin

October 5, 2006

As saddened as I was to learn of Troy's passing, I'll always recall the good times we had together in the operating room. His presence engendered a commitment to excellence, compassion for patients, mutual respect--and appropriate doses of laughter--which all seemed to come together in just the right proportions. I am humbled by the legacy that this fine man has left for us.

David Smart

October 5, 2006

Darlene,
It is with a heavy heart that I write this note. Although our paths did not cross often but often enough to feel the sorrow and pain at the passing of Troy. Although this is but only a moment in time I ask that you will feel the presence of our Savior Jesus Christ ever near and that you will find comfort and peace in His arms while Troy waits for you to join him for time and all eternity.

Aunt Elna Haught & Family

October 5, 2006

Troy was a great man and will be greatly missed, not only by our family; but by so many that he helped so much.

We loved his sense of humor and caring way.

He was an important part of our family.
Love to you all.

Donna Schipper

October 5, 2006

Pappa Troy we will not let the grandchildren that we share together ever forget you, Darlene you have all of my sympathy and if you ever need to talk you know where Iam.

Diane Clark

October 5, 2006

To the Brinkerhoff family:
I had the pleasure of meeting with Dr Brinkerhoff once just a couple of weeks ago. I was a new patient. I say pleasure because even though I may be getting bad news soon I immediately felt such compassion from this new Dr in front of me. I went home and told my family of this wonderful person and how he already made me feel at ease and that he cared.
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you all.

Diane McCord

October 5, 2006

Dr. Brinkerhoff was a very kind and thoughtful person. I worked with him for 6 years from med/surg. to the recovery room at Banner Mesa, and he always remembered my name. His patients loved him as did the staff. He always did what was best for the patient. We have lost a fantastic surgeon and friend. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends.

Cory Driggs

October 5, 2006

Dr Troy - One of the best things my family did when we moved to AZ in 1990, was move next door to the Brinkerhoffs. Troy and the whole gang quickly opened their arms and took us in as family. Christmas Eve, BBQ's, games, Disneyland...some of my most cherished.

As recent as a few years ago, I was able to see first hand Troy's god-given talent, as his treatment allowed my Aunt Judy to live 3 more years than the "6-months she was initially given."

You let me ride your Harley when I turned 16, and to this day I can see you riding off in the sunset.

Our love to our dear friends, The Brinks!

- The Cory Driggs Family -

Corbin & Carla Plouzek

October 5, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most trying time. We pray for your peace and comfort. We are so sorry we will be missing the funeral...we will be in Utah this weekend. Know that we are praying for you and we will continue to pray for you.

Warmest wishes,
Corbin & Carla Plouzek

Christina Shelley

October 5, 2006

Darlene,
Here we are again, all too soon. You know that you and Troy have always had a special place in my heart (and in old-what's-his-names, too). I was thinking today how he operated on just about my entire family at one time or another, and we always felt safe with him. Troy and I had a lot of fun at work, too, clear back to County! I wish you had seen how everyone responded to this gentle man.

For you, my friend, my prayers are with you. I know this time is more difficult than you had ever imagined. Remember you have so many people who love you, and they can all help you through this.

I will miss Troy like a brother.
love to you and your family.
Chris

Cyndi Kartchner Porter

October 5, 2006

Dear Brinks,
Thankyou for being great relatives and neighbors for so many years. Tears of joy and sadness flow as we remember all of the many fond memories as our children grew up together. Tobi with Linsey. Jade with Jake and Travis. Brigitte with Bailee. We luved each Christmas Eve, as we waited as a family for the Brinks to drive from house to house in our neighborhood delivering gifts. Darlene would follow in the van behind Troy on his Harley wearing his Santa hat. The kids would ride in the van with Dar until they got older, then they joined Troy riding motorcycles. Troy was a good sport, because Dar would not leave anyone out and it took alot of time. Troy's granma Rhoda was my granmother's sister and we luved having that connection. WE Luv you Troy and will miss seeing you drive through the neighborhood at all hours of the night after leaving the hospital. Our family also luved listening to Troy play his guitar while Linsey and Bailee sang along with him. Randy and Jade especially luved the Father and Sons outings with Troy, Jake and Travis. What a gifted and talented man and friend.
Luv ya, The Porter Family
Randy - Cyndi - Tobi - Jade - Brigitte

Millie Thompson

October 5, 2006

Deepest sympathy to Dr. Brinkerhoff's family and also to his staff. One cannot express the sadness we all feel for your lost.
As so many other patients have expressed their heartfelt thanks, I,too, will always remember how he went way beyond the call of duty in helping me thru a most difficult time. Whether it was the "Dr. Brink bear hug" when the dreadful pathology report was read or just going the extra mile in surgery when millimeters would make the difference, he was always the exceptional surgeon. We have lost a very dear friend.

Walt and Lela Zimmerman

October 5, 2006

Dear Darlene and Family,
Words fail to convey the true love and emotion we may wish to express. Memories may fade with age, but the assurance of a loving Heavenly Father and the assurance of the salvation provided by Christ, can ever be a reminder that this life is temporary; a wink in eternity With that assurance comes the exciting realization that our focus should be more on our eternal loving relationships and living lives that will bring us all back together in that heavenly realm with a bright recollection of all our experiences, both happy and sad. God Bless you all with that peace that can only come through our Savior. And may our meager expressions of love soothe you in some small way,

With all our love,

David and Karen Olson

October 5, 2006

Dear Brinkerfoff family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Both my wife and I are nurses who have known and loved Brink for many years. He was a wonderful person and doctor and a delight to work with. He will be missed.

Roberta Stowe

October 5, 2006

As a patient of Dr. Brinkerhoff, I was so glad to have him as my surgeon. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Dan and Roberta Stowe

Memri Skouson

October 5, 2006

I am one of Dr. Brinkerhoff's patients and just moved to Japan. I was saddened to hear of his passing. He was a favorite to many and I will miss his compassionate care. May the Lord bless your family and we will never forget him!

Michelle Jensen

October 5, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff family,
I just heard of your tragedy today when the office called to let me know not to come in for my appointment next week. I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful man!

WAYNE RUDY

October 5, 2006

PRAYERS AND PEACE TO FAMILY. DR "B" TOUCHED US ALL IN A VERY SPECIAL WAY. GOD BLESS

Audree Jarvis Miller

October 5, 2006

Dearest Darlene,
Oh..., as we both know, the immediate shock and pain of suddenly losing a loved one is so anguishing and gut-wrenching over time that we can literally fall, scream and float (silently even) through the multidimensional emotions of love, loneliness, family, etc., etc. What a hard time this can be! I am so sorry.
Thank heavens, over time too, the knowledge of seeing our 'passed' loved ones again... is truly an impetus to breathe deeply and begin to endure such loss and tragedy. Yet, as you know, it all takes time...
one day at a time---one hour, one minute.
God bless you Darlene, you really are a remarkable woman. A woman of strength and beauty. Troy and you... both gave so much to others---touching lives with compassion, wellness, love and laughter.
Finally, at this difficult time for you and you family, I wanted to let you know that our love and prayers are with each of you daily.
Also, for you and all the family, may there be blessings of peace for your souls, joyful memories for your spirits, and love for your hearts.

Richard & Linda Wimmer

October 5, 2006

Dr. Brinkerhoff will be greatly missed. As one of his many patients I don't know how I will make it without him on my team. He was wonderful to me & my husband. He is loved by many.

Amy Hallett

October 5, 2006

Dearest Brinkerhoff Family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you during this sad time. May you feel our Father's comfoting arms holding you up until you are able stand on your own.
Amy & Jonathan Hallett and Family
(Heather's Daughter)

Dawn Brunn

October 5, 2006

I am sorry for your loss, Dr. Brinkerhoff will be missed. He was an excellent physician and a very kind and caring man.

Katharyn Speedling

October 5, 2006

My sympathy to all the family of Dr. Brinkerhoff. I had the blessing of having Dr. Brinkerhoff as my surgeon 3 times. I will always remember the true dedication and concern he showed me each time. I never left his office without a big hug. When I was diagnosed with breast cancer, it awed me at the personal, sincere, manner at which he dealt with me. My family and I will be forever grateful for the many lives he saved, and touched. Most of all, mine. He truly is the only doctor I can say from my heart that I loved dearly. His life touched mine each time I entered his office. After my last surgery, I wrote him a heartfelt "thank you" for allowing God to give him the knowledge to work through him to do great things. I will miss him dearly. He was truly a gift from God to mankind. My life was blessed to have him a part of it. He will never be forgotten. God's peace to all of you as you go through this hard time. He is in good hands.

Dorene Bazan

October 5, 2006

my prayers are with the family of Dr Brinkerhoff,I will miss him not only because he was my Dr. but, because he was a geart person. I have known Dr Brink For at least 11 years. For about 2 years he got after me to quit my second job.I told him DR Brinkerhoff,As soon as I win the Lottery I will quit,He just laught!I was able to tell him I had quit my second job. He was happy for me.Every one will miss him greatly.

Vince Thompson

October 5, 2006

Not only was he my college, he was my friend of 25 years. I will miss him terribly. The whole world is a better place because of him. A giant of a man has left us prematurely and we will never fully recover from his absence.

Karen Brennan

October 5, 2006

To the Brinkerhoff Family, My sincere and deepest sympathy to all of you. It was mine and many others good fortune to know and work with Troy. He always had a kind word and a big bear hug for you no matter how busy he was. He was a talented and skillful surgeon. He was loved, admired and respected by all and will be sorely missed by me and all who knew him.
Karen Brennan RN (Mesa, Arizona)

Monica Nevenner

October 4, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff family

I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible tragedy.

Know that your loving Husband, Father, Grandfather will be watching over each and every one of you. Remember that you will be together again.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
The Nevenner Family
Murray, Utah
(Heather Clelland's Daughter)

Peggy & Warner Thomson

October 4, 2006

Brother, Uncle, Surgeon & Friend. Troy could tell when one of the teenagers felt left out at a family gathering and would just go sit down by them and talk. He was never arrogant, just so approachable. He had a special gift of empathy in explaining the medical situation and possible options; never rushed us to make a decision and knew from the look on your face or trace of a tear that you were scared.
We grieve with you, Darlene and family, and know the Lord will comfort you as you comfort each other in working your way through this grief. We'll miss so much about him, especially his laugh.

Dale Masi

October 4, 2006

To the family: My name is Dale (Dr.Dale as I am sometimes called).I have worked by Brinks side in the o.r. for many years.We share a lot of great memories. He was a true professional and was just a down to earth type of guy. He once let me pass up the e.r. and go to the recovery room so he could stitch up the back of my head. As I was being checked in at the e.r. counter, I saw that he was leaving the hospital. I called out his name, he stoped, looked at my head and the wait in the e.r. was no longer. He took me straight to the recovery room and cared for my wound. He could have refused as he was probably on his way home to be with family but he didn't. That is the kind of person he was. He will be missed by anyone whose life he touched.

"Uncle Troy", when god calls my name to come up to heaven, Im looking you up.

Until then, my deepest sympathy goes out to your family and staff.

Sheila Bond

October 4, 2006

Darlene and family
Please accept my love and sympathy for your loss. Troy was a good guy and will be missed.
Love Elder and Sister Bond in the Canada Winnipeg Mission

Lori and Tim Duffy

October 4, 2006

We are very sorry for your loss - love Lori and Tim Duffy (Colleen's parents)

meg grant

October 4, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff Family I was sad to hear of Dr. Brinkerhoffs passing I was lucky enough to work with him at Banner Mesa he will be greatly missed my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Diane Kriloff

October 4, 2006

To the Brinkerhoff Family: Please accept my most sincere and deepest of sympathies in your loss. Your husband, your father, your grandfather was a skilled surgeon and you surely do not know that he literally saved my life. I will be forever grateful to him. May Heavenly Father bless your family with his comforting embrace.

Becky Holt

October 4, 2006

Dear Brinkerhoff family,
I have always said Dr. Brinkerhoff was the best surgeon to work with. I worked for six years as an RN in the ICU at Mesa Lutheran Hospital and always knew that if Dr. Brinkerhoff was coming in to do a bedside procedure that he would call ahead to tell you what he needed so you could be prepared. He calmly did the procedure and then, out of character for a surgeon, cleaned up after himself! I never heard him yell or swear or saw him throw anything. I enjoyed taking care of his patients as he cared for them well and appropriatly. I was pleased with his care of several family members and disappointed when he specialized and stopped doing general surgery. I've not worked with him for years yet every time I passed him in the hallway or rode with him in the elevator he always said hello and asked about me and where I was working. He will be missed. There is as shortage of good, professional surgeons around.

Tim and I appreciate the Brinkerhoff family and enjoy our interaction with them in our northwest Mesa life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Anne Laine

October 4, 2006

To the family and the office staff,
My deepest sympathy go out to all of you. I have been a patient of Dr. Brinkerhoff for a little over a year, and was coming up on more surgery this coming december. He was a wonderful man, and obviously cared greatly for his patients. He really listened and was able to put me at ease when facing a terrifying diagnosis. I will greatly miss him, but I know it does not come close to the loss you are all feeling. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God Bless you all.

Alyssa Ferrucci

October 4, 2006

To the Family-
My name is Alyssa and I have had the pleasure of working with Dr.Brinkerhoff for 4 years at Banner Mesa. I am an Xray Tech and was able to work very closely with him in the OR. The memories that I have will be held very close to my heart . His laughter was infectious and will be missed by all!!

Lorin Shelley

October 4, 2006

Darlene, I am terribly sorry to hear about Troy. Will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie Abney

October 4, 2006

Darlene and family ~

Jim and I are so sorry for your great loss. Please know you will remain in our prayers for a very long time. Troy operated on Jim years ago and we have always told everyone he was the best surgeon around. I appreciated all the time he spent explaining things to me when I was his patient as well.

He will be missed. I know he loved his family so much. Guess now we will have to wait for that dinner date together when we all catch up with Troy. Please know how much you are loved and thought of.

Give yourself and each other the room you need to grieve in your own way. I have found that it is different for everyone and it changes from moment to moment. I don't think you ever get "over" the loss of a loved one; all you can do is get through it and some days are better than others, but you are not alone. I love you so much. Please take care.

Love and Blessings,
Stephanie Abney

Richard Underwood

October 4, 2006

I have'nt seen Troy for years, but I remember him well from Little League, grade and High School, (Holbrook High Roadrunners) and especially 4-H horse projects and Jr. Rodeo. It's sounds as if he never lost his joy and zest for life. The man definatley fulfilled the promise of the boy. He left a heck of hole with his passing but I'm sure he's waiting in the sweet bye and bye.

Sharon Merrill

October 4, 2006

MY SINCERE SYMPATHY TO THE BRINKERHOFF FAMILY.Dr Brinkeerhoff was a very sincere person always said Hi in the hallways of the hospital where I work.
My two sons had their appendix out by Dr Brinkerhoff, and every since that time he always asked about our family and knew us by name. He will be greatly missed.

Linda Miller

October 4, 2006

Dear Darlene:

I was surprised and saddened to hear about Troy. It just seems like yesterday we were GWA's, waiting and planning and pining away. I am very sorry for your loss, Darlene. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

Scott Winchester

October 4, 2006

My name is Scott Winchester, I've had the pleasure of riding with Troy around some of the most scenic areas of the U.S. The most recent trip was to Sturgis S.D. He was a joy to be around and I feel lucky to have known him. He will be missed terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Michelle Cunningham

October 4, 2006

I’ve known him for so long. He did my brothers emergency appy surg at Desert in 1986. My brother went on to be an attorney that was actually in a litigation against Brink about 1996. It was funny-you saved my life now I’m suing you?! Brink was so gracious after the trial he went up to my brother and patted him on the back and said, “Mike your client got everything she paid for. You’re one hell of an attorney.” My brother was so blown over by this he never forgot it.

I worked with him at Baywood and then when I transferred back over here to Mesa I had to have surgery myself and of course he did it. Another OB physician was doing an ovarian cyst removal on me too and he ended up doing that too cause there was so much scar tissue she was having a hard time so he scrubbed in and helped her.

Then when my daughter had her emergency appy I requested him and the ED said he was too busy so the next day I asked him about it teasingly—he was so angry-the ED never had even tried to call him. We had another surgeon and to make a long story short the incision got infected so Brink took over and she will be celebrating her 16th birthday in December.

All these years I could tell it was him coming from miles away by his gait. He had this walk like no one else. He was such a kind gentle man. No he wasn’t perfect as a human being or a physician-Brink said that’s why they call it practicing medicine. He once told me MD did not spell GOD.

My family and I will miss him dearly.

Jim Hargrave

October 4, 2006

I am saddened to hear of Dr. Brinkerhoffs passing. The lord must have a boatload of work for him and needed him right away.
I met Dr. Brinkerhoff about 12 years ago when he was caring for my Grandmother. She always siad he was her favorite Dr. When I told him some years ago about her passing he remembered her and my mother and even brought up personal things that you would not expect a Dr. to remember after so many years. He was saddened to hear about her and also my Mothers passing. I hope every Dr. or any other person can learn from this genuine man. He never forgot a face.
I pray I never have to have surgery and if so I know I am going to remember him and wish he were here to do it.

Christine Andrade-Banda

October 4, 2006

I am sorry to hear about your loss. Dr. Brinkerhoff was a good man who came into my life 7 months ago when I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I am glad to have had him as my Doctor, he was very kind and pleasant. I will miss him dearly and hate the thought of having to continue this journey without him. God Bless you all at this time of sorrow.

Vicki Gilliland

October 4, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathies.He was a wonderful person & Doctor. He help me survice breast cancer. he will be miss..

catey danforth

October 4, 2006

my thoughts and prayers are with the family.he was a wonderful man and surgeon.he just performed surgery on me last month.i was very lucky he was my doctor.thanks for sharing him with me and so many other people.

MARIE GEARHART

October 4, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Garth & Sandi Smith

October 4, 2006

Darlene, Sandi and I are sorry for your loss. We are so grateful you thought to call us and let us know. Darlene, you are a marvel, an absolute marvel. My memories of Troy are so vivid and bring me such joy. I think of him often. God bless you, sister.

Garth & Sandi Smith

shelly fitzpatrick

October 4, 2006

Troy (aka orville),
You kept us laughing with your corny unbelieveable jokes in the operating room. Rojo culo, cougar joke, oreo cookie, jc penneys!!! (I still think you were fibbing, even though you swore they were true stories!!!)You are so inventive and creative, especially pronouncing a word backwords so proficiently!! Bailee would brings her friends to entertain them by your "gift"!! Also, we loved to here you sing (off key!!)Thank goodness the singing gene came from Darlene!!!
Love The Fitzpatrick's

Cynthia Ward

October 4, 2006

Darlene;
I know that the encouragement the Brink gave me helped me survive my cancer, Monday was the 11th anniversary of my surgery.

I leave my sincere condolances to you children and Grandchildren, who have lost a loving and tender Father and Garndfather.

To you, DArlene, I wish I could come and put my arms about you and give a great big hug. My heart goes out to you, who has lost her mate and partner in life.

With Love,

Geraldine Follmer

October 4, 2006

Terry and I are deeply saddened by the sudden passing of Dr. B. He was a truly wonderful person and doctor. He was one of many who cared for me over the last couple of years. Without his help and direction I would not have made it to where I am today. You will be missed alot - not just from the medical side of things, but just from being the wonderful person you are ..... I hope now that you and Indian Larry are out riding somewhere! Love always from Geraldine and Terry Follmer (and Hinz)

Yvonne Bullard

October 4, 2006

Darlene,

I am so sorry about your husband. You have my sincerest sympathy and prayers.

Jennifer Hooge

October 4, 2006

I was very saddened to hear of Dr. Brinkerhoff's passing. While I didn't know him personally, he touched my life deeply by saving my mother's. I know that he has blessed many lives both professionally and personally. My sincerest sympathies go out to all of his family, friends, and coworkers.

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