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Julia Fay Linfesty

1928 - 2013

Julia Fay Linfesty obituary, 1928-2013

Julia Linfesty Obituary

Julia Fay Linfesty April 13, 1928 - 0ctober 19, 2013 Julia was born in Kentucky to Herbert and Macon Perkins. She moved with her family as an infant to Shandon, California. Later, the family moved to Buttonwillow where she attended school with her younger sister Sally. After her father died when she was only 10, she and her sister went to live with grandparents in Compton while her mother went into UCLA's teaching program. After her mother completed her studies, the family moved back to Buttonwillow, where Julia rode the bus to Bakersfield High School. They moved to Bakersfield where her mother taught in the Bakersfield City School District. After graduating from Bakersfield High School, she attended Bakersfield Junior College and received her BA in English from University of California, Berkeley. She enriched her education over life by earning several masters degrees and professional certificates. She returned to Bakersfield and started teaching in the Beardsley School District. After marrying Lyman D. Linfesty she gave birth to two wonderful children, Paul and Leslie, both of whom she instilled a strong moral and ethical foundation. After a hiatus of several years from work, she returned to teaching at the Greenfield School District, where she helped inspire students with the love of learning. She also mentored several teachers. Julia eventually became a Diagnostician, and later a Program Specialist for the Kern County Superintendent of Schools. After retiring, she taught graduate level courses for University of Laverne, Cal Lutheran and CSUB. She also went into private practice at the Aslan Center. She was also involved in many civic organizations, including chairing the Blanche and Irma Weill Foundation for a number of years. She was also a former president of the Bakersfield branch of American Association of University Women and was a member of League of Women Voters for over fifty years. She served on the Kern County Road Tax committee and was heavily involved with Democratic Party politics. She greatly enjoyed gardening and reading. She also loved to travel after her retirement, touring such diverse places as Canada, Scandinavia, Russia and China. With the Friendship Force, she stayed with host families in Germany, Australia, New Zealand and South America. A lifelong love of theatre resulted in her traveling to Cedar City, Utah, where she attended the Utah Shakespeare Festival several times in the last decade with the CSUB Camp Shakespeare group. She is survived by her husband of nearly 60 years, Lyman Daniel Linfesty, her children Paul and Leslie Linfesty of Bakersfield, and her niece Lisa Givens of Turlock. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the AAUW Bakersfield Scholarship Fund (P.O. Box 10222, Bakersfield, CA 93389) or the Henrietta Weill Memorial Child Guidance Clinic (3628 Stockdale Highway, Bakersfield, CA 93309). Services are currently pending. www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Nov. 15, 2013.

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November 20, 2013

I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your dear mom. I knew your mom from the Wilson Library. She was the President of the Friends of Wilson Library. I called on her a lot when I needed the Friends group to fund our various programs. She was always willing to help our little library with any needs we had. She was such a warm, genuine and delightful person. I loved the picture you posted of her; I recognized those beautiful eyes and warm smile immediately! I will always remember your mom!

Gerald Ogden

November 17, 2013

Mrs linfesty was my teacher at McKee elementary. I was part of her special education class for three years. We were like the "Sweat Hogs" but she was much more than "Mr Carter". She was so patience with all of us and taught us some many thing. She played games with us and would have us bake. I didn't understand why we would bake in class until 10 years later. I was measuring at a job site and disagreed with a fellow employee on how precise we should be. That's when it hit me. My attention to correct measurement and unwillingness to compromise was because of Mrs Linfesty. She would always make us measure exactly not an ounce more and not an ounce less. Right is right she would tell us. My writing using the wrong fingers bothered her so much she bought a special attachment for my pencil. It took her all semester to get me to do it right and she never lost her patience with me. I can go on and on about the lessons she tought me. She went way above her job. She by far made a bigger and lasting impact on my life than any other teacher I had. May God comfort the Linfesty family.

Lisa Givens

November 16, 2013

I miss my Aunt Julia each and every day. Rest in Peace my dear.

Judy Boston

November 15, 2013

I was enrolled at Beardsley Elementary School and was in Mrs. Linfesty's fifth grade class. I didn't like her and had a very rough time. Imagine my agony when I found that she was my teacher the next year for sixth grade! I don't know when my feelings changed, but at some point I realized that she was my favorite teacher of all time. I remember that she would read Tom Sawyer to us after lunch and I loved it. Alice and I were chosen as the top students and our reward was to go to her house for lunch. She served Campbell's Chicken Noodle soup and crackers. The most amazing thing was that she had put pepper in the soup. I had never had that and was really impressed with her ingenuity. I always have pepper in my soup to this day.
Things were so different back then. Can you imagine a teacher today being able to invite students for lunch. The most incredible thing is that I have these memories, because there are so many memories that have escaped me. Alice and I had talked about visiting Mrs. LInfesty several years ago and it didn't work out because I was living out of town. I regret that we didn't get to see her. I want her husband and children to know that she had a great influence in my life and I am grateful that she was a part of my life.

Trudy Mooney

November 15, 2013

Dear Paul: So sorry to hear about the loss of your dear mother. Sympathy is your pain in our hearts.

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